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[QUOTE=BiggDaddi;5004328]This is very intriguing. How in the hell did she connect the dots??[/QUOTE]But it's really not that hard. The number one rule to avoid it is DO NOT EVER SYNC ANYTHING TO YOUR DEVICE, EVER!

The other thing is, there is a site out there, I think it's one of the reddit subgroups, not sure, but girls use it to share information about sugar / salt daddies. Similar I guess, to what we use this thread for. So it could something as simple as someone he knows / trusts on there, thinking she's helping him or someone else out by sharing his real name or number and then BOOM! Google does the rest.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4357f26c-2242-4b11-8f85-3750f7f7f55c[/URL]

Got her # and we texted. I asked what she wanted to do and she said.

"Anything but sex and I do paid per meet".

I just ghosted her. Smh.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5004028]So had some great comms with this one and was setting up a meet and greet but because of a bad relationship needed to be super discreet. Told her no problem and moved to text and exchanged pics to verify one another. She said she had 15 pics she wanted to send but could only send that many to an email address so I gave her my proton emal address. The following is what showed up. "Well REAL NAME, do you want your wife to know you've been paying for affairs? And do you want to inform your son that you pay women the age of his wife for sex?? Don't try and block me or ignore me. You can pay to keep this hidden or I will tell them if you don't reply in 20 minutes. She wanted $750, I told them do what you to do and while your at it go fuck yourself. I never use my real name, don't have facebook but my family does. She immeaditly blocked me, and 10 min later my son called telling me he just got a crazy message from someone trying to get him to send 200.00 to keep from sending what she sent which was the same pictures and screenshots of all our messages. I didn't have a clue what he was talking about but told him don't pay it, he said its a common scam and it happened to all his men when he was in afganistan so he just wanted to give me a heads up he deleted and blocked. Sure enough my wife then called to tell me what's going, I wasnt worried becauce we do sometimes open our marriage but I said yes our son called and said he got one to but its an extortion scam and to delete and block. That was that, but I having a clue where they got all this info on me other then my pics and I don't show up in pic reversals. Thankfully I never mentioned the word sex. I ended up deleting my account. Just wanted to give everyone a heads up and if her account is still open please report her, if this happened to someone elese it could of destroyed someones family![/QUOTE]If you sent any pics to her, she could have looked them up on Google, same way we check to see if pics of a girl are fake. That's one reason I NEVER use real pics on my profile. Not happening.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;5004885][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4357f26c-2242-4b11-8f85-3750f7f7f55c[/URL]

Got her # and we texted. I asked what she wanted to do and she said.

"Anything but sex and I do paid per meet".

I just ghosted her. Smh.[/QUOTE]Always cracks me up when they use a profile pic like that and then, as her profile says, non romantic meet ups LOL.

Smh is right. Sadly, there are dolts out there paying for their company, so that keeps them around. Ugh.

Next!

Wow! At least you have some wiggle room in your real life. This is why you NEVER mix real life with sugar life. Pix, phone numbers, email addresses, SA accounts and forms of payment need to have unique user names that you have NEVER used for anything else. In the past six months, I've been able to ferret out FB accounts for every SB I've seen, most before I've seen her. All I need is a first name, city where she lives and type of work she does. If she gives me a phone number or email account, I've got it. I use that to confirm what she's told me, never try to connect on social media, but you see what I mean? In sugar life, EVERYTHING must be unique to your sugar life if you wish to remain anonymous.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5004028]So had some great comms with this one and was setting up a meet and greet but because of a bad relationship needed to be super discreet. Told her no problem and moved to text and exchanged pics to verify one another. She said she had 15 pics she wanted to send but could only send that many to an email address so I gave her my proton emal address. The following is what showed up. "Well REAL NAME, do you want your wife to know you've been paying for affairs? And do you want to inform your son that you pay women the age of his wife for sex?? Don't try and block me or ignore me. You can pay to keep this hidden or I will tell them if you don't reply in 20 minutes. She wanted $750, I told them do what you to do and while your at it go fuck yourself. I never use my real name, don't have facebook but my family does. She immediately blocked me, and 10 min later my son called telling me he just got a crazy message from someone trying to get him to send 200.00 to keep from sending what she sent which was the same pictures and screenshots of all our messages. I didn't have a clue what he was talking about but told him don't pay it, he said its a common scam and it happened to all his men when he was in afganistan so he just wanted to give me a heads up he deleted and blocked. Sure enough my wife then called to tell me what's going, I wasnt worried becauce we do sometimes open our marriage but I said yes our son called and said he got one to but its an extortion scam and to delete and block. That was that, but I having a clue where they got all this info on me other then my pics and I don't show up in pic reversals. Thankfully I never mentioned the word sex. I ended up deleting my account. Just wanted to give everyone a heads up and if her account is still open please report her, if this happened to someone elese it could of destroyed someones family![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Scooter6;5005506]Always cracks me up when they use a profile pic like that and then, as her profile says, non romantic meet ups LOL.

Smh is right. Sadly, there are dolts out there paying for their company, so that keeps them around. Ugh.

Next![/QUOTE]I ghosted her after seeing of her face. Yikes.

[QUOTE=Hal1957;5005596]Wow! At least you have some wiggle room in your real life. This is why you NEVER mix real life with sugar life. Pix, phone numbers, email addresses, SA accounts and forms of payment need to have unique user names that you have NEVER used for anything else. In the past six months, I've been able to ferret out FB accounts for every SB I've seen, most before I've seen her. All I need is a first name, city where she lives and type of work she does. If she gives me a phone number or email account, I've got it. I use that to confirm what she's told me, never try to connect on social media, but you see what I mean? In sugar life, EVERYTHING must be unique to your sugar life if you wish to remain anonymous.[/QUOTE]I was trying to figure out how they got my info and the only thing I can think of is when I first started I used my real info because I wasnt thinking that I would actually ever meet anyone. It was a lets check it out thing but that was years ago and since than learned and changed everything, the photos they had were really old but lesson learned.

So like 5 months ago we made contact (text only). Then she ghosted me. 2 memberships later. She meets me for drinks. Gorgeous girl, drives a lexus, red dress and drinks go great, we even kiss after. However, using all the game I have, I was not able to get her back to my place after. Since then I got some sporadic text, but flaked on our next meet and since then ghosted once again.

To me, This is the one that got away and I'm hoping to one of you fine gentlemen had better luck than me. If so, please share the details and allowance she agreed to. Have any of you guys met with her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/66dd0fa3-78a4-4cc0-8c12-1a5f2d9bd1a6[/URL]

- DonJon.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/43dbb726-9550-471a-acc5-b695a5b85774[/URL]

This one is a "single mom who needs cash up front to pay for gas and a babysitter". I swear the unoriginality in the excuses for wanting money without doing anything is astounding. It's like they went to school together and they all learned the first lesson and all follow the same playbook. When I told "her" no, just crickets. Pass. Block.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5006018]I was trying to figure out how they got my info and the only thing I can think of is when I first started I used my real info because I wasnt thinking that I would actually ever meet anyone. It was a lets check it out thing but that was years ago and since than learned and changed everything, the photos they had were really old but lesson learned.[/QUOTE]Had a similar scare maybe three years ago now when I first got on SA. "Met" someone and the way she got in my head was pretty intense. A dominant type. Had me hooked pretty quick. Got totally sucked in. Started in email then to hangouts. It was thrilling actually. For a while the mental stimulation. But apparently my email was traceable to me and it turned to extortion. I know for some of us the risk can be intoxicating but it scares the hell out of me. My research said the best thing was to ignore and block. I did. Got found on social media and changed things there. Thank goodness whomever it was just went away.

Learned to be much more cautious. Be safe and don't succumb to the moment. However tempting it is.

[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;5003309]What was the damage for what you got?[/QUOTE]$60 and I was able to test her gag reflex. She has one, but seeing her eyes water just made it that much better.

I read previous reports allsmiles was a good ride so I gave her my contact info before my membership expired. Looks like she has not read it yet. Anybody seen her lately?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/971c0c24-e87b-1e83-8850-c3da05f59ff6[/URL]

Greeneyes904 messaged me but I can't read it since my membership is expired. Anybody seen or contacted her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3f36b3b6-df96-45b8-b4b8-79bc65e13d3f[/URL]

[QUOTE=FourSeasons2;5008307]I read previous reports allsmiles was a good ride so I gave her my contact info before my membership expired. Looks like she has not read it yet. Anybody seen her lately?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/971c0c24-e87b-1e83-8850-c3da05f59ff6[/URL]

Greeneyes904 messaged me but I can't read it since my membership is expired. Anybody seen or contacted her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3f36b3b6-df96-45b8-b4b8-79bc65e13d3f[/URL][/QUOTE]Looks like allsmiles has not logged in since September 24th.

Standard ask for Kik immediately and try to sell nudes.

[QUOTE=JohnSmith1855;5008408]Looks like allsmiles has not logged in since September 24th.[/QUOTE]She is active, and available.