Arrangement Reports

[QUOTE=Crisler;5242225]I totally agree.

We want to encourage people to report ripoffs, though, right?

So that all of us are more aware of specific bad actors and things to look out for.

Never bring more to a date than you're willing to lose. $2 K is inconceivable to me. If a girl asks for that much, that is its own red flag. I'd have moved on merely at that ask.

Never bring your wallet to a date. Leave it in your car.

Avoid 2 girls. A 2 girl is a setup to rob. One distracts you while the other pilfers your wallet.

Never prepay.

If a girl asks for cash upfront, that's usually a bad sign. It suggests she's a pro. If you hand it over, be prepared for her to make up some excuse to leave. Are you going to stop her? Are you in a hotel? What if she starts screaming, "Rape!" You've already lost at that point. Most efforts to "win" just dig a deeper hole for yourself.

If it seems too good to be true, it probably is.

Etc.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't say completely avoid two girls. If you have seen someone a few times and she offers a two girl it is usually ok. I'd just avoid two girl encounters when you haven't seen either woman yet.

[QUOTE=Crisler;5242228]Never prepay. I don't even have CashApp (or anything like that) and I refuse to get it. If a girl insists on that, I move on. I prefer cash. It's not easily traceable. And it requires in person. No fucking way I'm sending money without meeting. Could be some fat dude in his mom's basement in Texas for all I know.[/QUOTE]When conversations start with these woman, I'm almost waiting, anticipating for them to ask for something before even meeting. I have changed my thinking so that the moment they ask for anything before we have even met, I automatically disengage myself completely and the attraction is gone. It doesn't matter how good looking they are or even if they have met someone from here before. You must train yourself to leave the conversation at that point because nothing good is going to follow.

[QUOTE=AngryBob;5243521]When conversations start with these woman, I'm almost waiting, anticipating for them to ask for something before even meeting. I have changed my thinking so that the moment they ask for anything before we have even met, I automatically disengage myself completely and the attraction is gone. It doesn't matter how good looking they are or even if they have met someone from here before. You must train yourself to leave the conversation at that point because nothing good is going to follow.[/QUOTE]Very true. Asking for prepay or a deposit or online only is a dead end red flag. You will not squeeze blood out of that turnip.

[QUOTE=Mkejoe;5243308]I wouldn't say completely avoid two girls. If you have seen someone a few times and she offers a two girl it is usually ok. I'd just avoid two girl encounters when you haven't seen either woman yet.[/QUOTE]Good point.

Let's take a survey. What do you think about this one? Real? Fake? They did respond with an invitation to continue the conversation by text, providing an Arkansas number. It is registered to a guy, who I guess could be the dad of one of the two or a previous owner.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f22e7f0-baad-4f48-9d11-9645d5a0140d[/URL]

[QUOTE=AngryBob;5243521]When conversations start with these woman, I'm almost waiting, anticipating for them to ask for something before even meeting. I have changed my thinking so that the moment they ask for anything before we have even met, I automatically disengage myself completely and the attraction is gone. It doesn't matter how good looking they are or even if they have met someone from here before. You must train yourself to leave the conversation at that point because nothing good is going to follow.[/QUOTE]It's almost automatic these days they try for upfront money. Even the real ones. I'd say if you know their real, or your instincts tell you they're real then keep the convo going but don't send anything upfront. Sometimes they just need to be told until they understand that us sending money upfront is a common scam attempt. If they're real and serious about meeting then I'm sure you could find a way in with normal allowance and such. Nothing upfront.

[QUOTE=BeNewAgain;5244565]It's almost automatic these days they try for upfront money. Even the real ones. I'd say if you know their real, or your instincts tell you they're real then keep the convo going but don't send anything upfront. Sometimes they just need to be told until they understand that us sending money upfront is a common scam attempt. If they're real and serious about meeting then I'm sure you could find a way in with normal allowance and such. Nothing upfront.[/QUOTE]Agree 100%.

I had one that I met years ago, not through SA, pull that crap on me twice and I fell for it like a mark.

After covid hit and she never came back home, she asked me for some money, claiming that it was an advance and she was coming home that weekend.

Well, I fell for it because we had hooked up pre-covid several times and I was thinking of getting my hands on that ass again. Needless to say she didn't come home that weekend.

Then a few months later she promised me she was coming home and could I help her out. Oh, sure I can because I'm stupid, and well. That ass. Never showed up that weekend either.

She tried to come back to the well a couple of weeks back and I told her I needed two freebies and she'd have to pay for the hotel before she could get any more money.

A lot of begging and whining ensued, and when I held firm the begging turned into a bunch of angry texts and insults. Yes, I'm old, I get it LOL. You still let me hit it.

Bottom line, it's better holding on to the actual money than giving it away with only a scam promise to meet. Put it in bitcoin, much better results.

[QUOTE=Messi2201;5244457]Let's take a survey. What do you think about this one? Real? Fake? They did respond with an invitation to continue the conversation by text, providing an Arkansas number. It is registered to a guy, who I guess could be the dad of one of the two or a previous owner.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f22e7f0-baad-4f48-9d11-9645d5a0140d[/URL][/QUOTE]You'd have to be a total moron to think you're actually going to hook up with those 2 girls. Some guy probably stole them off one of the girls FB page and is looking for guys to send a deposit to meet.

[QUOTE=Messi2201;5244457]Let's take a survey. What do you think about this one? Real? Fake? They did respond with an invitation to continue the conversation by text, providing an Arkansas number. It is registered to a guy, who I guess could be the dad of one of the two or a previous owner.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f22e7f0-baad-4f48-9d11-9645d5a0140d[/URL][/QUOTE]I doubt those girls know where Wisconsin is.

[QUOTE=RobertWi69;5245019]You'd have to be a total moron to think you're actually going to hook up with those 2 girls. Some guy probably stole them off one of the girls FB page and is looking for guys to send a deposit to meet.[/QUOTE]The beauty of that profile is any dude who looks at it surely wants to partake. But, yeah, the shit is highly unlikely. LOL.

[QUOTE=Messi2201;5244457]Let's take a survey. What do you think about this one? Real? Fake? They did respond with an invitation to continue the conversation by text, providing an Arkansas number. It is registered to a guy, who I guess could be the dad of one of the two or a previous owner.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f22e7f0-baad-4f48-9d11-9645d5a0140d[/URL][/QUOTE]Almost certainly from the St Louis area. In the background there is a Cardinals jersey and a Blues hockey hat on different people.

This last round at SA has worked well. But the strike kind of got broken with this one:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/85033616-a08b-4019-b1fc-7a09e3bf3dcc[/URL]

Has anybody met her? Nobody has ever made me spent so much time to totally flake on the day we had planned. Any info anybody? Yes, I am naive and I still think you can figure these girls out.

[QUOTE=Messi2201;5246048]This last round at SA has worked well. But the strike kind of got broken with this one:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/85033616-a08b-4019-b1fc-7a09e3bf3dcc[/URL]

Has anybody met her? Nobody has ever made me spent so much time to totally flake on the day we had planned. Any info anybody? Yes, I am naive and I still think you can figure these girls out.[/QUOTE]But who were the good ones?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/88ab77b8-b24a-4f7b-adf5-9a990ff31561[/URL]

My subscription is up, so when I checked out this girl's page she was able to see I viewed her. She favorited me, but I ignored it as I wasn't going to re-up just to talk to her.

Later, she unlocked her private photo. Honestly the face pic with cleavage was ok, but the private pic made me decide not to pursue.

But she seems to be actively looking to engage, so I thought I'd post it.

[QUOTE=Singularity007;5248144][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/88ab77b8-b24a-4f7b-adf5-9a990ff31561[/URL]

My subscription is up, so when I checked out this girl's page she was able to see I viewed her. She favorited me, but I ignored it as I wasn't going to re-up just to talk to her.

Later, she unlocked her private photo. Honestly the face pic with cleavage was ok, but the private pic made me decide not to pursue.

But she seems to be actively looking to engage, so I thought I'd post it.[/QUOTE]We exchanged messages and then agreed to go to text, so I do have her number. But she doesn't engage on her end and the communication died out. Maybe she met a guy, or she is not totally serious.