Good points, but that ship has sailed
I think you both make great points, but I think this is a situation where the best defense is a good offense or at least careful posting.
I enjoy viewing the intimate photos but I learned a while back that they are an easy way for people to get more information about the poster. Sometimes this leads to great opportunities for the poster but more often it leads to problems. This has been going on for longer than CJ has been a poster and will continue for as long as this is a semi public board.
There really is no way to police the lurkers or frequent posters from using your post against you but it is very unlikely that a girl will remember a guy from his post if it is fairly general, does not include pictures, or special request.
Maybe one day this board will employ some of the features of the social networking boards where you can allow only a trusted few to view certain photos. Until then be careful.
Name for Tall Unknown in 2009 Photo Section
Hey Duke,
Her name is Samantha ......