[QUOTE=KDoogie;5018453]Fellow travelers -- hope you are having better luck than me lately! Read on for the good, the bad, and the ugly (if you don't want to go through all of the links -- the bottom line is that I am having good conversations and am setting meet and greet dates, with absolutely no follow-through on the part of the SB's. I know that this is not a new problem -- but it seems to be happening with way too much regularity now.). Most of those listed below are still actively logging on (and ostensibly still looking for a SD), so maybe it was something with me!
I posted earlier about meeting these two ebony "friends" -- Had good email and text conversations, followed by a good introductory meeting. Had a few texts after the intro meeting, and comms have now grown cold. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/daf37718-f2df-457d-a894-63973a58c861[/URL].
Had good convo through the SA site, and then good texts. Set a meet and greet date, then comms went dark when I tried to confirm the meeting date (and comms have not resumed since): [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/634783c0-62b5-4b44-abdd-0d7613090e90[/URL].
Had good comms through the site, then went to email. Each email had the "Sorry I can't meet -- I need money for asthma meds before I can go out. ", and when I kept redirecting the convo away from that, comms ceased after 3 emails. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0e835eb8-53d2-4055-91a5-4466957f502d[/URL].
Had good comms with this lesbian couple, and set a meeting date. Texted to confirm meeting date, and comms have been dark since then. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9e57282d-78c6-4e35-b595-1fa07c28cb72[/URL].
Had good comms through the site, followed by texts -- she also talked about having a girlfriend join us. Set a meet and greet date, but did not respond to messages confirming our date, and comms have been dark since. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/11b25221-abd9-4932-b22b-e82203f80e22[/URL].
This pair is a salt-and-pepper lesbian couple that I was looking forward to meeting -- good initial communications, discussion of a meeting date, then comms went dark.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa6f27ea-7a24-4f97-9d57-49f1c2c7ada3[/URL]
These two blondes are "close friends" who will play together with a SD -- had good discussions, then comms dark:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8965964e-a925-4460-96c5-0e0cc8e883c9[/URL]
Another twosome looking to meet a SD together -- unfortunately, all talk and no game -- comms dark after good initial conversation:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5dbac26d-2486-4d72-aeda-d812fb64254b[/URL]
Good initial convo, then went dark on me (at least her written profile now says she is a student in NYC): [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/16df7db0-380f-426a-8b9b-3d2beb1dfba2[/URL].
You guessed it -- good initial discussion with these two, then completely dark; [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c2391155-c6da-4010-8552-8669609723f6[/URL].[/QUOTE]I have had a lot of the same thing but I am also seeing more positive interactions with new SB who are in relationships and need to be discreet they don't want any public interaction.
