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[QUOTE=JohnSchaefer;2387445]I have been in contact with "Samantha" for a couple days now trying to set something up to no avail, always stops texting when were about to finish the deal. She is just playing games, to start of her ad says "Deland", in her texts she says she can go down there but for extra $$ like really.[/QUOTE]Same here. Text only and then after a bit she just stops. She has a BP ad up as Sam but seems to be playing a game.
[QUOTE=TooBe101;2368783]Saw Stellar recently. She was everything she claims. Contacted her via text and we agreed on a outcall of my preference. The dream started with small talk. I was impressed by her looks. Oh yes the pics in the ad are hers. So you will get what you see. Nice pair of A's with a meaty pussy. We began with LFK which turned in to DFK and we made out like we have never kissed anyone before. She is an expert GFE which she claims. I was ready for some bobbing action by now and she wowed me with some great BBBJ and dt as well. She was so much into it I didn't have to give her much direction. With the cover on I sampled all my favorite possible position with her and she excelled in all. There was no watching of time. She is totally into it and aims to please. My new ATF in the making. For any info not clear in this report please pm. Besides the rates are pretty good too.[/QUOTE]You are so sweet. Thanks doll, I look forward to seeing you again.
[QUOTE=JohnSchaefer;2387445]I have been in contact with "Samantha" for a couple days now trying to set something up to no avail, always stops texting when were about to finish the deal. She is just playing games, to start of her ad says "Deland", in her texts she says she can go down there but for extra $$ like really.[/QUOTE]I know for a fact that she was referred by another provider. That provider helped her set up her ad, but the other provider cannot vouch for her. She is an acquaintance and not a " friend", so she is not staking her reputation on this new provider. It also appears that her ad has disappeared, so maybe Samantha changed her mind. Too bad, as she appeared to be a cute new addition to the DeLand area.
[QUOTE=HeWolf47;2387977]I know for a fact that she was referred by another provider. That provider helped her set up her ad, but the other provider cannot vouch for her. She is an acquaintance and not a " friend", so she is not staking her reputation on this new provider. It also appears that her ad has disappeared, so maybe Samantha changed her mind. Too bad, as she appeared to be a cute new addition to the DeLand area.[/QUOTE]I was texting with Sam today. I asked her about her ad disappearing. She said she was unaware it was gone. She was very pushy about meeting. I declined, red flags were waving.
[QUOTE=HeWolf47;2387977]I know for a fact that she was referred by another provider. That provider helped her set up her ad, but the other provider cannot vouch for her. She is an acquaintance and not a " friend", so she is not staking her reputation on this new provider. It also appears that her ad has disappeared, so maybe Samantha changed her mind. Too bad, as she appeared to be a cute new addition to the DeLand area.[/QUOTE]Texted her, replied hours after the fact. No mention of provider who referred her but the above report confirms that. Games and games. Even if legit haven't we had our fill of sp's who reply to our text hours or even days afterwards? I get an hour, perhaps two a week window, and I know about it with an hour's advance. I get it we all have lives outside of this, and stuff happens, but it is a trend that is ever growing.
Time for coffee.
I had the chance to visit Stellar this week. She is the girl in the pictures and does make you comfortable. We visited a notel-motel which served its purpose. She is very skilled and willing to accommodate. I will repeat when in the area again.
Finally made the choice to see this lady based on all the good reviews, and the fact she was running a special. Communication was ok, although meeting up was not as smooth as I had hoped but still acceptable. I picked her up and took her to my incall that I setup in Deland. I will agree on this, she is super cool and very nice to be around. A great conversationalist, not a junkie, and is someone I would hang out with. As for the rest that everyone has mentioned I would not agree. I did not find her overly attractive. Merely acceptable in terms of looks. What I saw was a destroyed set of tits, filthy feet, and an overall trashy feel. After about 20 minutes and the first round it was obvious that she was done for the night, although I paid for the hour. This is not meant to be an indictment on her, just that it didn't work for me as it may with other members. As it goes of course YMMV. I'm glad this only cost the special price because had it been the normal donation I would have been really pissed. I will not repeat.
[QUOTE=Flraven05;2398981]Finally made the choice to see this lady based on all the good reviews, and the fact she was running a special. Communication was ok, although meeting up was not as smooth as I had hoped but still acceptable. I picked her up and took her to my incall that I setup in Deland. I will agree on this, she is super cool and very nice to be around. A great conversationalist, not a junkie, and is someone I would hang out with. As for the rest that everyone has mentioned I would not agree. I did not find her overly attractive. Merely acceptable in terms of looks. What I saw was a destroyed set of tits, filthy feet, and an overall trashy feel. After about 20 minutes and the first round it was obvious that she was done for the night, although I paid for the hour. This is not meant to be an indictment on her, just that it didn't work for me as it may with other members. As it goes of course YMMV. I'm glad this only cost the special price because had it been the normal donation I would have been really pissed. I will not repeat.[/QUOTE]I think what's happening with her is that she has too many "problems" that she thinks she can solve by becoming a high volume provider. It always gets worse not better for these types who go from one crisis to another. Just a matter of time till she burns out. No repeat here also.
I met up w her and didn't follow through because of that exact same "ridden hard and put away wet" type of vibe. Wasn't doing to review her when I didn't partake, but had no desire to see it through the moment I saw the "live" version of the ad. Never ceases to amaze me what some of us deem an acceptable fantasy.
[QUOTE=Ocean101;2399101]I think what's happening with her is that she has too many "problems" that she thinks she can solve by becoming a high volume provider. It always gets worse not better for these types who go from one crisis to another. Just a matter of time till she burns out. No repeat here also.[/QUOTE]
So here's my first post, been enjoying Intel from many of you but seeing the last few about this gem made me upset.
There isn't a more sweet accommodating provider out there. She is awesome to hang out with, great conversations, easy to relax and enjoy a true GFE.
Never a clock watcher, amazing skills, enjoys receiving only second to giving ultimate dreams.
[QUOTE=Dantanna;2399135]I met up w her and didn't follow through because of that exact same "ridden hard and put away wet" type of vibe. Wasn't doing to review her when I didn't partake, but had no desire to see it through the moment I saw the "live" version of the ad. Never ceases to amaze me what some of us deem an acceptable fantasy.[/QUOTE]Thank you for giving me the motivation to say a few things. When a provider is reviewed we do our best to figure out what the reviewer is really saying. Not knowing the monger personally we have no way of knowing what his standards are. Is he young, old, sex addict, mentally disturbed, etc. So it is impossible to know his point of view. We all believe that, at the very least, the provider is safe and not LE. So we go visit the fantasy that we have in our mind based on the review. Now this is not aimed at any particular provider that is why I titled this Provider in General. I cannot tell you how many times the dream I was advised on turned into a nightmare. I know we always say YMMV but that's painting with a broad brush. I always will prefer to visit a provider that has been viewed here, on this site, preferably by a senior. However I am really tired of showing up at the location to find that the provider lives in squalor. You don't even want to sit down anywhere without fear of catching something. Then the lies come out, the upsell starts, the phone never stops going off and they find it difficult to put down as they are always planning on the next arrival when they have not taken care of you yet! If you ask them to put the phone down or on silent you think you just asked them to kill! When they finally get around to doing the deed you will usually hear, within a minute or so, are you going to come soon? Now fortunately I don't find myself in these situations to often anymore but when I do it makes me want to give this hobby up and quickly go back to my (clean) world. Yes I know we can always turn around and takeoff once we see the situation but once you program that little guy its difficult to turn away. Its the nature of the business I guess to have the fantasy but reality has really kicked in for me and I know that I am reaching the point where the end may not justify the means anymore. I am now being very picky and careful about whom I dream about. However fake pictures and reviews that don't really tell the whole story are making it more difficult for me to venture out. I am now down to one certified grade A provider who is UTR and not in Daytona. The harsh reality is that there probably is no gold at the end of the rainbow for me. Perhaps there never was. Safe hunting all!
Allow me to add. More then once I have read wonderful reviews and powerful descriptions of providers only to take the plunge and when the door opens I get one of those Kodak moments. For the life of me I did not understand what was going on in the reviewers head, but then I discovered three things that like Ocean, made me think hard, and understand the varying degrees of discrepancies.
One, I found a provider, a legend to be precise, to be subpar. It was so vanilla and uninspiring that I had to work triple time and imagine it was someone else. Did I write that. Nope, cause I felt bad as she had been nice, and even called me apologizing and even hanging out. First and last time I have ever done that.
Second, my type vs another type. Some people look for polar opposites and even exotic or daring encounters. Some find a run down skank inspiring, others find an overweight lady intriguing, and others want a skinny spinner with zero boobs and a flat surfboard ass. Ever seen a hot woman with a guy that looks like he escaped from the zoo and asked yourself WTF she sees in him? Same thing applies here.
Three, a provider today can look beaten out in less than a month. I went through that and the next monger who called her was shocked by her. Needless to say I felt like crap, and made me ask tough questions. Not only that but last time I go to see any provider after 72/ hrs without sleep with caffeine and no sleep pills in my bloodstream. It effed up anoyher mongers dream.
So I guess we are stuck in a hobby that allows us to gather lots of info while adding the wild card of the unknown to the mix. Remember that even if all goes well and the provider is all. She is to be there are those other variants like LE, pimps, and psychos.
Be safe.
[QUOTE=WilliamMstrs;2399625]Allow me to add. More then once I have read wonderful reviews and powerful descriptions of providers only to take the plunge and when the door opens I get one of those Kodak moments. For the life of me I did not understand what was going on in the reviewers head, but then I discovered three things that like Ocean, made me think hard, and understand the varying degrees of discrepancies.
One, I found a provider, a legend to be precise, to be subpar. It was so vanilla and uninspiring that I had to work triple time and imagine it was someone else. Did I write that. Nope, cause I felt bad as she had been nice, and even called me apologizing and even hanging out. First and last time I have ever done that.
Second, my type vs another type. Some people look for polar opposites and even exotic or daring encounters. Some find a run down skank inspiring, others find an overweight lady intriguing, and others want a skinny spinner with zero boobs and a flat surfboard ass. Ever seen a hot woman with a guy that looks like he escaped from the zoo and asked yourself WTF she sees in him? Same thing applies here.
Three, a provider today can look beaten out in less than a month. I went through that and the next monger who called her was shocked by her. Needless to say I felt like crap, and made me ask tough questions. Not only that but last time I go to see any provider after 72/ hrs without sleep with caffeine and no sleep pills in my bloodstream. It effed up anoyher mongers dream.
So I guess we are stuck in a hobby that allows us to gather lots of info while adding the wild card of the unknown to the mix. Remember that even if all goes well and the provider is all. She is to be there are those other variants like LE, pimps, and psychos.
Be safe.[/QUOTE]That was well thought out WM and well written. We all have are own "requirements". That's why there are Menus in Restaurants. However the odds of coming up with that certain someone are long giving all we have talked about here. Uncertain reviews, fake pictures, etc. For me, and speaking only for myself, I am less inclined to go out and beat the Bush. (no pun intended) I'm sticking with known individuals. Others may enjoy roaming more. To each his own. If your not having fun and enjoying the hobby then why the hell do it? Thanks again for your point of view!
[QUOTE=WilliamMstrs;2399625] skinny spinner with zero boobs and a flat surfboard ass.(that is what i like!!!)
Needless to say ( all day )
[/QUOTE]In my short time writing about dreams, I've had three Kodak moments. Where I could not believe what the chick actually looked like in person. All three dreams the first time were unbelievable, and the girls were really into it, did not watch the clock, just a great time! The second visits were completely different. Some time had gone by and needles to say time is hard and works very fast on these ladies. They did not look the same, they were clock watching, to the point where I did not even want to finish and I just got up with one of them. I only saw the first two Kodaks twice and the third I skipped a repeat because after I repeated and had that outcome. I have a rule. I only see a girl one time. I know that might sound weird to some of you, but for me this is a hobby and I want the best and only the best for me. I do not wish to tarnish my experience with chicks who get on the sauce and start hooking up w management.
This thread has been interesting to read and I agree with all that has been said. The glaring deficiency here is the ability to write a truthful and COMPLETE review. Obviously, the level of writing skills varies widely here. There is no checklist available for novice reviewers to follow and even if there were how easy would it be to find?
I've been in the hobby for about 2 years. I've studied reviews from many of the "big city boards" on USA. There are 2 basic styles employed: The List and the Narrative.
The List is just that. An item by item, one line per item, few word description that touches on many aspects of the visit and provider. For example:
Matches ad pictures: Yes.
Chest: 36 DDD enhanced.
Waist: Slim but many stretch marks & sagging skin.
Hips: Wide with many stretch marks & sagging skin.
She wore: Lingerie and short shorts.
Room Appearance: Hurricane Provider. Tripped over sex toys.
Smokes: Yes. Blows smoke in your face.
Attitude: Combative.
Management? Yes. 2 NFL Linebackers, armed with M-16's and grenades.
Notes: Track marks up both arms, both feet and around back.
Service included: Oral: BBBJCIM. Most positions.
Kissing: No. Reserved for husband.
Greek on menu: No.
You get the idea.
The Narrative can range from a few useless sentences to an exhaustively detailed analysis of every aspect of the visit. This is the most common form and is, by and large, only somewhat useful. I say this because most reviewers don't write well and don't provide all that much useful information. So the question is: How to teach novice reviewers (and those who have posted many reviews but many offer little value) how to improve what they supply? It's a problem for which there doesn't seem to be any good solution.
I like checklists. I use them all the time for my work, hobbies and my reviews here. I rely on my memory but try to cover all the essentials. I think the essentials are pretty easy yet they are often overlooked particularly in vague one or two paragraph, reviews that basically say "Had fun" and "will repeat. ".
Ask five mongers to describe their dream with the same provider and you will get 5 different reviews each touching on the details important that reviewer. I find that what I read in reviews usually has to be averaged out if there is more than one. As has already been mentioned, one monger's fantasy can be another monger's nightmare.
The bottom line for me is this: A review here is usually only one part of the decision-making process. The content of Review (s) must be weighed against what happens during the phone call and any other results of my research. Private messages (PMs) can be your friend here.
We can hope for a "standardized" review checklist but I don't ever see that happening. We can encourage all reviewers to be more thorough via polite feedback sent via PMs. Keep in mind that ALL reviews can be edited for a short time after they are "uploaded" so more detail can be provided if needed or requested.
Have fun. Stay safe. Write a complete and truthful review.
OAG.