Thinking with the BIG head!
[QUOTE=Enveed05;2958748] She said that was fine if I could give her $20 to get some things for herself. Now if I knew her I might have considered that, but since this was our first time meeting I respectfully declined. [/QUOTE]Good thinking on your part! Lexi & your $20 would have disappeared into the wind! Smart mongering.
[QUOTE=Enveed05;2958748] I asked if she had digits and she seemed a bit agitated and opened the door and got out of my car. Seemed a bit put out that I questioned her being a good person and not fronting her any $...... Anyway suffice it to say that neither of us got what we needed. [/QUOTE]I'd say you were VERY lucky! Last time I offered a ride to a girl off MDA and did not have a "no thank you" parting gift, she refused to get out of my car! I mean sh*T, I'm suppose to pay you for being a nice guy and offering you a ride? Huh?
Seems like all of the girls out there expect at least something if they take a ride from you? Son in this case she could have created a scene or worse. A desperate girl has nothing to loose and has already been through the Justice System so has no fear of it. What is another mark on her record?
So it sounds like you must have some good skills: didn't fall for the "money up front" routine and was able to talk her out of the car without a gift and drama!
Thanks for the report and props man!
Getting A Girl Out of the Car
I see others here report the techniques they have used to remove a violent or reluctant girl from a car and those tactics involve acts of assault & battery. There maybe a place where such is warranted, but doesn't one run the risk of turning a bad situation into an even worse one? Last thing one needs is to get caught up in some court drama involving a SW. After all most have been through the system many times and have no fear of it. Unless she has warrants she has little to fear from the system. Maybe a "free" vacation would help her?
Point is: If the girl is street-smart perhaps after she is punched she writes down, or snaps a pic of, your license plate and then files a police report on the assault. Then what? LE shows up at your work or at home and inquires as to why you beat up a hooker? Who needs that kind of trouble?
It's not a matter of "don't hit women" (which is right) but more of self preservation and avoiding a messy problem.
So surely we can collectively come up with non-violent techniques that could be used to resolve such a situation without the use of force? Who has the first idea suggestion?