Totally Mthrf&king confused
Okay I am a straight shooter. Don't care how passionate a woman is although passion and getting into it big time is what I look for but NO WOMAN should stand a guy or guys up without explanation. Don't care how hot she is, how selective she is, or how many "selective" clients she has. Ladies of all needs post "if you are going to cancel please call and let me know" Right? They also post "don't waste my time with endless texts, contacts, emails, or calls" Right? So if a woman stands you up without explanation but you still love her and she is your all time favorite even though some of say you HAVE NEVER seen her, what the h*ll does that say about you? Geez just give me your wallet forget about the service. No man or woman should stand each other up without explanation, either by post, call, PM or whatever means of communication. If they do anyway, their name should be mud until they give explanation. Plain and simple. This is a service. If you agree to meet and it doesn't happen, explanations are in order, private or public. If the lady still refuses, BLAST her publicly. No woman is so hot she can afford to make a date then blow off a guy without explanation. SAME GOES for a man. Quit the sniveling and justifying and support. We love the ladies because they provide us with what we are looking for whatever that may be. They also depend on what we have for their needs whatever they may be. We are symbiotic in our relationships. Fact is this. We set the rates because there are a ton of women out there who will meet our needs at what we can afford. The trick is to find a lady or ladies who will meet our needs then be loyal to them and quit moving from skirt to skirt like dog in heat unless you want to waste time bargaining which is a PITA. But never support a guy or a provider who makes a date then blows you off without explanation NO MATTER who you are and never support a woman who thinks she is so hot she treats you like dirt when you tell her you can't meet her needs. We all have our limits on resources, needs and giving. Just my opinion and sorry if I wrankled anyones fur, male or female. Without your word or an explanation you have nothing in this male or female. Plain and simple.
Abby Amour: Profile in BAD CUSTOMER SERVICE
Saw Abby today and feel compelled to share how badly I was treated.
First she texts me while I'm driving to let me know where to meet her, forcing me to BREAK INDIANA LAW to reply.
Then she distracts me behind the wheel by calling to say the hotel won't let her check in yet. She excuses this outrage by claiming concern for my time, but I know what she's up to. The longer we talk, the more likely I am to DRIVE MY CAR INTO A DITCH. I'm onto her wily ways, however, so I hang up quickly and steer clear of her siren song.
Minutes later I'm enjoying an iced coffee and my phone rings. It's Abby."Oh my god, I'm sitting in this lobby still waiting for them to give me a room." So we chat and laugh for awhile, and I almost believe she's making an effort to pass the time with me while we wait. Then I remember Abby's snake-in-the-grass nature and quietly wonder if she's poisoned my drink.
Finally, a room number pops up on my phone, and I tell her I'm on my way. Yadda yadda yadda, it's 90 minutes later and I'm headed to my car exhausted and exhilarated. But I can't shake this bad feeling. She agreed to 60 minutes, but gave me 90. See what I mean? Tells you one thing, but does another. Typical.
Take it from me fellas. She's NO DAMN GOOD.
Autumn Skyy sarcasm at it's worst
Had contacted Autumn previously about a meeting and received an email yesterday from Ms Skyy stating she had lowered her rates to see me which was greatly appreciated by me. However I had previously contacted a lady I had known for almost a decade who is high quality and was looking for a long range hook up at a previously decided rate if I would see her excusively while in Indiana and we agreed on her offer and the deal was done. When I thanked Ms Skyy for her contact and generous offer, and informed her of my agreement with another lady, she responded, when you get tired of McDonalds you can come to St. Elmos meaning her. I responded I found her email testy and in poor taste she stated I didn't understand her humor. Ladies most of us aren't born under a rock and we realize you like to keep customers. However, if we can find a lady to meet our needs who is quality at a lower rate, then sarcastic assed commentary is neither warranted or appreciated. I personally will not contact Ms Skyy again and find her response low and without class as she did not know who I would be seeing and then tried to pass it off as humor when it was actually an insult to both me and an unknown provider. Ladies we have a right to choose who we see to meet our needs and ladies have a right to choose who they see also. No insults are necessary. Sorry but her response was classless.
Toung-in-cheek humor (Or wherever else she wants to put it.)
Wow, sorry you had such a terrible experience. (Hope my first experience with Abby is just as bad!)
[QUOTE=Cineaste33; 1252945]Saw Abby today and feel compelled to share how badly I was treated.
First she texts me while I'm driving to let me know where to meet her, forcing me to BREAK INDIANA LAW to reply.
Then she distracts me behind the wheel by calling to say the hotel won't let her check in yet. She excuses this outrage by claiming concern for my time, but I know what she's up to. The longer we talk, the more likely I am to DRIVE MY CAR INTO A DITCH. I'm onto her wily ways, however, so I hang up quickly and steer clear of her siren song.
Minutes later I'm enjoying an iced coffee and my phone rings. It's Abby."Oh my god, I'm sitting in this lobby still waiting for them to give me a room." So we chat and laugh for awhile, and I almost believe she's making an effort to pass the time with me while we wait. Then I remember Abby's snake-in-the-grass nature and quietly wonder if she's poisoned my drink.
Finally, a room number pops up on my phone, and I tell her I'm on my way. Yadda yadda yadda, it's 90 minutes later and I'm headed to my car exhausted and exhilarated. But I can't shake this bad feeling. She agreed to 60 minutes, but gave me 90. See what I mean? Tells you one thing, but does another. Typical.
Take it from me fellas. She's NO DAMN GOOD.[/QUOTE]
WhooooooooooooSSSSSSSSSSHHHHHHHHH!
[QUOTE=Tonto2037;1253223]I am not sure this even deserves a response but I had to share your humor in your worry about breaking the law by texting while driving and yet meeting with Abby under the circumstances you describe are not a cause to worry about breaking the law? I just find it interesting, even humorous. You go on to say "She's NO DAMN GOOD" and while I have never met the lady, I am sure she is probably "DAMN GOOD"! Or at least as I read the majority of the post here. Sure there are some who disagree but they really are the minority. Everyone has a right to opinions and that is what we read most here. I have been reading the post regarding Abby and since I am a "glass half full" guy; I give her and all the ladies a break; they have bad days just like I do and I bet in this industry, there are more bad days than good. I understand that there are no excuses for some treatment but I think 90 minutes with Abby when it should have only been 60 even with what you went through is a "REAL DEAL" or make-up most on here would take, even those that have said not so good things about her. I have a little motto in this hobby about the ladies and that is "They're all good, some are just better"! I know some will disagree with that statement but, what the hell? We all make our decisions based on our bias of any given topic; given our bias are all different, we all make different decisions. Proper perspective and proper attitude make all the difference in making a good or bad day and that goes for both the provider and the hobbyist. I really don't know whether Abby is "NO DAMN GOOD" or is "DAMN GOOD", to be sure, but I know whatever I want her to be will go a long way in what she will be to me and I feel that is true of the other ladies that we see. It is always fun to read all the banter and opinions on here and one thing for certain is that it should always make us take pause and just be thankful that we can even discuss it, partake of it and most of all have FUN with it. So have FUN! Breaking the law? Be careful out there![/QUOTE]Right over your head man, right over your head. I guess I could be wrong, but I think that was a huge load of sarcasm you just fell for.
TA2
Point well taken and filed for future use
[QUOTE=West Central;1253355]Without being fully aware of the context (perhaps there was some aggravating circumstance) , I don't think I would have taken the comment as seriously as you did. It does come across as a little catty, but knowing how vicious these girls can be sometimes (strippers are even worse) that comment in itself would have gotten a different response from me. Probably something along the lines of "I hear with the bad economy, even St. Elmo's is running specials."[/QUOTE]It seems like a number of ladies take offense when a man finds a lady who wishes to reward his loyalty with a good scale. Some get worse as you said and that is unfortunate also but ladies need to realize it is a lousy economy and just as we look for accommodations for our resources, they need to be flexible if possible on their needs and move on if it is not within their abilities to do so without catty commentary. Thanks for the pointers WC. Much appreciated.