Not looking to fan the fire but
I ask Bob, and I am not picking on you, I would like your opinion, how about the many reviews I have put up, with pictures, and absolutely these gals never gave me the ok to do so?? Am I categorized as the same piece of poop that posted the video without her knowing. Honestly, in my opinion, there is not much different. I am guilty of this many times. I see all of this information sharing as the same. Its just like the poor guy who got his wallet ripped off on Elmwood I just read about in the streetwalkers forum. Its all part of the game, you enter the game, bad things can happen, some real bad. We all have had some. As I stated earlier before this discussion made it to the dome, we open the doors to this hobby, we open them, beware before you do.
[QUOTE=MongerBob;4021426]LOL, this is the best you can do? Are you sure you're even old enough to be here, because you sound like a 13 year old right now. I'm not even going to bother pointing out the VERY OBVIOUS differences between posting a text description of a session vs posting video, because anyone who doesn't already fully understand the difference is either mentally challenged or willfully ignorant (based on these last couple of posts I'm guessing both of those apply to you). For the record, I have seen providers who specifically requested not to have reviews written for reasons of privacy and discretion, and I respected their wishes. Viewing and treating providers as actual human beings is not "white knighting".[/QUOTE]
Do I understand that right
These providers actually knew they were on video?? I know you say Destiny did not know, but damn Bob she puts her face out there all over the place over the years. I am sorry we must agree to disagree. Let me say I have never made a video of my activities, and that is a good thing for us all. LOL. I most definitely have posted face pics of many many ladies that they sent to me through private email. I have no idea if they posted them in any ads they might have had, backpage or escort sites were never my thing. My feeling is, they sent me a photo, they have no idea who I am, they were looking for business. I passed their photo onto others, via this venue, who might turn into business for them, or not. Honestly, those photos that I posted, and I am definitely no high level internet sleuth, could very often lead you to IRL social media pages. Fact, I quite often did a little background before I pursued. Anyway, that's my dime on the matter.
[QUOTE=MongerBob;4021891]I have no problem having a reasonable, civil conversation about this. As far as reviews go, it's just a text description, using whatever a provider's "work" name is. It's information that's only relevant to other guys who might plan on going to see her. Even if you give a detailed physical description of her body / face, it's not like anyone can read that, and then recognize her IRL or on social media or whatever. And I think reviews are just kind of a generally accepted part of the business at this point. As far as pics go, I think it depends. For one thing, what does the pic show? Is her face in it? Does she usually show her face in her ads? Did she say "don't show this to anyone" when she let you take it or sent it to you?
This whole issue was about videos that guys were specifically told not to share and that showed providers actually engaged in sexual acts, with their faces fully visible (and some of these providers have never shown their face in any of their ads). In the case of Destiny, the video was taken without her even knowing about it. THAT'S the thing that really makes me categorize the guy who did it as a piece of shit, and a creep. And yeah, there's risk involved in this business, no doubt. Bad things can happen. But isn't the point of sites like this to try to make the hobby safer? In a best case scenario, our goal should be to make it safer for EVERYONE, including providers. That means calling out bad behavior when we see it, on both sides. And posting videos like the ones that started all this, that isn't sharing useful information like a review or some pics to show what a provider looks like. It's just porn, let's be honest here. And it puts those providers at much greater risk, because someone who knows them IRL could come across them. Maybe someone in their family, who didn't know what they do. Someone could use it as blackmail material. Any number of legitimate reasons why a video of an actual sex act can be way more damaging than a textual description, or a still picture or two. Anyway, that's my opinion on the matter, for what it's worth.[/QUOTE]
Post count doesn't mean squat
So you SUPPOSEDLY have been around for over 10 years with 200+ posts and you just "give it up" to start all over at square one? When it's just as easy to recover your account as it is to start a new one?
Even if that's true (however unlikely) why is your first post a comment on Kraft? Why wouldn't you actually CONTRIBUTE? Why not say, I went to such and such AMP and saw so and so? Or I went to this strip joint and describe how it was? Possibly even that I saw such and such provider and she's legit or etc?
Why not contribute? It's because there are two types of guys. Those that step up and provide info and those that just TAKE. Those that come here and read what others do and use that info but never bring any.
As for post count, I have more respect for a guy that has a low post count if most of them contribute. I don't care if you have 500 posts if they are mostly comments on others posts or questions etc. I will just ignore you. There are plenty of "seniors” on here that don't contribute either and I'd bet that you were one of them (assuming you're not lying about your account).
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If that is true then presumably you know what the "Report Post" button is for.
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[/QUOTE]BTW I have been a member for over ten years lost my password and had over 200 posts. Not that should matter. I guess post count determins value in your mind.
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Escorts tracking this site
I've meant to post about this topic for a while. Especially in the Providence / Warwick area there are escorts who monitor the Forum and follow up with clients either through PM or text. Erica who posted on SA and STG, Jade in Providence, Brit in Warwick (who's had friends post fake reviews for her) and Deb in Attleboro. Most of these providers have asked me to Post positive reviews and Deb has been sending PM re my recent negative Post about her. Curious how it went with the guy who called her a disgusting fat pig. It's made me think twice about posting in RI Forums. Any similar experiences, thoughts.