Mongering is not a prelude to dating a girl
I've heard this from many girls over the years, both from escorts and massage girls. There's always one guy in a group who doesn't get the separation between hiring a girl and forming a dating relationship.
I recently saw a girl who shared on her cellphone what a now former client sent her. It was creepy and desperate to put it mildly. Another girl I used to see at Pacific on 44th had to quit because a guy became obsessed with her to the point of stalking her. He last told her he left his wife so they could be together.
Guys, Pretty Woman the movie is fiction. The girl you are paying for sex or a handy is not dreaming of you sweeping her off her feet and saving her from "the life". Many feel independent (even when they are not) and don't want a boyfriend. Most have the same need to be attracted to a boyfriend as any other woman does. The fact she's nice to you equates to the same reason a stripper or waitress is. She wants bigger tips and repeat business. Doesn't mean she hates you. She may consider you a friend. But it is HIGHLY doubtful she is dreaming of you dating her. Keep your hobby grounded in what it is. You pay for sex. She provides the sevice. No dating is in the cards.
They Do Have BFs They Just Don't Tell You
Don't be fooled into thinking they don't. In this profession, even the IG models, don't advertise that they have a BF. That makes them least desirable in men's eyes (some). Me personally if I found out she had a BF I never went back. Something just never sat right with me for that; you are paying for her but he goes and gets whatever for free. Idk that's just me. Unless she was an MT. But escorts, nah. And it's their business, they want to hoe but look for love at the same time. But some do operate like this. Also some will put you in their roster if you let'them. I remember a chick I grew up with who was in the game; had two BFs. One she smashed just because, and one she strung along and smashed when she wanted to keep his cash going.