SW Surfer: Cincinnati is a "F'n backwater"
You might be interested to read SW Surfer's post in Florida about how Cincinnati is a "F'n backwater" where no one "gets more then a quick 3min CBJ":
[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=844519&postcount=1253[/url]
Maybe he thought because of our "f'n backwater" status, we would swallow his fantastic story without questions.
Or should we just let him stew in his own embellishments? If the emperor has no clothes, should anyone mention it?
Giani
[QUOTE=SW Surfer]Kinda Harsh LFB - I guess the other mongers that I surf with on occasion are liars also. As for where I surf - I have a killer job and travel all over the east coast and mid west.....
....and from now on will not post in the Cinci thread. No big deal to me.
Surf Out!!![/QUOTE]
It Was a Nice Day For a Drive
I rarely get the opportunity to monger in the afternoon hours, much less on
a Friday. The day was nice yesterday so I headed out.
Unfortunately, only a couple SWs were out, but what was the deal with LEO? I
counted six LEOs in their blue shirts on bikes a block north of Findlay
Market. And the streets were fairly empty of people in general!
Almost picked up a blonde in a longish white blouse/dress. Had already
received the look when a guy comes yelling and screaming out of his house.
Which was enough for me to drive away. Upon returning, he was still yelling
and screaming at a Metro bus, and the blonde was gone.
Just before heading home, I spotted a WSW in a light peach colored top. She
seemed low-key with her greeting, but positioning was wrong. Circled around
and she'd chosen the wrong way to go. Circled around again and then wondered
where in the hell did all those LEOs go? And then I noted that the
short-wavy-haired peach blouse gal hadn't been seen until LEO had dispersed,
and I'd been making some tight circuits.
Bagged it all and headed home. I've learned to trust my sixth-sense thoughts
though. That hasn't failed me yet.
Money Up Front Is Really The Norm .... !!!!
It is always a RISK, to give money up front but it really is the norm. Too many SW's out there get Ripped-Off for service rendered. Most can't do a thing other than avoid getting Beat-Up. So asking for at least half up front is about norm, for half, and all up front for the rest. Most who render service then collect their money run a serious risk, and most time like every starter, it is a Newbie mistake on their part.
All of us have been there, but as experienced cruisers we should always know better, even when we are with our trusted SW's, you have to pull out the trump card and let them know, that regardless, you still don't play the newbie tricks. Don't just put them in check, keep them in check.
As for Service & Drugs, that is a risky thing to, since so many girls react differently after using it. I don't much like it. I have let them do it at times, but only a small hit, nothing extensive. Still I prefer not to let them. Hell, they are Stupid enough, and that shit just makes them Stupider. I got that from Cristy, and she was already dump as shit. She stayed high on drugs or alcohol. But, Man was she SEXY and one Damn good FS, High or Not.
I would suggest people AVOID, giving up any more than 5-10 bucks up front, and all tips are paid after service accordingly. Anything more and you give them the power.
REMEMBER. You find them far, far easier, than they can find MONEY to spend on their habits, so understand at all points, you are in the drivers seat, and you really control everything. They Need You More Than You Need Them. PERIOD!
And avoid ripping any SW off, unless you know she is really ripping off others. Then she is fair Rip-Off game.
Danielle Has Been Mia ... Lately !!!!
I did see the person who was one of the ones who intro'ed me to her, and they were amazed when I told them the story.
First thing they asked is jf the person ripped off was White, I told them YES, and then it all seem to make sense to them. White guys heed the WARNING. If you allow yourself to get ripped off, ain't NOBOBY gonna care and for the most part it may be APPLAUDED. So you run the ZRISK Big Time. Thus you really need to follow the rules, No one people I talked to had any sypathy for a white male getting ripped off in a black neighborhood, trying to buy some BSW, or any SW. Even the other WSW, had no sypathy, so take great note of that and be WARNED.
As I told you before, Ripping Off White Males that look like they can't really fight back, or are afraid to, is like a Sport, to a growing nmber of SW's especially in the poorest of neighborhoods. Bill did everyone reading his post a great service by warning us, and then getting a picture of her to go along with the complain. If she is ripping off white male, it won't be long before she will be trying it on everyone, once she perfects her R/O skillz.
I was out yesterday and as I said Danielle has been MIA over the last couple of days. My contact said they saw her once over the last three days. Maybe with no more heavy rain, she will be back out and about. I intend to ask her about it personally. Of course her version will be totally different.
And giving half up front is a very good practice, but be prepared for a lot of rejection, because that can be a real deal breaker. It will make it hard to find someone decent especially when you don't have a lot of time to look.
Stand fast with your practice, and if you have the patience they will come around to your way of doing business. Just don't start ripping them off. That is a Big Deal Breaker, and ripping them off will spread quickly among them.
[QUOTE=Bill Fanta]After having gotten ripped off by giving the whole amount up front, I am definitely following your advice here. Seems like they always ask for the whole amount up front, but in the future I will offer no more than half up front and if they don't agree, they are going to get dropped off with a "thanks, but no thanks." BTW, Mr. B., did you ever find out anything about that girl who ripped me off? (Gave me the name Denise, but you recognized her as Danielle.)
When I read Giani's post from a day or two ago, it sounded like one of my experiences from a few weeks back. Just to set the record straight, this one was not ME! :>)[/QUOTE]