More "how to start" stuff
So, I've gotten some PM's on this, all supportive. I noticed a couple of other questions ILW had. Please note this disclaimer, this is just what has worked for me and it doesn't always work. I do some experimenting all the time.
So, yes, having a blind e-mail address is as much a good idea as having a blind phone. As for figuring out e-mails that are spam, bots or LEO, trust me, you will figure that out in a day or two. They are that obvious. You really have to wonder now pathetic some guys must be to fall for the obvious fakes. On CL I have tried a few different categories. The only one that really works is the "Casual Encounters, M4 W." Nothing else has ever worked for me and trying to hit the regular dating site only pisses people off. I get that. You don't like it when someone does a bait and switch on you, don't do it to anyone else.
Shooting e-mails back and forth using the CL e-mail is OK. As soon as a responder gives me her real e-mail address I know I am going to score. It is a total waste of time to click on any kind of link in an e-mail. Duh.
As I said in the previous post, this is just one tool to use. I think I would like to try the college cutie trick that one of the previous posters said he uses. That is pretty cool to get a young regular.
The last thought I have is over your "economically friendly" comment. You are going to find the needs of ladies to be all over the map. My thought on this is that $$ for a SP for an hour that is totally scripted is one thing. Spending several hours in a hotel talking, drinking wine, eating cheese and having casual booty that is all over the map with a young lady that never looks at the clock for the same $$ to help with rent is a completely different experience. But there are times I really want the scripted in and out with fake "O"s and there are times I want to know that the big "O" the lady had was real and I gave it to her. It is the same $ So, your ad should include the word "generous" and you should not cheap out. I think you will give less coin. That is OK. I just would be generous.
As always, just my 2 cents.
C3.
[QUOTE=ILuvWomen2;2051606]You said $$ a NIGHT!! Not an hour. This is what I need. Especially since I want a travel companion for cruises and business trips. I just am fearful because the researching doesn't seem to be as easy. I have been lucky to not have any really terrible experiences with providers, but something more economically friendly is very appealing.
Anyone with tips on how to get started feel free to Pm me.
I'm guessing it starts with a dummy email to filter out all the spam, but the sections to place ads and answer ads I have some uncertainty with. Also being able to decipher fake ads, setups, LEO, and the real deal has to be an acquired talent.[/QUOTE]
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You got it C3! Nice advice.
JC.
[QUOTE=Camera3;2053119]So, I've gotten some PM's on this, all supportive. I noticed a couple of other questions ILW had. Please note this disclaimer, this is just what has worked for me and it doesn't always work. I do some experimenting all the time.
So, yes, having a blind e-mail address is as much a good idea as having a blind phone. As for figuring out e-mails that are spam, bots or LEO, trust me, you will figure that out in a day or two. They are that obvious. You really have to wonder now pathetic some guys must be to fall for the obvious fakes. On CL I have tried a few different categories. The only one that really works is the "Casual Encounters, M4 W." Nothing else has ever worked for me and trying to hit the regular dating site only pisses people off. I get that. You don't like it when someone does a bait and switch on you, don't do it to anyone
C3.[/QUOTE]
C3's reults of the scientific experiment on Tampa CL, yeah, right
All right. Here is the results of the experiment I did for BillyBob. So, 19 hours ago I posted on Tampa CL a typical ad that I have had results with a few times. Here it is:
[URL]http://tampa.craigslist.org/hil/cas/4407086271.html[/URL]
So far, it has not been flagged. Sorry, BB. The unusual thing is that so far I have only had three replies. I am shocked at that as I would have expected a dozen or so bots and maybe a live one, if I was lucky. Two are obvious bots but the third is an 80/20. 80% chance it is a UTR, 20% chance it is LE. I didn't take it any further. If I did I could determine with one round of e-mails how it would swing. So, I don't know what to say about your experiences of being flagged.
About Charlotte. Happy to share.
Fist SP is Jayla. She is no holds barred FS, no rules at all. I did a TER review with her still with me and she had me answer "yes" to all the variances and fetishes. Pics are real. My date started out disappointingly plain until I figure out she takes real good direction. It then moved into the fast lane. She is a bit scatter brained. What's new? I think damage was $.8 or $$ for hr??
[URL]http://greensboro.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sexy-jayla-is-sweet-as-heavenn-hot-as-hell-ask-about-my-great-specialsxoxo-29/11038820[/URL]
Second is Brianna, sort of UTR, part time, fun girl. It took a week to get the date but it was memorable. Note, no phone, e-mail only, so if you do want a date with her start writing early. At $.4 hr, no clock watching, GFE, no evidence of drugs, educated, selective.
[URL]http://greensboro.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/brianna-is-available-for-you-26/15229638[/URL]
Good luck with the whole flag thing and tell Jayla and / or Brianna I said Hello,.
C3.
[QUOTE=BillyBob987;2054279]Thanks Camera, I typically do the same but if yours does not get flagged in Tampa it will be a miracle. I travel to the Charlotte area on business and have been for some time. Curious who you saw? I have my ATF up there so I really don't see anyone else up there anymore. I learned the hard way down in South FL not to post a CL ad way ahead of time because most of these girls situations change at the drop of a hat. Had a couple of young Latina's on the string but by the time I got there they were unavailable.[/QUOTE]