Wrong Business or bad manners
I asked a provider if she swallowed and she told me to quit asking her that stupid shit. I'm not sure if I went too far with my question, but to me it seems standard. I feel like if that was a bad question, she is in the wrong business. I'd like to know if I was out of line, or if she should be out of business.
Try something like this next time.
Hey my favorite bird is a swallow what's yours?
While in my spare time I like to make cream pies, would you like to try one of mine?
Your voice sounds a little horse, would you like something to take care of cough?
Your pictures look great, how about a protein shake?
Do you like folgers coffee with a little creme. You know it's good to the last drop!
You don't have to beat the girl over the head with a bat with a straight up question. Laugh when you ask the question. And I don't blame her for being rude, if you asked the question more than once, she either didn't feel comfortable answering your questions and it's time to move after you ask her the first time- two times or three times is overkill and she will probably get defensive.
[QUOTE=Bjustice;1343751]Since I'm not gifted with telepathy, I can't tell what I'm getting without those questions. How is it possible to know if the information is not posted about a girl. What am I missing? I suppose I'm stupid then, because I figured if I wasn't talking about no $ it's just one adult asking another what she's into.[/QUOTE]
More tips. Don't be an asshole.
I've seen plenty of girls so do take these tips to heart:
1. Don't haggle price. Everyone wants to save money but when you're begging for $50 service from a $150 girl. YOU'RE AN ASSHOLE.
2. Don't say it's your first time when it's not.
3. Don't ask for more pics. Pics on ads are always good enough. Don't be a pic collector.
4. Don't act like you're so hot or hung that they should give you a freebie. These girls are about money, not finding a boyfriend.
5. Don't fall for the girl or be a stalker.
6. Don't forget that, especially the first meeting, she's risking a lot too.
7. Don't make appointments and not keep them. A girl may have bumped someone or cancelled something for you.
8. If you are so worried about paying a girl and not getting 120% of everything you want. You're a cheapskate. Being not pushy and not demanding will get you a lot more services.
9. Don't be a stranger. See the same girl more than once. After 2-3 visits you'll probably get more specific services.
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Clean bill of Health. NO HIV
Not that anyone was asking, but about August of last year I took a chance on a pretty lady called Summer or Chelsea. She was working the Richmond area. After I posted a positive review. Someone suggested she had HIV and didn't care who she gave it to. Panic for me, and a long wait to be sure. I recently had all the blood and related screening completed last week. And I am clean. (For now). I never saw any more posts about Chelsea. And I am not sure she is still around. Just wanted to post you all an update.
My rules for a good dream
I was recently asked in a PM "What are some screening questions to find out if the provider is a LEO?". I replied that I don't believe that there are any reliable questions to ask the provider to figure out if they are LEO. They can and will lie to you right up to the point they say "you are under arrest". Then they start telling some truth.
The way I stay out of trouble is:
1) Read this site regularly. I have learned a lot from those who have much more experience than I ever will.
2) NEVER see a girl that has not been reviewed on this site. NO EXCEPTIONS! And not just 1 review and not from just anyone. When you have read this site for a while you will learn which seniors give good advise and accurate reviews. Only see girls that they have cleared. The search feature on this forum works!
3) Never browse BP. Com and pick someone from there. You are asking for trouble if you do. I do use BP to confirm I have recent contact info. Phone numbers change.
4) When you get to the meet and something does not seem right WALK AWAY!
These rules have served me well. I did get ripped off a couple of times when I started this hobby but not since I resolved to stick to these rules. It does take a lot of patience and planning to make these work. Don't let the little head make impulsive decisions for the big head!
Good luck and be safe!