Steer away from Susbstance abusers?
[QUOTE=NomineVeritas;4995655]I have seen Anna on two separate occasions. I thought I made reports on at least one of them, but I could be mistaken and apologize for that. Due to some health issues, have taken a break from hobbying, and only just recently dipping my toes back in. Each time I have seen here, she is staying at the Motor Lodge on 13. The place is under new management, it's still a hole, but seems safer now. It was late and I was on my way home from a late road trip and she replied. We agreed on $50 for BBBJ CIM, she asked for $60, told I had $50 or I could just go home and take care it myself. She was quick to agree. I arrived early and scoped the room out, didn't see anything out of ordinary, no LEO mobiles or vans. Knocked, entered and proceeded to check out entire room. Walked into closed bathroom to find another lady I the bath, she just smiled and I closed it behind me. It was the Dani girl, brunette, tattoos and pierced nips. Anna said she was her "Sister" but I'm not dumb. Anna is not plus size, or BBW, but she is headed that way. If that is your type, have at it. We did a LEO check and got started. Took off her top and I went to town on her breasts. I'm a boobs guy, as she stroked me and got me hard. When I was ready, I sat on the bed, she dropped to her knees and went balls deep on me. Not saying much, since I'm not huge, but still. A go getter. She really went all out and as I got close I warned her and instead of swallowing as agreed upon, she shot me on her tits. So, I was half disappointed, half okay with it. We talked a bit, hugged and I was gone and she promised next time to swallow.
Second time, same hotel, different "sister. " We had built a little trust at this point and $50 was now our set price for BBBJ. Got there and checked the bathroom and yet another naked woman, this one was the tiny girl, jenn I think. Sleeve of tattoos, nice body. We did basically the same as the previous visit, but this time I didn't warn her and I finished in her mouth and it wasn't a small load. I think she was a smidge pissed but when I reminded her of her promise, she smiled, said I was right and simply wiped her chin free and cleaned up. I have a small warning here though, when she talked and such this time, her words slurred a bit and her eyes were hazy. So, she may be chasing the dragon and the rumors were Jenn was too. I am NOT stating a fact or besmirching them, just sharing what I recall. I know when I left I said I needed to cross her off my list for a while. If she is on THAT road, it will only make trouble for me.[/QUOTE]Awesome details! Thanks for that bud. I might see her if I don't find anyone who doesn't look like they are chasing the dragon in their pics on Skip the games.
Although, guys, I have a rookie question. Why would one steer away from pros that use substances? Is it because they could be dangerous under influence? Or have more stds? Or something Else?
I myself steer away for the reason that I believe if they are on substances, there are more chances they could be like informants or working with LE to get their sentences lowered, like in the movies.
Steering clear is my own rule
[QUOTE=ScrewLoose;4995985]Awesome details! Thanks for that bud. I might see her if I don't find anyone who doesn't look like they are chasing the dragon in their pics on Skip the games.
Although, guys, I have a rookie question. Why would one steer away from pros that use substances? Is it because they could be dangerous under influence? Or have more stds? Or something Else?
I myself steer away for the reason that I believe if they are on substances, there are more chances they could be like informants or working with LE to get their sentences lowered, like in the movies.[/QUOTE]I have seen what heroin does to people in life and NOT just this life. I have seen sweet young girls with bright futures, end up squatting in row homes, living in their own shit, because the heroin controls them. They only care about their next fix. Nothing else. So, let's say we have a girl is top shelf in her performances, always a top notch provider, No pimp or handler, has a great client list she has built. Sound like someone you would want to see? Me too. Than, heroin gets its hooks into her and she can become a different person. Someone who might reach into your pants for more money. Someone who might do a cash and dash on you, someone who might break all the rules of good business, for the drugs. She may even team with another addict and a dealer. But it can also be dangerous. Imagine some someone tweaked out coming at you with a needle. Dirty or not, you don't know. You don't want to know. STDs, yes. Especially if they share that needle. Along with all the other rules of Mongering, this one is just one of my own that I follow. Head nods, hazy distant stare, slurred words, all signs I use to vacate asap. I mentioned it for the safety of others. Anna is a solid provider on both occassions, and if NOT for those things, more visits would have happened. I just felt the addendum should be shared.
Still beating the dead horse huh?
After a bunch of back and forth I already realized that there's no negotiating going around. All mongers here seem to agree that we should just ignore the girls who ask for high price but bring little to the table.
_ Shampoo said (loosely paraphrase): walk away from ACME to buy milk from Rite Aid. I understand that he mean walk away from girl that is asking $400 and look for girl that offer similar quality but only charge $200. Doesn't look like he try to talk to and convince the $400 girl to meet him for $200.
_ Strange said he will wait for the price frenzy to calm down.
_ Gator had an unpleasant experience trying to knock 20 bucks off the asking price. I say that the risk for negotiating, you risk shutting down doors.
_ I said 'look for the girl you like'. Which already mean a decent combination of price and look. Don't just pick the 1st ads you come across and pay the asking price for it. And I myself had to walk away from a few appointments when the girl at the door is way different that the pictures in the ads. No negotiate doesn't mean handing out money to every girls that ask.
Now the the matter of raising premium and overpay. I believe the recent raise in premium is due to the free money that was handed out recently. $1000 a week to sit home doing nothing. And you know what men think of when they are doing nothing. Demand is sky high. And the market react. It has nothing to do with paying the asking price, it's not overpay when that 'high price' is now the new equilibrium. Yes one can argue if all mongers sit out and not paying those ridiculous price the demand will collapse and the market will correct itself. True. But you either spend time to make money or spend money to buy time. This is America, nothing wrong if you pay the premium to get what you want when you want it and not waiting for the sale. Those who have the discipline to sit out and waiting for the sale, kudos to you.
And about the hypothesis that if we pay the price increase now what happen if it increase again? And it will keep increasing if we willing to pay. I say let the market run it course, it will always come out best for consumers. Like cell phone years ago. It was thousand of dollars at first, for a piece of heavy rock. Then more company jumped in to make more phone; price went down. But potential demand is still there, entrepreneur know consumers willing to spend thousands for phone. So come the innovation, smart phone. And we all happy with the end result, even though smart phone price keep increasing yearly. Same can be applied to the flesh market. More money spend in the market will entice more girls to joins for quick easy bucks. More girls join will bring price down later. But girls know there are 'suckers' who will pay premium. Then come all sort of special services to cater to every need, I for one still looking for a decent priced rim job. Artificial suppress the market by banding together to set price is actually bad from an economist point of view. Like someone said before there is a reason high end girls don't tour Delaware.
Limit the pool of available girls
[QUOTE=NomineVeritas;4996362]I have seen what heroin does to people in life and NOT just this life. I have seen sweet young girls with bright futures, end up squatting in row homes, living in their own shit, because the heroin controls them. They only care about their next fix. Nothing else. So, let's say we have a girl is top shelf in her performances, always a top notch provider, No pimp or handler, has a great client list she has built. Sound like someone you would want to see? Me too. Than, heroin gets its hooks into her and she can become a different person. Someone who might reach into your pants for more money. Someone who might do a cash and dash on you, someone who might break all the rules of good business, for the drugs. She may even team with another addict and a dealer. But it can also be dangerous. Imagine some someone tweaked out coming at you with a needle. Dirty or not, you don't know. You don't want to know. STDs, yes. Especially if they share that needle. Along with all the other rules of Mongering, this one is just one of my own that I follow. Head nods, hazy distant stare, slurred words, all signs I use to vacate asap. I mentioned it for the safety of others. Anna is a solid provider on both occassions, and if NOT for those things, more visits would have happened. I just felt the addendum should be shared.[/QUOTE]There is truth in what NomineVeritas writes. The drugs take over and the user is in many ways a victim or slave.
But, needle sharing isn't as rampant as it once was. The Clinic passes out needles and there is a truck that goes around and distributes them. Girls know the times and places to get fresh needles. BUT that is not to say it doesn't happen, just that the perception from years ago isn't as prevalent as now. Also, the incidence of HIV in DE is less than 2% - read the biannual surveillance report. All of the STDs can be either treated or managed as a chronic condition. With health care, there are no longer death sentences from STDs.
True that heroine and Fentynal take over a girl's life and that can lead them to be thieves and erratic behavior. That said, have seen numerous girls who manage their addictions well or at least don't bring that drama around. Sure a few hit me up when there is an "emergency" = which usually means they are drug sick and Jonesing. If you put on your White Knight hat and try to help them, you will be who they always turn to when sick. Sometimes you have to train them so they know to not visit drama at your feet.
So avoiding drug user girls is one way to avoid some bad things from happening, but it sure limits the pool of available girls. As noted often one can get a few good dates out of one of these girls. But hey, don't most guys move on after a couple of dates anyway? In the beginning I avoided girls on drugs, tattoos, etc. But with experience was able to deal with situations if they popped up. It's not tough, just had to get on the learning curve.
The voice of experience speaks.
[QUOTE=Strange;4996465]It's all about your level of accepted risk. [b]Any of these girls can go whacko on you at any time. If you follow the rules and keep yourself aware you can keep yourself safe.[/b]
One thing I can say is you are deluding yourself if you think your girls aren't abusing drugs too. They are just better at hiding it, well at least at the moment.[/QUOTE]I agree.
Could not have said it better AND much shorter too!
I’m not cheap, I’m just not a sucker.
[QUOTE=Mhohu;4996434]After a bunch of back and forth I already realized that there's no negotiating going around. All mongers here seem to agree that we should just ignore the girls who ask for high price but bring little to the table.
_ Shampoo said (loosely paraphrase): walk away from ACME to buy milk from Rite Aid. I understand that he mean walk away from girl that is asking $400 and look for girl that offer similar quality but only charge $200. Doesn't look like he try to talk to and convince the $400 girl to meet him for $200.
_ Strange said he will wait for the price frenzy to calm down.
_ Gator had an unpleasant experience trying to knock 20 bucks off the asking price. I say that the risk for negotiating, you risk shutting down doors.
_ I said 'look for the girl you like'. Which already mean a decent combination of price and look. Don't just pick the 1st ads you come across and pay the asking price for it. And I myself had to walk away from a few appointments when the girl at the door is way different that the pictures in the ads. No negotiate doesn't mean handing out money to every girls that ask.
Now the the matter of raising premium and overpay. I believe the recent raise in premium is due to the free money that was handed out recently. $1000 a week to sit home doing nothing. And you know what men think of when they are doing nothing. Demand is sky high. And the market react. It has nothing to do with paying the asking price, it's not overpay when that 'high price' is now the new equilibrium. Yes one can argue if all mongers sit out and not paying those ridiculous price the demand will collapse and the market will correct itself. True. But you either spend time to make money or spend money to buy time. This is America, nothing wrong if you pay the premium to get what you want when you want it and not waiting for the sale. Those who have the discipline to sit out and waiting for the sale, kudos to you.
And about the hypothesis that if we pay the price increase now what happen if it increase again? And it will keep increasing if we willing to pay. I say let the market run it course, it will always come out best for consumers. Like cell phone years ago. It was thousand of dollars at first, for a piece of heavy rock. Then more company jumped in to make more phone; price went down. But potential demand is still there, entrepreneur know consumers willing to spend thousands for phone. So come the innovation, smart phone. And we all happy with the end result, even though smart phone price keep increasing yearly. Same can be applied to the flesh market. More money spend in the market will entice more girls to joins for quick easy bucks. More girls join will bring price down later. But girls know there are 'suckers' who will pay premium. Then come all sort of special services to cater to every need, I for one still looking for a decent priced rim job. Artificial suppress the market by banding together to set price is actually bad from an economist point of view. Like someone said before there is a reason high end girls don't tour Delaware.[/QUOTE]You are not understanding what I'm saying at all. I'm not saying I'm just waiting for the prices to normalize, I'm saying I'm waiting for the dumb fuckers out there to stop being so pussy drunk that they're basically willing to pay dc high end hooker prices for girls that are barely better than street girls. Seems the phrase golden pussy syndrome has not been brought up enough lately.
I just fucked two super hot tiny black girls for the same price that some of these girls are asking. The more you appease them the more this stupid shit spreads. It's not about them it's about you.
Literally what’s happening is these girls are letting you stroke your egos. It’s not about how hot she was, or how good it was, it’s about how much you paid. Read some Carl Jung.
They all look the same to me
[QUOTE=Strange;5005652]She's real I actually picked her up off ula a couple months ago. She's got a pretty face. Pretty business like. Maybe she's a little more service oriented when it's not street rates.[/QUOTE]Was starting to think I've been around too long (I have; but not at this stuff) as I thought she looked too familiar. Deja Vu all over again? Review pics in post #1225 & #1224. Looks to be exact same person, especially in one pic. Stormy, Christine, Amber Le, Mrs. Right, Bree, etc, etc.