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[QUOTE=Admiral91;5916033]Can confirm Ruby Spa is new high-end AMP in Durham.
Expensive, but great massage and slow sensual finish. I doubt anything is offered more than HE but for those looking for good massage + standard finish we finally have something in Durham.[/QUOTE]More than $80 for the house fee?
[QUOTE=AGoodGuy;5916838]More than $80 for the house fee?[/QUOTE]According to their website it's 70 for 50 minutes.
[QUOTE=NcWilmMan28;5921684]According to their website it's 70 for 50 minutes.[/QUOTE]Yes. 7 for 50 min. Not rushed. Only one girl working, answering phone and door during massage. Can be rather annoying but not her fault. She was pleasant attractive but way over worked but still provided a good massage.
She spoke English exceptionally well and told me that they have not been able to get anyone to work. Time will tell!
Is the girl Asian and any idea about her approx. age.
[QUOTE=GolfPro38;5922066]Yes. 7 for 50 min. Not rushed. Only one girl working, answering phone and door during massage. Can be rather annoying but not her fault. She was pleasant attractive but way over worked but still provided a good massage.
She spoke English exceptionally well and told me that they have not been able to get anyone to work. Time will tell![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PleasureFind;5927839]Is the girl Asian and any idea about her approx. age.[/QUOTE]Yes Asian probably late 30's early 40's.
Hard to pinpoint with Asians.
Hey. First time posting here. Just went to Ruby's spa and had a surprisingly good massage but unfortunately no HE. What gives?
It was my first time there and when she asked, I did honestly reply with "no this is my first time here and I'm really looking forward to it". Or something to that effect. Was that my first mistake?
Next. Filling out the stupid medical paper thing I probably circled way too many areas. That being said I was recovering from a full day of cycling and my legs, back and arms did really hurt. I figured circling my groin with arrows pointed towards it would be a little too obvious, right?
Strangely, she even gave me a disclaimer, saying that the 50 minutes is for a massage only, "nothing involving sex" she said. I just smiled and nodded and said "yeah ok". Next moving to the room, she asked me to undress and get ready lay on the table blah blah blah. I put my things on the chair and had some money sort of visible but not too visible on the chair. And I only had my backside slightly covered when she walked in.
What followed was a very professional and actually pretty decent massage. She was very polite and we had some good conversation about random BS, but she spent so much time on my back and none of the areas that I was really interested in. The whole time she followed proper covering procedures and really didn't do anything that made me feel that a HE was in my future. Kind of weird because I gave her plenty of signs. A little accidental touch here and there. Compliment on her technique and so on. A little mmm and an ahhh whenever she got close to my groin area. Like I said she spent so much time with me laying on my front that when I finally flipped over I was only at half mast, but she definitely noticed. But didn't offer anything. And of course she followed the correct covering technique when I rolled over. For the last 5 minutes while laying on my back she focused on my legs a little bit, never really getting close enough to my groin to even give her a signal. Should I have been more deliberate with dropping the towels or dropping a few more hints? Was it because I said it was my first time there? Not sure what I did wrong here and why there was no additional services offered.
Anyone care to share their typical AMP experience? Some do's and don'ts. It's been a long time since I've been to one, but the last time it was a lot easier and a hell of a lot more fun.
Hey. First time posting here. Just went to Ruby's spa and had a surprisingly good massage but unfortunately no HE. What gives?
It was my first time there and when she asked, I did honestly reply with "no this is my first time here and I'm really looking forward to it". Or something to that effect. Was that my first mistake?
Next. Filling out the stupid medical paper thing I probably circled way too many areas. That being said I was recovering from a full day of cycling and my legs, back and arms did really hurt. I figured circling my groin with arrows pointed towards it would be a little too obvious, right?
Strangely, she even gave me a disclaimer, saying that the 50 minutes is for a massage only, "nothing involving sex" she said. I just smiled and nodded and said "yeah ok". Next moving to the room, she asked me to undress and get ready lay on the table blah blah blah. I put my things on the chair and had some money sort of visible but not too visible on the chair. And I only had my backside slightly covered when she walked in.
What followed was a very professional and actually pretty decent massage. She was very polite and we had some good conversation about random BS, but she spent so much time on my back and none of the areas that I was really interested in. The whole time she followed proper covering procedures and really didn't do anything that made me feel that a HE was in my future. She asked how I found the place or where I heard of them, I think I said "google" or something. Kind of weird because I gave her plenty of signs. A little accidental touch here and there. Compliment on her technique and so on. A little mmm and an ahhh whenever she got close to my groin area. Like I said she spent so much time with me laying on my front that when I finally flipped over I was only at half mast, and with all the coverings I'm not even sure she noticed. And again. She followed the correct covering technique when I rolled over. For the last 5 minutes while laying on my back she focused on my legs a little bit, never really getting close enough to my groin to even give her a signal. Should I have been more deliberate with dropping the towels or dropping a few more hints? Was it because I said it was my first time there? Did I circle too many areas on that entry sheet / questionnaire. Not sure what I did wrong here and why there was no additional services offered. It's not like she was busy. Phone never rang, no interruptions at all.
Anyone care to share their typical AMP experience? Some do's and don'ts. It's been a long time since I've been to one, but the last time it was a lot easier and a hell of a lot more fun.
[QUOTE=PirateForBooty;5940749]Hey. First time posting here. Just went to Ruby's spa and had a surprisingly good massage but unfortunately no HE. What gives?
It was my first time there and when she asked, I did honestly reply with "no this is my first time here and I'm really looking forward to it". Or something to that effect. Was that my first mistake?
Next. Filling out the stupid medical paper thing I probably circled way too many areas. That being said I was recovering from a full day of cycling and my legs, back and arms did really hurt. I figured circling my groin with arrows pointed towards it would be a little too obvious, right?
Strangely, she even gave me a disclaimer, saying that the 50 minutes is for a massage only, "nothing involving sex" she said. I just smiled and nodded and said "yeah ok". Next moving to the room, she asked me to undress and get ready lay on the table blah blah blah. I put my things on the chair and had some money sort of visible but not too visible on the chair. And I only had my backside slightly covered when she walked in.
What followed was a very professional and actually pretty decent massage. She was very polite and we had some good conversation about random BS, but she spent so much time on my back and none of the areas that I was really interested in. The whole time she followed proper covering procedures and really didn't do anything that made me feel that a HE was in my future. She asked how I found the place or where I heard of them, I think I said "google" or something. Kind of weird because I gave her plenty of signs. A little accidental touch here and there. Compliment on her technique and so on. A little mmm and an ahhh whenever she got close to my groin area. Like I said she spent so much time with me laying on my front that when I finally flipped over I was only at half mast, and with all the coverings I'm not even sure she noticed. And again. She followed the correct covering technique when I rolled over. For the last 5 minutes while laying on my back she focused on my legs a little bit, never really getting close enough to my groin to even give her a signal. Should I have been more deliberate with dropping the towels or dropping a few more hints? Was it because I said it was my first time there? Did I circle too many areas on that entry sheet / questionnaire. Not sure what I did wrong here and why there was no additional services offered. It's not like she was busy. Phone never rang, no interruptions at all.
Anyone care to share their typical AMP experience? Some do's and don'ts. It's been a long time since I've been to one, but the last time it was a lot easier and a hell of a lot more fun.[/QUOTE]There has been some AMP closings in the local area. In recent years Wake County has periodically checked AMPs on a regular basis. The AMPs that remain open are playing it safe. Two members on the Raleigh Massage Thread also reported that HE is no longer being offered at Ruby. Will this changed in the future? Yes, I believe so but it will be a while and that is not good considering Fayetteville and Greensboro is long drive with current gas prices. You can find a independent provider on ([URL]https://rubmd.com/raleigh-durham-nc[/URL]) or Adult Search ([URL]https://adultsearch.com/north-carolina/raleigh/body-rubs[/URL]) but its hard to know if the massage will be quality or not.
After much thought and reviewing all posts about Ruby Massage it was apparent many mongers shared their experiences. That in part is what this forum is for. But too much of a good thing draws attention. I would not be surprised that the owner follows this forum. I would want to know if I was in the same situation. Maybe the owner told the massager no more. Maybe the same is true with all the recent closures of AMPs. The forum giveth and taketh.
Seems a lot of posts about Ruby here and on Raleigh board. This area has been in a massive decline for the last 4-5 years. When I first started mongering here there were about 10 very nice options between Durham, Cary, and Raleigh. Now there might be 1-2 left in the entire triangle??
Don't blame the recent reviews on places closing up shop or denying extras. That is part of the game and sadly the state of things in this geographical area.
Give it a try, you might get lucky if you don't mind older attendants.
Younger girl there but never seem to time it. The older lady has had different names every time I've been there. Won't be back. Better options with the Asian hotels.
[QUOTE=GolfPro38;5961844]Give it a try, you might get lucky if you don't mind older attendants.
Younger girl there but never seem to time it. The older lady has had different names every time I've been there. Won't be back. Better options with the Asian hotels.[/QUOTE]What are the Asian hotels you speak of? Forgive my ignorance. Popping in from the Virginia forums.
[QUOTE=TimJim;5969446]What are the Asian hotels you speak of? Forgive my ignorance. Popping in from the Virginia forums.[/QUOTE]Look on STG or AdultSearch ads for Asian escorts. The ad appears TGTBT but if you text the # they will respond w / an address to a motel or extended stay hotel. They will send you rates and ask when you want to come.
The provider will NOT look like the pics. You are essentially rolling the dice. Normally you get some average late-40's Asian but every now and then you will strike gold. Other times, the provider will be so fat / ugly you should just walk away as soon as they open the door.
Thank you for the advice! I went back recently and had a much better experience. The latina I saw the first time wasn't there unfortunately. But a cute Asian girl with fairly nice tits. Large B, maybe in her 20's though could have been 30's? She had the lights very dim, I asked to make the room, brighter and she said no. She walked out of the room while I undressed and I turned it brighter but she made it darker again when she came back. She started with back massage and several minutes later asked to get on my back which I of course agreed. But after a few minutes I was getting restless and said I wanted to see her so I flipped and we started discussing pricing. She wanted to just use her hand but I also wanted her mouth, which she agreed to after. 1 She started with her hand and I told her I was into feet and asked her to get on the table. She didn't seem happy about this, but she took off her flip flops and sat at end of table. I was pretty nervous since I hadn't done this before so it was taking me a long time. I also jerked off a couple hrs. Before so I wouldn't shoot my load immediately so maybe this was a mistake. She did CBJ for a couple min. Then used her hand and feet again. By now she added lube, probably 20 min. Later. When I asked for her mouth again she said no. I ended up finishing myself with her feet. So a fun experience though in future guessing it might be cheaper to get an escort for BJ / fj Anyone have a suggestion for thick 20's-30's white / latina girl with nice natural tits? '
[QUOTE=MDBellamy;5780880]The mistake that was the red flag for your masseuse was handing over the tip to her at the start of the session. Think: you are fully clothed and you are offering to pay for additional services.
The regular way to do this is for the masseuse to leave the room, then you undress. She comes back and begins the massage (with or without draping). Nothing illegal here. Your behavior (reaching out, OTC) sends a signal that you wish for more. She will also tease (not illegal) to which you will respond. On the flip, negotiations can begin. If you are too pushy she may still play it safe, but you've probably demonstrated enough "interest" to make you a safe bet.
Some folks put money in clear view while undressing so that the masseuse can see it as soon as she re-enters the room, but nothing is being negotiated at that point.
So, two red flags, I suggest. First, offering cash immediately. Second (and you can't do much about this one) as a first-timer (young, short hair? You may look like a gentleman on official business.
Best advice: let the masseuse do the advances while offering encouragement (Oh, I like that!) and OTC roaming.
I agree with Reggie about getting your money back and walking. This shouldn't put you off a return visit.
Better luck next time![/QUOTE].
I'm in the area for the next few weeks is Quality BathHouse a good spot at all or am I better off looking somewhere else?