General Reports

[QUOTE=QuestProtecter;3975440]I like the idea of a meet and greet, but that would also make me nervous. It reminds of when the police would tell people with warrants they won money or a TV, and they got locked up when they went to collect.[/QUOTE]The police would have no reason or cause to do anything to anybody at a meet and greet, nothing illegal should happen at a meet and greet, all this worry about the police, I don't do anything illegal (with the exception of traffic violations), so I don't worry about the police, yes, I've seen and paid many of ladies, all of them will tell you I don't pay for sexual acts, I just pay them to kick it with me, if I get lucky great. Just like the chicks that ask me if I'm a cop, I tell them no and it doesn't matter because I'm not going to ask them to do anything illegal, and I don't.

Does anything "illegal" happen at a M&G? I used "" because I personally disagree with the state on the legality of what happens between us and our providers. But if a M&G is just that, then what could Uncle do to the participants?

[QUOTE=FrazzleSnazzle;3975661]There was one. Chaos ensued shortly thereafter.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DonJohnson8;3975971]Does anything "illegal" happen at a M&G? I used "" because I personally disagree with the state on the legality of what happens between us and our providers. But if a M&G is just that, then what could Uncle do to the participants?[/QUOTE]Uncle wouldn't bug you per se at a M&G, but could help to target who is in the hobby. Not sure how much help that would really be to them, but also if Uncle comes to the M&G and stories are being passed around it could give some info that would make their job easier. I'm with you on the legality of the Hobby, it's silly that it's so demonized.

[QUOTE=FrazzleSnazzle;3975661]There was one. Chaos ensued shortly thereafter.[/QUOTE]There were 2 in recent history. The first one went well for both sides. The second one, I cannot comment on.

If you question if it's ok for people to get together have a few drinks, talk and play games. You probably should not go to one.

Dave.

[QUOTE=DaveRue;3976173]There were 2 in recent history. The first one went well for both sides. The second one, I cannot comment on.

If you question if it's ok for people to get together have a few drinks, talk and play games. You probably should not go to one.

Dave.[/QUOTE]The big worry isn't that a cop will get invited. At a proper meet and greet the guest list is pre-screened. The biggest risk is that someone will throw a tantrum because they aren't allowed to bring someone who hasn't been screened.

As for the "it's not illegal if I don't ask for anything illegal".

Wrong. If you're caught in a sting, your status depends solely on whether they think you're worth prosecuting.

Had some interesting conversations with a retired federal judge in Colombia last year. I specifically asked about the "between consenting adults" disclaimer. I also asked about the " are you in any way working with any law enforcement agency" question. That won't protect you either. Once the money changes hands, everything else is just icing on the cake.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;3976401]The big worry isn't that a cop will get invited. At a proper meet and greet the guest list is pre-screened. The biggest risk is that someone will throw a tantrum because they aren't allowed to bring someone who hasn't been screened.

As for the "it's not illegal if I don't ask for anything illegal".

Wrong. If you're caught in a sting, your status depends solely on whether they think you're worth prosecuting.

Had some interesting conversations with a retired federal judge in Colombia last year. I specifically asked about the "between consenting adults" disclaimer. I also asked about the " are you in any way working with any law enforcement agency" question. That won't protect you either. Once the money changes hands, everything else is just icing on the cake.[/QUOTE]Hate to be a party pooper, but I just don't see the benefit. My time in the hobby is limited, and I'd rather use it to get laid than share "war stories" with you fine gentlemen.

You do realize there are girls there to? And they usually offer a discount at the meet and greet.

[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;3976560]Hate to be a party pooper, but I just don't see the benefit. My time in the hobby is limited, and I'd rather use it to get laid than share "war stories" with you fine gentlemen.[/QUOTE]

You obviously have never been to a meet and greet. There are 5-8 beautiful well known providers there as well as 5-10 senior members that generally comment on these said providers that give all you nubes and ones that aren't willing to toftt, info on these providers for this city.

You exchanged numbers and add them to your little black book and when you guys come pestering us for numbers, depending if we like you or think we can trust you, we give you those numbers

[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;3976560]Hate to be a party pooper, but I just don't see the benefit. My time in the hobby is limited, and I'd rather use it to get laid than share "war stories" with you fine gentlemen.[/QUOTE].

I've been to two M&Gs so far here in Indy and first one ran by Sara was an amazing time and have some great memories of that night. The second one was ran by Candace and unfortunately that was a hot mess. Now that IG and I dove head first into purchasing a place I'm sure once Sara lands back into Indy I'll be reaching out to her to plan the next M&G. I can assure everyone that we only invite gentlemen that are highly verified by the great ladies of Indy and only invite the top providers. Anything done in Private is surely kept private. Just a bunch of crazy adults having fun. I already know if myself & IG123 run the next meet it will be a night to remember and sure plenty of you gents will want to attend.

While both of the M&G's that VixenRed attended occurred at spectacularly bad times for me preventing my attendance, I was around for an earlier one (yes, in the way back machine; something about a wild beaver?) at which a good time was had by all both at the bar and (or so I heard ha ha!) at a nice hotel across the street. It's time invested in networking and can be valuable later.

[QUOTE=VixenRed;3977336]I've been to two M&Gs so far here in Indy and first one ran by Sara was an amazing time and have some great memories of that night. The second one was ran by Candace and unfortunately that was a hot mess. Now that IG and I dove head first into purchasing a place I'm sure once Sara lands back into Indy I'll be reaching out to her to plan the next M&G. I can assure everyone that we only invite gentlemen that are highly verified by the great ladies of Indy and only invite the top providers. Anything done in Private is surely kept private. Just a bunch of crazy adults having fun. I already know if myself & IG123 run the next meet it will be a night to remember and sure plenty of you gents will want to attend.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DaveRue;3976173]There were 2 in recent history. The first one went well for both sides. The second one, I cannot comment on.

If you question if it's ok for people to get together have a few drinks, talk and play games. You probably should not go to one.

Dave.[/QUOTE]What a great time, but there are some things you see you can't unseen I still have nightmares about seeing a hairy man's ass, Inside the largest vagina curtains ever!

BG,

[QUOTE=BigGuyUAteMe;3978074]What a great time, but there are some things you see you can't unseen I still have nightmares about seeing a hairy man's ass, Inside the largest vagina curtains ever!

BG,[/QUOTE]You also got to see a really nice "show" and play in a "lottery".

TPHFB!

[QUOTE=VixenRed;3977336]I've been to two M&Gs so far here in Indy and first one ran by Sara was an amazing time and have some great memories of that night. The second one was ran by Candace and unfortunately that was a hot mess. Now that IG and I dove head first into purchasing a place I'm sure once Sara lands back into Indy I'll be reaching out to her to plan the next M&G. I can assure everyone that we only invite gentlemen that are highly verified by the great ladies of Indy and only invite the top providers. Anything done in Private is surely kept private. Just a bunch of crazy adults having fun. I already know if myself & IG123 run the next meet it will be a night to remember and sure plenty of you gents will want to attend.[/QUOTE]I went to the last one at Candaces I wondered if she did retire.

[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;3976560]Hate to be a party pooper, but I just don't see the benefit. My time in the hobby is limited, and I'd rather use it to get laid than share "war stories" with you fine gentlemen.[/QUOTE]If your time is limited, doesn't it make sense to invest your time in ways that will generate returns?

How many times have you had to try 3 or 4 different girls to get 1 who will see you? How many times have you rushed out to meet someone just to have them ghost you? How many times have you gotten a reply from a girl 8 hours after you sent a message? How many times have you had to play 20 questions, trying to pass a screening?

How much of your limited hobby time gets wasted?

Assuming you can get on the guest list, 3 or 4 hours at a meet and greet gets you actual face time with several reliable ladies. You get a chance to really see and interact with them. Assuming you can behave reasonably well, you walk away with some new contacts. And those contacts have friends, friends you might not normally have a shot at.

Then there's those fine gentlemen. They are mostly fine gentlemen. Which means, while there might be some comparing notes, there's also talk about a wide range of subjects. Sort of like hanging out with your friends, except you don't have to hide your hobby from these friends. And they also have contacts.

Now back to those fine ladies. Some are willing to offer a slight discount, about equal to the amount you donated to the meet and greet. So, in addition to spending a few quality hours with quality people, sharing some drinks and snacks, getting pre-approved for future dates and collecting new, dependable contacts, you can get a session at the price you would normally pay, along with plenty of extra interaction time, which you wouldn't normally get.

That's why.

[QUOTE=Hotforty;3977895]While both of the M&G's that VixenRed attended occurred at spectacularly bad times for me preventing my attendance, I was around for an earlier one (yes, in the way back machine; something about a wild beaver?) at which a good time was had by all both at the bar and (or so I heard ha ha!) at a nice hotel across the street. It's time invested in networking and can be valuable later.[/QUOTE]The Wild Beaver M&G was definitely top notch and set up by one of Indy's top providers. This was back when Blaire, Autumnskyy, Lacy, Pam, Misty, Courtney and many others were in the game. The highlight of my night was walking in on HandfullofWheel banging Blaire in the restroom of the Beaver.

My advice to all the skeptics on here is if you are invited, DON"T GO, leaves more action for the rest of us Old Fat Bald Guys.