New backpage / craigslist
Hey guys just wondering if you have found any new places to meet like minded people just looking for hook ups I have been on kik with a little luck and doublelist about 1 out of every 10 reply. Any one else have any other sites or apps they use that seem to work and real people?
You know when you are a regular
I love it when one of your favorite providers texts you on the morning of your payday or day off and asks if you are going to have time for them. Not in the "hit you up for cash" manner but in a way that she is promoting herself to exclusive regulars to create a good client foundation for herself.
She knows your payday (and wants to be part of your expenses in a tasteful manner).
She knows your days off (and wants to be part of that day).
Is this too intrusive of a provider? I don't think so. If she is only contacting you in this manner, to me, it shows that she is comfortable and she she doesn't want random guys banging on her door. I like it when a provider, Not UTR, hits me up and says, "come see me, bring a box of hats and you get a special today. " It's happened more than once and I end up getting a pretty good discount in the process. We all pay for it in the end be it long or short term, it's all about the cheddar.
I had the misfortune of dealing with a young lady who thought, just because she was in the business, she could set all the rules and I had to accept them. She also told me that she doesn't do this work for fun. I told her, "I'm sorry but it doesn't matter what industry it is, good customer service is something that had to be upheld no matter what the business happens to be. Just because you may get to set the rules doesn't mean I have to shop at your store and finally, if you do something you love, you never work a day in your life. ".
I explained to her that just because I'm in the market doesn't mean I am desperate. By now she was absolutely livid. She accused me of wasting her time etc. I told her that she should be happy that I took her to dinner the 3 times she asked, paid for those dinners AND the extra coins for justconversation! She replied saying, "If I am going to do S-work my time should be compensated. " I told her there has to be some "S" in it for it to be considered "S" work.
That was the last time I wasted a coin on her. I told her flat out, "The only difference between rape and romance is salesmanship and I'm sorry but you're not selling me here because after every dinner I feel like I just got raped!" I blocked her phone number and now she gets nothing. This was the WORST person I have had to deal with in a very long time.
Be safe all.
Lin.