Just what I have been asking for!
As I said before, it was over, and will again be unless BH throws in some more posts continuing the drama. EOM Back to lovin and lickin.
Wet Dreams, PW
[QUOTE=Nashvegasman]You guys are really entertaining. Can you both stop or take it to PM's already and leave it there? You're both acting like children to be quite honest. I think you've both said your peace now let it go for the love of all things holy. I honestly don't even know what this was about anymore because there's a lot of he said, she said and high school cuts going on. This is an adult board to share solid info with others. I hope you guys are done because as entertaining as this has been, it's just plain boring now. Thanks for the laughs, the info and everything else you two have done for everyone around here. Now back to our regularly scheduled programming.[/QUOTE]
Where the discussion should be
Wicked Milf
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Originally Posted by Blackhawk 101
What's funny is everything she wanted was on Date Check. Why be a member of these sites if the provider isn't going to use them?
I wanted to expand on your comment about your site ID. As your incorrect with everything being on your d-c profile.
Just because a hobbyist has an ID membership from a paid site. Doesn't mean that he's 100%guaranteed (OK) to be seen. Your ID doesn't tell us ladies anything about you. It doesn't give your name, nor #, nor description. Nor does your ID tells us anything about your demeanor & how you treat ladies when alone BCD with them.
Sure some providers will see you have an ID. Whether you contact them directly through said site or send it to them in an email (of which I feel to be unsafe, when ID is only mentioned in an email & not confirmed).
Many of those particular providers won't even bother to contact the OK's on your profile nor ask for additional info as I noted above. Some accept a paid ID and want to make a quick buck. Only to regret not having done further screening if something bad were to of occurred.
A good example below, that ones paid ID on a sex site, is not good unless additional info is provided.
There was a recent bust in a state that involved 3 or more (WELL KNOWN ladies) from various cities & states. Some of which I knew (of) and had at one point accepted as safe references. (I no longer do).
They all accepted said hobbyists paid ID from a site. None of those providers asked for additional info. Because he had OK's next to his profile.
None of those providers bothered to contact any of the OK's to get informative feedback.
The outcome. They were all busted.
Why? Well said hobbyist, got scared during a previous visit with a provider. He gave up his board handles & said paid site ID to LE.
LE then logged into his account and pretended to be said hobbyist. LE then contacted each of those providers and set up dates. As mentioned. So they could make a quick buck. Not one provider asked for additional info nor contacted the OK's on said hobbyist ID profile.
Had those providers asked for (Number/description & contacted the OK's and asked those references about said hobbyist demeanor & of said description & number matched the paid ID & email) they would have found out upon meeting (hobbyist aka- LE) that (LE) in fact (was NOT) the factual hobbyist behind the paid ID.
A: because (LE) would not match the description, B: the number from which (LE) called from was not the # that belonged to said factual hobbyist. C: the demeanor of (LE) did not match the demeanor of factual hobbyist as informed by the references. Had those providers contacted the OK (references) for informative feedback. So no, BlackHawk. Ones paid site ID. Is not conducive to proper safe screening w/o additional info provided.
I as do other reputable ladies who value our safety. Want to know who we're screening & going to be meeting. We want other well known providers to verify that the info & description you gave us. Matches the person who will be calling & meeting us.
I look at screening being similar to reviews. Hobbiers want reviews to be written with enough info to allow them to be able to contact the lady via her web site, see what she looks like & know the lady is safe/seen by other reputable hobbiers. You want enough info to help you make an informed decision in whether or not you see the lady or pass. Men in this hobby value the feedback & trust from other reputable men in this adult lifestyle.
It's no different with us ladies. We want enough screening info. To allow us to properly screen you with other reputable ladies (that we feel safe contacting) before we risk our lives, and meet with you alone BCD.
Too many bad things as of late have been happening to ladies in this adult lifestyle. We want to make sure it doesn't happen to us.
Those of you who utilize a paid ID from various sites please understand that for safety reasons there's going to be ladies who will want additional info besides your site ID.
Hobby wisely & safely.
To make things clear, once again!
[QUOTE=Blackhawk 101]I have had a provider try to post some of my personal information on this site when we had a misunderstanding. I had never seen her and she was getting info from another provider who knew me.[/QUOTE]That provider in fact did not have your personal information, it was all the tantrums and lies Blackhawk made up because this particular provider Refused to see him!
To this day, this provider has no personal info on Mr Big Ego!
Just my .02 cents
Ciao e baci!
Don't mind me while I rant...
First of all, I know and agree that safety is foremost. There are a bunch of freaks out there that won't think twice about harming others. But this is a two-way street. As clients, we have to give out our true names, our jobs, lots of other personal information that will affect our lives and livelihood. Whether providers realize it or not, we're subjected to the dangers of LEO, robberies and violence just like they are. For providers to insinuate that they're the only ones putting themselves in danger is a very one sided and unfair assessment.
I'm just so sick and tired of being nagged and bitched at by so called "upscale" providers for whatever the reason, whether it be the manner in which I contacted them or the way I filled out their forms, or... whatever! If you don't like it, then just ignore me and move on to someone else! I'd much rather not hear back from a provider than for her to give me the third-degree and biatch and nag and sling insults and cast blames. If you don't need my business, fine. Move on.
I don't know about other men, but I'm in this hobby not just for the down-and-dirty deed but for the [i][u]allure[/u][/i] and [i][u]fantasies[/u][/i]. I don't want to be with self proclaimed "upscale" providers who doesn't know the difference between being persuasively assertive as opposed to being bitchy and demanding. If their need to interject their own 2 cents overpowers their ability to maintain the allure and the fantasy of being "a lady" who deserves premium rates, *(I've explained what this means in a previous post) then I'd much rather just go and pick up a SW off the street for a few bucks for a quick wham bam. At least you know what you're in for with them.
Just as providers don't want to know their clients on a personal basis, I don't want to know providers on a personal basis either. If I wanted all the other BS and drama that comes with maintaining a relationship, I would invest my time, money, and effort into having a girlfriend or a mistress on the side. Most providers claim they sell companionship, not sex. I don't know how many so-called upscale providers would be worth a damn if they took the sex out of their offerings. It sure as hell wouldn't be worth the donations that they think their companionship is worth, at least not in my opinion! I'm just so damn sick of their attitudes, their delusions, and their mouth!
