Escort Reports

[QUOTE=Sensorysrprise;1193747]Really? It's none of yours, or anyone else's business, unless the providers in question want to inform you themselves. It's nice to see that you have so much concern that you feel the providers should now be "blacklisted", because they reported an incident where they were taken advantage of. Because they spoke the ugly truth of what can and does happen in this hobby. You are a hobbyist right? Don't you take a potential risk with every provider you see? How many of these providers go BB with other men that you are unaware of? Maybe they have cheating boyfriends, or husbands. Maybe there has has been a sexual assault in there past, that you have no clue about. Do you perform or receive BB oral services? Because HSV1 and HSV2 can be shared both ways and 90% of people NEVER know they have it. There are a lot of possibilities out there. I can guarantee you that both providers are smart women, and have been tested, and treated for any possibilities. When was the last time you were tested?[/QUOTE]Wait a sec. I NEVER used the term "blacklisted." I made a request for information, which was denied by the poster suggesting that he had it. I saw a similar request on a another post (not sure who / when) , and that post also went unanswered, at least on the public forum. I have since dropped the subject and have not asked again.

I posted that in the immediate aftermath of the original FF post. I didn't know that things would go this long, with so many subsequent posts, so many opinions, so much discussion, yet little clarification or explanation. And without hearing from FF himself.

As Golfcart put is, this is a train wreck. And I am inclined to agree with him, that any explanation at this point, if there is ever going to be one, would be like the Warren Commission Report. I don't think we will ever know what REALLY happened. And honestly, I am fine with that.

As you put it, Sensory, there are a lot of possibilities out there, and so little of it is known.

[QUOTE=B Beall; 1194093]This is about the betrayal of trust behind closed doors. That violation is something many hobbyists need to be made to see. It's gratifying that there's been a universal condemnation of the offender which FF was portraying. But the added risk of social disease (not to mention, as here, the possible emotional toll on a lot of people) does not wholly separate this sort of act from all sorts of boorish (or thuggish) behavior, from short envelopes to attempts to get what is clearly refused.[/QUOTE]I have been wanting to respond to FF's post and the subsequent discussion on many levels but this point says it well for me. These wonderful angels share their lovely gifts with our fat asses and deserve to be able to trust us. If they say stop or no then it's time to stop period. Any other response is unacceptable and deserve rousing condemnation from all hobbyists.

I have the feeling FF is just trying to raise an eyebrow or two.

[QUOTE=Whatdafuq;1194341]I have the feeling FF is just trying to raise an eyebrow or two.[/QUOTE]I disagree. I've read the post a few times, and I still think he was writing about himself and his experience. I posted earlier about this and a friend of his pm'd me, saying he was writing about someone else. Sorry, man. Not buying it. The most telling thing at this point is that FF hasn't posted anything in way of additional explanation and it's been two days since this all started.

At this point, he should close his account and move on. I don't want to hear from him anymore and I'm sure many people feel the same way.

This deserves castration! She obviously said NO.

[QUOTE=Henley100; 1194490]I disagree. I've read the post a few times, and I still think he was writing about himself and his experience. I posted earlier about this and a friend of his pm'd me, saying he was writing about someone else. Sorry, man. Not buying it. The most telling thing at this point is that FF hasn't posted anything in way of additional explanation and it's been two days since this all started.

At this point, he should close his account and move on. I don't want to hear from him anymore and I'm sure many people feel the same way. [/QUOTE]

My last post was deleted by Jackson for being argumentative, but my point may have been mistaken. I wasn't arguing.

I'm saying those who know FF know how he posts. Frequently in metaphores and in 3rd person. Those that say they know him because they've read his reports for years only have his written word by which to judge him. So they do and I don't blame them for that.

But those of us who know him on a different level. Bothered to meet, share fun times, talk and travel with him. Have to judge him differently. While nobody knows what anyone may be capabale of doing, he siply would not THINK that way, and certainly would not write and complain to the board about it publicly.

Yup, I know what you're thinking. You'll see her ad on the "E" and say "daaaayum!" Yes, that's her in the pic and yes she's Asian, but avoid at all cost. She's non-GFE; doesn't even suck face and can't touch the vijay-jay. She's a chick I know from Cincy and she's visiting here this week. She used to go by AsianSensationTai, and you don't have to be Captain Obvious to figure out the name-change. She was great 18 months. 2 years ago, then bought a new car and changed all the rules. If you want to see someone hot, text the Ab-ster (abbyamour. Com). Not trying to "pimp" the best services in town, just trying to steer you in the right direction. And, as always, keeping it real.

Play safe,

BF Deal

[QUOTE=Henley100;1194490]At this point, he should close his account and move on. I don't want to hear from him anymore and I'm sure many people feel the same way.[/QUOTE]Maybe your the one should move on.

[QUOTE=Two Nutts;1193140]The actions did happen to one provider that we all know. BUT IT WAS NOT FF THAT WAS THE OFFENDER. That is for certain, I do know that for sure. Why he chose to express himself that way. Maybe to get the rat to show himself.[/QUOTE]How do you KNOW it was not FF as the offender. He said it was him in his orig post. Are you saying that he fabricated the story? If so, there is something wrong with that too; at the very least a lapse in good judgment to even present the scenario as he has. Truth or fabricated story, it says something about FF to me. If fabricated it is very narcisistic to say the least.

[QUOTE=Two Nutts;1194675]Maybe your the one should move on.[/QUOTE]This whole thread is like FF has taken a handful of nuts and bolts and hurled them into a running fan blade with a crowd of people standing around it. Hell yes it is going to create many opinions and some hard feelings. This whole thing is asinine.

I'm not sure which would be worse; if the orig post is true OR if this has been posted the way it was in an attempt to "out somone else" or manufactured to get a mashalled response. Either way sucks big time and it is plainly irresponsible and in poor judgment. And that you wish to defend? Hmmm.

Sometime soon there will be an explanation. Will it be truth or more fiction? One of FF's buddies will tell us what to believe here. R-I-G-H-T. Next!

[QUOTE=Two Nutts;1194675]Maybe your the one should move on.[/QUOTE]I can't take this anymore. I know for a fact FF is NOT guilty of this act. I can't say EXACTLY why he posted this topic in the 1st person, except that maybe it was to see how the topic should be treated. Maybe to see what other hobbyists beliefs are on the subject. I think everyone agrees that the acts portrayed in FF's post were not acceptable. That it's not ok to treat a provider in this manner. That no matter who you are, or how senior of a member, or seasoned in the hobby. It's just NOT cool. I find it honorable that so many men stood up, and spoke about the post in question. That regardless of what they thought they knew about FF, they also knew this kind of post was extremely inappropriate and needed to be addressed. I also understand those that know FF, and caught on to his underlying remarks, that made also hinted this was not FF himself that believed it was acceptable. I think it's obvious that this topic weighs so heavy with FF for him to post this. To go SO FAR as to destroy his reputation in this hobby, just to make a point. Was it the absolute best way for him to approach this subject? No. But I don't think he has a large concern for his reputation on this board. I think his concern is with the well being of the lovely ladies that many of you hobbyists have grown to love as individuals. Many have developed friendships in this hobby, that go beyond the walls of a bedroom.

P. S.

Nothing personal BleuCheese. I was just using your post as an example, and maybe that was unfair. Thank you for handling it in such a mature manner. I am not here to personally attack anyone. Big hugs, (BleuCheese)

[QUOTE=Henley100; 1194490]I disagree. I've read the post a few times, and I still think he was writing about himself and his experience. I posted earlier about this and a friend of his pm'd me, saying he was writing about someone else. Sorry, man. Not buying it. The most telling thing at this point is that FF hasn't posted anything in way of additional explanation and it's been two days since this all started.

At this point, he should close his account and move on. I don't want to hear from him anymore and I'm sure many people feel the same way. [/QUOTE]Well I don't feel that way FF's reports have always intrigued and humored me. It's just been a couple days, I'm not on here everyday, I guess it's because I have a life outside of mongering. Maybe FF does to.

[QUOTE=Whatdafuq;1194770]I guess it's because I have a life outside of mongering. [/QUOTE]You have my sympathies.

[QUOTE=Henley100;1194490]At this point, he should close his account and move on. I don't want to hear from him anymore and I'm sure many people feel the same way.[/QUOTE]I also know for a fact that it was not Freckle Freak but he posted to highlight a violent problem. It is easy to attack most of the providers as they trust sometimes too much and are an easy target. IMHO, FF took a great risk to bring a serious issue to light. Thanks FF for making people aware of this issue.

[QUOTE=BFDeal; 1194667]Yup, I know what you're thinking. You'll see her ad on the "E" and say "daaaayum!" Yes, that's her in the pic and yes she's Asian, but avoid at all cost. She's non-GFE; doesn't even suck face and can't touch the vijay-jay. She's a chick I know from Cincy and she's visiting here this week. She used to go by AsianSensationTai, and you don't have to be Captain Obvious to figure out the name-change. She was great 18 months. 2 years ago, then bought a new car and changed all the rules. If you want to see someone hot, text the Ab-ster (abbyamour. Com). Not trying to "pimp" the best services in town, just trying to steer you in the right direction. And, as always, keeping it real.

Play safe,

BF Deal[/QUOTE]Yup, that's about what I said! Waiting for her to show up, just about to pull the trigger, but something was nagging at me. Decided to check here and. There was your post. Thanks for the straight post!

It hurt though. I LOVE asian women. It's why (ok, mostly why) I started this hobby long, long, ago, and they're just so damn hard to find in indy.

Thanks again,

Cleanfun4

[QUOTE=B Beall;1194786]You have my sympathies.[/QUOTE]I didn't say I had much of a life.