[QUOTE=CookyJar; 1413512]So what you're saying is that all she has to do is get sober and she'll go from hoe to successful model, wife and mother. If only it were that easy. Forget the fact that she probably has little education, no family backing, no money and nothing but her good looks going for her.
Digging you way out of poverty is no easy task. This isn't a suburban prom queen gone bad. This is a girl born in the hood, born poor and making her way as best she can. She probably suffers from undiagnosed ADHD or some similar learning disability.
Once she is sober, then what? Head off to college?
CookyJar[/QUOTE]College? Not likely but as you yourself admit, she has her good looks going for her, and that counts for a lot, just imagine if she was fat, bald with an unpleasant face, bad teeth and skin, no monger would give her the time of the day BUT, she is pretty and Mongers would fight over the chance to take home this beautiful girl is she is sincerely meaning to get sober, it would be a riot in Kensington worthy of the evening news, many guys would like to give her all the chances to be a wife, a mother and to start to educate herself to archive success in whatever field she could choose, just if she would want to get sober.
But we all know that is not the case, her addiction chains her and limits her (being born in a poor neighborhood from a poor family with limited education is not an uncommon thing, I came from that situation myself) not your fault or mine, and not the fault of the people that helps her support her addiction, who is at fault? Who knows? It doesn't really matter who is at fault, not the first or last case we will find, the only thing we can do is treat them kindly and don't ask, don't tell.
