Other Thoughts and Insights?
Appreciate AgedGeek's response and further insights as to his experiences. He has some good points. So once again, not looking to offend him, I'll use his post as a tool to provide some insight and methods others could use. Hope I don't offend and education overall is the intent.
[QUOTE=AgedGeek;7609105] I would like to say that although I was new to Jaydah, I've been in the lifestyle for more years than she's been out of Elementary School. I've had both great and horrible interactions. My experience with Jaydah, while not horrible, was definitely not what I've come to expect as the norm. We had been texting for a few minutes to set things up when she went silent for 30 minutes. One does not usually have to wait for the address after a date has been set. [/QUOTE]Yeah sounds reasonable. Things like that either set off my Spidey Senses or make me roll my eyes over the way some operate. (hooker time).
[QUOTE=AgedGeek;7609105]Unless I have a special request, I've never had to explicitly detail what I wanted over text. In fact, explicit texting is usually discouraged and can be a deal breaker. [/QUOTE]You are right! Many girls are wary of talking details before the date. For me that is a deal breaker. I'm not going to waste my time traveling to a girl, and finding out something key is not on the menu. Most guys I guess just fold and go ahead with things. I learned long ago to walk when things don't match or go south. I think those girls who won't talk details up front usually state such in their adverts. But also I have found I can ask politely what is out of bounds for a girl that usually doesn't offend. Oh yeah, on occasion there is a girl too inexperienced that rejects that convoy or the ones who 'blow up" on me for asking. I always figure that if they do either, I am happy as I'd rather have that happen than before meeting, not during. NEXT!
Also, I would think it is more dangerous for a dude to walk into a date, with money in hand and start talking about services. That sounds like a scenario for a set-up to me, get the dude to say things that make the encounter a crime. I mean if LE has the time and resources to Subpoena your phone for a misdemeanor crime, so be it. I don't take my phone into a massage with a new girl. Fwiw.
[QUOTE=AgedGeek;7609105]Dropping the money the moment you enter the room is a great way to get robbed. Believe me, I've had it happen! [/QUOTE]I've had that happen too! So I know where you are coming from. So for me it comes down to technique at that point. A) Show you have the funds to pay for the massage. She grabs for it, could be a red flag. B) I offer to place the fee on a table, dresser of wherever that is away from the massage table and keep myself between the fee and the girl until she starts the massage. Usually, I have found that the rip-off artists are going to go for the funds right away, and setting it aside, they will go for it.
[QUOTE=AgedGeek;7609105]Also, she recently posted that you shouldn't start asking questions as soon as you get in the room. I didn't. After "Hi" I spoke only in response to her, so I don't know what that's about.[/QUOTE]I'm guessing that, based on what your report, that there are two different dudes and you, being the one that posted here, got the flak. So the other dude was the chatty Cathy and got booted for it. Just shows what making assumptions can do.
[QUOTE=AgedGeek;7609105]All I'm saying here is that I did everything she asked me to do, and I still had my time and gas wasted. So I shared my experience, and here's the kicker; my post was accurate in every detail! I stand by it!
Yup, every provider has the absolute right to pick & choose clientele. Likewise, when I have a bad experience, I'm going to share it. I wish I was one of the guys who could report on her great attitude, but as it's always said, YMMV. Mine certainly did.[/QUOTE]Again, sorry for your bad experience, wasted time and resources! But yes, not everyone is going to be a match and those YMMV experiences are important to have out in the open. All info, both + or. Is helpful to dudes who do a history search and evaluate what went on. So yes, anyone should share. Thanks for sharing. It gets 'strange" when all one sees are glowing reports.