Don't out yourself like that.
[QUOTE=Anony352;6431978]Hi everyone,
I am looking for some opinions. I got into this hobby fairly recently and I had never thought of FT verification as a bad thing. I have come across some posts / comments that seem to be very vocally against FT, so I wanted to know why that might be. Does LE use FT for incriminating evidence? Is it just a matter of privacy? I never really gave it much thought and I guess I have been lucky that it has worked out for me the couple of times that I have done it. Is FT verification a good way to tell if a provider is legit or would they ever do FT verification with some random girl to set up something like a sting?
I just want to know if I should be making wiser decisions or if I am just being paranoid now and it is mostly a preference for some.
Any input is welcome, thanks![/QUOTE]I don't know what your life circumstances are, but if you have any ambition in life, do NOT ever out yourself like that. If you're not careful, it will catch up to you. Think Stormy Daniels and Donald Trump.
I do not do FaceTime verification or anything like that. You don't know if the person on the other end is going to screenshot or record that conversation! You want to know if a provider is legit, have your Spidey senses on high alert at all times, even for those ladies that you eventually "trust" and have a rapport with. Unless you end up impregnating one of them or take them out of this life, they will only care about one thing: $$ Hell, even if you impregnate them or take them out of this life, it's still about the $$$ because how else are they going to be supported?
Also, always think with the big head, not the little head. When you two meet and she's not what she says she is, WALK AWAY! That's the only thing you can control. Do NOT let the little head take over and get subpar service. She needs you more than you need her. Trust me. They do. You can find pussy. That will never end. But money, they only have a finite amount of time before their good looks disappear.
I never screen, at least not with my real info. Again, if they ask for your driver's license, LinkedIn, anything that reveals your real identity, WALK AWAY. They always say they have to verify for their own safety. Well, where's my safety? I don't give a damn that they delete the info. You want my real info, lady? Earn my trust first.
Finally, never, ever give a deposit. The most I will do is provide proof I have the funds when we meet. I refuse to leave the funds in an envelope. The minute you give in and do any of these things, they hold all of the power. Then, you'll end up regretting it. I'd rather regret not seeing a lady and have my money in my pockets than to be out some cheddar for sorry ass service.
This is the best we can do
Many times, we ask for discounts, and it goes wrong. So, I try to pay well for a good service, and I never do badly, on the contrary they treat me like a prince, I am a regular celebrity with several girls, because I am young, and I have money. But some good advice was given to me by an expert man who is always with the best. You have to be careful in places when they are not private, (hotels) because they are watching women, there are many traveling, and they want to arrest them along with their clients hotel lovers beware!