Girls definitely put significance on gifts of jewelry. My SO has real GPS, and a prime indicator of interest by a man is when he gets her jewelry.
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Girls definitely put significance on gifts of jewelry. My SO has real GPS, and a prime indicator of interest by a man is when he gets her jewelry.
[QUOTE=Shizzy6969;6332450]Reach out to her a couple months ago. Has a Instagram, only available in the evenings. Was pretty hard to get schedule to align so didn't really get any further, but she seems real (just hard to connect).[/QUOTE]Second that on the hard to coordinate.
Went on a dinner date with her (nothing fancy) that went well. She would keep reaching out to me but was hard to ever pin down for a a day and time to meet when it came down to it. Emphasized she was looking for something long term as well.
Spot on! Pay attention to her Wish List, it gives a good idea what she considers significant. For me, a girl looking for lingerie, perfumes, costume jewelry and sex toys in the $50-250 range is a lot more realistic and easy to please.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6332760]If you have a real SB, someone you are seeing ongoing, it is a dilemma what you might get her. I would say it is good to avoid anything too 'romantic', unless that is the minority of arrangements that play that way. However, all girls like some spoiling. I have had great results w / simple grocery store bouquets. Many many girls haven't ever been 'courted' w / something like that. Even if they know that your relationship is not that kind, they'll like it.
I also recommend some simple crystal earrings, such as Swarovski. They sparkle like they are diamonds, but they aren't, and they don't have the significance of giving a girl diamonds. I am amazed when I look at girl's wish lists how often I see crystal jewelry. You can get a pair of studs for like $65 at the mall. This was the first 'gift' (other than allowance) I got a past SB. Even though she relocated out of state, she still loves to be (intermittently) in touch w / me by text, and when she comes back home to visit family, loves to get together to bang. She's 24, I am 60+. There's really nothing better than young pussy. And what a modest investment. For that girl specifically, I won't see her in person Tuesday, but I have a $50 Victoria gift card I'll take a picture of and send to her. Along w / an image of a sexy valentine.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Hal1957;6333384]Spot on! Pay attention to her Wish List, it gives a good idea what she considers significant. For me, a girl looking for lingerie, perfumes, costume jewelry and sex toys in the $50-250 range is a lot more realistic and easy to please.[/QUOTE]And chocolate. If a girl has Godiva chocolate on her wish list, that is a good sign she's not got her head in the clouds.
And of course, the prices on that stuff from the site itself are ridiculous, don't ever buy anything from it. There is a particular Michael Kors purse I see a lot, listed around 500. IK a MK outlet near me, a very similar purse can be had for 100. If you are in the habit of getting a 'gift' for your girl as part of the allowance, go for something like that.
She is looking for money without meeting.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/104febb7-7acf-4959-879a-4ebbad81d82f[/URL]
Does anyone know the deal on this woman? She's had so many different profiles that I can't count them all (including when she was pregnant -- I should have tried to connect with her then for the fetish value). Something about her look is really sexy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/edca3794-8ea4-4c0a-ba12-a91e1b70f4c6[/URL]
Anyone have an opinion on these?
Beautys Best.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6b17725a-6cc6-4dd4-8565-8430b2d6ccb3[/URL]
Diordoll23.
She seems familiar.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/14931e8a-a9f3-4cd7-9d90-5b2dcc8cb6cc[/URL]
Sanrioluvr.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a160f9f0-81a4-4281-b026-4ba6c1420274[/URL]
CuddleBugATL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0613d656-6887-4ca1-a186-e0ee19b1e14c[/URL]
Courtlane.
Likely a fake profile, but I'm just curious, since she reached out.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b31af590-f484-418a-b18b-6d70c723565f[/URL]
Rose Baby.
This one DEFINITELY seems familiar and pro-ish.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ffcefbc6-3b18-47ad-8e3c-32066aaf3bc1[/URL]
Sparklyqueen33.
Not a looker. Possibly a man. LOL. Seems nice enough.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5106f150-8777-4a1d-a973-86cc800d66fc[/URL]
Freya.
Seems nice and well-versed in being an SB.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/41bf846a-03df-46db-9a70-904f3ac5a522[/URL]
Poisonivy.
Very GPS. Not that much of a looker but she is young.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b31c8a99-648e-420c-a346-ef875adcc40e[/URL]
SweetGurl.
Again, not my type, but she reached out so I'm curious.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/27457d5e-6f9a-4efe-86b5-de8003444842[/URL]
[QUOTE=BrownSugaTwo;6335038]Anyone have an opinion on these?
Poisonivy.
Very GPS. Not that much of a looker but she is young.[/QUOTE]You and I have very different definitions of the word young. I think young in SB terms means under 25. Now I've been with SBs between 19 all the way up to 35, so I don't just chase the young ones. In fact I find the young ones are rarely worth the trouble and cost when you can get a late 20 / early 30's girl for less and they usually have the benefit of being more experienced sexually and so are generally better and more open in bed.
Over 30 I'd consider "average" age, over 35+ I'd consider old in the sugar baby world. The most important thing to remember though is in this market, age is a feature, and just like any other product or service, the features can change the price. Over 30 is fine for an SB, but never spend more than 200 on anyone in the 30+ market.
You're absolutely right. It was my bad. I was looking at another profile (which I didn't include here) when I wrote that up. I agree with your assessment.
[QUOTE=GoneForGood97;6335091]You and I have very different definitions of the word young. I think young in SB terms means under 25. Now I've been with SBs between 19 all the way up to 35, so I don't just chase the young ones. In fact I find the young ones are rarely worth the trouble and cost when you can get a late 20 / early 30's girl for less and they usually have the benefit of being more experienced sexually and so are generally better and more open in bed.
Over 30 I'd consider "average" age, over 35+ I'd consider old in the sugar baby world. The most important thing to remember though is in this market, age is a feature, and just like any other product or service, the features can change the price. Over 30 is fine for an SB, but never spend more than 200 on anyone in the 30+ market.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=NewAnonymousName;6334902]Does anyone know the deal on this woman? She's had so many different profiles that I can't count them all (including when she was pregnant -- I should have tried to connect with her then for the fetish value). Something about her look is really sexy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/edca3794-8ea4-4c0a-ba12-a91e1b70f4c6[/URL][/QUOTE]I've wondered this as well. We have chatted, but never made it far enough to even discuss expectations. She keeps creating new accounts so I haven't been trying to pursue. I also think she looks good though.
Hmm, for some reason, all of my recent contacts have gone silent (texting). No replies to recent reaching out. Perhaps ValDay is making them long for a vanilla BF.
[QUOTE=NewAnonymousName;6334902]Does anyone know the deal on this woman? She's had so many different profiles that I can't count them all (including when she was pregnant -- I should have tried to connect with her then for the fetish value). Something about her look is really sexy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/edca3794-8ea4-4c0a-ba12-a91e1b70f4c6[/URL][/QUOTE]She is a waste of time. I don't even think she wants money, just attention.
[QUOTE=NewAnonymousName;6334902]Does anyone know the deal on this woman? She's had so many different profiles that I can't count them all (including when she was pregnant -- I should have tried to connect with her then for the fetish value). Something about her look is really sexy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/edca3794-8ea4-4c0a-ba12-a91e1b70f4c6[/URL][/QUOTE]She is the first girl to scam me when I first started out a few years ago. Now that I'm a few years wiser I know better. Basically pulled the send me gas money to meet up; sent and never met up came back with excuses. She might have been legit in 2019 according to a review on here but now she's just a waste of time and at worse still scamming.
[QUOTE=LazaroRosales;5712681]SA adventure from 2019, beautiful face and breasts, not very experienced but submissive. She had no car so I drove almost an hour and brought her back to my place, we had fun for a couple of hours, full girlfriend experience with CIP, then had to drop her off home, totally worth it though. Bought her chick fila and gave $1. 5. Only saw her a couple of times and wanted me to buy her a mustang to see her a third time LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BrownSugaTwo;6335038]Anyone have an opinion on these?
Beautys Best.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6b17725a-6cc6-4dd4-8565-8430b2d6ccb3[/URL]
Diordoll23.
She seems familiar.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/14931e8a-a9f3-4cd7-9d90-5b2dcc8cb6cc[/URL]
Sanrioluvr.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a160f9f0-81a4-4281-b026-4ba6c1420274[/URL]
CuddleBugATL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0613d656-6887-4ca1-a186-e0ee19b1e14c[/URL]
Courtlane.
Likely a fake profile, but I'm just curious, since she reached out.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b31af590-f484-418a-b18b-6d70c723565f[/URL]
Rose Baby.[/QUOTE]Rose Baby wanted to meet and greet at Mac's in Marietta with me. LOL I told her we'll meet for drinks before I start treating you to Mac's. I'm sure she'll order the $95 ribeye, and app. , and desert, and box up more than half and take home. She said no to my idea. LOL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a6ce821e-845a-4233-b9e9-9232555e3213[/URL]
Anyone have info on this one? Feel free to post here or inbox me please. Thinking of trying to coordinate.
[QUOTE=NewAnonymousName;6324292]I never give sugar babies my full name except a unicorn that turned into a girlfriend years ago. (It's a shame she moved, but I digress.) However I have often given out my real first name. Do you think that's risky? Do the rest of you give your real first name or use a fake one when chatting with the prospects on Seeking?[/QUOTE]Fake name, last name, life story, age, work, fake email, google number, not my car, it's a rental, don't tell them what part of town I live in, get the hotel beforehand, no chat about family or friends or even real hobbies, hide my ID, etc.
Literally create and alternate identity.
IMHO, fake everything, always with everyone, for ever. No exceptions.
[QUOTE=Jims2321;6329912]For the Gang, if you haven't gotten the new 33% off code for sub renewals, just popped up in my email, but I'm taking a break from SA.
VWO33 COM.
If you use it and it works say so.
Stay Safe.
JimS2321.[/QUOTE]Still works as of today, thank you!
[QUOTE=Jims2321;6329912]For the Gang, if you haven't gotten the new 33% off code for sub renewals, just popped up in my email, but I'm taking a break from SA.
VWO33 COM.
If you use it and it works say so.
Stay Safe.
JimS2321.[/QUOTE]Another poster reported it works.
However, can you clarify? That code has a space in it. That doesn't seem like it would work. What is the "COM" after the numbers? Is it part of the code?
I travel to Paris France for work. In my younger years, I fell for the scam of buy me a meal at a high end restaurant.
This is how it works, a pretty girl will walk up to you and start flirting. And then she will suggest, we go have a meal at a restaurant. Once we start the meal, she will disappear quickly and you will be handed a bill for hundreds. Why? The restaurant is in on the scam.
This restaurant scam has been on Seeking for a while.
For a first meet, never agree to meet at a restaurant the girl suggests.
Always be a Man with a Plan.
[QUOTE=Apollo007;6323432]
This one came at me pretty aggressive, and info? Wants to meet at high end restaurant for a meet and greet?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ffcefbc6-3b18-47ad-8e3c-32066aaf3bc1[/URL][/QUOTE]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4fade599-76a7-421c-bf5b-362533e48506[/URL]
Incredible body if pics are real. She say she's a nanny in Marietta. She can't host and wonders why all ATL guys ask her this since she never was asked in NY. She goes quiet on text for a while then pops back up. Here's the last text I got from her: I usually do ppm (500) and I stay for 1 h or no longer than 2. But I'm very kind, gentle, cute and sweet haha I had good arrangements before and all of them was like this and we used to see each other again if we vibe. I also have some don't's like: no weird fetish, no BDSM, no slap, no anal sex, always use condom (no for oral sex), no film / video.
I didn't pursue it beyond that last text. Has anyone gone for it?
I am about to pull the trigger with this one! But I am not sure if I should?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c6b4f9fa-32b3-4eb4-a122-2a3005a81c2a[/URL]
Something is not right during our chats / texts. Has anyone seen her?
[QUOTE=PeterPan;6338164]I am about to pull the trigger with this one! But I am not sure if I should?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c6b4f9fa-32b3-4eb4-a122-2a3005a81c2a[/URL]
Something is not right during our chats / texts. Has anyone seen her?[/QUOTE]Nobody Real Actually Types Like This. There Is An Incredibly Good Chance That This Is Somehow A Bot Posting.
Even if they weren't, the neck tattoos are a pretty good sign of crazy and unstable.
[QUOTE=PeterPan;6338164]I am about to pull the trigger with this one! But I am not sure if I should?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c6b4f9fa-32b3-4eb4-a122-2a3005a81c2a[/URL]
Something is not right during our chats / texts. Has anyone seen her?[/QUOTE]She's real. Just super transactional and lots of rules.
Any info on her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/020a3442-6be2-4094-a009-8e50c16c26ed[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9bd51033-359c-4507-835f-ea2e33da101e[/URL]
Hot? Yes.
Real? Yes.
GPS? Yes! Wants $1000 ppm. She's hot enough that I offered $500, but got the "that's really low" response & she countered $700. I wished her well. GPS: it's real!
Spoke with her in the past, has a inflated idea of her worth. Said $700 then $500. Mentioned she gets that all the time. Doubtful at that amount and the fact if she is then she's been ridden a lot LOL.
[QUOTE=BumbaCloth;6338855]Any info on her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/020a3442-6be2-4094-a009-8e50c16c26ed[/URL][/QUOTE]
Pretty much the same experience here. She sent a nude after we moved to text and asked for 500 but said she couldn't host. When I said that's too much plus a hotel room she said she may be able to host very occasionally and for a short amount of time as she has family that stops by unannounced from time to time.
[QUOTE=Gavin1112;6338859]Spoke with her in the past, has a inflated idea of her worth. Said $700 then $500. Mentioned she gets that all the time. Doubtful at that amount and the fact if she is then she's been ridden a lot LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Hal1957;6333384]Spot on! Pay attention to her Wish List, it gives a good idea what she considers significant. For me, a girl looking for lingerie, perfumes, costume jewelry and sex toys in the $50-250 range is a lot more realistic and easy to please.[/QUOTE]Sounds like great advice, but when I go to the wish list at the top right with a representing number (assuming that's the amount of gifts she's picked out), it always pops open the same grid of various gifts. Same thing at the bottom link "have you seen my wish list". I don't get it, what am I doing wrong? One girl had like the number 4 in the box, but when I clicked the whole grid pop up?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/81ba8e26-ae32-46b2-922f-fdf403f8cb0e[/URL]
Sweet girl. Open to many things. Rather large though. I won't repeat but may be there are some takers wanted to share.
[QUOTE=SteelWolf;6338206]Nobody Real Actually Types Like This. There Is An Incredibly Good Chance That This Is Somehow A Bot Posting.
Even if they weren't, the neck tattoos are a pretty good sign of crazy and unstable.[/QUOTE]Thank you for your reply.
At the top of the grid you'll see a box on the left that says Wish List and one on the right that says Popular. Click on the Wish List box and it will show you the specific items she has chosen.
[QUOTE=Apollo007;6339458]Sounds like great advice, but when I go to the wish list at the top right with a representing number (assuming that's the amount of gifts she's picked out), it always pops open the same grid of various gifts. Same thing at the bottom link "have you seen my wish list". I don't get it, what am I doing wrong? One girl had like the number 4 in the box, but when I clicked the whole grid pop up?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Hal1957;6333384]Spot on! Pay attention to her Wish List, it gives a good idea what she considers significant. For me, a girl looking for lingerie, perfumes, costume jewelry and sex toys in the $50-250 range is a lot more realistic and easy to please.[/QUOTE]I whole heartedly agree with this. It's interesting to see the ladies that have ridiculous clothes, bags, and jewellery on their lists that range in the thousands of dollars versus the ladies that have sexy lingerie, and vibrators less than $300. I avoid the former, and look for the latter.
Stay Frosty.
Anyone know of any review of sugar daddy sites? Feel like I may have gotten a bad review from a recent meet and greet. Didn't think it went too bad, just may have forced a kiss at the end of the night. Had one girl I went on a meet and greet with (and follow up plans) and several I've been chatting to just ghost me. Also had someone on Seeking just block me after I shared my photos and said hi. Appreciate the help.
[QUOTE=PeterPan;6338164]I am about to pull the trigger with this one! But I am not sure if I should?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c6b4f9fa-32b3-4eb4-a122-2a3005a81c2a[/URL]
Something is not right during our chats / texts. Has anyone seen her?[/QUOTE]That's the same person as [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8d6fe6b6-4a82-4f94-9ab5-ded2f7656260[/URL] that I saw a couple months ago. If you search my posts, you'll find a review I posted for Sugarbabyyyy20.
[QUOTE=DArrow404;6340035]That's the same person as [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8d6fe6b6-4a82-4f94-9ab5-ded2f7656260[/URL] that I saw a couple months ago. If you search my posts, you'll find a review I posted for Sugarbabyyyy20.[/QUOTE]I don't think this is the same girl. I also saw Sugarbabyyyy20, and I kept her snap around for a bit, and her neck tattoo is different I think.
If I'm wrong and this is the same girl, the tl; dr is she's boring, mechanical, felt like what I imagine fucking a mannequin would be like, but a cute spinner. She really likes BBC, so if you're black you might get more fun. Here's the nudes I got from her way back when, you can decide for yourself if it's the same girl.
I fucked her for 200 and she hosted, and I feel I spent too much. CFS, BBJ no CIM.
[QUOTE=DudeNextDoor;6339829]At the top of the grid you'll see a box on the left that says Wish List and one on the right that says Popular. Click on the Wish List box and it will show you the specific items she has chosen.[/QUOTE]Thanks dude.
[QUOTE=WoodstockShane;6339935]I whole heartedly agree with this. It's interesting to see the ladies that have ridiculous clothes, bags, and jewellery on their lists that range in the thousands of dollars versus the ladies that have sexy lingerie, and vibrators less than $300. I avoid the former, and look for the latter.
Stay Frosty.[/QUOTE]Sex toys in general is a good indicator of fun vs platonic.
Hey guys, looking for some advice on my first possible arrangement.
Got my first likely prospect. Non escort non pro but definitely not first time around the block(I found her fb with what looks like a normal chica with a big family but with pics of ugly ex boyfriends I'm thinking past SD haha), 28 F mom of two, reasonably cute reasonably fit Latina. She says she doesn't do ppm LOL but wants just shy of $1200 a month where we meetup for as far as I can tell a multi hour session all bare anything I want once a week but can't do overnights because of kid, although I need to test drive to be sure.
From my math this averages to ~$275 a week for a multiple pop BBFS which I think is a good deal unless she's a dead fish or trying to take advantage. I get the spidey sense I shouldn't agree to any allowances without first fucking her though...
Any words of wisdom?
Hey guys one more bit of advice if you don't mind.
I have this second prospect, 28 F, used to be thin and cute but now a little chunky and self conscious about it she uploaded and showed me some more recent private cute pics on the site then immediately deleted them. She says she's been on and off the site a while but never met anyone from there yet. At first I thought BS but her profile seems she wants a more organic relationship. I found her fb because I'm good like that and she's definitely not a pro, looks like a lonely dorky cat lady. We've been texting here and there a couple days but she is busy working two jobs and works weekends so we have yet to meet. I think she is legit cause a lot of her fb posts are memes about being broke lonely or working too much haha.
She has yet to bring up anything regarding sexual stuff or arrangements which I think is a positive and is eager to meet for starbucks. I've read stickies here and on eccie for bedding the utr newbs but thought I'd ask for more advice here.
Do I just keep treating this as if I'm dating a normal woman, don't mention arrangements anything? I know the second date after M&G is usually sex but I was thinking I'd take her to a brunch or dinner instead? I get the feeling she's lonely af wants to be taken out by a normal dude. Then after that try to bring her to my place.
Anyway I'm a moron thanks for any advice here.
[QUOTE=DudeNextDoor;6339051]Pretty much the same experience here. She sent a nude after we moved to text and asked for 500 but said she couldn't host. When I said that's too much plus a hotel room she said she may be able to host very occasionally and for a short amount of time as she has family that stops by unannounced from time to time.[/QUOTE]I met her for coffee, a couple months back, she has a serious tomboy vibe and wanted 600. I kindly declined.