Thanks to all that replied
Those that PM'd me, I sent a PM to all of you. Thank you.
Those that took the time to post here, thank you as well. All of you took a lot of time and thought in replying, and I'm very grateful.
I do want to make a few things clear though:
First of all, I'm as skeptical and as jaded as they come. Call it bad experiences in relationships when I was younger, but I'm not the kind to fall head over heels for the first woman that walks infront of me. I've lost my last two girlfriends because, and I quote "I was too cold". They both said this same exact phrase to me. In a different language, but the meaning is not lost in translation at all.
Second, I am basically in this great country almost as an asylum for past mistakes I've done in my life, in another country, the country of my birth and the country where if I step foot in it again I'm looking at a life sentence minimum or a death sentence outright. I don't think I'm a bad person, but I do have some serious faults and I've had a rough life up until I turned 18 or so. No pimp can even make my heartbeat go up a beat.
Third, I am more than capable of taking care of myself. If someone messes with me to the extent where I lose my temper or get threatened, I will shoot them dead on the spot and live to regret it for the rest of my life. If a pimp does decide to even LOOK in my direction, I will kill him, pure and simple. I will go to jail for the rest of my life or maybe have to yet again go to another country, but atleast he won't be alive to have that satisfaction.
Lastly, I'm trying to change. I voluntarily do community service at a retirment home next to a high school I used to go to, I give $150 a month out of my pay check to charity, and the rest I send to my mother back home to support her and will continue to do so. The rest I would spend on prostitutes, sometimes at the expense of food and other life neccissaties.
I good things I'm trying to do is partly to absolve myself of past horrible sins, mostly to genuinly try to change my character and who I am. To that end, I intentionally force myself to help people that are in need. I force myself to do this, even when in reality I couldn't care less. I have a theory that helping people successfully is addictive: start by helping out an old lady cross the street and it will keep going from there until you're the founder of a multi-million dollar charity.
Its almost as addicting as cruising and having sex with prostitutes. Almost.
So to all those that said I don't know what I'm getting into and that it's dangerous:
Relax, my personal well being is the last thing I'm worried about. If there was no law, you can be 100% sure that pimp would be buried alive by now. I would have enjoyed it too, immensely.
I also have no intention of ever seeing that girl again, much less letting her live with me or even getting her a place. I just wanted to do my part in helping her help herself, and to do that I thought I just had to get the ball rolling and offer my support.
For those interested, I did call the police today. Gave them her street name, and they called her up. Five minutes later they called me and told me she answered and sounded fine and was able to talk and just as happy as happy can be.
Unless it wasn't her and someone else, I think I did my part. I extended a hand, and very clearly told the police operator that I was willing to do anything money wise or even to incriminate myself if that will help her. The girl was told there was help IF SHE WANTS IT.
And that's the key word here: If she WANTS. I'm not going to be a baby sitter or a psychologist to anyone, if she thinks a COWARD who beats up women and takes there money while they work the streets and he sits at home smoking weed is the ideal man who REALLY loves her, she's doing the gene pool a favor by dying off or getting killed.
But if she wants help....
Begging for more specifics
[QUOTE=Member #2041]According to one of the ladies I know who moderates one of the forums, the San Diego website that is currently down was booted from it's new web hosting service because they found out that it has adult content that violates their terms of service for hosting websites. No word as to when/if they will be back online. Too bad, as it was a very useful community, and the reviews, while inflated, were a useful database. On the plus side, some well known ladies from that site have resorted to Craigslist, and their pricing has come down to levels more in line with the CL competition, rather than the somewhat higher prices some of them asked on the other site.[/QUOTE]
Dear Member # 2041, can you give us the name (if not the whole link) to the website you are referring to? I am going to be in SD soon hoping to escape from this freezing cold up here and I would like to use that website if it is up by then.
Thanks a bunch.
Your Great pics will be missed.
[QUOTE=Seek899] ..... I'm putting away the camera for a while because I screwed myself out of a pickup when I got sloppy and she saw me try to take her photo. That photo didn't even turn out. Happy Hunting.[/QUOTE]
I feel your pain, every time I tried to take pictures, the hottest chicks would pop-out of nowhere, I missed to much tail, and people complained about the pics to boot.
Try and head out for a pick-up, then after you are done, begin shooting, makes it easier to deal with the loss of blood to the brain.