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[QUOTE=Brass1964;2398794]Well, another lesson learned. I must start to search all over again.

Here's the situation: I am looking for a companion, to see on a regular basis 4$ per month for time and companionship. Two extended visits per month, with the possibility of a slumber party from time to time. Cash card with both of our names on it so that in the event of an unforeseen event, I could just load the card.

I truly thought that I had found a true companion, the one that I was searching for, but, it just was not to be. Just like the Jenni Scenario, I Brass.[/QUOTE]My sympathy to you, Brass. Your quest is much different than mine. I prefer variety and subscribe to "we pay them to leave". I realize many mongers have a completely opposite goal, and to each his own. But it is my experience these gals we work with are not really the long-term relationship kind. Still, I too, love them all; at least while in the throws of passion.

Now this is not to say a SB can't be found. I'm sure one can. But, if it is anything but a sort-term deal, I would be surprised. Please don't take offense to any of this. It's just my 2 cents and mostly for the newbs and other fellas to contemplate.

I'm sure your mind is made up and I sincerely wish you well, finding that perfect gem. I guess my only suggestion is to expect it to be more of a "temporary" arrangement. Please keep us posted. Be safe and good hunting. MW.

Mw, I wish I could follow your lead. Unfortunatly, I'm with brass, looking for my perfect baby, and like him, my heart is often broken. I want to take one under my wing and mold or guide, but it just aint going to happen! I need to wake up and appreciate what I have and forget searching for perfection. My heart, nerves, wallet and life will be better off! Maybe someday. Untill then, ill keep looking with brass!

[QUOTE=MwJrp;2398954]My sympathy to you, Brass. Your quest is much different than mine. I prefer variety and subscribe to "we pay them to leave". I realize many mongers have a completely opposite goal, and to each his own. But it is my experience these gals we work with are not really the long-term relationship kind. Still, I too, love them all; at least while in the throws of passion.

Now this is not to say a SB can't be found. I'm sure one can. But, if it is anything but a sort-term deal, I would be surprised. Please don't take offense to any of this. It's just my 2 cents and mostly for the newbs and other fellas to contemplate.

I'm sure your mind is made up and I sincerely wish you well, finding that perfect gem. I guess my only suggestion is to expect it to be more of a "temporary" arrangement. Please keep us posted. Be safe and good hunting. MW.[/QUOTE]

I'm not looking for a relationship (Lord knows I've already had my share! Just some occasional company. Problem is I have a very tight schedule, I live an hour from the Gem City and I have yet to find a SP that can even remotely be on time or keep an appointment. I don't have hours to spend waiting on them to respond. So my hobbying is a bit restricted. Good luck to brass and any others liking for the courtesan, I'm just looking for one that can tell time! Good Hunting!

[QUOTE=Brass1964;2398794]Well, another lesson learned. I must start to search all over again.

Here's the situation: I am looking for a companion, to see on a regular basis 4$ per month for time and companionship. Two extended visits per month, with the possibility of a slumber party from time to time. Cash card with both of our names on it so that in the event of an unforeseen event, I could just load the card.

I truly thought that I had found a true companion, the one that I was searching for, but, it just was not to be. Just like the Jenni Scenario, I probably would have done just about anything to keep an arrangement in tact. Gut wrenching actually, cut me right to the bone, physically ill for awhile until the shock began to wear off. Some of you have experienced it. It is a comfort to know that you have at least one companion that you can always count on. So, I have learned yet another lesson in what it means to practice discretion at all times.

Don't bother guessing or asking who it was, because I am not going to answer any questions about it, case closed. Just know that I am searching for a companion who has the same needs.

Dayton, Springfield and all point in between.

If you happen to have someone in mind that would appreciate such an arrangement, send me a PM. This is a bona fide offer, make no mistake about that.

Looking Forward to Hearing Your Suggestions.

And as always, I appreciate candor.

Brass.[/QUOTE]FWIW, arrangements never end well. I "rescued" a stripper 10 yrs ago, paid her a decent allowance, thought I had her on the right track, etc. Sex was amazing, but they always revert back to their bad habits, still manage to be broke all the time, substances and the ex that still beats the crap out of them. I woke up after a 3 day orgy with her in Florida and like Charlie Sheen realized that outside of great addicting sex, I really was paying her to go away. All the hood I thought I was doing doing just enabled her messed up lifestyle th a did end up costing her life. There are givers and takers, and we hobbyists are the givers. We need to be sure what we get in return doesn't continue to cost us.

There are a number of issues, but lets first look at how many girls in this biz consistently provide good service for say a year or more?. Answer, not many. So that's one issue, another one, we all have experienced with our UTR / ATFs what I call "requirements creep". They need more and more, or they need advances, money for milk / smokes, etc, the list goes on and on. Lastly I think we all have a fantasy of some hot beautiful college grad girl or MILF that is has a great day job, and fucks for a little extra spending money. In reality most providers are hook on something. , and / or have issues, support bf / pimps, or other unstable unsustainable behavior. So with all that said, maybe try Tinder or own CL post, both take some work, I have had success on both, especially Tinder. Good luck. Another monger scripture delivered. LOL.

LOL, sounds like an f'd up bunch we are! Been there with trying to deal with the ex bf, actually am currently dealing with that. I refer to him as the "pos" when talking to my baby, but she is still sucked into his poison just like I am sucked into hers. The sex is so off the charts that I can't stop! What was the shit Charlie was selling, tiger blood? Maybe I need some of that to cure me!

[QUOTE=HappyWarrior89;2399020]FWIW, arrangements never end well. I "rescued" a stripper 10 yrs ago, paid her a decent allowance, thought I had her on the right track, etc. Sex was amazing, but they always revert back to their bad habits, still manage to be broke all the time, substances and the ex that still beats the crap out of them. I woke up after a 3 day orgy with her in Florida and like Charlie Sheen realized that outside of great addicting sex, I really was paying her to go away. All the hood I thought I was doing doing just enabled her messed up lifestyle th a did end up costing her life. There are givers and takers, and we hobbyists are the givers. We need to be sure what we get in return doesn't continue to cost us.[/QUOTE]

I have looked for the same thing Brass. And I think that the problem boils down to trying to find stability with unstable women is impossible. Short term fun with a hot lady (that you probably would never be able to date) is what at best will happen. MW said it best as always. Eventually you pay them to leave. Why are divorces so expensive. They are worth it.

The funny thing is I was with a lady recently who may have been a good sugar baby. But she was not patient enough and cost herself a 6 $ budget a month. Sometime the instability works in your favor.

I'm personally done for a while. Until I see a gem pop up again.

Dave.

[QUOTE=Brass1964;2398794]Well, another lesson learned. I must start to search all over again.

Here's the situation: I am looking for a companion, to see on a regular basis 4$ per month for time and companionship. Two extended visits per month, with the possibility of a slumber party from time to time. Cash card with both of our names on it so that in the event of an unforeseen event, I could just load the card.

I truly thought that I had found a true companion, the one that I was searching for, but, it just was not to be. Just like the Jenni Scenario, I probably would have done just about anything to keep an arrangement in tact. Gut wrenching actually, cut me right to the bone, physically ill for awhile until the shock began to wear off. Some of you have experienced it. It is a comfort to know that you have at least one companion that you can always count on. So, I have learned yet another lesson in what it means to practice discretion at all times.

Don't bother guessing or asking who it was, because I am not going to answer any questions about it, case closed. Just know that I am searching for a companion who has the same needs.

Dayton, Springfield and all point in between.

If you happen to have someone in mind that would appreciate such an arrangement, send me a PM. This is a bona fide offer, make no mistake about that.

Looking Forward to Hearing Your Suggestions.

And as always, I appreciate candor.

Brass.[/QUOTE]

I sincerely hope you find what you are looking for. I have been a submarine on here (coming and going but always active) a few times thinking I have found that gem. It can be great when you find it and horrible once is begins to go away and you know it is or does.

One thing I will say is recently I explored a popular free dating web site. Never been one for those but a friend (woman) convinced me to give it a go. A bunch of non-sense on there really BUT, with a bit of patience has paid off with a few interesting encounters. Point being, there have been a few women I have engaged on there that are NOT in the hobby directly (as in on this site or have ads everywhere / anywhere) yet they ARE looking for what you are giving / want. It has been my experience that this takes WORK to read through profiles and figure out and respond in a way that clearly yet indirectly explains what you both want. Again, this takes discernment and work but it can be worth it if you have the time / energy.

I'll PM you additional details and my few experiences on there thus far.

I again sincerely hope you find your gem! And Good luck!

[QUOTE=Brass1964;2398794]Well, another lesson learned. I must start to search all over again.

Here's the situation: I am looking for a companion, to see on a regular basis 4$ per month for time and companionship. Two extended visits per month, with the possibility of a slumber party from time to time. Cash card with both of our names on it so that in the event of an unforeseen event, I could just load the card.

I truly thought that I had found a true companion, the one that I was searching for, but, it just was not to be. Just like the Jenni Scenario, I probably would have done just about anything to keep an arrangement in tact. Gut wrenching actually, cut me right to the bone, physically ill for awhile until the shock began to wear off. Some of you have experienced it. It is a comfort to know that you have at least one companion that you can always count on. So, I have learned yet another lesson in what it means to practice discretion at all times.

Don't bother guessing or asking who it was, because I am not going to answer any questions about it, case closed. Just know that I am searching for a companion who has the same needs.

Dayton, Springfield and all point in between.

If you happen to have someone in mind that would appreciate such an arrangement, send me a PM. This is a bona fide offer, make no mistake about that.

Looking Forward to Hearing Your Suggestions.

And as always, I appreciate candor.

Brass.[/QUOTE]

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[QUOTE=Brass1964;2398794]Well, another lesson learned. I must start to search all over again.

Here's the situation: I am looking for a companion, to see on a regular basis 4$ per month for time and companionship. Two extended visits per month, with the possibility of a slumber party from time to time. Cash card with both of our names on it so that in the event of an unforeseen event, I could just load the card.

I truly thought that I had found a true companion, the one that I was searching for, but, it just was not to be. Just like the Jenni Scenario, I probably would have done just about anything to keep an arrangement in tact. Gut wrenching actually, cut me right to the bone, physically ill for awhile until the shock began to wear off. Some of you have experienced it. It is a comfort to know that you have at least one companion that you can always count on. So, I have learned yet another lesson in what it means to practice discretion at all times.

Don't bother guessing or asking who it was, because I am not going to answer any questions about it, case closed. Just know that I am searching for a companion who has the same needs.

Dayton, Springfield and all point in between.

If you happen to have someone in mind that would appreciate such an arrangement, send me a PM. This is a bona fide offer, make no mistake about that.

Looking Forward to Hearing Your Suggestions.

And as always, I appreciate candor.

Brass.[/QUOTE]I am not searching for anyone to be exclusive. Quite to the contrary, I am looking for some to share the added spice from other experiences as we hobby.

Brass.

[QUOTE=Brass1964;2398794]Well, another lesson learned. I must start to search all over again.

Here's the situation: I am looking for a companion, to see on a regular basis 4$ per month for time and companionship. Two extended visits per month, with the possibility of a slumber party from time to time. Cash card with both of our names on it so that in the event of an unforeseen event, I could just load the card.

I truly thought that I had found a true companion, the one that I was searching for, but, it just was not to be. Just like the Jenni Scenario, I probably would have done just about anything to keep an arrangement in tact. Gut wrenching actually, cut me right to the bone, physically ill for awhile until the shock began to wear off. Some of you have experienced it. It is a comfort to know that you have at least one companion that you can always count on. So, I have learned yet another lesson in what it means to practice discretion at all times.

Don't bother guessing or asking who it was, because I am not going to answer any questions about it, case closed. Just know that I am searching for a companion who has the same needs.

Dayton, Springfield and all point in between.

If you happen to have someone in mind that would appreciate such an arrangement, send me a PM. This is a bona fide offer, make no mistake about that.

Looking Forward to Hearing Your Suggestions.

And as always, I appreciate candor.

Brass.[/QUOTE]My sympathies. I have someone right now that I am seeing who seems to be just right. She does not do drugs, no kids, does not drink, just poor and needs money. Smart and very cute, mostly a victim of bad family circumstances. But even with things being that good, things are still a bit unstable. It's not easy, but the level of intimacy is nice. I've tried both strategies and there are pluses and minuses to both. Good luck!

[QUOTE=ScorpioStriker;2397635]I'd like to thank numb and rep for their public replies and all the others who pmed me with their supportive messages. Glad I'm not the only one who feels this way about the hobby.[/QUOTE]I agree with most of what you said but it seems you are still wavering. Most mongers feel like you at some point. Hopefully as soon as possible. The cure is taking a hard stance from the beginning. On the boards I normally participate on many consider me a jerk (to put it mildly) because I often preach about not falling under their guile by believing all the bs pillow talk and sob stories. It's amazing what guys post about as gospel coming from these ladies. Now, as we all know, some posters posing as real mongers have a vested interest so things can be decieving but the point remains the same. Don't BE A SUCKER! I wish these boards were around when I first started hobbying. It could have saved me some heartache caused by my belief in good human nature. Don't get me wrong, not all of these ladies are bad in this way but it's better to assume they all are to save yourself any grief. Keep all illusions within the time spent for, after that, lose them until next time. If you feel like using that time to vent about your personal problems, it's your dime, not theirs. Don't do them any "extra" favors. They will just try to stretch that inch into a mile. In being this way over the years I've come to find that gals will just stop trying to pull the crap if you don't give in. And if they hold it against you f**k 'them. There's other fish in the sea. Stay strong Scorpio and stick to your guns. I also hope readers can use your post as a cautionary tale. Lets hope so.

P.S. The term utr is grossly over used. If you found out about them others have as well. And if they have advertised, at all, anywhere, it doesn't even apply. Some have developed this into a marketing tool to give you the impression you have some type of exclusive access. Once again. Don't be fooled.

P.S. S. I hope I helped somebody.

[QUOTE=LonelyGuy1976;2399349]I agree with most of what you said but it seems you are still wavering. Most mongers feel like you at some point. Hopefully as soon as possible. The cure is taking a hard stance from the beginning. On the boards I normally participate on many consider me a jerk (to put it mildly) because I often preach about not falling under their guile by believing all the bs pillow talk and sob stories. It's amazing what guys post about as gospel coming from these ladies. Now, as we all know, some posters posing as real mongers have a vested interest so things can be decieving but the point remains the same. Don't BE A SUCKER! I wish these boards were around when I first started hobbying. It could have saved me some heartache caused by my belief in good human nature. Don't get me wrong, not all of these ladies are bad in this way but it's better to assume they all are to save yourself any grief. Keep all illusions within the time spent for, after that, lose them until next time. If you feel like using that time to vent about your personal problems, it's your dime, not theirs. Don't do them any "extra" favors. They will just try to stretch that inch into a mile. In being this way over the years I've come to find that gals will just stop trying to pull the crap if you don't give in. And if they hold it against you f**k 'them. There's other fish in the sea. Stay strong Scorpio and stick to your guns. I also hope readers can use your post as a cautionary tale. Lets hope so.

P.S. The term utr is grossly over used. If you found out about them others have as well. And if they have advertised, at all, anywhere, it doesn't even apply. Some have developed this into a marketing tool to give you the impression you have some type of exclusive access. Once again. Don't be fooled.

P.S. S. I hope I helped somebody.[/QUOTE]Thanks for your feedback, and kind words. I am just in shock of the lack of service we as mongers get anymore. I've been doing this for a little over 10 years now off and on. This is in that time the first time I have heard so much BS from the ladies. I have had talks with other mongers about how things were a few years ago ten years ago etc, and It just seemed like we had a whole other breed of ladies back then. I'm sure there are some really top notch providers out there. They are just rare these days. I just can't believe that here today on a Saturday I have spent nearly an entire day trying to set up stuff the the ladies in 'my phone' and you know what? Not a damn single one of them works for me. Too far away or in too bad of a part of town. I remember when I never had this problem. I remember having options more than I knew what to do with. Now however my options make me think some adult entertainment and a few beers would be more enjoyable than the rift raff I have on the table. I know of at least one girl I wouldn't mind seeing but my problem is that again she is farther away than I am willing to go. When these girls advertise as being in dayton and then they REALLY aren't it's annoying to me.

At this point it's like you know what forget it. I'll save my money for another time. I may check CL and look for some easy access north dayton action. I don't know to be honest with everyone if they aren't in north dayton or huber. I'm not going to go and see them anymore. I'm sick of it.

I like outcall the best, but current events make me unable to do outcall at least for the next month or so. Even if I could do outcall. I've ran into problems there with a girl I had seen often. It became a headache trying to work stuff out with her so I just stopped contacting her and she never contacted me either so I figure she didn't need my money. What's funny is I see people here saying she's been slow and needs more business. Hmmm I wonder why she's losing business? LOL. I'm not naming any names on here because too many of these girls know me and will blow up my phone if I so much as mention them with out singing praises.

I'm sorry ladies but it can't always be sunshine and rainbows. My main problem right now is I'm just really bored with the hobby. Not in a I need to take a break way. I really haven't been that active lately. In a I don't see a reason to even try and become more active way.

Oh and about the UTR thing. I know most of the UTRs do place ads up. I don't care one bit. I don't care if they are high use or low use I just care about quality. The UTRs I know one is from my own personal encounters that doesn't want her info out there but she's a flake anyway and the others I've met via other seniors here. Anyways. I hope some of you get lucky tonight and have some fun.

I have to agree whole heartedly that the level of service has gone straight to Hell! Maybe I'm just too old, but I'm sick and tired of making contact, making an appointment, planning for said appointment and then either "I'm running late, give me 10 minutes" (which turns into hours) or sometimes nothing! I don't know what everyone else's situations is but I have a ton on my plate. That's why I hobby. I don't have time for a girlfriend, nor do I have the patience anymore. I get the occasional 'window of opportunity' to indulge myself and all to often it slams shut while I'm waiting on one of them to decide to get back to me. I appreciate all off the advice and help that I've gotten here and I hope that I've been able to return that favor (and well continue to in the future), but I've had it! There have been a few that have been AWESOME over the years, but as we all know, they either dip out of the picture or succumb to thier vices. Porn is free and I still know how to take matters into my own hands! LOL! If anyone knows of a solid provider, please let me know.

[QUOTE=BigDaddyHappy;2400075]I have to agree whole heartedly that the level of service has gone straight to Hell! Maybe I'm just too old, but I'm sick and tired of making contact, making an appointment, planning for said appointment and then either "I'm running late, give me 10 minutes" (which turns into hours) or sometimes nothing! I don't know what everyone else's situations is but I have a ton on my plate. That's why I hobby. I don't have time for a girlfriend, nor do I have the patience anymore. I get the occasional 'window of opportunity' to indulge myself and all to often it slams shut while I'm waiting on one of them to decide to get back to me. I appreciate all off the advice and help that I've gotten here and I hope that I've been able to return that favor (and well continue to in the future), but I've had it! There have been a few that have been AWESOME over the years, but as we all know, they either dip out of the picture or succumb to thier vices. Porn is free and I still know how to take matters into my own hands! LOL! If anyone knows of a solid provider, please let me know.[/QUOTE]Very well said.

+1.