If anyone has deals on some "clear", PM me. Safe, sound, no dramas. Not for me, this square chick I talking to wants to chong but I don't have any reach like back in the day. Shoot, mahalo braddahs.
H.
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If anyone has deals on some "clear", PM me. Safe, sound, no dramas. Not for me, this square chick I talking to wants to chong but I don't have any reach like back in the day. Shoot, mahalo braddahs.
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This has probably been hashed through before, but what, in your opinion, is the difference between DFK and LFK? My mongering buddy and I were discussing this while comparing providers. To him, DFK means spittle going everywhere. And yeah, that obviously counts. For me, though, tongues curling in each other's mouths more than mere lip-locks qualifies as DFK, albeit of the GFE variety. Thoughts?
According to the forum abbreviations LFK is light face kissing. Obviously a big difference. LFK can include just kissing on the lips too imo. You are right on about DFK.
[QUOTE=WraithOfGod;1979785]This has probably been hashed through before, but what, in your opinion, is the difference between DFK and LFK? My mongering buddy and I were discussing this while comparing providers. To him, DFK means spittle going everywhere. And yeah, that obviously counts. For me, though, tongues curling in each other's mouths more than mere lip-locks qualifies as DFK, albeit of the GFE variety. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]
So I don't know if I'm just bored, or mentally not in it anymore. I'm horny. But hitting AMPs, or visiting escorts just ain't doing it for me anymore. I don't think its the quality of service. Because I think the girls now do a lot more then they did when I first started to mongering. Now BBBJ is common place. As much as I'd want some BBFS. Just not from a working girl.
It's not the money, and I know its probably the fun of the chase. But I have much more fun with freebies. No clock to think of. Not like I last an hour sometimes. We have some great girls here. I think of them. But when I clear my schedule up, pull the cash into my wallet. I'm just like Fuck It maybe tomorrow. I was feeling that before I hurt my back. So taking that time off. I don't know if I just got really over mongering or not. This past weekend I had some fun, and today I want some follow up fucking. Feeling kinda meh. I don't know. I know some of you have been doing it much longer then me. This normal?
[QUOTE=PokGai;1980287]So I don't know if I'm just bored, or mentally not in it anymore. I'm horny. But hitting AMPs, or visiting escorts just ain't doing it for me anymore. I don't think its the quality of service. Because I think the girls now do a lot more then they did when I first started to mongering. Now BBBJ is common place. As much as I'd want some BBFS. Just not from a working girl.
It's not the money, and I know its probably the fun of the chase. But I have much more fun with freebies. No clock to think of. Not like I last an hour sometimes. We have some great girls here. I think of them. But when I clear my schedule up, pull the cash into my wallet. I'm just like Fuck It maybe tomorrow. I was feeling that before I hurt my back. So taking that time off. I don't know if I just got really over mongering or not. This past weekend I had some fun, and today I want some follow up fucking. Feeling kinda meh. I don't know. I know some of you have been doing it much longer then me. This normal?[/QUOTE]Hmm Pok Gai, sounds like sex is just sex! Maybe a little of that other stuff that normally you'd get as a result of having sex...with one and the same person. You know that hour or so that you'd have to wait in order for you to just get up and hit the surf or the gym or get some lunch, cause you got to have a considerate heart if you want to keep her around, can't be just dissapearing for a day or so, well without a dam good reason. Yeah but then you get the stuff that makes it worth while, like going home to an occupied house, waking up and sharing thoughts with the one who knows you best, having your day littered with thoughts about her, going around and doing things with her in mind, sex wasn't made for well...going home to an empty house, waking up and hiding your thoughts and feelings, having your day littered with thoughts of sex and lustful thinking and of course going around and doing thing with only you in mind. Weird is I went from loving to just sex please, you may be the other way around, where ever you're at, if you find yourself thinking meh, go with it, it only becomes a problem when you struggle with it, when you can't accept it, that's always, always the problem, it's in you and no one else, good thing is, you only need you for the solution!
[QUOTE=PokGai;1980287]So I don't know if I'm just bored, or mentally not in it anymore. I'm horny. But hitting AMPs, or visiting escorts just ain't doing it for me anymore. I don't think its the quality of service. Because I think the girls now do a lot more then they did when I first started to mongering. Now BBBJ is common place. As much as I'd want some BBFS. Just not from a working girl.
It's not the money, and I know its probably the fun of the chase. But I have much more fun with freebies. No clock to think of. Not like I last an hour sometimes. We have some great girls here. I think of them. But when I clear my schedule up, pull the cash into my wallet. I'm just like Fuck It maybe tomorrow. I was feeling that before I hurt my back. So taking that time off. I don't know if I just got really over mongering or not. This past weekend I had some fun, and today I want some follow up fucking. Feeling kinda meh. I don't know. I know some of you have been doing it much longer then me. This normal?[/QUOTE]I think what you going through is normal. When you know you going get, there's is no excitement. Become boring.
[QUOTE=LowlysOne;1980388]Hmm Pok Gai, sounds like sex is just sex! Maybe a little of that other stuff that normally you'd get as a result of having sex...with one and the same person. You know that hour or so that you'd have to wait in order for you to just get up and hit the surf or the gym or get some lunch, cause you got to have a considerate heart if you want to keep her around, can't be just dissapearing for a day or so, well without a dam good reason. Yeah but then you get the stuff that makes it worth while, like going home to an occupied house, waking up and sharing thoughts with the one who knows you best, having your day littered with thoughts about her, going around and doing things with her in mind, sex wasn't made for well...going home to an empty house, waking up and hiding your thoughts and feelings, having your day littered with thoughts of sex and lustful thinking and of course going around and doing thing with only you in mind. Weird is I went from loving to just sex please, you may be the other way around, where ever you're at, if you find yourself thinking meh, go with it, it only becomes a problem when you struggle with it, when you can't accept it, that's always, always the problem, it's in you and no one else, good thing is, you only need you for the solution![/QUOTE]I think I'm at the just sex please phase. I mean seriously. Isn't that why we pay them? Ok yes, 90% its for sex. But the other 10% For me it is, I don't want to hear her problems or deal with the other stuffs. Already do that at home. I just find it so boring now. You think it's lower Testosterone? I know we talked about it before. I mean I still get horny, I can get it up no problem. It's really just boring. I was replying to a PM to someone, and thinking about your post. Maybe it is a problem. Maybe I'm chasing the wrong kinda high / fun?
If you find your horniness waning a bit you might look into the supplement Maca. It's a South American herb that I've read about but haven't found myself in need of yet. If you try it and like it let us know.
[QUOTE=PokGai;1980455]I think I'm at the just sex please phase. I mean seriously. Isn't that why we pay them? Ok yes, 90% its for sex. But the other 10% For me it is, I don't want to hear her problems or deal with the other stuffs. Already do that at home. I just find it so boring now. You think it's lower Testosterone? I know we talked about it before. I mean I still get horny, I can get it up no problem. It's really just boring. I was replying to a PM to someone, and thinking about your post. Maybe it is a problem. Maybe I'm chasing the wrong kinda high / fun?[/QUOTE]Well testosterone could be, only say this cause you couldn't rule it out, which means could be a whole bunch of other stuff too, what could you really rule out. But if it were that, it would be so subtle that you hardly ever notice it, I'm sure there are a few who are victims but don't even notice it. I can say this cause (was never diagnosed with low testtosterone) after use of P.E. Drugs for some time then you decide to clean out, that's when you can really tell the difference, from having so much in you then you stop, then after about a month or two, I prolly could be diagnosed as low testosterone as my body struggles to kick start itself into producing adequete levels of testosterone but in that time you do notice a change in body (and I mean not just physically but mentally and spiritually, weird changes, but if you don't pay close attention you'll never be able to see it or put the reason to it), to the inexperienced he'd just notice he's gotten softer physically, not as motivaded mentally (he might think am I depressed, he's bewilderd) and sex as just a novelty (of course before it was almost an obsession) not that he doesn't still frequently think of sex or things as related to sex, no that didn't change for me but the change was I didn't give it as much power in decesions and doings. Spiritually wasnt or didn't feel as content, like I should be doing more, discontent basically. So if that sounds exactly or pretty close then maybe, you know these things I experienced had to happen many times before I realized that's the effect of low testosterone, first few times it was just "I hate cycling off, I feel shitty", then after a while I started to put a finger on what "feeling shitty" really was. So I can't imagine a guy whos never done P.E. (and having to go through these changes in morph speeds) realizing that low T., is what I'm going through, he would have to go through these changes over years and decades and even then, when changes become apparent, would he come up with low T., here's something to think about to, even if you are low T (diagnosed as such by docs), the treatment for low T. Is to prescribe to you P.E.'s, idk that the solution to the problem would leave you worse off then if you'd done nothing, imo, like I said earlier, acceptance with what is (you getting older, you not the same, changes are real, but misery, discontent, "trying to be the same as was before", that's optional, always was and always will be, don't buy into that) will always work, where earthly and humanly solutions won't!
[QUOTE=PokGai;1980287]So I don't know if I'm just bored, or mentally not in it anymore. I'm horny. But hitting AMPs, or visiting escorts just ain't doing it for me anymore. I don't think its the quality of service. Because I think the girls now do a lot more then they did when I first started to mongering. Now BBBJ is common place. As much as I'd want some BBFS. Just not from a working girl.
It's not the money, and I know its probably the fun of the chase. But I have much more fun with freebies. No clock to think of. Not like I last an hour sometimes. We have some great girls here. I think of them. But when I clear my schedule up, pull the cash into my wallet. I'm just like Fuck It maybe tomorrow. I was feeling that before I hurt my back. So taking that time off. I don't know if I just got really over mongering or not. This past weekend I had some fun, and today I want some follow up fucking. Feeling kinda meh. I don't know. I know some of you have been doing it much longer then me. This normal?[/QUOTE]Braddah Pok Gai.
I know how you feel. I went through spurts of mongering "binging" then saying ahh F it, save the money, stay home with the SO. For me personally I think its the freshness, the newness, of some stranger or provider that makes my boto go boing! Honestly, I can say most new providers I do them 2-3 times then get the feeling of meh, go back home or save money. I know how you feel. Is it normal? I think so. Different strokes for different folks. I'm sure there are guys who monger constantly who are single. Or married. Or those who don't partake in the hobby at all. All depends. You hurting your back is major though, and that's probably one of the factors too. Hard to enjoy when you cannot experience full pleasure when your back is auwe. Just my two cents.
H.
[QUOTE=PokGai;1980287]So I don't know if I'm just bored, or mentally not in it anymore. I'm horny. But hitting AMPs, or visiting escorts just ain't doing it for me anymore. I don't think its the quality of service. Because I think the girls now do a lot more then they did when I first started to mongering. Now BBBJ is common place. As much as I'd want some BBFS. Just not from a working girl.
It's not the money, and I know its probably the fun of the chase. But I have much more fun with freebies. No clock to think of. Not like I last an hour sometimes. We have some great girls here. I think of them. But when I clear my schedule up, pull the cash into my wallet. I'm just like Fuck It maybe tomorrow. I was feeling that before I hurt my back. So taking that time off. I don't know if I just got really over mongering or not. This past weekend I had some fun, and today I want some follow up fucking. Feeling kinda meh. I don't know. I know some of you have been doing it much longer then me. This normal?[/QUOTE]Maybe you just need a break to think and reflect what you priorities in life are. You can request to your doctor to take a blood test for your testosterone level. If it's below the minimum, they can prescribe medication. If it's slightly above the minimum, you can go to various MDs, that will legally prescribe RX for you. It also may be your back because of all the nerves in you spinal column. It also doesn't hurt to pray and seek personal professional advice. There is nothing "wrong" with you. Yes, you are normal. Take care.
A question for any of you guys who have gone out with working girls. If it ends up in the sack what is etiquette? Would it be considered a freebie? Should I leave something inconspicuously? Bring her a gift on the next visit? Wouldn't want to jeopardize future visits or insult her in any way. Curious to see your replies.
[QUOTE=PokGai;1980287]So I don't know if I'm just bored, or mentally not in it anymore. I'm horny. But hitting AMPs, or visiting escorts just ain't doing it for me anymore. I don't think its the quality of service. Because I think the girls now do a lot more then they did when I first started to mongering. Now BBBJ is common place. As much as I'd want some BBFS. Just not from a working girl.
It's not the money, and I know its probably the fun of the chase. But I have much more fun with freebies. No clock to think of. Not like I last an hour sometimes. We have some great girls here. I think of them. But when I clear my schedule up, pull the cash into my wallet. I'm just like Fuck It maybe tomorrow. I was feeling that before I hurt my back. So taking that time off. I don't know if I just got really over mongering or not. This past weekend I had some fun, and today I want some follow up fucking. Feeling kinda meh. I don't know. I know some of you have been doing it much longer then me. This normal?[/QUOTE]I think it's a combination of it being mental and physical. It's normal to eventually get bored because the AMPs can be routine and predictable if you've been doing it long enough to a point where you know what to expect. There's no mystery. In time, you're not as excited compared to when you first started and was new to it. The issue with time is also a factor. You can't chill / relax, take your time, let the excitement build and then boink the girl when you worry about the time running out.
As you get older, your testosterone levels do decrease overtime but, it's not the main reason and it has to be this way. Your responsibilities in life / habit / lifestyle may change as you get older. If you're a heavy smoker, drinker not active and your diet isn't all that healthy, then it will affect your testosterone and your performance level. But, if there's changes and adjustments made, the testosterone levels can be increased.
I think what also helps is when you have that attraction going on that gets you excited. You get turned on by the girl in someway. On top of that, you are in a better mental / physical condition where you're more primed and ready to go. You won't feel as bored when both your mind and body are in a better condition.
[QUOTE=HiLife808;1981255]A question for any of you guys who have gone out with working girls. If it ends up in the sack what is etiquette? Would it be considered a freebie? Should I leave something inconspicuously? Bring her a gift on the next visit? Wouldn't want to jeopardize future visits or insult her in any way. Curious to see your replies.[/QUOTE]It would all depend on where the "sack" is located. If back to at the AMP. Paid. If your space or hotel. Freebie. Honestly, it depends on you and the lady.
I have gone out and ended up the evening with them in bed in the past (prior to being a member here). If you do, don't post about it here. I guarantee she will find out about it. But the occasion should be treated just like a date. I treated them as if she were my new girlfriend, after all they are human beings and you are dealing with emotions now, not just a client / servicer relationship anymore.
Once, the very next day afterwards, I had sent one lady an edible arrangement (it is not too expensive and rare enough that she probably has not gotten it before). Basically, it is fruit cut nicely into the shape of flowers and some chocolate-dipped strawberries in the mix with a message something to the effect of "Thank for the time together. I really enjoyed it. Can't wait to see you again." The last part left it open for another date or an AMP visit. And I just waited to see how she responded (that was the longest day of my life), which was to go out again. Don't call her and ask if she got it. If she doesn't mention it when you see her the next time (which would be your usual trip to the AMP), then bring it up. Also, keep in mind, you have to feel what you are saying. Don't lie to them, as she will pick it up. The fruit bouquet looked great and tasted better. It was enough to share and say "look what I got." The other providers were a little jealous. Just remember, you are not doing this because you got a freebie, but because you like her and she likes you.
But, hey, everyone is different..that's just me and it worked for me.