Sugar Bowl. ILM

NCHobbyist69 clear out your mailbox I was trying to send you a message.

Any info on this one. Think she's a Rinser. Did a meet & gret. She wanted $300 but I said I would only do $100 We met for about 30 minutes at a coffee shop and seemed to agreed on terms. Said she was open to fun. Set a date and then Ghost. Probably only collecting first date $$. Any info woukd be helpful or maybe this is a warning! Cheers.

[QUOTE=Gulf0521;6520938]Any info on this one. Think she's a Rinser. Did a meet & gret. She wanted $300 but I said I would only do $100 We met for about 30 minutes at a coffee shop and seemed to agreed on terms. Said she was open to fun. Set a date and then Ghost. Probably only collecting first date $$. Any info woukd be helpful or maybe this is a warning! Cheers.[/QUOTE]If you paid her for a meet and greet then you were scammed.

[QUOTE=Gulf0521;6520938]Any info on this one. Think she's a Rinser. Did a meet & gret. She wanted $300 but I said I would only do $100 We met for about 30 minutes at a coffee shop and seemed to agreed on terms. Said she was open to fun. Set a date and then Ghost. Probably only collecting first date $$. Any info woukd be helpful or maybe this is a warning! Cheers.[/QUOTE]Never pay to meet.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6521064]Never pay to meet.[/QUOTE]That's your opinion. I've had 2 very successful arrangements by paying a small amount at first meet. I usually don't but have made a few exceptions.

[QUOTE=Gulf0521;6521109]That's your opinion. I've had 2 very successful arrangements by paying a small amount at first meet. I usually don't but have made a few exceptions.[/QUOTE]Fair enough. And I would say a few years ago I'd agree with you. But more recently too many of these girls have gotten wind of rinsing. It's become a higher risk strategy.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6521704]Fair enough. And I would say a few years ago I'd agree with you. But more recently too many of these girls have gotten wind of rinsing. It's become a higher risk strategy.[/QUOTE]Never have, never will. Lots of success without. Just saying.

[QUOTE=WayOutThere;6521773]Never have, never will. Lots of success without. Just saying.[/QUOTE]Same here.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6521704]Fair enough. And I would say a few years ago I'd agree with you. But more recently too many of these girls have gotten wind of rinsing. It's become a higher risk strategy.[/QUOTE]I don't disagree. But my reason to post this is info on this SB. Not to get blown up with comments or debate paying for a meet & greet. We all have our own ways to deal with SB. With all due respect!

I have chatted with a woman on SB named Misty a few times. She wants 600 for her time but looks really tempting. Anyone know anything about her?

[QUOTE=Bjbj57;6525877]I have chatted with a woman on SB named Misty a few times. She wants 600 for her time but looks really tempting. Anyone know anything about her?[/QUOTE]$600 hope she's doing your laundry, field daying your home, detailing your car and making you dinner, after you have your way with her.

[QUOTE=Tex4023;6526131]$600 hope she's doing your laundry, field daying your home, detailing your car and making you dinner, after you have your way with her.[/QUOTE]Reminds me of the old joke.

Woman dressed provocatively at a bar comes up to me and says "For $300 I'll do anything you want that you can say in three words".

I said "Paint my house".

Yeah I'm about to get priced out of this game.

[QUOTE=Gulf0521;6524267]I don't disagree. But my reason to post this is info on this SB. Not to get blown up with comments or debate paying for a meet & greet. We all have our own ways to deal with SB. With all due respect![/QUOTE]I've paid for meet and greets many times and prefer to see the potential SB over that type situation rather than one where sex is expected the first meeting. That's not to say that I have had plenty first meetings that led to the hotel following a lunch meeting. I've been in the SB / SD arena for more years than I can remember, at least 20+. I've seen the sugar situation change drastically over the years. I have my own plan for how to pursue a SB and it varies with each one. I don't need or want advice on how I should or shouldn't play the sugar game. Most of the "advice" on this board I don't find helpful at all to a real SD / SB situation. If you don't agree with paying for meet and greets then don't but don't ridicule me and others if we do! Obviously some have more income to invest in this hobby than others.

[QUOTE=DrSugarD;6526355]I've paid for meet and greets many times and prefer to see the potential SB over that type situation rather than one where sex is expected the first meeting. That's not to say that I have had plenty first meetings that led to the hotel following a lunch meeting. I've been in the SB / SD arena for more years than I can remember, at least 20+. I've seen the sugar situation change drastically over the years. I have my own plan for how to pursue a SB and it varies with each one. I don't need or want advice on how I should or shouldn't play the sugar game. Most of the "advice" on this board I don't find helpful at all to a real SD / SB situation. If you don't agree with paying for meet and greets then don't but don't ridicule me and others if we do! Obviously some have more income to invest in this hobby than others.[/QUOTE]If it is an unexpected gift for her and it helps lock in a 2nd date, then I do it too.

If she demands it as a condition to meet, it is usually a dine and dash scam.

From the Charlotte board, a good example below.

[QUOTE=GitterDun;6459001]This one wanted to do video chat for verification on Snapchat which was cool with me. ShE is a real slick talker abd she said was available for meet greet and said she wanted 200 at meet and if we click can go to her place for fun and another 100. Told her I didn't do that much for meet and greet but glad to meet her and would be good to do the 300. She kept repeating that she needed the 200 and I finally agreed to meet her. Even though I wasn't going to give her the $ until we got to her place. Anyway. We met at a Mexican restaurant downtown Gastonia and she was 30 minutes late. I told her I didn't have enough time to eat so we should go on to her place. She insisted on meeting on the dining patio where all the people were dining saying it was for her safety but now I think it was so she could make a scene. Immediately after sitting she asked did I bring the 200. I said it was in the truck and she started getting loud in front of everyone saying I didn't hold up my end of he bargain. I told her to follow me to the truck just to avoid being noticed. I had put 100 in one pocket and had the other 200 in the other. Once we got to the truck I took out the 100 and gave her 80 and she said that's not all of it. I said ill give you remainder at your place then she yelled real loud cussing me and all of a sudden her bf or pimp jumped out from behind my truck and grabbed my arm I was sitting in my truck at that point I still had a 20 folded up initially and he was trying to RIP it out of my hands. Then she slapped me in the face and threw her cup of tea in my face. I let go of the 20 and they ran away. Now this all took place in broad daylight right behind the government building and a park with people close by. The pimp was punk ass kid pretty much and I def could have beat the crap out of him but I'm not getting that kind of attention from the police or I would have left him busted up in the parking lot and her too. Figured it best to give up the 100 and walk away. She went by the name Megan. She has def pulled this scam before. It was a pretty well rehearsed act. Stay away. Surprised she didn't block me after so here's the link.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3bebada3-72aa-4004-8359-a89c4f9bacec[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Bjbj57;6525877]I have chatted with a woman on SB named Misty a few times. She wants 600 for her time but looks really tempting. Anyone know anything about her?[/QUOTE]I had a dream with Misty several months ago. No charge for initial meet and greet. Pics are accurate. She is an attractive MILF. She does not appear to do drugs and is not a robber. However, I did not feel the dream was worth 6 and I did not repeat. Perhaps we did not click and I was having a bad day, but YMMV.