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This one was crazy, showed her craziness on day 2, never even made it to the first date.
[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1389592]29 year old AA (Woodbridge, Va) Nice body, since regular pics and nude pics. Lives a bit too close, really needs the money. Too desperate for anything long term. I will however try to help out a woman in need and see how things go. Just not sure when.
BigTigg[/QUOTE]
Gentlemen,
Glad to see you all have been busy bees! Tigger, you never cease to amaze me. How [I]do[/I] you find the time?
Woody, it may cost a bit more, but you will enjoy it so much more as well. Good luck to you!
Alias, congratulations on your week-long dance card. Nicely filled (pun intended)
Buster, thank you for the pms and the nice tribute. I haven't stopped laughing at your CO post either.
As for me, I have created, or re-created, my SA profile, and am ready to get my line wet again. There are a couple of little fish that seem interesting, and I am planning to be much more selective and restrained this time around. We shall see if I've still got the touch.
Keep up the good work, my brothers!
Scott
Well, Scott, it's good to hear that you've found your focus again and are back in the game. I hope sincerely you keep your focus and enjoy the hunt.
For myself, since the last post, things have been "interesting". Spotted what looked to be the ultimate dream: two very attractive young women posting together, indicating that they wanted to meet someone together. YES, I'm thinking, and send them off a pitch. I see they read my message (about four days after I sent it!) , and am sure they're debating how best to respond to someone as exceptional as myself (okay, sarcasm off. I knew it was well beyond a "Hail Mary", but nothing ventured, nothing gained, true?). I have started discussions with another SB, mid-twenties and moderately attractive. She seems interested, and wants to get to know more, so a good sign. Whether it ends with the two of us sweating up the sheets is a matter for future settlement, but things aren't going badly so far. Unfortunately, Meet #1 is still emailing me occasionally, asking if I want to get together again. Decided to tell her I'd met someone else (true) , and that we'd already had an encounter (not quite so). With that, I told her I wouldn't feel good playing with two women at the same time (only if they catch me!) and wished her the best. Hopefully that will get her to move on. Will see.
One of our fine fellows hit me up about the crazy woman in Woodbridge. I'm glad he did, he was corresponding with her. Don't underestimate the value of sharing information.
My Latina and I have hit splitsville, moving on to something less intense.
My newbie 29 year old hottie will be Tue & Thursday, I'll get the goodies on Thursday. I'm 100% positive it's going to be a great experience. Damage will be minimal both nights. Probably $ combined.
I got late night booty call with my 20 year old on Friday night. Looking forward to that. I have to pick her up, so no more than. 40 maybe. 60.
Had a couple of nibbles from CL, but decided it's best to just focus on my 29 yr old AA hottie. So other than a booty call here and there, my posts will probably decrease for a while.
Oh wait, I still have the non-pro MILF in Richmond. That is on the radar, it is just going to take a while. I am getting encouraging texts from her, I can keep you updated on when she experiences the TiggaBounce.
Oh and my hottie from NJ. That will be very infrequent, but I'll at least report the first time I get to taste the goodies.
BigTigg
Gentlemen,
I am headed off in a few hours to a Meet & Greet with an HYM this morning who rose to my presentation from SA. I am excited to be back in the game, but trying not to get too far ahead of myself. In the past, my ratio of coffee to fucking was about 4 to 1, so the odds are that this will not end up with legs spread.
Wish me luck. She has long auburn hair, freckles and is apparently still married. That will be a first for me, and is kind of erotic, I have to say.
I'll let you all know what happens.
Scott
Happy hunting. Have a date with a 19 yo this evening and sneaking in SB1 on Wednesday night. Keeping busy
This board has come alive lately and I'm loving it!
Scott. Good to see you back in the game, and with a redhead to boot! I'm more than envious, and anxiously await your report.
The 'Rat has ventured out with a HYB for a couple of meets. Unfortunately, I haven't had the mind blowing experience that some of you have with these younger women. She's young and convenient so I plan on giving her every opportunity to improve. She's a little gunshy but willing to be cooperative. I guess with the MILF's I'm used to, they tend to know what they want and are more assertive in making themselves and little Rat happy. Let's just say it's a work in progress.
Keep them coming boys!
Yesterday was first FC success. And I am still re-living it!
OK, WB1 is on hold until I am traveling to area. This was recommendation from SM that got me onto SA site! Cute white *Mart girl in mid 20's.
CWB1 (College Wood Baby) is about 2 hours away. But planning night with her soon. She is VERY ready for the FC. Frustrated with nerdy BF in my opinion.
WB2 is a hot black Richmond MILF. 42, but I REALLY mean it that she looks early 30's. Spinner, tiny tits but not saggy. Has had 4 kids, so a little belly, but VERY nice and LONG slender legs. GW's dream! Met her briefly last week, she showed me how she could suck. But time stopped anything else! Yesterday spent 2 hours at her house in her bed. She was not and horny. Made her explode with the fantastic long DATY, and my god can she suck and DT! Finished with an enthusiastic CG! AND. Donation was only. 8 Got to love life! She is VERY ready for more. Was disappointed that I will not be in town again until next week. She gets none, unless one of you guys is doing her as well and she is fooling me LOL.
Got a raft of others lined up for where I travel on business, all ready for dinner and more when I am there. And these places are normally BP graveyards. I now LOVE SA!
Happy Fishing (I think this is better than Monger Hunting!)
GW
Gentlemen,
As promised, I am posting about my 1st post-recovery M&G this morning, but before I do I want to give a shout-out to my brother, GuyWoodson: congratulations on breaking the SB ice. May you continue to be successful in your pursuit of these rewarding little fish. You know what they say: once Baby, never back, or something like that.
Anyway, back to this morning. We met at a nice, mid-sized Starbucks, just big enough to provide some privacy if you know what I mean. My HYM is a Ralph Lauren dream come true: thick auburn hair, pale skin, freckles, blue eyes, straight white teeth and a beautiful smile. In fact, she bears more than a passing resemblance to Julianne Moore, which some of you may not find all that hot, but being part Irish myself, I totally dig. Little Scottie was so happy he stood the entire time.
It turns out she is a 31 yo stay at home mom, with two young kids, and the husband is a dirt bag who is rarely there, drinks, and is verbally abusive. Now Nando, before you get on my case about her being a Category 1, she was wearing very nice, preppy clothes, including a blanket-type plaid skirt and dark grey wool tights, which play a part a little later in my story. There is clearly money there, but I think not a lot of sex. Plus she is tiny, about 5'2" or so. Hooray for me!
We had a great time, talked about all sorts of things, including the whole SD / SB world, of which she has been a part of for almost a year, and then it came time for me to get back to work. I asked if I could walk her to her car, which was in a nearby parking garage, an offer she readily accepted. When we were at her car, I thanked her for a very nice hour or so, and kissed her, which led to more kissing, and a little on-top-of-the-clothes groping on both our parts. After a few minutes of this, she pulled back a tiny bit and said,"Oh my God, feel my pussy."
Now there are a handful of phrases that will get my immediate attention, among them "I want it doggy style next","Fuck me harder, I'm your sl*t", and my new favorite,"Feel my pussy". She pulled up her skirt and put my hand down inside her tights, where I felt the softest, wettest pussy I had ever touched in a parking garage. The woman was absolutely soaking, and as I rubbed her clit and slipped some digits into her pussy, we continued to kiss. I think if I had kept it up for a few more minutes, she would have cum right then and there. As it was, a car pulled up the ramp behind us, and it sort of broke the mood. She laughed and said how much she was looking forward to fucking me as soon as we could arrange it, a sentiment I totally concurred with, and we reluctantly parted.
So now I am daydreaming about our next meeting, she has already texted me with some more dirty talk, and I feel like my self-imposed hiatus was well worth it. While the skies are grey here, I have a sunny tune in my head, and life is good.
Scott
Gentlemen,
Just a quick update on my Latina ex-employee. I am happy to report that she is no longer on SA, so she either got tired of the whole thing or has found an SD (Castle, is it you?) and is off the market. Either way, I am safe. Whew!
Scott
Scotty you rascal you! I'm glad you're back in the saddle.er.panties.again-congratulations!
Had an overnight with my HCB after a dry week last and seeing her again tomorrow. Next week we have a threefer on the books. It turns out that her excuses for missing two appointments last week were probably true. One thing we all need to realize about our babies is that they do have real life events that can get in the way of intimacy. They just have to realize that keeping their Daddies happy should be their # 1 priority.
RE: Guy (The Wood) Woodson and Tigg.you guys rock! You have scored new lows in the Allowance department.how do you do that? ! ! I'd be in the Sugar bowl every day if I could save that kind of money.
[QUOTE=Hernando;1392619]They just have to realize that keeping their Daddies happy should be their # 1 priority.[/QUOTE]Amen to that, brother!
Scott
Gentlemen,
I have a luncheon set with my ATF for Thursday, at which we are going to have a heart-to-heart about "us." Apparently she is not pregnant, thank you baby Jesus, but she has been doing some deep thinking and has some things she wants to say to me.
I am not entirely sure what this portends, but here is where I'm at currently: if she didn't want to see me anymore, she could have stayed invisible. While I know her last name, where she lives and where she works, I would not have run her to ground. What would that have served?
Conversely, if she were just looking for money, why the ominous-sounding agenda? I would have happily resumed fucking her at the standard sugar rate with no questions asked if she had suddenly just reappeared with a cheery "howdy do".
I'm afraid this has "feelings" written all over it, and frankly I'm a little conflicted. On the one hand, I am totally connected to her, and may in fact love her a little bit. On the other hand, I can't afford to love her even a tiny little bit, nor for her to love me. This may take all my brain-power to construct an exit strategy for some time in the future, while still maintaining pussy visitation rights for the near-term. Does anyone know how to fake a stroke?
As for my Ralph Lauren / Polo baby, she has kept up a steady news feed of dirty, dirty texting. I have enough material at the moment that I could publish my own phone sex website. I truly hope she can make good on even half of what she is saying she will do to me. Little Scottie is so happy he's making a spectacle of himself. I am convinced people on the street can see him, and I'm pretty sure an old lady I passed a few hours ago made a disgusted face at me after glancing at my crotch. Hey, now that I think of it, why was she glancing at my crotch anyway? Could that be a new category? Sugar Grannies? Scottie says "no".
Needless to say, any advice on how to frame my talk on Thursday, and what kind of head space to be in, would be greatly appreciated. I don't want to be totally closed down, nor do I want to be merely reactive. I think I need to have an agenda of my own framed by then, but what is it? Good God, who knew it would be this complicated? I just wanted to fuck some babies!
I await the intelligence of the brethren.
Scott, the King of Drama
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1392604]Gentlemen,
Just a quick update on my Latina ex-employee. I am happy to report that she is no longer on SA, so she either got tired of the whole thing or has found an SD (Castle, is it you?) and is off the market. Either way, I am safe. Whew!
Scott[/QUOTE]If she's half as hot as you hint, I'd love to have taken a crack at her, but if she's off the market, it's not me who's taken her there. My current prospect is emailing me every day and seems interested in getting comfortable with me before an actual face-to-face. How long that might be in coming, well, I'm working on that.
Good luck with the redhead, she sounds like quite the catch.
This girl is far from a SB as we think of one. With this girl the sugar will be just as present but present as a footnote as it should be. With her it will be all about how she is treated. She will cause Scott and Little Scottie to forget the ATF college girl that was a ship-wreck-in-progress and presented the worst possible danger..
I would cancel the Thursday meeting with the ATF college girl. There are only three possible outcomes and two of them are bad. Use the modern approach.
Hey guys, after checking out this thread from time to time for a while, I'm dipping my toe in the water on SA and have a few questions I hope I can get your opinions on.
One is whether you guys think, discretion concerns aside, sharing your pic with a potential SB is a good idea or not. I've been making plans to meet one PYT for dinner tomorrow night, but in the email I sent her to set the time for our meeting, I also let her see a photo of me, thinking it might make her more comfortable. Now I haven't heard back from her and I'm worried she was expecting George Clooney or something. Have you found it to work better to not send a pic and hope to charm her in person?
The second is about the flow of girls on the site. I notice in my search results that the vast majority of the girls haven't logged in in a month or more, and their last login usually isn't too far from their signup month. Do you think this is because they've found an SD and are no longer looking (but may be back in the future) , or because they weren't finding what they wanted on the site and gave up? Basically I'm wondering whether it's a waste to look through and contact older profiles.
Thanks
[QUOTE=UKnowWho; 1393036]Hey guys, after checking out this thread from time to time for a while, I'm dipping my toe in the water on SA and have a few questions I hope I can get your opinions on.
One is whether you guys think, discretion concerns aside, sharing your pic with a potential SB is a good idea or not. I've been making plans to meet one PYT for dinner tomorrow night, but in the email I sent her to set the time for our meeting, I also let her see a photo of me, thinking it might make her more comfortable. Now I haven't heard back from her and I'm worried she was expecting George Clooney or something. Have you found it to work better to not send a pic and hope to charm her in person?
The second is about the flow of girls on the site. I notice in my search results that the vast majority of the girls haven't logged in in a month or more, and their last login usually isn't too far from their signup month. Do you think this is because they've found an SD and are no longer looking (but may be back in the future) , or because they weren't finding what they wanted on the site and gave up? Basically I'm wondering whether it's a waste to look through and contact older profiles.
Thanks[/QUOTE]SA is free to the babies so I suggest concentrating on babies that have logged on recently. You might also find the older profiles are better.
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1392814]I have a luncheon set with my ATF for Thursday, at which we are going to have a heart-to-heart about "us." Apparently she is not pregnant, thank you baby Jesus, but she has been doing some deep thinking and has some things she wants to say to me.
I am not entirely sure what this portends, but here is where I'm at currently: if she didn't want to see me anymore, she could have stayed invisible. While I know her last name, where she lives and where she works, I would not have run her to ground. What would that have served?
Conversely, if she were just looking for money, why the ominous-sounding agenda?[/QUOTE]My thoughts she's either going to drama sell you on more money or let you go otherwise it'd be business as usual. I agree with golfcart, cancel and let her go you're way to involved, FYI been there done that more than once. Including with a girl that looked just like the office hottie I used to work with.
Had 3rd date with my new #1 hottie. 29 yr old in in Richmond. Dinner, movies nothing extravagant. Thanks to mother nature could not get my groove on. Funny thing is, she's not much into dfk until she has slept with a person, very different. She is however beautiful and let my hands do plenty of roaming. Next date is hotel date. Damage was. 40 and I put some gas in her tank.
BigTigg
Got WB3 now firmly on the hook.
Nice 30's divorced and just in her first apartment by herself. Is not interested in any long term problems, and is after married men who will be discrete, give her what she needs physically, and also some financial help as she has got herself an apartment that is a little too much for her $$ comfort!
Met her outside her apartment complex as I was in the area, she definitely liked me (you can tell when they want you) and I can tell she wants to get in the FC soon! Once she gives me her schedule we will fix a time and I will report afterwards.
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As far as my $$ tactics, after reading this thread, I basically followed much of the advice:
1. Never discuss sugar during first messages on SA.
2. If the SB does bring it up, respond with "I really do not like to discuss sugar, but let me say I am a generous man, and we both have to be comfortable with each other"
3. Once we meet in the FC, I assess the sugar donation. Generally I leave. 8 to $ for older MILFs, but I suspect CSB that are YH would be more $.5 ish.
4. In a nutshell, I start LOW, if they do complain, I can say I will do more next time. That is assuming there is a next time for some! Many seem VERY happy with the. 8.
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This is fun. I can see why you all enjoy it. It is the chase. The pursuit. Of course we are not as honorable as we should be. But it is about the FC. Right!
Happy Fishing.
GW
Gentlemen,
I am scheduled to visit my Polo baby on Monday. The kids will be in school, the husband will be at work, and she promises that I will be drained bone dry by the time I leave her house. Life is good!
Scott
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1393448]Gentlemen,
I am scheduled to visit my Polo baby on Monday. The kids will be in school, the husband will be at work, and she promises that I will be drained bone dry by the time I leave her house. Life is good!
Scott[/QUOTE]Dude, get a room. If something goes wrong, you will be so mad you did not spend the money on a room. Don't let the pudding cause you to take unnecessary risks. Ask yourself if you are ok with the worse case scenario (hubby comes home and has weapons in the house). Not to mention you lose the ability to be completely worry free at her place.
BigTigg
[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1393467]Dude, get a room. If something goes wrong, you will be so mad you did not spend the money on a room. Don't let the pudding cause you to take unnecessary risks. Ask yourself if you are ok with the worse case scenario (hubby comes home and has weapons in the house). Not to mention you lose the ability to be completely worry free at her place.
BigTigg[/QUOTE]Tigger,
I will do as you say. I had never thought of the possibility of hubby coming home for a quick one and finding little Scottie in his spot. Awkward!
Thanks,
Scott
-she has been doing some deep thinking and has some things she wants to say to me."
Well Scotty, the time you have wished for perhaps is nigh. Don't forget, you were / are crazily in lust with this girl. Hear her out and don't make any relationship changing statements at the moment. Give yourself time to absorb things. Now to me, it sounds like a kiss off. She might have been thinking that she owes you more since you had such a great relationship for so long. So it could go like this " Scot, you have been so important to me for months and I really care about you.but I must move on with my life because my parents said I can't date anyone over 25.Life is soooooUNFAIR! I HATE my parents! They just don't understand! Anyway-I hope you understand. SNIFF! I LOVE you SCOTT.I will NEVER forget you! SNIFF! Dude.don't miss that appointment. You need to keep us posted!
On the other hand, it could go something like this. Daddy-I have been thinking a lot about US, and I have realized how much I love you. When do you think the divorce can be final? I really want to have your baby!
Don't miss that APPOINTMENT!
"Get A Room". FYI I'm working at home today and the SO dropped by very unexpectedly. I really am working, but I would never chance that in my place or hers. It's definitely worth the $50 or whatever.
Nando. Man you're scaring the shit out of me and I'm not even the one involved! Good luck Scott! We've all either been there or will be if we continue in this little pastime we love.
[QUOTE=Hernando;1393494]" Scot, you have been so important to me for months and I really care about you.but I must move on with my life because my parents said I can't date anyone over 25.Life is soooooUNFAIR! I HATE my parents! They just don't understand! Anyway-I hope you understand. SNIFF! I LOVE you SCOTT.I will NEVER forget you! SNIFF![/QUOTE]Gentlemen,
Thanks for helping me to keep things in a lighter perspective. Like, OMG, I was so totally stressing out about this!
I had planned to keep the appointment in any event. Although these babies are playing at grown-up games, it is important to remember, at least in this case, that she is barely 21. I think I am prepared for most eventualities, with the possible exception of "I want to have your baby". Brrr, that one gives me the willies!
I am guessing, like life, it will be more complicated than any of us can surmise from the outside. We are having lunch at that gastro-pub / inn that I have posted about before. My thinking here is that if it is a kiss-off, at least I will have a great lunch, and if it is not, perhaps they will have a room for us.
At least I have my Polo mom to look forward to on Monday. I have informed her of my desire to change venues and she is down with that. "I'll bring some candles" is about the only thing she said that I can genteelly quote here, but she apparently has a keen interest in the Wild West, as she mentioned something about riding little Scottie like a bronco. Yay! Or should I say "yippee ki yi yay"?
What a life!
Scott
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1393536]Gentlemen,
Thanks for helping me to keep things in a lighter perspective. Like, OMG, I was so totally stressing out about this!
I had planned to keep the appointment in any event. Although these babies are playing at grown-up games, it is important to remember, at least in this case, that she is barely 21. I think I am prepared for most eventualities, with the possible exception of "I want to have your baby". Brrr, that one gives me the willies!
I am guessing, like life, it will be more complicated than any of us can surmise from the outside. We are having lunch at that gastro-pub / inn that I have posted about before. My thinking here is that if it is a kiss-off, at least I will have a great lunch, and if it is not, perhaps they will have a room for us.
At least I have my Polo mom to look forward to on Monday. I have informed her of my desire to change venues and she is down with that."I'll bring some candles" is about the only thing she said that I can genteelly quote here, but she apparently has a keen interest in the Wild West, as she mentioned something about riding little Scottie like a bronco. Yay! Or should I say "yippee ki yi yay"?
What a life!
Scott[/QUOTE]Good Luck. I suspect the topic will be along the lines of 'I have strong feelings for you', followed up by a large financial request. Cynical, I know!
Ok, so I'm obviously keeping myself way too busy. Today I get a reply to my CL ad from 2 latinas. One was ok, but the other was very pretty. Here is the link to the non-pro post. [url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9966-Non-Pro-Woman-on-CL-or-BP&p=1393246&viewfull=1#post1393246[/url]
Anyway, right when I'm thinking that I'm on an incredible string of success. Then the stunning. I mean "stunning" to the point of making me uncomfortable and intimidated TB that I referred too many posts ago [url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9966-Non-Pro-Woman-on-CL-or-BP&p=1370427&viewfull=1#post1370427[/url], texts me back, I call her and we talk and the chemistry picks up right where we left of. It's spring break next week, so opportunities abound. She has a nice personality and a body to die for. 5'7, spinner with curves. Ooohhh MY. I had almost given up on her. Anyway we have a normal date setup for Monday and I'm just happy to get her attention for those few hours. This one is a long term investment, our last date was over a month ago. My head is still spinning, just thinking about tasting that pudding. Wow!
So let me recap:
Thurs. Tiggabounce with hottie in Richmond ($)
Fri. Tiggabounce with 20 year old in Md (.4)
Sun. Meet-and-greet with 2 Latinas looking for a SD. They come as a pair. Wooohooo (.4)
Mon. Lunch date with Ms so damn beautiful (.40)
Mon night. Tiggabounce with TB who's a little chubby, but great personality. (.4)
Next Thurs. Evening date with brick house TB in NJ. (.60 she's driving 2 hours each way. If she gets the Tiggabounce, then $.5)
-This is how I keep from getting too obsessed with one.
This board has been great, it's going to be my downfall at some point, but until then, look out for T. I. Double. Ger. Er!
BigTigg
Hello all. Been lurking on the thread for a few months now and decided it's time to contribute. Like others before, I found the thread by accident, found it incredibly fascinating and read it cover to cover. Since then, I have PM'D several senior thread members with comment and questions and even created an account on one of the popular SD / SB sites. And while it's been strange at times, it continues to be a hell of a ride and loads of fun! The results so far:
MSSB#1."24" y / o, tall, thin, gorgeous AA baby in Richmond. I write "24" because upon getting her phone number, the standard Google search turned up her true name, age and address. She is actually 28 but she looks 24 so I'm good with it. Met at local notel suggested by her, talked like old friends, drank wine and played naked games. Has the most incredibly perfect tits I've have played with in some time! She was pretty good but had weird rules (no head without a medical clearance but I could deposit my load wherever I wanted on the outside. Really?) She was more semi-pro than a true UTR SB but she was fun, we clicked and damage was ok. Will see again at some point as a fill in.
MSSB#2. 43 y / o, tall, thin, blond hair, blue eyed MILF. She really wanted to meet so we set up a quick "meet and drink" because of time constraints. She was much prettier than her pics, we clicked, had a great time hanging out, made out and groped in car, and then the weirdness started. First of all, for the entire time, she kept getting texts every 10 minutes. Finally she said it was her daughter. She wanted to know how it was going because she knew mom was out on a "date" to meet her first SD! Apparently, she told everyone what she is doing. Kids. Aunts. Friends. Everyone! Yikes! Then the subject of sugar came up. And since she was sitting on my lap in the car, it was rather hard to deflect that one. Now, this lady is in real straits. Not a Nando-1 type, but lost her job, in a horrible divorce and lives with relatives. When I offered $$, she reacted like I kicked her in the flower! B*tch is poor as hell and she was apparently insulted? Really? Oh, did I mention she has 6 kids! Not exactly HYB material but whatever. So we talked, worked it out and agreed to meet later. And I will meet her later because we clicked and she does seem to have skills (see 6 kids above).
So, still trying to fill up my line up card and hoping one day to be like Mr. Scott. Thanks to all for the great information passed and I will try to contribute whatever info I can to the effort in the future.
It's great to see a few new contributors to the forum, and that some of the old pros are still providing advice and encouragement. I don't have much else to contribute since last week. The warden is back in the house and opportunities have to be carefully scheduled. I got my first "not sure if I can continue to do this" message from a 30 yo that I have been seeing occasionally since November. She wouldn't have lasted much longer in my lineup anyway, but it was interesting to hear her reasons that our meetings were starting to get to her conscience.
My mid-20s hot blond SB that has been playing hard to get does at least continue to correspond with email new have only met once and she the FC is still but a distant dream. I've been trying to line up that important 2nd meeting all week before the trail gets too cold, but without success.
Scott, I'll be in your fine city next week on business. Let me know if there is any discards that you feel like tossing my way to make my week go faster. I'll have to delay any more playing around the home town for another week until inget back to town.
No dates set for this week. And I'm in withdrawal. You all didn't warn me that this hobby is so habit forming.
Stay safe and keep the posts coming.
Alias
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1393536]Gentlemen,
Thanks for helping me to keep things in a lighter perspective. Like, OMG, I was so totally stressing out about this!
I had planned to keep the appointment in any event. Although these babies are playing at grown-up games, it is important to remember, at least in this case, that she is barely 21. I think I am prepared for most eventualities, with the possible exception of "I want to have your baby". Brrr, that one gives me the willies!
I am guessing, like life, it will be more complicated than any of us can surmise from the outside. We are having lunch at that gastro-pub / inn that I have posted about before. My thinking here is that if it is a kiss-off, at least I will have a great lunch, and if it is not, perhaps they will have a room for us.
At least I have my Polo mom to look forward to on Monday. I have informed her of my desire to change venues and she is down with that."I'll bring some candles" is about the only thing she said that I can genteelly quote here, but she apparently has a keen interest in the Wild West, as she mentioned something about riding little Scottie like a bronco. Yay! Or should I say "yippee ki yi yay"?
What a life!
Scott[/QUOTE]Damn, Master Scott, my hat's off to you! Not only do you have the hot redhead on fire for some sweaty fun, you've got a potential line back to your HYCB. Who knows, with a bit of luck, next Tuesday, you might be on here relating your reignited passion with HYCB AND your 'Wild West show; meeting with the redhead too.
Ride'them cowboy!
[QUOTE=Zman429;1393060]SA is free to the babies so I suggest concentrating on babies that have logged on recently.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice. I didn't know the site was free for the girls (should've assumed) , so it makes sense there'd be a high rate of girls signing up then deciding it's not for them and not sticking around long.
Thankfully it turns out I was premature in thinking my pic had scared off the one girl. She emailed me today asking to reschedule. After being used to the quick-fix of contacting an escort, I guess I'm going to need to cultivate some patience, LOL.
[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1393753]I got my first "not sure if I can continue to do this" message from a 30 yo that I have been seeing occasionally since November. She wouldn't have lasted much longer in my lineup anyway, but it was interesting to hear her reasons that our meetings were starting to get to her conscience.[/QUOTE]You're leaving out the best part LOL
Hey guys. Been lurking, great information on here, thought I would add my $.02. FWIW I'm a decent looking, middle aged white guy.
I joined Ashley Madison several years ago, have had some success, but have found that its a lot of work, and you always have the SO drama, so have backed off of that site. Typically go weeks without checking my account. But. When it works, its great / free.
Stumbled on this thread, great info. Joined SD4me first, then SA as the selection around Richmond looked better on that site. Am trying to cancel my SD4me subscription but so far no response from them, anyone have any suggestions?
So my experience. First my rules are a) no face pics (I tell them I am the Governor of Chesterfield and can't send my pics around. But I do have a tasteful body shot. Most are fine with this. If not, I assume they are too difficult and / or are scammers (had a chica on AM try to blackmail me once, so I use a web-based email and a throwaway phone) be) I lay out sugar expectations early on ($2-300 per meet, etc. Etc.)
Thus far have had some success with SA, may have a date with a college baby tonight. I've found they fall into three categories:
1. Ridiculous expectations. Met a hot Asian college baby in Harrisonburg for a drink. She informed me it was $1K per night. In Harrisonburg. I could own Harrisonburg for $1k per night.
2. Pros or semi-pros. Works for me. Don't know if they are UTR are not, but have had some fun with girls I would not have otherwise met (have never seen them on BP, so assume they are UTR)
3. Regular chicas. These are tougher fish to land, but pretty awesome when landed. I find the "simple country girl" type works best. Very appreciative for reasonable $ once they know you are not a creep. Am guessing the MILFs work this way as well, have only met one I would classify as a MILF and she wanted too much $ for my taste. Nice girl though.
One note. I had a spectacular success while traveling on business. Searched the town I was going to, put out the "I'm going to be in your town for a few nights, would love to meet up with someone to hang out with". Met a hot young Emo / Goth chick, great time for $2-300 per night while I was there. Wow. Might have to go back to her town.
Thanks again for all the info! Hope this helps someone.
[QUOTE=Francis Eight; 1393951]Am trying to cancel my SD4me subscription but so far no response from them, anyone have any suggestions?
One note. I had a spectacular success while traveling on business. Searched the town I was going to, put out the "I'm going to be in your town for a few nights, would love to meet up with someone to hang out with". Met a hot young Emo / Goth chick, great time for $2-300 per night while I was there. Wow. Might have to go back to her town.[/QUOTE]Welcome to the brotherhood, Francis!
Many of us have had trouble canceling SD4Me accounts. I finally had to contact the credit card company and cancel that card. One of the other members put some highly derogatory comments on his profile about SD4Me and they cancelled it themselves, but the consensus is that unless you do something drastic yourself, they will keep on billing you. That's why I prefer SA. Pay for the month, and when it's up, no access to babies unless you re-up for another month.
Also, glad to hear the On-the-Road gambit worked for you. It is ridiculously easy, most of the time, to connect with HYBs who are more than willing to come to the net.
Keep up the good work, and don't forget to write.
Scott
Was wondering. When you do the out of town thing, how specific are you about what you want and are willing to spend?
My approach was. Basically in nice language say "I'm looking to meet for drinks / dinner, then if we like each other we can take it from there". Upside is its less threatening and should make it more likely they will come meet, then, as they say, the fish is that much closer to the boat. Problem with that approach is you get the girl like in Harrisonburg who wanted $1k to spend the night. Which I'm just not going to do.
I guess the other approach is to come right out and say "I'm willing to spend $x assuming we end up having some adult fun", which would help weed out the platinum-diggers, but might make it less likely that they would meet. Be / see they would feel more like a call girl. Which is ironic.
Any guidance?
[QUOTE=Francis Eight;1393951]Am trying to cancel my SD4me subscription but so far no response from them, anyone have any suggestions?[/QUOTE]See if there is a website on your credit card statement, if so you might be able to cancel using it. That's what I had to do for benaughty. Com, sham by the way. Also, you can dispute charge if you've contacted them and they don't cancel.
Francis,
Well to the flock my man! You seem to be pretty spot on with your classifications. I haven't really had much experience with a pro advertising, but I live in a small town area and the pros use the same pics on their profile as they do on the escort sites. I've had a few communications from the women with GPS as we call it here. I wish them luck in their quest. Practically all of my meets have been with the normal women who need some financial assistance and aren't grossed out by a middle aged guy. You just never know how things will turn out as I've had many one and dones, but I've also had a couple of pretty lengthy relationships. There's more than one way to skin a cat as we say in the South, so just enjoy.
One of my online buddies has told me he uses a $50 prepaid debit card to pay on SD4me. I've signed up for the site a couple of times and really had no trouble cancelling, but the last time was over two years ago so I can't really speak for how it is now. If they will accept the prepaid card, seems like you can't go wrong there.
Sheesh! It's guys like you that make it hard for guys like me to get away with. 8 to $ LOL.
Once they get that much honey from you, they expect it every time!
I won't say the hot college SBs are not worth it, but try to keep it down to $$ will ya. That is pretty much my max.
The MILFs are the bargains on SA! They are on for both the sex and the $, so their $ expectancy is much lower as they do NOT regard themselves as hookers.
Myself I never discuss sugar up front. Always say I am generous and that they will be happy. If I know I am not ever going to see them again. I will leave a low amount as I do not care. If I really like them, I up it some. If they do not like it; they as well have the choice not to see me again.
Not being too harsh am I here guys?. Just trying to be real.
[QUOTE=Francis Eight;1393951]I lay out sugar expectations early on ($2-300 per meet, etc. Etc.)[/QUOTE]
I was also on SD4Me site about a year ago and it took me 4 months to finally cancel. I call my CC company and refuted payment. They made the contact with the SD site and got no response so removed the charges. I went through that process at least 3 months in a row before the billing stopped. According to my CC company, they get charged a fee every time a charge is successfully reversed for cause, so it's always helpful to formally refute even small charges you disagree with.
I'd highly recommend the disposable card route if you want to do business with this scum site.
Alias
[QUOTE=Magic Rat;1394104]One of my online buddies has told me he uses a $50 prepaid debit card to pay on SD4me. I've signed up for the site a couple of times and really had no trouble cancelling, but the last time was over two years ago so I can't really speak for how it is now. If they will accept the prepaid card, seems like you can't go wrong there.[/QUOTE]