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So I had 2 reasonably OK runs on SA. But this month. Trash. It's been a horror show.

My process is typically. SA message, move to text, meet for coffee, then dinner / sex (same night). BUT recently, I've been getting denied after dinner.

So I need some advice. I typically talk allowance up front and make sure intimacy is a known requirement. Lately, I've been getting the. We should meet a few more times. Blah. Blah.

To be clear. This process used to work. My question is. What is your process and are you upfront about the intimacy thing and allowance?

- Don Jon.

[QUOTE=DonJon;4946446]So I had 2 reasonably OK runs on SA. But this month. Trash. It's been a horror show.

My process is typically. SA message, move to text, meet for coffee, then dinner / sex (same night). BUT recently, I've been getting denied after dinner.

So I need some advice. I typically talk allowance up front and make sure intimacy is a known requirement. Lately, I've been getting the. We should meet a few more times. Blah. Blah.

To be clear. This process used to work. My question is. What is your process and are you upfront about the intimacy thing and allowance?

- Don Jon.[/QUOTE]I've had really good fortune on sa. I usually follow the same guidelines as you but I just make it clear before we even meet that I'm wanting something discrete and mutually beneficial. We'll meet for a drink or coffee and chat just to get a feel for each other then its playtime. Dinner dates is always on subsequent meets but even that has been far and few in between because of the fact that I stress discretion. I'll venture out here and there but I have two college cuties with amazing bodies and wide open menus that's been keeping me occupied for about 5 months or so. I'll give sa a break for about a month then purchase a 1 month membership. Since I've been on sa I've averaged on meet per membership.

I saw one of my SB contacts this week. She told me she took her SA profile down because some white knight (Ass Hole) on here told her we were discussing her. Other mongers have stated previously that they won't post info anymore because it had gotten back to the women and made them look bad. Don't tell the women about this site!!

+1 on this comment. This place is valuable for us all. Personally for my sanity and advice and venting.

[QUOTE=FourSeasons2;4947191]I saw one of my SB contacts this week. She told me she took her SA profile down because some white knight (Ass Hole) on here told her we were discussing her. Other mongers have stated previously that they won't post info anymore because it had gotten back to the women and made them look bad. Don't tell the women about this site!![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FourSeasons2;4947191]I saw one of my SB contacts this week. She told me she took her SA profile down because some white knight (Ass Hole) on here told her we were discussing her. Other mongers have stated previously that they won't post info anymore because it had gotten back to the women and made them look bad. Don't tell the women about this site!![/QUOTE]I was just telling other members that these fish are advertising on their bios about this site and bringing unwanted attention. Possibly from uncle. Now we got loose lip white knights? Common sense goes a looooong way. Cut it out.

I posted most of this in the Atlanta forum but sharing here as well. I live in Central Georgia and cast a 100 mile net and I've come up with a dozen good pots in a month long membership. Granted, I'm looking for 25-40 single moms, tall and curvy. In many respects, I believe it's a much more stable and realistic crowd. None asked for more than 250, but only one had a situation that allowed her to host. Out of that group, six went to m / g and five led to the fc the same night. All of them were good in bed, two squirters, and none of them mentioned condoms. Only one had scheduling issues.

The scammers have their own set of characteristics. 18-22 college girls, size 2 bodies and looking for the luxury lifestyle. Block and pass. My group ranged in age from 23 to 42, were all realistic in their requests, one even went away for a weekend for the m / g. Hottest sex I've had in years, minimum drama, she can host, and she may be a keeper for the price of her rent. Read that as you will, but I believe the younger you go, the more scammers and bullshit you're going to have to deal with.

My routine is to browse through members who have been online in the last 2 days. I send a short message, one or two sentences complimenting something like her smile. After 10 or so messages on SA, I move the conversation to phone message and engage in as much text as possible. My profile says exactly what I'm seeking, so I don't initiate any conversations about intimacy, I let them bring it up first. If they lose interest, I don't pursue. Never pay for anything before the m / g. After 3 or 4 days, one of us will suggest m / g and we're off to the races. I've only had one m / g that didn't lead immediately to the f / c, same night. It sounds like a lot more effort up front but it's worked for me.

I block them all on SA as soon as we move to text so there isn't any mischief later and there isn't any tracking, but I always leave them in my phone text database. Some will circle back after a couple of days or weeks. I have a 21 year old that's been nibbling for 8 months and she finally popped the question, how much and when can we meet. I'm retired and have all the time in the world for a woman who's ready and willing.

[QUOTE=DonJon;4946446]So I had 2 reasonably OK runs on SA. But this month. Trash. It's been a horror show.

My process is typically. SA message, move to text, meet for coffee, then dinner / sex (same night). BUT recently, I've been getting denied after dinner.

So I need some advice. I typically talk allowance up front and make sure intimacy is a known requirement. Lately, I've been getting the. We should meet a few more times. Blah. Blah.

To be clear. This process used to work. My question is. What is your process and are you upfront about the intimacy thing and allowance?

- Don Jon.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hal1957;4947270]I posted most of this in the Atlanta forum but sharing here as well. I live in Central Georgia and cast a 100 mile net and I've come up with a dozen good pots in a month long membership. Granted, I'm looking for 25-40 single moms, tall and curvy. In many respects, I believe it's a much more stable and realistic crowd. None asked for more than 250, but only one had a situation that allowed her to host. Out of that group, six went to m / g and five led to the fc the same night. All of them were good in bed, two squirters, and none of them mentioned condoms. Only one had scheduling issues.

The scammers have their own set of characteristics. 18-22 college girls, size 2 bodies and looking for the luxury lifestyle. Block and pass. My group ranged in age from 23 to 42, were all realistic in their requests, one even went away for a weekend for the m / g. Hottest sex I've had in years, minimum drama, she can host, and she may be a keeper for the price of her rent. Read that as you will, but I believe the younger you go, the more scammers and bullshit you're going to have to deal with.

My routine is to browse through members who have been online in the last 2 days. I send a short message, one or two sentences complimenting something like her smile. After 10 or so messages on SA, I move the conversation to phone message and engage in as much text as possible. My profile says exactly what I'm seeking, so I don't initiate any conversations about intimacy, I let them bring it up first. If they lose interest, I don't pursue. Never pay for anything before the m / g. After 3 or 4 days, one of us will suggest m / g and we're off to the races. I've only had one m / g that didn't lead immediately to the f / c, same night. It sounds like a lot more effort up front but it's worked for me.

I block them all on SA as soon as we move to text so there isn't any mischief later and there isn't any tracking, but I always leave them in my phone text database. Some will circle back after a couple of days or weeks. I have a 21 year old that's been nibbling for 8 months and she finally popped the question, how much and when can we meet. I'm retired and have all the time in the world for a woman who's ready and willing.[/QUOTE]Probably, THE BEST ADVICE I've seen on here.

Cheers!

-GD.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/68325c87-907b-4894-a08b-576ff10365af[/URL]

Avoid.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f8019a1f-51df-41d4-bcd2-f837fc5feec4[/URL]

I too am in the service industry and struggle to break away from my company to relax. I have put Lala Rose on my speed dial and first call I make, she is fun, always holds Interesting conversation, she's very sexy, my favorite quality is there is never a uncomfortable or awkward moment with her. She gets my shout out and 100% high marks for keeping it real. I am in the service industry and love her warmth and professionalism.

[QUOTE=Hal1957;4947270]I posted most of this in the Atlanta forum but sharing here as well. I live in Central Georgia and cast a 100 mile net and I've come up with a dozen good pots in a month long membership. Granted, I'm looking for 25-40 single moms, tall and curvy. In many respects, I believe it's a much more stable and realistic crowd. None asked for more than 250, but only one had a situation that allowed her to host. Out of that group, six went to m / g and five led to the fc the same night. All of them were good in bed, two squirters, and none of them mentioned condoms. Only one had scheduling issues....[/QUOTE]I've had great success on SA, and mine are the 20-25 year old hotties. Plenty of them out there. Usually meet for coffee or lunch first, get to know one another, then either extend the date that day, or meet another day. Plenty of hot girls that I would otherwise never have a chance in the sack with. Have the membership about 3 months, then drop for about the same amount of time, after building up an 'inventory'. I have a really hot one I'm excited about I'm meeting for the 2nd time today. So it does work, you just have to put in the time. Message 25-30 girls, and maybe get 1-2 dates out of it. But there are tons, so it works out.

Also, on the other note posted about the white knight, you are absolutely correct. That's why you won't see me make a post about one I like a lot. If it's one that's just 'OK' or no good, I'll post about them. But not taking a chance on losing a good one.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ac9ca1e6-6b0a-449f-9c3a-3ec2391ff5ea[/URL]

Just got a message from this one that said she loves older men but she said she is 15 so stay away.

Waste of time. Online only relationship. But says "She would like an allowance still".

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b7f8f54b-ce73-4ca2-8ca6-2bb619104d5a[/URL]

- Don Jon.

I didn't catch the exact username before she blocked me again, but I think it was sugarbaby_98 or something. She's 22, tall blonde 5'10", blue eyes, super thin, pretty smile, has a few bikini pics. She's listed in St Augustine. Anyway, it was a couple years back when I first met her, and we had a pair of meets. I gave her a couple hundred for books, and then I never heard from her again. I was weak and she was on her game, apparently. LOL Anyway, if you see her, be on guard.

Contrary to what her username suggests, she'll only try to get you to send her $120 ahead of meeting. LOL At least she let me waste her time texting for a few days before she dropped this bomb.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9a307826-0633-4aa9-ab50-7ba310934bb4[/URL]

[QUOTE=DonJon;4949396]Waste of time. Online only relationship. But says "She would like an allowance still".

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b7f8f54b-ce73-4ca2-8ca6-2bb619104d5a[/URL]

- Don Jon.[/QUOTE]I got the same offer, after I viewed her from clicking your link. I politely declined and told her I need an in-person experience.