Better than becoming a pedo
It is much better for everybody if the ministers and pastors vent their "steam" out with the help of providers rather than trying their "skills" on hapless kids.
[QUOTE=Chelli4me;1249433]From those little baskets they pass around during services![/QUOTE]
Pointers / newbie friendly girls
I'm new to the site and the hobby. After a couple weeks of reading here and at another site I had just about decided to try giving Jenny a call because I'd read she's newbie friendly. Then I see Ilapp's bait and switch report from yesterday in the BackPage Advertiser review thread here on the site. Combined with Minionruler's report in this thread and the recent press link here about IPD cracking down I'm honestly skittish about starting out. I guess like everyone, I have dual concerns of being busted by LE or my wife. Everything I've read indicates to be smart and research the girls and I'll be fine, but reliably reviewed girls need references / screening. How do you safely start if the safe girls require previous experience? Do you just need to take chances with a couple of unknowns to build up contacts?
Chicken and Egg question again
I have asked the same question to myself and possibly to this board. IMO. You got to take the plunge and start building a score card. Some of the BP providers will take you in without screening. Now which providers, that you got to try the ones reviewed here, so you know for sure they are legit. They usually have two phone numbers an ad phone, to be shared with world, then their other phone, which they use to maintain contact with the circle. Once you get to see them and things go well. Get their alternate number with permission and ask them if they could be a reference for you. Also report back to this board on how the sessions went. Along with LEOs, few providers also read the posts here and your posts link can be given to providers as a reference. You will get turned down several times, and thats part of the coming of age. If you are persistent and loyal to this forum, you would also develop a friend circle of senior members who will then give you guidance and help.
Thanks.
Tony.
[QUOTE=CobaltD;1249924]I'm new to the site and the hobby. After a couple weeks of reading here and at another site I had just about decided to try giving Jenny a call because I'd read she's newbie friendly. Then I see Ilapp's bait and switch report from yesterday in the BackPage Advertiser review thread here on the site. Combined with Minionruler's report in this thread and the recent press link here about IPD cracking down I'm honestly skittish about starting out. I guess like everyone, I have dual concerns of being busted by LE or my wife. Everything I've read indicates to be smart and research the girls and I'll be fine, but reliably reviewed girls need references / screening. How do you safely start if the safe girls require previous experience? Do you just need to take chances with a couple of unknowns to build up contacts?[/QUOTE]