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[QUOTE=ChaphillMan;3216526]Lillah / Lohlah was a sweetheart when I saw her a few weeks ago but she did seem to be getting herself sore and mentioned size. The second time I saw her she was even complaining a bit but man her body was so hot and she was still nice so it did not ruin the experience.

Isn't it more the friction that gets them than the size? Heather limits dick size too. I would like to help her learn to like it.

I have been with plenty of tight woman who are fine or even really like big dicks. Are there any tips we can give them to handle it better or even enjoy it?[/QUOTE]Lube, lube and more lube. Then ease it in slowly and re lube. Spit and pressure technique is not perfered.

Unfortunately it is size, and not a lot can be done about it. Of course, a good lube does help. Other tricks are starting very slow, and even just laying there (inserted) can help a girl relax a bit, but really comes down down the "fit". Several I would like to see, but have srated away based on reviews like those below.

If someone out there knows something I don't, would also like the advice!

[QUOTE=ChaphillMan;3216526]Lillah / Lohlah was a sweetheart when I saw her a few weeks ago but she did seem to be getting herself sore and mentioned size. The second time I saw her she was even complaining a bit but man her body was so hot and she was still nice so it did not ruin the experience.

Isn't it more the friction that gets them than the size? Heather limits dick size too. I would like to help her learn to like it.

I have been with plenty of tight woman who are fine or even really like big dicks. Are there any tips we can give them to handle it better or even enjoy it?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gibbs70;3216953]Unfortunately it is size, and not a lot can be done about it. Of course, a good lube does help. Other tricks are starting very slow, and even just laying there (inserted) can help a girl relax a bit, but really comes down down the "fit". Several I would like to see, but have srated away based on reviews like those below.

If someone out there knows something I don't, would also like the advice![/QUOTE]Jimmy Christmas how big are you guys that all these women who see probably 10-15 dicks a day are saying you're too big? Come on man, these girls know how to act and manipulate on a level most don't get. The issue is not your "SIZE" the issue is these girls are doing something for money only and the vagina, has a mind of it's own when the girl is not into you. It's like when us guys start thinking and junior don't want to perform, only for the female species. Every guy on the internet is packing 8-10 inches, but in real life 95% of every last one of you dudes are between 5-7 inches. Look it up. Anything above 7 is starting to get rare. Sure it exists, but these girls are seeing 95% dicks between 5-7 inches all day long. They probably almost all feel the same to them. This is a mental thing for some girls and it's likely related to not being into what they are doing. I'm packing exactly 7, right on the nose when I'm rock solid and I'm thicker then average. And trust me, I'm not tearing up any girl I've been with. They all can take. Sure, I've felt the end of the love cannel with many, if not most women, but it does not bother them if they are wanting you. In fact, most like it.

DirtyDeeds,

I see the parallel in what you describe. So the more they are into it the less they will be concerned about the size. What are the best ways to get them prepared mentally?

Chap.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3216986]Jimmy Christmas how big are you guys that all these women who see probably 10-15 dicks a day are saying you're too big? Come on man, these girls know how to act and manipulate on a level most don't get. The issue is not your "SIZE" the issue is these girls are doing something for money only and the vagina, has a mind of it's own when the girl is not into you. It's like when us guys start thinking and junior don't want to perform, only for the female species. Every guy on the internet is packing 8-10 inches, but in real life 95% of every last one of you dudes are between 5-7 inches. Look it up. Anything above 7 is starting to get rare. Sure it exists, but these girls are seeing 95% dicks between 5-7 inches all day long. They probably almost all feel the same to them. This is a mental thing for some girls and it's likely related to not being into what they are doing. I'm packing exactly 7, right on the nose when I'm rock solid and I'm thicker then average. And trust me, I'm not tearing up any girl I've been with. They all can take. Sure, I've felt the end of the love cannel with many, if not most women, but it does not bother them if they are wanting you. In fact, most like it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ChaphillMan;3217054]DirtyDeeds,

I see the parallel in what you describe. So the more they are into it the less they will be concerned about the size. What are the best ways to get them prepared mentally?

Chap.[/QUOTE]The key is to hit it not like a 22 year old boy who does not know what he has, hit it like a 52 year old Man that knows how to treat what he's got. Any fool can pump and dump and write a review. Be skilled my friends and you will reap the benefits. Practice on your wives, you will be amazed. Number of posts has nothing to do with knowledge. I am 7 X6. 25 Never any complaints from those that deserve a good "session".

A small pussy is fine and can be worked with. A small mouth will hurt from all the contact with their teeth. With a small mouth a condom is a must LOL.

[QUOTE=ChaphillMan;3217054]DirtyDeeds,

I see the parallel in what you describe. So the more they are into it the less they will be concerned about the size. What are the best ways to get them prepared mentally?

Chap.[/QUOTE]

Ask 10 women about dick preference and you will probably get 10 different lessons about what pleases a woman, LOL. But to change the subject, I was really active for a while and was always successfull seeing any girl on my radar. But I pre-booked 1-3 days ahead. Things have changed and I can't prebook. In the last month, I have had several play-days pop up on my schedule but I could not get a response from providers! I pick one, call then text, wait 30 minutes and text again. Always polite and respectful. After an hour or so, I move on and repeat. No luck. I don't want to text 5 girls at once and end up on 4 blacklists. Is it due to the changes we all have noticed with BP? Or do they really get non-stop calls? I would really appreciate any long-time SMs who can PM some good advice from your experience on how to get their attention on first contact. PM and it remains private.

[QUOTE=Gibbs70;3216953]Unfortunately it is size, and not a lot can be done about it. Of course, a good lube does help. Other tricks are starting very slow, and even just laying there (inserted) can help a girl relax a bit, but really comes down down the "fit". Several I would like to see, but have srated away based on reviews like those below.

If someone out there knows something I don't, would also like the advice![/QUOTE]What positions are you maneuvering these girls in? Some positions can hurt because you end up hitting her cervix which is not very pleasant. If you are the type of guy who likes to try and go as deep and hard as possible then that may be more of a problem than having a "big dick". Lube helps as well. You are going to feel bigger and more painful to a woman who isn't turned on. And therefore not properly lubricated.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3216986]Jimmy Christmas how big are you guys that all these women who see probably 10-15 dicks a day are saying you're too big? Come on man, these girls know how to act and manipulate on a level most don't get. The issue is not your "SIZE" the issue is these girls are doing something for money only and the vagina, has a mind of it's own when the girl is not into you. It's like when us guys start thinking and junior don't want to perform, only for the female species. Every guy on the internet is packing 8-10 inches, but in real life 95% of every last one of you dudes are between 5-7 inches. Look it up. Anything above 7 is starting to get rare. Sure it exists, but these girls are seeing 95% dicks between 5-7 inches all day long. They probably almost all feel the same to them. This is a mental thing for some girls and it's likely related to not being into what they are doing. I'm packing exactly 7, right on the nose when I'm rock solid and I'm thicker then average. And trust me, I'm not tearing up any girl I've been with. They all can take. Sure, I've felt the end of the love cannel with many, if not most women, but it does not bother them if they are wanting you. In fact, most like it.[/QUOTE]I've seen a good number of 7+ inchers. The biggest being around 10 inches and one that was thicker than a pop can. The average dick size is between 4-7 inches but for whatever reason I've found men with larger than average dick sizes to have a higher sex drive. I'm not sure if levels of testosterone have anything to do with dick size but it would make sense. I don't usually have issues with the larger men other than some feel that their dick size means they don't need to develop any skill so they jackhammer away.

[QUOTE=MrNCbob;3217904]Ask 10 women about dick preference and you will probably get 10 different lessons about what pleases a woman, LOL. But to change the subject, I was really active for a while and was always successfull seeing any girl on my radar. But I pre-booked 1-3 days ahead. Things have changed and I can't prebook. In the last month, I have had several play-days pop up on my schedule but I could not get a response from providers! I pick one, call then text, wait 30 minutes and text again. Always polite and respectful. After an hour or so, I move on and repeat. No luck. I don't want to text 5 girls at once and end up on 4 blacklists. Is it due to the changes we all have noticed with BP? Or do they really get non-stop calls? I would really appreciate any long-time SMs who can PM some good advice from your experience on how to get their attention on first contact. PM and it remains private.[/QUOTE]Sending a picture of money with "I want to spend this on you. " Has always worked for me. Also, if you get blacklisted by a chick or chicks it just means you've saved some money to spend on something better. I wouldn't worry about it.

[QUOTE=MrNCbob;3217904]Ask 10 women about dick preference and you will probably get 10 different lessons about what pleases a woman, LOL. But to change the subject, I was really active for a while and was always successfull seeing any girl on my radar. But I pre-booked 1-3 days ahead. Things have changed and I can't prebook. In the last month, I have had several play-days pop up on my schedule but I could not get a response from providers! I pick one, call then text, wait 30 minutes and text again. Always polite and respectful. After an hour or so, I move on and repeat. No luck. I don't want to text 5 girls at once and end up on 4 blacklists. Is it due to the changes we all have noticed with BP? Or do they really get non-stop calls? I would really appreciate any long-time SMs who can PM some good advice from your experience on how to get their attention on first contact. PM and it remains private.[/QUOTE]The reason you can't prebook is that true professionals are rare on backpage these days. If you need to schedule in advance one of the local agencies might be your best bet. Failing that you're going to need to choose one of the older better known providers who travels on a regular schedule. They're not hard to differentiate from the others. There are also a few providers who post on this forum and work in the Raleigh area. I'm pretty sure the ones who take the time to post here (assuming it's not hateful responses to bad reviews) are professional enough to keep appointments.

In regards to getting blacklisted, put that out of your mind. The reality is that most sex workers are focused on the moment and not some appointment that might come later. That's why so many guys end up sitting in parking lots for 10-60+ minutes. She double, triple, quadruple or so forth booked and you got beaten to the room. If you want to be polite send a text saying you got rear ended and can't' make it but for most providers it won't even matter because you're just a number and they've probably double booked. FWIW, I've talked to several who double book because of the number of guys who flake or because they feel like it's feast or famine. With low end (and that doesn't mean low price) providers you have to look out for yourself which often does mean having a backup plan.

As far as getting their attention, GetControl's advice is great. Seeing dollars makes most of them jump. To reduce the flake factor I generally text I'm there and ask for the room number 5-10 minutes in advance of me being there. If I don't here from them when I'm a couple of minutes out and haven't double booked I park and give them 5 minutes to respond and during that time I'm sending texts or making calls to schedule a backup.

I have a general question for you fellas. I have Been in this for a little bit and I just wonder do you prefer a lady to have professionally done snapshots or selfies?

MZ.

Actually, when I said I can't prebook, I was referring to MY schedule. I can't predict my day to day schedule these days, too busy. But most of my oThER reviews of BP girls were prebooked. That is the way I thought it was supposed to be done before I found usasg. It was easy and if you have a predictable schedule, I recommend trying it for hour appointments. I was able to see any girl on my list and I almost never had to wait. I did eventually see some on short notice but it just seemed a lot easier before now. I took a break this fall and now it seems like the better ones are much harder to reach on short notice. Thanks for the PM advice I have received, very helpful! I am going to hold off on waiving pics of money in their face; I want to ask a few providers their opinion first but that might be insulting to some providers. Or it might be genius, IDK.

[QUOTE=MistressZodiac;3221236]I have a general question for you fellas. I have Been in this for a little bit and I just wonder do you prefer a lady to have professionally done snapshots or selfies?

MZ.[/QUOTE]I prefer selfies or even get your friend or whomever to snap pics of you with your phone camera and post. They just come off a little more genuine. To me at least. However, if you're doing fetish shit, probably need to get a pro to shoot the scene. Just my opinion.

Professionally done photos can be very nice and very attractive of course, and I appreciate that a lady makes the investment of time and resources to get those taken. I really like a few selfies too as these can show more of what a person is like. How you present yourself makes a big difference to me, and I don't mean how beautiful you are. A face pic is nice but I understand when ladies choose not to do that. So my personal preference would be one or two "pro" shots and also some candid selfies. Something a little sexy but not Hustler grade shots. Just one person's opinion and I am sure other will think differently And this might seem obvious, but it is amazing how many don't smile at all for face pics or partial face pics.

[QUOTE=MistressZodiac;3221236]I have a general question for you fellas. I have Been in this for a little bit and I just wonder do you prefer a lady to have professionally done snapshots or selfies?

MZ.[/QUOTE]