A Recent (Pathetic) Visit To Bobby's
Gentlemen, Bobby's has hit a new low. I was in the area recently & decided to make a stop in to see if there were any familiar faces. It was relatively busy with most of the seats at the bar taken & people playing pool, slots etc. That cute little Latina bartender that used to work at J's was working behind the bar shaking her can for tips (fully clothed of course). There were a few familiar faces, some of the girls that used to dance there hang out when she's tending bar. At first I thought that might be a good thing, wow was I wrong. One of them approached me & asked for a drink. She was not at all anyone I'd have wanted to spend time with but I figured maybe I could get the low down from her (MISTAKE! She went into this sob story how she can't pay rent etc etc etc. Then she started with the begging for a tip & even pretty much said that the customers need to support the former dancers. I politely pointed out that a lot of places are hiring & many of the other dancers are working regular jobs now, & she went into all kinds of double talk at that comment. I realized she wasn't about to back off so I slid her a 5 to get her off my back. She wasn't happy with that amount but realized that's all I was going to give up.
At that point I saw an empty chair further down the bar next to a cute petite AA former dancer that I recognized. I sat down & said hello (MISTAKE #2). We chatted for a bit, just basic "how have you been" etc & I bought her a drink. About 5 minutes later, the dude sitting on the other side of her sticks his nose into the conversation & tells me I need to "tip the lady". I thought he was joking & he made it VERY clear that he expected me to tip her for her time. Now keep in mind, we're talking about 5 minutes & basic "what have you been up to" type conversation. Now this dude was a very large framed thug type & I was feeling quite intimidated. At that point someone came up to him & started a conversation. I took that distraction as an opportunity to get out of there. The Irony is, I would likely have tipped her as she was one I liked to get dances from & I was hoping to see where it could go, but I don't like being strong armed.
If that's not bad enough, at one point, that train wreck Dana/Dayna walks in. Turns out, they're allowing her to hang out & hustle guys for whatever she can. For those of you that don't know her, avoid at all cost. She's a complete scam artist.
Since this happened, I've asked around & apparently the girls are doing this when they feel they can get away with it. The former J's bartender is friends with all these girls & lets them do what they want. I don't know if this is the norm, but that one time is enough to keep me out of there. Prior to this visit, I had not been there in a couple months & I don't plan to go there any time soon. What a crap hole Bobby's has become.
Well I say never say never
[QUOTE=MayorQuimby;5950752]Yeah, overall the whole situation sucked. Don't get me wrong, the dude that tried to persuade me to "tip the lady" didn't come across "threatening" me. More like a letting me know it was expected. I'm pretty sure he was a boyfriend / driver / manager? It just made me uncomfortable with the situation, enough so that I took the opportunity to remove myself from the situation before it got ugly. It's just such poor business practice. I went in with a couple hundred bucks in my pocket & would have parted with it for the right situation. Instead, I left after 10-15 minutes.
As far as the one "begging" for tips. She just seems lazy. Too lazy to go get a real job. In her double talk, it came across that a real job would mean no more sitting & drinking all day. I guess I can scratch Bobby's off my list of places to visit. I'm realizing that my hobbying days are pretty much over.[/QUOTE]We might have to go without on occasions and just spend more on one good situation. I know also that generally the guys that post on here have the cash to spend, however just don't want to be hustled. Intimidating or not boyfriend, driver or not (and I have hired security guys and drivers when I was booking this type of talent back when I first started) the girl has to control this situation. If she intends to do business and why the f**k else would she be there? Some dude coming up and telling me to tip the lady or even suggesting that is more than a reason for me to leave with my money. Like you said you would have parted with a couple of benjamins for the right situation. These people are just too fu*kin dumb to realize that their actions and lack of finesse are costing them cash! Stosh thanks for this report mayor!
Louie's is now MADUSAS! Open NO GIRLS!
FYI. Louies is now Madusas. Open for business but no girls working the hustle.
Oh yeah, I remember that guy
[QUOTE=Scott40;6186904]I heard that was was going on for years at the bars was because of a guy named Steve / Stevie who I've heard some refer to as "the biggest loser", is that true? Is he the main reason why the bars are shut down for good now?[/QUOTE]I think you're speaking about that dude that went on any & every site possible to badmouth a certain dancer that turned him down. He had fallen in "love" & started stalking both in person as well as online. He was making daily posts dragging her through the mud after she rejected him. I don't think he ever posted on this site because that type stuff isn't tolerated here. He was eventually arrested & put away for a while on an unrelated matter. Out of respect, I won't mention her name & I don't think she dances anymore. It was talked about in the bars a lot but that was about 10 or more years ago if I recall.
That had nothing to do with the bars closing as it was so long ago. The shooting at J's is what lead to the dancer ban. That has been discussed at great length over the past couple years. If you'd like to read back on the topic, go back about 13 pages to Oct / Nov of 2020, starting around posts mid 950's.
The only bar in the Mannheim area with dancers is Carls (because it's in Stone Park not Melrose).