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[QUOTE=FreeWally;7012131]No point in calling others simps and then doing the same. Just own it. It's pretty harmless and I know the few girls I bring things for. One kgirl is just learning English but speaks fluent Japanese from living there so I bring her unique treats from Japan. If it's good she'll have it then and there or share it with me, but I always say at the very end since food and sex don't mix (well, coffee right before the rinse is okay enough).
The only reason I brought that girl anything was by the 6th visit she did not believe me it was visit #6 and counted different. So I said if I see her again I'll check my journal and write the right number down for her next time, it's just my sense of humor. Now I bring her something with a labeled sticker on the bottom. Always something different, something most people have never tried. Last time was Shiroi Koibito from my Japan trip. The numbered gifts are a running gag I only do with her but also because I know her taste.
As I said I once considered bringing a pregnancy test for Bona, but you have to know a girl's sense of humor.
I take 1 kgirl out and 1 jgirl out and they are not going to do this out of gratitude. Every girl does it for her own reason, whether profit or enjoyment. I would not trust 90% of girls and I wouldn't get along with another 90%, so that leaves 1% or 2% at best. I just had my 3rd date. It's not for money, she likes the outdoors and adventure and is pretty young so we enjoy that together.
We are each going for our own enjoyment. Do what you enjoy as long as it doesn't attract attention or cause problems. I only bring tiny things that can be pocketed. Don't care about what other people online say about your own business and enjoyment. They certainly have their own things going on but rather than make fun of them how about we help each other sharing tips. Not enough of us in this world.[/QUOTE]Wait, you're currently dating a provider? I've been down that road and will never go down it again. No man, with any real self respect and or dignity, can develop genuine feelings for a female who fucks multiple men throughout the week and not have it affect him negatively. I'd rather be single and alone than deal with that shit again. I get it. These K-girls can be so cute, charming, fun and such a relief from dealing with these annoying, demanding American chicks, and the sexual intimacy with them that you pay for can easily lead some to develop a fondness for them that's more than just enjoyment of the service they provide. But it almost always leads to a bummer scene. The more emotionally invested you get, the worst it'll be when she flips out on you or her cockupation starts fucking with your head and heart.
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[QUOTE=TheWhiteDenzel;7012451]Wait, you're currently dating a provider? I've been down that road and will never go down it again. No man, with any real self respect and or dignity, can develop genuine feelings for a female who fucks multiple men throughout the week and not have it affect him negatively. I'd rather be single and alone than deal with that shit again. I get it. These K-girls can be so cute, charming, fun and such a relief from dealing with these annoying, demanding American chicks, and the sexual intimacy with them that you pay for can easily lead some to develop a fondness for them that's more than just enjoyment of the service they provide. But it almost always leads to a bummer scene. The more emotionally invested you get, the worst it'll be when she flips out on you or her cockupation starts fucking with your head and heart.[/QUOTE]Dating a kgirl usually leads to:
- can I borrow money?
- can you cosign apartment?
- fake marriage?
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[QUOTE=AsianAssEater;7012267]Her last day is the 31st for all Minji fans go fill her up before she leaves LA.[/QUOTE]I've heard her service is deteriorating so maybe she needs a break.
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[QUOTE=AngryPanda;7011935]Bruh, what if the dude wanted her to stack donuts on his mandingo like a game? LOL.[/QUOTE]LOL now you got me thinking are these guys just bringing stuff for props.
And no one cares if you simp. We just warning you guys. Never heard of a happy ending.
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[QUOTE=AngryPanda;7011935]Bruh, what if the dude wanted her to stack donuts on his mandingo like a game? LOL.[/QUOTE]Ew, what if that was a sick kink of a kgirl. Knowingly handing out used donuts to unsuspect mongers. Taylor motherucking Rain did a scene with donuts. It was pretty hot I might try that with a kgirl now haha.
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[QUOTE=Stonkz;7012648]LOL now you got me thinking are these guys just bringing stuff for props.
And no one cares if you simp. We just warning you guys. Never heard of a happy ending.[/QUOTE]I made sure the deal was in tact on the box before I took them LOL. I bring my own fuckin' towel and body soap to these appointments. I don't give a fuck. Those towels they use are paper thin and rough as shit.
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[QUOTE=BobLove;7012466]Dating a kgirl usually leads to:
- can I borrow money?
- can you cosign apartment?
- fake marriage?[/QUOTE]100%. I've gotten the apartment and marriage thing at least 6 xs already LOL.
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[QUOTE=Omfgitzjin;7012775]100%. I've gotten the apartment and marriage thing at least 6 xs already LOL.[/QUOTE]Speaking of co-signing apartments. A well known Bay area org asks for I'd and Paystub Without anything blurred out. Mongers are stupid enough to give that info. The org used his info to lease an apartment and he found out the hard way. I was lucky enough to be grandfathered in so I don't have to deal with that bullshit.
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Not me
[QUOTE=Omfgitzjin;7012775]100%. I've gotten the apartment and marriage thing at least 6 xs already LOL.[/QUOTE]The one I dated before likes to show off, instead of asking me for stuff, she usually buys me meals, LOL.
But I do take her to places to visit, the only money I have spend, was on food we ate, LOL.
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[QUOTE=JackHolly;7010874]Wow, that was fast. She's already gone from the Kbliss site. Wonder if she left town or if she just rebranded again.[/QUOTE]She is in DC under her new name, Sumatra. I think it is in Springfield, VA. Chu is there too. Those Federal workers are crying, oh baby, give me some of that K-love. As many that served time in Korea understand it is the land of milk and honey.
Upon my adolescent research, this was you.
"This girl is fantastic! As described, and photos are accurate! Service is great; highly recommended!
Who changed first? Also, where did Moody go? Where is the Slicer?
It really hurts my feelings because I am on your side guys. Some girls say to me that compared to their old life of poverty they are living in heaven.
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There's only one, someone who was actually rather well liked here, that I saw enough times that we started meeting and hanging out. Although we didn't really "date", I definitely got those questions LOL. Glad I did not give in even if it was almost tempting. Definitely still ended up paying for a lot of things, including the temporary place she stayed at before I dropped her off at LAX when she moved back to Korea. We exchange messages occasionally.
[QUOTE=BobLove;7012466]Dating a kgirl usually leads to:
- can I borrow money?
- can you cosign apartment?
- fake marriage?[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=TheWhiteDenzel;7012451]Wait, you're currently dating a provider? I've been down that road and will never go down it again. No man, with any real self respect and or dignity, can develop genuine feelings for a female who fucks multiple men throughout the week and not have it affect him negatively. I'd rather be single and alone than deal with that shit again. I get it. These K-girls can be so cute, charming, fun[/QUOTE]I'm dating multiple providers, two this week. I have no romantic feelings for them, too old for that. When I take my kgirl out on an adventure, we both have fun doing mutual interest. I show her some local spots. On her free time that's what she's doing anyways. She is not like other kgirls and why I picked her. I literally review her so other guys can contribute. I don't even give her the best review like I do with Bona, all my reviews are honest and I am not biased. I did not choose her for looks or sex but because we get along really well. In any case, she chose her work I'm not going to stop her.
I certainly don't find her cute, there are way hotter girls but I wouldn't trust or get along with them. She is just a nice person. She is not money centric and has never asked me for a penny. And you know what, she never will. Known her a long time. Our relationship is based only on fun. Why would I care who she's fucking I have no feelings like that for her. I shared one story a while back.
I realized for me it is quite the opposite. I already fucked this girl so the pressure is off. And I'm long past caring who she fucked, maybe 10 years ago I'd care. So I took her to a strip club and she explored her sexuality. Picked a girl I already knew. Seeing a girl you already fucked touching a stripper you find attractive all over - tits and ass - is a wonderful thing to see with your eyes. When I dated regular women, there was always pressure and expectation of oh what will she think of me next. But here, I don't give a fuck. I already fucked her and I couldn't possibly get or want anything more from her. It's quite the opposite of attachment. As long as she enjoys every date, we do another. I certainly enjoyed it too. We are not in a relationship. She knows I'm fucking other women too.
I have said before no girl will go out for you out of gratitude. They do it for profit or their own enjoyment. The kgirl does it for her own enjoyment. Our dates are for free but to teach her good habits I gave her money after date 1 and 2. In case she meets another customer and tries it with him. Date 3 I did something different for her. Every date is completely different, always something she's never done before.
The jgirl is doing it for profit. Super young and cute. So I have a different approach and we only do things that are mutually beneficial. There is also the potential I will see her in Japan but it's a first so don't know if it'll happen until it does. I mean, I have the money I don't care either way if you've read my guides on Japan. Only regret is both girls are in Socal at the same time. Did not plan on that.
I get what you're saying when I was 15 years younger I had the problems you describe. So I'm kinda long past that phase. Which is why I recommend against dating for most people because they are going to have to go through that shit first before they rethink what they want.
Edit: Added a chat about a beach trip we took. Put it this way, if I took you there we'd have a good time too. It is not romantic.
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Personal opinion
Personally, I believe you shouldn't seek advice from others. Just go with the flow and trust your heart. Don't let others' experiences or opinions sway you—you're unique, and maybe even better than them.
Pursue what you love, and then come back to share your stories with pride.
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[QUOTE=Stonkz;7012648]LOL now you got me thinking are these guys just bringing stuff for props.
And no one cares if you simp. We just warning you guys. Never heard of a happy ending.[/QUOTE]Personally I would never think about getting involved with one, but I heard Lohan married a client.
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I haven't seen anyone since Eunji so it's been a hot minute. I haven't reached out to Jane yet but assuming she's okay with me after a 2 year hiatus, am I going to be fine with Lena, Minji, or Ina? I can only afford to do this once in a while, and the list of girls in general now feels overwhelming, and the talk about the upcharging for many of the others scares me off.