Don't knock it Until You've tried it.
Afterall this is a job for them, "these professional sex workers are in it for the money, or green cards. " Some and not all have performed Oscar nominated performances or the AVN awards.
Chemistry does play in the role after all we are all humans.
These women have their standards in looks, but money does speak louder than words.
I have dated some of them and finding things to talk about besides the "incredible" sex is challenging enough.
Most of them if not all have said they don't like the sex, it's a job.
In closing, I agree with MK - "Don't kid yourself otherwise no matter how sweet and charming she is and the sex is out of this world. She's a professional sex worker, you are a client. ".
[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;7479649]It's great you built a connection and getting a better menu. It seems like you have good chemistry.
Realize almost to no exception these professional sex workers are in it for the money, or green cards. When it works well it feels close to a GF or a F with benefits situation, but they want money. They want a good regular customer who treats them nice, a sucker who pays too much, or a sugar daddy of sorts, or a man who is going to take care of them. When you connect you become a candidate for one of those roles.
I'd keep to meeting at the spa for a long a time as you get acquainted. If you want to meet out of the spa, I'd never do that in public, unless you are single, or be able to explain the situation to anyone who may see you. Be aware someone may see you but you don't see them, and people do talk. Especially if it's a juicy secret about someone else. I'd never take a PSW to my home.
Over time and visits you'll get a better feeling as to her intentions. Keep your personal information personal, and don't answer questions. I've noticed that as soon as you seem like a good long term resource to them the questions start coming. They are interviewing you for the job of taking care of them. They pay attention to how you dress, what you drive (seeing your car key is a clue, I've had some peek out as I drove away), and if they see your home (be it house or apt / condo etc) they get an idea of your wealth-earning potential. Even the innocent question of asking what you do for work can be one way they find out if you have money or not too.
Nothing wrong with taking it slow and keeping all the action at the spa. If she insists on meeting away from the spa, a clandestine rendezvous at her place or hotel is all I'd suggest. Even that can be a test she uses to find out if you are single or not. If you can meet in public without any issues then you may be single and she knows there is no other woman in your life.
Back to what I said, know that they are in it for the money. Don't kid yourself otherwise no matter how sweet and charming she is and the sex is out of this world. She's a professional sex worker, you are a client.
Just sharing some thoughts, hope it helps.
Max.
P.S. If she ever asks for a "loan" or money to fix her car, pay her rent, or help with an emergency, run away as fast and far as you can.[/QUOTE]
Feedback On Special Relationship
Thanks for all the feedback and advice!
So far we are only meeting at the spa she works at, and only on the days she normally has off. Usually I ask to meet at times that are normally slow, so we are not competing for rooms.
And so far there is no requests from her for anything, though she did show me a pic of a wind proof jacket and asked if I would buy it for her, but I didn't bite. And I did bring her a small box of chocolates to see what she thought.
She is definitely enjoying what I bring to the table for her, and I'm OK with what she brings, but intrigued by the personal connection we have made, so I'm going to have a talk with her about reciprocity.
First Requests are Usually Small
[QUOTE=PfiftySoCal;7505626]Thanks for all the feedback and advice!
So far we are only meeting at the spa she works at, and only on the days she normally has off. Usually I ask to meet at times that are normally slow, so we are not competing for rooms.
And so far there is no requests from her for anything, though she did show me a pic of a wind proof jacket and asked if I would buy it for her, but I didn't bite. And I did bring her a small box of chocolates to see what she thought.
She is definitely enjoying what I bring to the table for her, and I'm OK with what she brings, but intrigued by the personal connection we have made, so I'm going to have a talk with her about reciprocity.[/QUOTE]So you want her to buy you a "windproof jacket?" Just kidding.
That request was a start small request. And good that you didn't bite. If you had the next request would have been a little bigger. She will ask for something again as she see your attachment grow.
That was a clue to her intentions, she wants resources from you, either money directly, or gifts. Now you know.
Time to take extra care, unless you want to go there.
