Seeking Arrangement

So I know we've had a lot of new people who are now using SA. SO I did a little guide of something you need to know. I been doing SA for two years so I have quite a bit of experience. Anyone else who like to add on feel free.

1. Google reverse Image search is your friend- For those of you who Don't know what this is its EASY. You save a pic to you computer or phone. Now if your on a PC take the pic save it to you desktop go to google Hit the image tab and drag and drop the image into the search bar. At that point google will search the web and tell you where and if that pics been used or witch amateur model pic they are using believe me it happens a lot. If your using your phone Save the image into a folder that's easy to find. And there a google reverse search web page. Type "google reverse search" in google it will pop up. Now select open image go to the folder your stored the image and hit search. Magic!

2. Burner Phones- Always always use a burner phone. Don't use texting App or phone apps. Always always get a Burner the apps always link some sort of info that can be traced back to your personal info and original number. If a SB get into a desperate situation where they need money They will stalk you or even worse black mail you.

3. Allowance- Now here the tricky part. Make sure you take the discussion off SA as soon as possible. Sa will Ban you faster then you can blink for implying any sexual Activity. Most girl have some sort of app or they will message you on your burner. Discuss allowance up front and what your looking for and see what they are looking for. Again SA is about negotiation So start off lower then what you regularly plan on Giving and go up if needed to keep there interest. Your not trying to low ball them your just trying to meet each other needs. Make sure they understand what you like and if you have any fetishes and fantasy so they aren't surprised the day of the meet. Make sure you have a back up girl more then likely they will get cold feet day of the meet.

4. Prier Meet up- Now this is a very important one. Now that you've gotten through steps 1-3 It time for the pre meet up. The reason you want to do this is Chemistry. You want a fun Sb someone that's attracted to you and your attracted to her. Nothing worse then meet with a SB that uses 10 years old pics and doesn't have teeth or you finally meet and she a dead fish. Also you can get a vibe from her. Always always listen to your gut If something doesn't feel right that usually because something is off. Now I know a lot of girl won't meet due to Covid-19 So the only other way to go is make Snapchat / Facebook / zoom / skype what ever it maybe so you can have a webcam chat. EVERYONE HAS ONE don't let them give you some bullshit that they don't have any social media everyone one has one in some shape or form.

5. Meet up. So it the day of the meet up. Always pre book a room 3-4 days before. Make sure that you text you Sb the days before to make sure the meets still happening. Always see if you back up around. Now hotels will ask for you driver license and personal info make sure that is all taken care of before she gets to the hotel. You don't want them to have any of your info. An make sure you have Some sort of lock on your phone. Not a pattern something that long and only you will remember for a pin. Don't Use your birthday!. If you don't already have it make sure you have some way of tracking app on your phone if it gets stolen or misplaced. Now me personal Cash is king. I don't give SB any other form of currency beside the king. I place it in a white envelope let them count it put on the dresser and it there's when we are done. Don't ever give anything upfront. Yes they are college girls and some are not but more then likely they will try to bail or sudden have gotten sick or a half ass performance a lot of girl when they gotten whet they need they have no motivation all of a sudden. . Now say you've had your fun. Don't ever let them keep you room or stay longer. When you leave they leave no and if's and buts about it. If you piss them off in some way they can fuck up the room and it goes on your card. Or they may try to call down and get your personal info from the clerk. An if your sb gets cold feet try your back up =).

6. Other Tips- So I understand some girls don't like using webcams which is okay. Have them pose and do something unique with there hands. Personally ill ask them to pose with the peace symbol Just so I know they are real. DON'T EVER EVER GIVE A SB ANY MONEY BEFORE THE MEET. 33 percent of these girls on Sa are Camegirl / Onlyfan or they are just scam Artist. Please use the forum and make everyone aware of them.

Now I know there going to be a lot of different views and opinions and something that I didn't add or touch on. Feel free to add on to this. An as always be safe guys. If you don't know something or don't know how to go about something ASK! That what this community about. It about helping our fellow man.

This is in response to IluvThisTown, #1118. For some reason, the site wouldn't let me incorporate his message without telling me that my message was too SHORT.

For what it's worth, I've been on SA for about six years.

1. Google Image Search: There's an easier way. On a PC, when in a profile, click on the picture. Then right click and select "Google Reverse Image Search. " You have to have expanded the photo that's on the profile; you can't just click on the photo from the profile page. On an Android, just hold your finger down on the picture and select "Search Google for this image. " There's no need to download the photo.

2. Burner Phones: There are two schools of thought on this. I quit using a burner phone because it would be too hard to explain to my wife. So, I use an app. No matter what you do, the NSA can track you down. But there's not much a bad baby can do with the app.

3. Allowance: I usually don't discuss allowance until the M&G. I just don't know what I would feel comfortable paying. If pressed, I may give a number, but I don't bargain. If it's enough (and it usually is), that's it. If it's not enough for her, then I wish her a good life. If she were then to come back and say my number was good enough, which hasn't happened, I probably would say "no, thank you," because I don't want her to start off the relationship thinking she is being underpaid. I agree about taking any conversation about allowance off-site, although if one of her first communications asks about allowance, I usually end up not pursuing further conversations. I never try to have a back-up lined up for the day because I'd rather be stood up than stand someone up, so I would not want to cancel on my "back up. " As far as I can tell, what SA doesn't like in the communication is the linkage of money and sex. I don't think that purely sexual conversations will get you banned; after all, some of the girls have some pretty explicitly sexual stuff in their profiles, but it's better to be safe than sorry.

4. Prior Meet up: I agree that a meet & greet is important to gauge chemistry. I'm finding that fewer and fewer girls want to have one, which I think is a reflection of the new mix of girls on the site. If we're not going to have a meet and greet and just arrange an initial meeting in a hotel, I will cancel if she does not ask me for a picture. I'm not looking for a hooker. The kind of girl that I'm looking for actually cares what the guy she's sleeping with looks like.

I'm not trying to meet anyone new during the lockdown. There are already so many girls who think they should be paid just for existing without any need to meet up. So, right now a girl who says she doesn't want to meet up immediately may be someone who in better times would be happy to meet up (and my do so after the lockdown, or she may be someone who wasn't going to meet up with anyone anyway. I don't have sufficient confidence in my ability to tell which is which, and I don't want to alienate someone who would end up being a good SB.

5. Meet up: I agree that pre-booking the hotel makes things smoother the day of. If you meet during the day, as I do, one complication is whether the hotel has a room available for early check-in. Obviously, they don't promise this, so it's important that wherever you reserve allows cancellations on the day of arrival. More and more are requiring 24 or 48 hours notice of cancellation, so if you have reserved at such a place and they can't give you early check-in, you are still on the hook for the room, which is a situation you don't want to be in. As for payment to the girl, I agree that cash is the way to go. I must say that there have only been a few situations in which the girl has wanted to see the money in advance. I usually have the cash in an envelope which is inside a gift bag with something like a box of candy. I also agree that it is important to continue communications up until the time of the meeting. I've had several situations in which we're having lots of communication up until we decide to meet and thereafter she communicates less. That's almost always a sign that she's getting cold feet. Unless I get some enthusiastic communication the night before AND the morning of the meeting, I won't even head for the hotel.

6. Other Tips: I don't ask the girl to send me a picture in some pose to show she's genuine. I think that would be off-putting to the kind of girl I'm trying to attract. Especially if you're going to have a meet and greet first, there's not much reason to worry about what she looks like. I haven't ever have anyone show up to a meet and greet where I wanted to hide under the table. I definitely agree on no money before the meet, and I don't mean the meet and greet. I have never paid for a M&G, although in a couple of cases, I've paid for her Uber. If they insist on money for the meet and greet, I just say "no, thank you. " One reason is that before you meet them, it's hard to trust them; another reason is that if they think I should pay them have coffee or lunch with me, that's an indication of what the arrangement would look like. To me, the meet and greet is like a job interview, where each side is looking to see if there is a fit. She's selling herself as much as I am selling myself.

For what it's worth.

[QUOTE=Remi14;4693981]Meet this lovely lady twice this week. She is very easy going and talkative. Was nervous meeting her since the pic kinda looked fake but had her send me a pic of my choice and see did. We meet up chatted for a bit and had some fun. PM me if you want more details. But if your looking for someone that can relax you and put you at ease I would see this one.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1bdd64c9-4070-4453-a441-007a54f0a4e8[/QUOTE]She is the person in her profile pictures but they're very deceiving!! She is nowhere near that hot, her teeth are totally nasty and rotten, I couldn't barely get it up because of her nasty teeth!! She's definitely on some hard drugs!! She is a very nice woman and she does try hard to please you but I just can't get over the nasty teeth!

[QUOTE=CougarMan;4771958]She is the person in her profile pictures but they're very deceiving!! She is nowhere near that hot, her teeth are totally nasty and rotten, I couldn't barely get it up because of her nasty teeth!! She's definitely on some hard drugs!! She is a very nice woman and she does try hard to please you but I just can't get over the nasty teeth![/QUOTE]I don't know about you guys but hygiene is my biggest turn off and turn on. Me personally I like a girl who shaves her pits does her nail like the cute little french manicures nothing over the top and a beautiful white smile. I can handle some crocked teeth as long as they are taken care of. If I see your teeth are yellow or rotten and your nails have left over paint on them or there is dirt under your nails god knows what else you don't clean.

Has anyone ever seen or talked to her before? Good looking, lives in West Bloomfield. I probably should have posted this earlier because I'm on my way to see her now. If anyone has any information I'd appreciate [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d5bdf40c-0cf2-459c-96f3-284dbbc2f955[/URL].

[QUOTE=CougarMan;4772229]Has anyone ever seen or talked to her before? Good looking, lives in West Bloomfield. I probably should have posted this earlier because I'm on my way to see her now. If anyone has any information I'd appreciate [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d5bdf40c-0cf2-459c-96f3-284dbbc2f955[/URL].[/QUOTE]Well? How did it go? Pics look interesting. Would love to know more about this.

I'm sorry man wish we could expose these scumbags. I think the other thing that happened when you posted her lonk and I know this from experience. When individuals get talked about they will get notifications that someone looked at there profile they'll get one for being favorited private pic request and of course one for messaging. So when you posted her link she probably got a shit ton of notifications that people checked her profile out.

Not sure if you guys have noticed this lately, but I've been noticing two things:

1) SB profiles that are a first name, one letter and a digit / number. Most of these are fake profiles it seems. They're popping up left and right. If anyone has any actual luck with any of them, I'd be interested to learn more. They all seem to be pretty hot. Examples (not real accounts) are like JulieR1, GigiK12, etc.

2) There's been an increase of this 2 for 1 BS lately. So, I messaged one of those. Told them lets get a spot, what trouble are they looking to get into (per their profile information), and if they're ready to have some fun, etc. My rules are never to be outnumbered by women, unless I know them well, have their information on deck, or some sort of security. I asked them what their drinks of choice are, etc and magically, these two 20 somethings from MSU don't drink. These are the type to convince a dude to get tied up and rob you or something in my opinion. Lots of them popping up. If anyone has any leads on a good pair that are legit, I'd be interested.

**Bonus, I had messaged a late 30 something who had decent pics, not the most amazing woman I've ever seen, but enough to pique my interest. Blonde, nice rack, spinner, normal looking pics and profile. Messaged her back and forth and moved the convo to text. Right after texting, the profile disappears. I asked why, and 'she' said she was tired of the site etc. Attempted to meet that evening but she was too tired. Then she told me her friend wanted her to go to a BTC ATM and if I could find one for her. I said google it. Then she asked to meet me there. I said sure, why not? Later, she said she's too tired and if I can run it for her as a favor to deposit $500 into a BTC account, and sent me the account info. I started cracking up. Are there members on SA who are actually that ridiculous and would fall for that?

[QUOTE=CougarMan;4775818]May I ask what you gave her for a donation? She quoted me 500 to start, whatever that means LOL. I told her no fkn way I'd come close to that![/QUOTE]I've communicated with her several times as well, over text. Received additional pics. She didn't look the SA pics that's for sure, but weren't all that bad. Her overall demeanor screamed stripper to me, as did her pics. They aren't my thing went hunting for an SB. I like my strippers at the strip club.

[QUOTE=LongTimeGamer;4775922]I've communicated with her several times as well, over text. Received additional pics. She didn't look the SA pics that's for sure, but weren't all that bad. Her overall demeanor screamed stripper to me, as did her pics. They aren't my thing went hunting for an SB. I like my strippers at the strip club.[/QUOTE]I mean you can plug the trigger mate. Just be super specific of what you want.

I made the mistake of not doing that because I've never had to and she took advantage. Typical stripper strategy.

She has nice cans but told me you cannot touch them, squeeze them, kiss them, I don't do BJ (covered or uncovered), cum quickly, don't you dare to cum in any part of my body. Cum in the bed.

Stay safe!!

[QUOTE=LongTimeGamer;4775915]Not sure if you guys have noticed this lately, but I've been noticing two things:

1) SB profiles that are a first name, one letter and a digit / number. Most of these are fake profiles it seems. They're popping up left and right. If anyone has any actual luck with any of them, I'd be interested to learn more. They all seem to be pretty hot. Examples (not real accounts) are like JulieR1, GigiK12, etc.

2) There's been an increase of this 2 for 1 BS lately. So, I messaged one of those. Told them lets get a spot, what trouble are they looking to get into (per their profile information), and if they're ready to have some fun, etc. My rules are never to be outnumbered by women, unless I know them well, have their information on deck, or some sort of security. I asked them what their drinks of choice are, etc and magically, these two 20 somethings from MSU don't drink. These are the type to convince a dude to get tied up and rob you or something in my opinion. Lots of them popping up. If anyone has any leads on a good pair that are legit, I'd be interested.

**Bonus, I had messaged a late 30 something who had decent pics, not the most amazing woman I've ever seen, but enough to pique my interest. Blonde, nice rack, spinner, normal looking pics and profile. Messaged her back and forth and moved the convo to text. Right after texting, the profile disappears. I asked why, and 'she' said she was tired of the site etc. Attempted to meet that evening but she was too tired. Then she told me her friend wanted her to go to a BTC ATM and if I could find one for her. I said google it. Then she asked to meet me there. I said sure, why not? Later, she said she's too tired and if I can run it for her as a favor to deposit $500 into a BTC account, and sent me the account info. I started cracking up. Are there members on SA who are actually that ridiculous and would fall for that?[/QUOTE]It's so hard to fine anyone that wants to meet; everyone is using covid-19 as excuse to do online only. They list fwb, romance, discretion but are not doing in person meeting now.

She says on her profile that all her other daddies will protect her. Read the profile. I could not figure what was going on.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cc89da57-9f32-49f8-880f-a39871bd9206[/URL]

[QUOTE=Daze94;4676637][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d19d7326-78e4-445a-a1e1-b2f883fa4413[/URL]

Carter doesn't host, however she is more than willing to stop by whatever location you happen to be at. She stopped by my place the other day for some fun. She kept me up to date on her location as she traveled to me. Once she arrived we sat down for a bit and just talked to get to know one another. Eventually we ended up on the bed, she looks just like the lady in the pictures, super cute and very friendly. Great body, hands and skills. BBBJ, CFS BBBJCIMWS. She loves to ride cowgirl and is great, however she really enjoyed missionary on this day.

Treat her nice, and she will return the favor.

Daze.[/QUOTE]Could you PM me her digits, if that was okay.

[QUOTE=CostasCarl;4780634]She says on her profile that all her other daddies will protect her. Read the profile. I could not figure what was going on.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cc89da57-9f32-49f8-880f-a39871bd9206[/URL][/QUOTE]I texted with her a lot and she has a severe case of GPS not to mention all the weird stuff in her profile.

She describes herself almost like a millionaire and still complaining she can't get a job or internship.

She quoted me $500, I said $400 and she said she's not interested and that I'm cheap. Go figure!

I don't understand most of the sugar babies. They state they have lost their jobs, are broke, etc. And still suffer from GPS and reject any offer that's not $500 or more. Probable fake profiles? Maybe.

Stay safe!

[QUOTE=CostasCarl;4780634]She says on her profile that all her other daddies will protect her. Read the profile. I could not figure what was going on.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cc89da57-9f32-49f8-880f-a39871bd9206[/URL][/QUOTE]A quick read of her profile leads me to believe she is a total scam artist. 20 years old and almost has completed a degree in biomedical engineering? While also spending a year in Japan and Germany? She must also be a member of MENSA. LOL.

As for consulting with other SD's? She might just be viewing this site. Remember there are white knights on this site. I wouldn't wast my time on this one. JMHO.

[QUOTE=CostasCarl;4780640]Could you PM me her digits, if that was okay.[/QUOTE]Just FYI Carter is about business as usual only.

I saw her a while back and she will just basically go straight to bed, make you cum and then she'll leave.

10-15 minutes max stay.

She's a "quicky" short stay girl.

Hi All, long time appreciator of the collective knowledge shared here. I do not have anything positive to offer, but I did want to share a scammer for everyone to avoid. Not really my type, but the story was pathetic enough to pull me in. To give her credit, she worked the story hard, but of course disappeared once I took the risk.

No major felony, but having my faith in people shaken yet again is enough for me to post here, since she blocked me before I could report. Current username is 'Wantsum' (could change because she has been reported before) with current link.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/96f147a5-5397-427c-9437-3590acb0085a[/URL]

Good luck all!

[QUOTE=CostasCarl;4780634]She says on her profile that all her other daddies will protect her. Read the profile. I could not figure what was going on.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cc89da57-9f32-49f8-880f-a39871bd9206[/URL][/QUOTE]YOU may want to re-read her profile. It says: You are not going to be my only Daddy, but with all my Daddies protection and regular testing is a must.

I am not sure how you read that as meaning "all her other daddies will protect her. " Just saying.

Be safe all.

P.S. I have had no contact with her in any form.

[QUOTE=DippingMyToe;4781329]Hi All, long time appreciator of the collective knowledge shared here. I do not have anything positive to offer, but I did want to share a scammer for everyone to avoid. Not really my type, but the story was pathetic enough to pull me in. To give her credit, she worked the story hard, but of course disappeared once I took the risk.

No major felony, but having my faith in people shaken yet again is enough for me to post here, since she blocked me before I could report. Current username is 'Wantsum' (could change because she has been reported before) with current link.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/96f147a5-5397-427c-9437-3590acb0085a[/URL]

Good luck all![/QUOTE]Hey mate care to elaborate on how she scammed you?

Thanks!

[QUOTE=Robertin75;4781596]Hey mate care to elaborate on how she scammed you?

Thanks![/QUOTE]Embarrassingly. It was the simple 'stuck in a house with my parents, want to get out but car has a flat'.

She worked it well. Even managed to impressively fake a pic of herself with the questionable tire. I have to laugh!

You have to be really stupid to fall for it. Just like me!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8b27f14a-9952-4340-b6c0-1a1221382909[/URL]

Amber is a laid off stripper from the Colosseum on 8 mile. Not what I was looking for but if any of you want to hit her up, she'll probably skip the games.

[QUOTE=DippingMyToe;4781930]Embarrassingly. It was the simple 'stuck in a house with my parents, want to get out but car has a flat'.

She worked it well. Even managed to impressively fake a pic of herself with the questionable tire. I have to laugh!

You have to be really stupid to fall for it. Just like me![/QUOTE]No worries mate. I've also been a victim of similar scams.

Problems is sometimes we think with the little head and get carried away.

Good luck in your search!

[QUOTE=Robertin75;4781144]Just FYI Carter is about business as usual only.

I saw her a while back and she will just basically go straight to bed, make you cum and then she'll leave.

10-15 minutes max stay.

She's a "quicky" short stay girl.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the warning.

[QUOTE=Robertin75;4781144]Just FYI Carter is about business as usual only.

I saw her a while back and she will just basically go straight to bed, make you cum and then she'll leave.

10-15 minutes max stay.

She's a "quicky" short stay girl.[/QUOTE]I can confirm the same. Even though with me it was closer to 30 minutes. She definitely doesn't waste any time.

Avoid this one!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7c65e816-3c95-42a1-b0f0-4824d66a802d[/URL]

Completely destroyed by drugs. No teeth, bruised all over her arms.

Wanted to run away as soon as she walked into my car but I felt bad and had a quickie only.

Scammer beware!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f613dee8-fe3b-48dc-b85e-308eb4538ee9[/URL]

She changes usernames.

Last time she was under a different one.

Chatted for a while with her and when I refused to send her money through CashApp she blocked me so I guess she wants to see who falls for her scams.

Be safe!

Texted for a while until we got to the money part.

She wants $400 if you go to her place in her downtown Detroit apartment and if you want her to go to you it's $500. No thanks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7902454f-e76e-420a-8494-f29807bf4751[/URL]

Sent me some pics and nahhh. Has nice fake cans though but that's about it.

Anyone seen her? Been trying to meet with her but never been past texts.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f38633d2-7d60-4dcb-a1e3-3a7b7502e19e[/URL]

Found her profile on [URL]match.com[/URL] as well.

She coaches her son's football team.

[QUOTE=HungaryMan;4781428]YOU may want to re-read her profile. It says: You are not going to be my only Daddy, but with all my Daddies protection and regular testing is a must.

I am not sure how you read that as meaning "all her other daddies will protect her. " Just saying.

Be safe all.

P.S. I have had no contact with her in any form.[/QUOTE]I understand how the OP misread it, because the poor girl can't afford proper punctuation. It's probably why she is on SA. It would have been clearer had she written:

"You are not going to be my only Daddy; but with all my Daddies, protection and regular testing is a must. ".

It would have been clearer had she written this: ".

[QUOTE=Robertin75;4784717]Avoid this one!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7c65e816-3c95-42a1-b0f0-4824d66a802d[/URL]

Completely destroyed by drugs. No teeth, bruised all over her arms.

Wanted to run away as soon as she walked into my car but I felt bad and had a quickie only.[/QUOTE]That sucks! She was a semi regular of mine about a year ago. She was pretty cheap and a quick car date kinda girl but seemed like a freak. She was also a bit spacey but still was fun. Sad she went downhill like that.

[QUOTE=KPlank;4785691]That sucks! She was a semi regular of mine about a year ago. She was pretty cheap and a quick car date kinda girl but seemed like a freak. She was also a bit spacey but still was fun. Sad she went downhill like that.[/QUOTE]I saw her a while ago as well. Maybe we have different tastes which is OK. You should try to see her again and make your own judgment.

[QUOTE=Robertin75;4786241]I saw her a while ago as well. Maybe we have different tastes which is OK. You should try to see her again and make your own judgment.[/QUOTE]Nah man. I'll take your word for it. Just saying she seemed like a decent woman and it sucks she went the wrong way.

I get alot of likes from South American women on Seeking is that normal and are they legit?

I just have the free profile set up on Seeking arrangements and I'm not sure if I should get a "membership".

Reasons:

1. There is barely any women on there within 100 miles of me when I do a search. I live in the Flint area but even when I do a search in the Detroit area there are few profiles. Most of the profiles of women that people have posted on this forum don't even show up on seeking when I do a search. Do you get access to more profiles when you join?

2. A lot of the profiles seem fake.

3. Is the low volume of women because of Covid-19 or is it always scare on profiles?

Any advice much appreciated!

Thanks.

Has anyone had any luck with this one? We had been texting for a couple weeks and now she is no longer responding. Our texting had been extremely good so I am a bit baffled on this one.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7b39b1f3-1fe1-4b69-b4f2-298254f8c57b[/URL]

[QUOTE=Vip11;4789526]I get alot of likes from South American women on Seeking is that normal and are they legit?[/QUOTE]What would you consider legit? Thinking that they are real and here in the Detroit area ready meet you in person?

[QUOTE=BigBootyFan;4789589]I just have the free profile set up on Seeking arrangements and I'm not sure if I should get a "membership".

Reasons:

1. There is barely any women on there within 100 miles of me when I do a search. I live in the Flint area but even when I do a search in the Detroit area there are few profiles. Most of the profiles of women that people have posted on this forum don't even show up on seeking when I do a search. Do you get access to more profiles when you join?

2. A lot of the profiles seem fake.

3. Is the low volume of women because of Covid-19 or is it always scare on profiles?

Any advice much appreciated!

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Me personally I live 45 minutes from Detroit and I have lots of choice's I probably have anywhere between 200-300 choices make sure you preferences are setup properly. Before covid-19 there was a lot of choices now I'm not sure I haven't been on in 3 months.

[QUOTE=BigBootyFan;4789589]I just have the free profile set up on Seeking arrangements and I'm not sure if I should get a "membership".

Reasons:

1. There is barely any women on there within 100 miles of me when I do a search. I live in the Flint area but even when I do a search in the Detroit area there are few profiles. Most of the profiles of women that people have posted on this forum don't even show up on seeking when I do a search. Do you get access to more profiles when you join?

2. A lot of the profiles seem fake.

3. Is the low volume of women because of Covid-19 or is it always scare on profiles?

Any advice much appreciated!

Thanks.[/QUOTE]I paid for a 3 membership promo in March and I totally regret it.

Only meet a few girls in person and they all looked pretty nasty in person.

There are a lot of fake profiles, prostitutes, strippers, girls selling pics and videos, kids that are bored and creating profiles with the intention to never meet in person and many more.

I have asked several hot young sugar babies why the heck are they in the site if hey never plan to meet in person now or in the future after the pandemic is over and they've said because I'm bored and have nothing else to do.

If you find someone you really like please do yourself a favor and ask for a live full body selfie with a smile where you can see their teeth.

It's amazing how many girls that look pretty hot in their pics who I have meet from the site just to be extremely disappointed when I meet them in person (missed and rotten teeth, fat, bruises in their arms).

I'm not saying all are like this but this has become the norm unfortunately.

Unfortunately my regulars (hot and young) that I used to see often have moved out of state or disappeared from the site.

I'm sure it will take me some time to find some other gems like them.

Stay safe!

[QUOTE=Robertin75;4790371]What would you consider legit? Thinking that they are real and here in the Detroit area ready meet you in person?[/QUOTE]Sorry I meant they live in South America as in they are not local.

[QUOTE=Robertin75;4790387]I paid for a 3 membership promo in March and I totally regret it.

Only meet a few girls in person and they all looked pretty nasty in person.

There are a lot of fake profiles, prostitutes, strippers, girls selling pics and videos, kids that are bored and creating profiles with the intention to never meet in person and many more.

I have asked several hot young sugar babies why the heck are they in the site if hey never plan to meet in person now or in the future after the pandemic is over and they've said because I'm bored and have nothing else to do.

If you find someone you really like please do yourself a favor and ask for a live full body selfie with a smile where you can see their teeth.[/QUOTE]I, on the other hand, have had pretty good success as of late. I just recently renewed my membership as I had a nice rotation of women to see for a little while. I usually sign up in 1 month intervals. Go hard for that month and build a roster. And then enjoy that roster until it fizzles out, or I get a taste for something new. It takes some time to weed through the bad apples, but if you're patient, you can really find some gems.

I currently have a very sexually driven 20 year old who is a submissive. Never been with one of those before. Kinda awesome! Also a couple single moms in their 30's who look extremely good for their age.

The hot 19 yr old I had, has decided that Covid will take her on a hiatus. Smh. That one hurt. She was wonderful, cheap, and freaky as hell. I had just got her into anal and everything!

Anyway, those are my 2 cent worth of thoughts. I think the site can be very beneficial.