Still basking in the glow
As I awoke this morning, the memories of yesterday came flooding back, and I just lay in bed for a minute or two with my eyes closed. I'm not sure yesterday can ever be equaled, much less surpassed. What now do I have to look forward to? Oh, more of the same would not be bad!
Vroom, thanks for your comments on the quality of my post. I would love a second career writing soft core porn, as it means that all my baby costs would be tax deductible, and I could explain to my SO that I was just doing research for a new book. Sweet!
Castle, I am certain Polo is a total amateur as well. The sugar amount was paltry compared to the quality time we spent together, and it never seemed to be of prime concern. I think she just really appreciated someone treating her with kindness. I truly hope the husband continues to be a douche bag, as I will certainly be the beneficiary. As for the deep pit you see me skirting, I agree. This is an issue that I have been trying to come to grips with for some time now, and it is a little like a pebble in my shoe. I am not always aware of it, but it is always there. I think understanding why she did what she did will make it easier for me to move forward with her in a more balanced way. It can play havoc with one's insecurities to have your 20 yo ATF suddenly ignore you when you are in your 50's, and you just don't know why.
We shall see, my brothers, what the future brings for both of these babies and me. At the moment, I'm just basking in thoughts of Monday passed.
Keep up the good work,
Scott
Now That's What I'm Talking 'about!
Long time listener, first time caller.
Greetings all! Let me start by giving a big thank you to the creators of this thread. I truly was eye opening.
I live in a smaller market, so I've focused my attention on a much larger area to the south. I'm only using SA for my search. So far I've met three young ladies.
The first was an art school student. Sexy, smart, uninhibited. Amazing sex and even better down time. We blew each other away which scared us to the point of calling it off. We still communicate intermittently.
Second was an incredibly hot, sexy 24 year old. Her goal is to be adored and desired. Not usually my type, but I'm glad we met. Insatiable is a good way to describe her. Within 30 seconds of the first time we met, she was on her knees unzipping me.
We still are in touch and have plans to keep seeing each other.
The third was just yesterday. Alt model. Tall, lean and slightly androgynous. And she has bright orange hair.
26 years old. Traveled the world. I was her first experience. Met her for lunch at an upscale steakhouse where every head turned when she walked in. I loved it. She was nervous, as was I. Had a decent lunch and a couple of drinks. Went upstairs to a very nice room to continue the fun. I took it slow until she pounced on me. Then, it was on. Everything and anything was available. Went through a three pack.
A few things I've learned on my own, as well as from this board, but mostly from a trusted friend here.
Treat these women with the utmost respect. Part of what I've come to love about this is that you have to seduce these babies, woo them. This is, in a sense, real dating. With a lot of the formalities taken out.
Talk sugar if needed. Don't lowball. Realize that this is not a sport for the frugal minded. I have my limit set for myself and if what they're looking for is too much, move on. I used to do the escort route. A typical good, good looking, well reviewed escort can set you back 3 to 4. For an hour. I have no problem investing that in a sexy baby and getting an eight hour date with her. To me, it's a no brainer.
Don't be afraid of rejection. If someone's profile interests you, send her a message. Even if what she is looking for is out of your range. Be honest with them. I've found that some good looks, some charm and honesty can go a long way. My confidence level grew after my first successful date, and that comes across in my approach to potentials. They want someone genuine. We all know there are probably a lot of time wasters doing this.
I like to communicate with potentials a bit before we even set something up, to see if there is chemistry. It could take a week or two. For me, it's an important step. I have no interest in meeting someone who may not be in to me. Also, inevitably it leads to a more sexual vibe. When it finally comes down to meeting, there's a good amount of sexual tension that we both know where it's headed.
Last thing. My experiences, thus far, have taught me that these babies, once you open them up and make them feel comfortable, will blow you away with their eagerness and desire.
Later.
Go Scott and welcome to the board Droo
This forum has to be one of the best ones on USASG when everything else is considered. I have to congratulate the contributors for their willingness to share ideas, details, techniques, and both successes and failures. I'm seeing more and more comradery and the forum ages, and really think I would hang out with most of you if I met you in a bar somewhere.
So enough of the gushy stuff, I really felt compelled to post to congratulate Scott and little Scotty for a fantastic double-header (no pun intended) yesterday and to moan a little more about not yet hitting paydirt on the one SB I have met so far that could convince me to continue in a LT relationship. Scott, sounds like you now have 2 that I would die for back in my fair city. I can't even find one. But the chase has been fun I have to admit.
Droo. Welcome buddy and I totally agree with your advice. Even when I was starting out in the SW scene years ago, I discovered that treating the lady well usually paid off tenfold. And if you are thinking you may be interested in a return visit, don't lowball. You will end up saving a few bucks, but will spend much more in trying to find a quality replacement for next time around. And the good ones are always worth a return visit because the sex can sometimes be even better the 2nd or 3rd time around.
I'm out of town all week but still playing the email game with my hot blond MILF that I am so fascinated with. She keeps returning my emails, but has excuse after excuse for not being able to meet again. I think that if I had absolutely no chance with her, she would have quit returning my pesky emails weeks ago, but she does keep just enough correspondence going to keep me on the line. I want in her panties so bad I can taste (and smell) it. Maybe I'm too infatuated with her, but she is by far the best potential SB I have met so far, and has all the right attributes to really push my hot buttons.
So keep up the good posts to all that have contributed. Life is too short too not live it to its fullest.
Alias
Time + patience + persistance = pussy
[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1397697]I really felt compelled to post to congratulate Scott and little Scotty for a fantastic double-header (no pun intended) yesterday and to moan a little more about not yet hitting paydirt on the one SB I have met so far that could convince me to continue in a LT relationship. Scott, sounds like you now have 2 that I would die for back in my fair city. I can't even find one. But the chase has been fun I have to admit.
Alias[/QUOTE]Alias,
I have been at this for well over a year, so don't get discouraged. I have walked, nay, run, down my share of blind alleys, believe me. Maybe we should all post up some of our most spectacular crash-and-burns just to keep things even.
If your hot blonde MILF never comes to the net, it does not mean that you are unworthy. Keep at it. It is as much the pursuit as the bedding.
Scott
Treat them all right, I say.
Droo,
You preach to the choir when you tell folks to treat the women right. Even on the p4p scene, a little common good manners goes a very long way to making the experience more than just another way to get your rocks off. I can't remember how many posts I've read from mongers who bragged about how they beat a provider down on her price, then in the next sentence they launched into a rant about how crappy the service was, guys, in one word or less: DDDUUUUUUHHHHHH! They should put themselves in her place for a second or two, and wonder how they'd react to what they were doing (probably not nearly as well, I'd bet!). If she's asking for more than you want to pay, make a quick counter-offer and if there's no real movement, move on. The same thing with the non-pros: if she's got a serious case of GPS, but she still interests you, make your pitch, then move on if she doesn't respond with any interest. Dickering isn't going to make her like you any more, not more happy to see you. So be nice, speak well to them, and then smile afterwards as you're lying in bed with her.
Looks like I may need to head down 95
It looks like the pickin's down south are much better than the ones on the northern side of the Old Dominion. Good job, gents!
I'm a little too frightened to do that, honestly
[QUOTE=Varoom; 1398457]Scott:
I think you have a duty to the boys here to go f*k this militant young gal and report back the sordid details. Oh, she could be a real molitoff cocktail to go off in the sheets; since she may not get too many takers with that warm-up act of hers. You can sure find them brother. J / k about takin this down low. As always, enjoyed the story or your meeting. V[/QUOTE]Vroom,
I'm not sure about that. I'm picturing the final scene of "Looking for Mr. Goodbar", but with me in the role of Diane Keaton. No thanks, though I bet a taste of Scottie Steel would realign her priorities LOL!
I can tell you what Xanadu looks like
Gentlemen,
I wish that I could truthfully say that I have been bedded down in Polo's Pleasure Dome for the past nine hours, but alas, that was not the case. We did meet as planned, and it was mind-alteringly erotic, but I felt compelled to do some actual work this afternoon, and so am only now able to post up.
We met this morning, back at what we are now calling "our hideout", and rather than getting straight to it, I told her that I wanted to know a little more about her. She then proceeded to tell me she has a masters degree in psychology, has traveled extensively in Europe and North Africa, is from a family of three, all women (I'd like to meet the other two) , and really had planned to go on to get her PhD, but instead met Douche Bag, got pregnant, and that was that. She has a love of reading, is proud of her Irish heritage, is interested in architecture (which is what I do) , and loves all kinds of music, art, and is a great cook. I'm done for!
As we were talking, she was looking straight into my eyes, touching me softly here and there, but in a tender way, not like "let's fuck", and generally, it seemed to me, enjoying spending time with someone who was genuinely interested in who she was as a person. I need to digress here just a second, and admit that while Big Scottie was interested in her as a person, Little Scottie just wanted to dive head-first into her pussy. This went on for a good half hour or more, during which time we touched each other more frequently, and moved closer, until it just became obvious what was up next.
Let me just say, she was as hot as Monday. A pale pink cotton blouse, a short black skirt, and velvet slippers with the RL monogram on them. No tights this time, but no panties either! Scottie almost broke the zipper of my khakis trying to get out when we discovered this last fact. Honestly, she is my Catholic schoolgirl dream come true. Buttoned down on the outside, but crazed for fucking just under the surface. We didn't even make it to the bed before I was pounding into her from behind, gazing down at her pale skin and seeing if I could count all the freckles on her shoulders before we switched positions.
My brothers, I am feeling a little squeamish all of the sudden about sharing every detail, which is an indicator of sorts for me, but suffice it to say that she was well-rested, agile, and inventive. When we mutually agreed to a cease-fire, she opened the basket she had brought, and laid out an outstanding picnic lunch for us that was partly store-bought, and partly home made. It was wonderful, actually, and I had to marvel at her thoughtfulness and attention to detail. Her husband must be a real jag-off not to appreciate her, but who am I to complain?
After we finished, she told me she would like to just be held for a while, which I was also thinking, so we sat in bed for a bit, just enjoying each other, until things went where they normally do when I am naked at the same time I am also in close proximity to a naked woman, and we finished our time together with a less-frenzied but still satisfying aerobics session. I really think I could get hooked on her.
Now, if I were to be completely honest, I would have to confess that I am worried that she will start to see me as her next husband, which is something that I fervently want to avoid. On the one hand, I want to keep seeing her as often as our schedules allow, but on the other hand I don't want her to get to focused on me as the solution to all her problems, and, as I have said, her train out of Shitville. Luckily, my work schedule for the next two weeks does not afford me any playtime, so I am hoping that things will cool down sufficiently. I don't want to come home and find a boiling bunny on my stove, but I think we are far from that.
Birthday lunch with ATF tomorrow. Could you call me conflicted? "Yes" is the correct answer. We shall see.
In the meantime, keep up the good work.
Scott
Artificial intelligence, my man
[QUOTE=Hernando;1399944]You guys rock! Maybe it is a function of getting old (er) , but I am only good for one time / day. I am envious of you stud's ability to be multiorgasmic in one session, or even one day.[/QUOTE]Nando,
There is no way I could achieve that either without assistance from the chem lab. I am currently using a generic Viagra that I ordered on line from one of the places recommended in the "Viagra" thread right here on USASG. I forget the source, but I think it was close to "24 hour chemist", or something like that. Anyway, there is extensive posting on which is the most reliable retailer, which is how I chose it, after a very unfortunate experiment with an "herbal equivalent", that almost gave me a heart attack.
Pop one of those little blue beauties about a half hour before curtain, and you will perform like a porn star for hours. One of the recommendations is that you take it on an empty, or nearly so, stomach. I ignored that once, and did in fact find that the effects were somewhat lessened, but Scottie still rose to the occasion like the champ that he is. Anecdotal evidence apparently suggests that taking it with grapefruit juice enhances the experience, but I'm good with plain old tap water. Some posters also cautioned against alcohol, saying that it completely neutralizes the effects, but I have not found that to be an issue at all, thankfully.
Hope this is helpful to any and all who are looking to extend their playtime.
Scott