NoVA SugarBabies

When you pay for a M at G you are not going to get to the FC, EVER most of the time. They are going to try and get as many meets as possible with nothing going down. Then they will ghost you if you stop the platonic paid meets. IF the girl cannot invest a couple of hours in getting to know you without being compensated, then it is not a girl worth your time. The best arrangements are based on mutual attraction and respect. The financial aspect is secondary, if that is a girls primary motive from the start expect to be disappointed even if you do get to the FC. IE poor rushed performances, lots of boundaries, lots of flaking, and blatant acts of disrespect.

Red Flags.

1. The girl asks you to buy her stuff or send her money prior to ever meeting in person. This includes the girl asking for gas or babysitting money upfront prior to meeting. If she needs transportation send an UBER on your account.

2. You set up a meeting and then after you set everything up, she asks about compensation shortly before.

3. You go on a meet and greet and then she asks for money after when nothing goes down other than food or drinks.

4. Even if something does go down, the girl constantly texts you asking for money even when you done meet.

5. YOU DENY ANY OF THESE AND THE GIRL GETS AN ATTITUDE.

1 out of every 3 of these will back down and still meet if you say no to these demands. Respect goes further than money.

[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;5031215]So this isn't really aimed at you but since you posted it I'll ask.

For the guys who pay anything for a M&G. What do you get out of doing this? I ask because the basis of SA is to find something that is mutually beneficial and a trip to the FC is a win for both but paying them for a M&G, What is your benefit from doing so?[/QUOTE]

Only paid for M&G twice. Both times I asked if we can meet up with in hours. 1st time was with a current SB. I am her 1st and only SD. I got feeling that she was a newbie. Bonus she was 10 mins away from me. Had one of my regular SB cancel on me so I had the night off. She my booty call SB. I know her schedule, and normal can meetup with her with in hours of texting her.

2nd girl was last week. Had another girl ghost me. So 2nd girl msg and agree to date all on the same day. I meet up with her, and the date ended up in a hotel room for some fun. I'm not planning to see her again she has a beautiful face, but her profile pics were her when she was 20 lbs lighter. Will probably post a review in a few weeks of her.

[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;5031215]So this isn't really aimed at you but since you posted it I'll ask.

For the guys who pay anything for a M&G. What do you get out of doing this? I ask because the basis of SA is to find something that is mutually beneficial and a trip to the FC is a win for both but paying them for a M&G, What is your benefit from doing so?[/QUOTE]

Anyone else having a problem logging onto [URL]seeking.com[/URL]?

I've been locked out for weeks.

Anyone have info on her? Profile says she's been around for a few yrs now but I didn't find anything when tried searching. We've texted and agreed to terms, still unsure about pulling the trigger. Thanks for any info.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2b2d8162-ca57-4ca9-9d85-3b4d413631f4[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7f4649ac-3799-4004-a2e3-f4ebe7afb562[/URL]

Wants to meet in public. And you give her cash in a gift card. I counter with cash when we get in the room. She says that is too much like prostitution and it's her way or no way. I just told her good luck. Guys, do not pay in advance. They will just drive off with the money.

I've had my eye on this one for more than a yr, back when I used to live in Richmond her profile popped up because she lives in VaBeach but never was able to make it work. Then back in Jan I moved up to NoVa area and she dropped off my radar. Then the other day she popped up on my search because apparently now she had a job in DC she's up in the area for a few times a month. So I immediately hit her up, after some back and forth forth texting I find out she's up in DC today (Monday) so we work out an arrangement, offer 400 ppm BBFS. She's down so like I mentioned, over the weekend we planned to meet up today when she was going to be up in DC. So I send a text this morning to confirm about our meeting, I then follow up and ask how long can we hang out? She says "an hour. Maybe less". So needless to say that wasn't exactly the best answer to try and sell yourself to the paying customer. So I asked for $400 I expect a min 2-3 hrs. She said no way. So if you're cool with an hr quickie for $400 hit her up.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b6004277-5b0e-4507-9507-a7a28a0250c2[/URL]

Usually the hallmark of a scam, but started messaging one over the summer who turned out to be a VT student trying to keep things low profile since she is from a small town and did not think to list B'burg since she was not there when she made her profile.

5'9", slender, perfect C / Ds, great smile, killer ass.

Amazing skills. CG nearly melted my brain. Girl can really move.

So it pays to send a message or two to Va, VA gals to figure out if they are scammers or clueless.

[QUOTE=BobDingle10;5031294]C'Mon. Dude. You already know the answer to this. SA ain't that different from the escort game. And if you spent any amount of that time in that arena you know some dudes will pay for merely the company of a pretty woman. Just like some dudes in the spa game will get a HE only cause it's not really cheating on their significant other. Everyone has different turn ons and turn offs. Everyone isn't looking for the same thing. Just let people be.[/QUOTE]BookerTNelson is in the right: the idea of paying just for a pretty woman's "company" is screwing things up for everyone else. It's why the DMV is practically the GPS regional capital of the nation. Simultaneously, it also gives certain women the wrong impression that this is the norm, that they ought to be paid even more Benjamin on top of the meal. And sorry to say it so bluntly, but that's so damn foolish.

It ought to be more than enough to take care of the check for the meal. To throw in extra on top of that (whether it's 100,200, or 300+)? Craziness.

[QUOTE=InSearch69;5031765][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7f4649ac-3799-4004-a2e3-f4ebe7afb562[/URL]

Wants to meet in public. And you give her cash in a gift card. I counter with cash when we get in the room. She says that is too much like prostitution and it's her way or no way. I just told her good luck. Guys, do not pay in advance. They will just drive off with the money.[/QUOTE]Chatted with her about a year ago definitely did not get the scammer vibe. Went in another direction because I found a better fit for me.

[QUOTE=Shinshi86;5031892]BookerTNelson is in the right: the idea of paying just for a pretty woman's "company" is screwing things up for everyone else. It's why the DMV is practically the GPS regional capital of the nation. Simultaneously, it also gives certain women the wrong impression that this is the norm, that they ought to be paid even more Benjamin on top of the meal. And sorry to say it so bluntly, but that's so damn foolish.

It ought to be more than enough to take care of the check for the meal. To throw in extra on top of that (whether it's 100,200, or 300+)? Craziness.[/QUOTE]Yeah, but no. And Booker isn't "right" per say. This game is what it is and you know better. There have always been non-sexual escorts in the game. Some guys (not me) like them. A lot of SA girls do bdsm and don’t fuck. It's a fact. And it's a fact one no one can change. Does it lead to GPS, sure. But so do other things. I wish it wasn't so, but it just is. Most chicks know that fucking for their supper is the order of the day. And just like the regular escort game, some chicks will just be out of your reach $-wise. They are trying to get over on us as much as we are trying to get over on them. And sometimes you don't win. That's it and that's all.

[QUOTE=BuffBill75;5031204]Please don't pay these women for a meet and greet. Just move in and find another[/QUOTE]Didn't mean to cause a shit storm on here fellas. Out of all the women I've met off the site I've literally done a M&G only twice, both times it was only the drinks tab paid for and then onto the room. Nothing more so please relax.

[QUOTE=InSearch69;5031765][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7f4649ac-3799-4004-a2e3-f4ebe7afb562[/URL]

Wants to meet in public. And you give her cash in a gift card. I counter with cash when we get in the room. She says that is too much like prostitution and it's her way or no way. I just told her good luck. Guys, do not pay in advance. They will just drive off with the money.[/QUOTE]Check out her reports here. She takes the cash and disappears. Her pics are nice, but she's a thief.

Yes, if you just want to hit it once or twice, but no if you want to keep her. She a pro, only good to drop a few loads. Any non pro wants to get to know you a little, so they can lie to them self that they are not selling them self.

[QUOTE=Dimples572;5031795]I've had my eye on this one for more than a yr, back when I used to live in Richmond her profile popped up because she lives in VaBeach but never was able to make it work. Then back in Jan I moved up to NoVa area and she dropped off my radar. Then the other day she popped up on my search because apparently now she had a job in DC she's up in the area for a few times a month. So I immediately hit her up, after some back and forth forth texting I find out she's up in DC today (Monday) so we work out an arrangement, offer 400 ppm BBFS. She's down so like I mentioned, over the weekend we planned to meet up today when she was going to be up in DC. So I send a text this morning to confirm about our meeting, I then follow up and ask how long can we hang out? She says "an hour. Maybe less". So needless to say that wasn't exactly the best answer to try and sell yourself to the paying customer. So I asked for $400 I expect a min 2-3 hrs. She said no way. So if you're cool with an hr quickie for $400 hit her up.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b6004277-5b0e-4507-9507-a7a28a0250c2[/URL][/QUOTE]

Well ain't this one a real peach. LOL. Her profile reads "Unless you can prove to me you aren't a broke piece of shit before we go out, then we aren't meeting up. " lmaoo!! I'll bet she's got dudes lining up for miles to chat her up.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fd94600c-ece7-43c8-ae87-6896efaa2316[/URL]

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5032581]Yes, if you just want to hit it once or twice, but no if you want to keep her. She a pro, only good to drop a few loads. Any non pro wants to get to know you a little, so they can lie to them self that they are not selling them self.[/QUOTE]I sent her a follow up text asking how much for 3 hrs and she said 1 k. I just replied with the crying laughing emoji. Didn't get a reply back LOL.