Brisa Spa. Yuki & Crystal
I saw Yuki and Crystal over the weekend. Store is clean and well-kept, and has a shower in case you need it.
Yuki. Beautiful, tall 5'8', body model. She gave a slow and sensual BBBJ. Great DFK, DATY, DG with nice view of her butt (Latina size LOL). I really enjoyed the session with her.
Crystal. Pretty and down to earth personality. Good manmade B's, slender, bubble / cute butt. She has great energy with good BBBJ and CG. She did a decent massage helping me to relax. I actually went a second round DG with her afterwards haha.
Great times with them. I will be back soon.
More bonus content. Lotus has an incredible line-up now
Mia (Summer from JM), BeiBei for TUMA lovers (great with or without IMHO), and super MILF Nana.
Brisa, Maple, Lotus are my staples down south, great to hear BB is back too, good times! Sadly I am writing from India and things may change by the time I'm back.
[QUOTE=Panda888;7395175]Cici is super awesome. And her massage skills are no joke.
You heard right about the girl at Brisa being uninvited to work there. Alyssa just went back to China, so maybe Mia thought that the current manager (we all know who it is, but she doesn't like her name mentioned) would let it fly. LOL. Nope. New manager style is identical to Alyssa's. I'm shocked how many spa managers don't seem to read or care about customer feedback. Girls at a lot of stores get bad reviews but stay there all month. Or longer. Yes, I know I'm going to come off as a fanboy, but Brisa isn't the only store that actively manages their independent contractors. And not surprisingly, they all happen to me my go-to spots: Brisa, JM, Maple, Tokyo.
Thank you guys for taking the hit on Mia before I came back. Because I would have been there tonite.
Crystal and Yuki are both fantastic.
Bonus content: Hottie Korean superstar BB is back at Snow Spa in FedWay (formerly Alice Spa. Freshly renamed). Experience her in DG at least once before you die. Good lord.[/QUOTE]
Anyone tried Sunny at Brisa?
Dropped by Brisa. Met up with "I" who is back from China. She was quick to tell me that she had canned Mia for upselling and warned the girls that won't fly.
Saw Yuki and Crystal. Both smoking hot. Both great service.
Met Sunny on the way out. Closer to a MILF, but still pretty face and very hot body. Manager says her service is great and that she was popular at Shanghai Spa. I might have to head back tomorrow to verify LOL.
Sorry for the weird typo on my last post. My account is new and therefore still under moderation (not complaining. That's a smart thing to do with new accounts) therefore the editing window always closes before the post is live and I notice the error. I'm guessing that issue will fix itself eventually with more posts and more time. .
Stay safe out there.
Being too nice. Lao Gong syndrome
One of the things that makes mongering more pleasant for me is to treat these girls extra nice and get treated well in return. I love DATY and will try hard to make a girl cum if I think it is possible. I don't think my junior is particularly big but big enough and I am told very stiff and comfortable for my partner. I like to say kind things to the girls and listen to them too. I am happy to bring then stuff and even take them to the market. I tend to get some extras and specials early in this process, but I also tend to pay and not take discounts.
One trend I have noticed is for the girl to progress from "I like you!" to "lao gong" over time. Lao Gong means husband but I have learned it also means bad service. Like with a real wife once I am lao gong the massages tend to stop and the sex may become very rote. I start getting asked to provide lavish gifts and most outrageous of all, a girl who sees 4-10 strangers per day will become insanely jealous if she finds out I have seen another woman. I've had them react strongly to even a picture of me with another woman.
Even though I enjoy being nice, I am starting to think this is bad for me (some fantastic fucks gone sour) but also not right for the girls. They clearly are seeing something that is not really there, maybe cruel go very far with it. I've ended up with 3-4 faux "wives".
I'm not sure what exactly to do, I don't enjoy treating these girls badly, I am genuinely fond of them, but clearly I need to draw some lines. I want them happy to see me and eager to provide great service. Maybe just need to establish a limit before I move on, and maybe come back only after a cooling down period.
Interested in other mongers experiences, or if you all are just not idiots like me.
Wow thank you, this is so helpful
I thought I was breaking hearts or being cruel and really was just being cultivated as a pet! LOL The good news is that I am a bad dog and would always bridle when serious money became involved. This would of course frustrate the girls. I did the research you suggested, and clearly the small things I have been doing, which I enjoyed, gave them the impression I would be a simp for them. There is quite the tradition of women using some men in this way in Chinese culture. This helps to explain why when I would get mad and tell them no, I would start getting better service. Just the opposite of what I expected.
The ironic part is that I travel all over the world (in India now) and I specialize in these cultural tics, except I look at them to help international teams work together and be productive. No surprise at all they are just as important for sex and relationships. I doubt these girls have truly bad intentions, but adding a nice American licking dog to cater to them is culturally something they might prize. They want me away from other girls because they think I'm their possession.
I think this will help me chart a better course, still fun to have a sweet GFE experience, but need to make sure I don't lead them down the Tiangou path. When I hear lao gong that is probably a great indicator they need a reset.
[QUOTE=IstlFun;7397283]You're simping hard for these girls and they're taking advantage of your niceness, very common in China. There are plenty of videos as such search the Chinese term "licking dog" which is simping, these girls are master of gold digging in their mind $ comes first, unless they know you have like $10m then they'll simp over you. Want to married you badly then after half of it or all, another common thing in China. Bottom line it's all about $. I too once felt for this, I'm a nice but I don't linke to feel like a sucker, I was nice to them, then the services I got slowly go down hill, spoke to mms about it, was told not to post a review of it, it'll hurt their business, mofo I paid for a bad and can't even rant, WTF. After that, I'm more direct of what I wanted, lead the session especially with new talents, so I get the service I like, if I'm paying for it then I want to leave happy. Tip is have balls to set boundaries if a girl can't deliver ofc reasonable requests like can't ask greek if she doesn't offer it, ask the $ back and switch. If they ask u a favor, then ask them what do you get in return, an extra pop on the house maybe etc. Lastly, Leave the place with a smile, not with a feeling that you got ripped off.[/QUOTE]