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[QUOTE=MadisonMan6;2397215]She asked me for money during this time also.[/QUOTE]This is exactly what I was trying to say in my post yesterday. Put a BP ad up about how girls act and rip people off would stop this crap. Just think how many guys they tell same sad story to to con them out of money. Again I know we all have this board to out them. But feel if done on BP it's like for the whole world to see. It would stop this BS and girls would get the message. I am willing to post and a couple bad ones or you guys?

Any info on Noel anyone seen here.

[QUOTE=LWoods;2397316]This is exactly what I was trying to say in my post yesterday. Put a BP ad up about how girls act and rip people off would stop this crap. Just think how many guys they tell same sad story to to con them out of money. Again I know we all have this board to out them. But feel if done on BP it's like for the whole world to see. It would stop this BS and girls would get the message. I am willing to post and a couple bad ones or you guys?[/QUOTE]I'd be willing to post an ad on BP alerting fellow mo gets to the existence of this board. Would that be kosher with forum administrators here? I could see how this might alert LE and draw them here as well, though.

TheMechanic.

[QUOTE=TheMechanic;2396786]
So that's my story regarding Jade / Jada / Vanessa. I'm not a spiteful or vengeful person, but if I can prevent anyone here from falling into the same trap I did, then that's what I want to do. I received mediocre service, at best, but kept coming back and invested in the promise of much better service that never came.

TheMechanic.[/QUOTE]Damn Dude, welcome to the tip of the iceberg. That's one hell of an introduction to crappy SD / SB relationships. I hadn't ever gone down that road until last summer despite being a hobbyist for over a decade. Only positive that has come from personal involvement has been access to a network of UTR girls that otherwise I would never have known of. The negative, as you have noted, is that it is a bottomless sinkhole financially to be involved with a woman of low moral fiber and recreational issues.

RE Summer / Jade; I remember her having some decent reviews when she started. Had considered investing, but her pictures were never flattering enough to set the hook. Thanks for sharing the story brother. FWIW I also popped my Cherry at a legal establishment, The Moonlight Bunny Ranch. Blew about $7K in a single weekend. That was one hell of an introduction!

I was seeing one that's flies BTR for a while. When she started asking me for money, like Jada was doing you, I suddenly got a new job in another state!

What happened to you sucks! I get where you're coming from with the wife too. One of my rules is to not get attached or invested. When that happens, trouble will certainly follow. Best of luck to you!

AA.

[QUOTE=TheMechanic;2396786]Based on the pictures, and more definitively, the phone number, that *is* Jade. She is not GFE, she rushes, she's an accomplished and habitual liar, is barely able to conceal her recreational activities, and she's not relaxed / nervous during the session. At first I thought in an afraid-I-was-a-cop kinda way, but over time I came to realize it was more likely whatever drugs she was on.

At the risk of making myself look like a nave fool (which I guess I am, but I'm learning), I'll tell you my Jade story. I'll try to keep it brief, but I'm not good at that, so if you read any further, just know that you've been warned!

I'm also willing to tell this story because it was a valuable, if not expensive, learning experience for me. I started hobbying just over 2 years ago. The first time was March 9th, 2013 while on a business trip in Germany. I had been thinking about getting into the hobby for years and since I was in Europe, the truly civilized world where its legal, I took the opportunity and made an appointment at a brothel called GeilHaus, loosely translated to "Horny House. " On the following Saturday morning, I took a cab to the place and, somewhat nervously despite the fact I was violating no laws whatsoever, broke my hobbying cherry. From that point, I was hooked (pun intended!

(in case you're curious: [URL]www.geilhaus.de[/URL]).

I got into the hobby for two reasons. First because I really love getting to know and experiencing a woman and secondly for the intimacy. I've been married for 20 years, and, unfortunately, while my wife will lay there and let me have sex with her just about anytime I want, she has zero interest in it, so she, literally, just lies there. Maybe a kiss or two, but that's it. I've been with self-proclaimed non-GFE escorts who are way more GFE than my wife. I joke to friends that she has half the skill and none of the enthusiasm for sex that even a Catholic nun has. I stay with her because, despite the dreadfully unfulfilling sex life, I do love her and I really enjoy the stability of my family life.

What I'm looking for in my hobbying activities is a little adventure, intimacy, and someone who appears to enjoy having sex with me. Because of that, I'm always on the lookout for a friend with benefits type arrangement, and I'm willing to invest time and resources into cultivating relationships like that. Unfortunately, this is where my naivet and a poor character judgement gets me into trouble. And this is where my story involves Jade.

I dreamt with Jade / Jada / Vanessa last September and had a relatively decent time. She wasn't very GFE and seemed a little nervous, but overall, I had a decent time. She was quite attractive except for what I would consider way too many tattoos and the fact that she didn't seem very relaxed. Her incall location, short-notice availability, and reasonably attractive body suggested good potential and so I hoped that the GFE would improve with familiarity. I dreamt with Jade a second time a couple weeks later, again on short notice (2 hours) after some other plans fell through. This time, the experience was decidedly mediocre with less GFE, messy place, no preparation, rushed session, preferring to go straight to intercourse without DATY or BJ or both. Basically went through the motions. I left physically satisfied but unfulfilled, because I'm in the hobby as much for the intimacy as the physical release (which I can get at home anytime I want). From my notes, "Pleasant, but rushes, minimal GFE, goes straight to CFS. " At that point, I decided that as long as "escorting" was her primary revenue stream, she'the likely never rise anywhere near her potential.

Fast-forward a week and I get a text from her letting me know that she's moved out of her hotel incall and into a house with a room mate, was looking for a legitimate job, and retiring from escorting. I guess she realized from previous conversations of the kind of arrangement I was really looking for (FWB), and suggested that she felt comfortable with me and would be willing to see me still after retiring and getting on with her life, which sounded pretty good to me. Again, my poor judgement kicked in and so with the promise of being a "special friend" after her retirement, I went ahead and sent her the $75 she needed to get the gas (or whatever utility it was) turned on since it had been in the last room-mate's name and that room mate had moved out which is why she was moving in, yadda, yadda, yadda. As I mentioned, I'm definitely willing to invest in a relationship long-term so it didn't seem like a big deal.

And that is what started it all, the tip of the spear, so to speak. From there, it was one intricately constructed lie after another for why she needed this money and that money. And, it will come as no surprise to anyone here, that there was now always some reason why she couldn't see me. Most of it was the "crazy room-mate" being there or her brother being there where she supposedly lived after getting kicked out of the house by the crazy room-mate. After a while, the simple trap I fell into was this: I felt like I had to send her money when she asked because if I didn't she'the get angry and then refuse to see me and I'the lose the "credit" I'the already accumulated with the previous money sent. I finally did end up seeing her again in mid-November. Unfortunately, this simply gave the small head the advantage over the big one and I continued to "protect" previous investments by keeping her happy with more money. For about a month, I was actually the one posting her BP ads for her. According to my notes, from November through the end of the year, I posted twenty-one BP ads for her. Sure, it sounds crazy, and if she had asked me for $147 all at once, the big head would certainly have chimed in, but when being asked for only $7, despite it being nearly a daily occurrence, it seemed like an insignificant amount to "protect the investment. " I'm ashamed to say it, but the last straw came in early January of this year when I finally accepted that I had invested in value-less junk bonds with absolutely no integrity that would never be worth anything. When all was said and done, according to my notes, my junk bond investment came to $1466, which did include that last session I actually did have with her in November.

I'm sure that reading this, it was obvious how the story would conclude. There's really only one way, honestly. But if you're honest with yourself and admit that lots of times it's the heart and the little head doing the thinking, you soon realize that when in the middle of it, its not as clear as it becomes once on the other side. The only value I can salvage from this is the experience and the lesson, which seems to take more than once to learn! The other thing I can do is let others know my experience so they can make a much more informed decision regarding Jade / Jada / Vanessa, her recreational activities, mediocre service, and the siren song she'll be singing to you if you fall into her trap.

So that's my story regarding Jade / Jada / Vanessa. I'm not a spiteful or vengeful person, but if I can prevent anyone here from falling into the same trap I did, then that's what I want to do. I received mediocre service, at best, but kept coming back and invested in the promise of much better service that never came.

TheMechanic.[/QUOTE]

Probably not the best idea. I for one would prefer that you didn't!

[QUOTE=TheMechanic;2397352]I'd be willing to post an ad on BP alerting fellow mo gets to the existence of this board. Would that be kosher with forum administrators here? I could see how this might alert LE and draw them here as well, though.

TheMechanic.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TheMechanic;2397352]I'd be willing to post an ad on BP alerting fellow mo gets to the existence of this board. Would that be kosher with forum administrators here? I could see how this might alert LE and draw them here as well, though.

TheMechanic.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AmericanAss;2397443]Probably not the best idea. I for one would prefer that you didn't![/QUOTE][BLUE]We on the other hand would love it, I think it's a great idea!

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Any info on this one? PM is fine, just looks TGTBT.

[QUOTE=RobynSmith;2397239]Hey Everyone. How have you all been?[/QUOTE]Hi Robyn. Tell us what you need.

[QUOTE=TheMechanic;2397352]I'd be willing to post an ad on BP alerting fellow mo gets to the existence of this board. Would that be kosher with forum administrators here? I could see how this might alert LE and draw them here as well, though.

TheMechanic.[/QUOTE]That's a horrible idea. I see something like that on BP, I'm gone.

[QUOTE=Chromie;2397573][URL]http://huntsville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/true-d-efinit-i-on-of-sex-xy/11345121[/URL]

Any info on this one? PM is fine, just looks TGTBT.[/QUOTE]Looks like the same girl from illusion day spa from back in the day and so Hott entertainment look at the Nashville board around post #4449 only difference is she was a brunette the and a blond now but tats around the ankle and so forth match up.

[QUOTE=TheMechanic;2397352]I'd be willing to post an ad on BP alerting fellow mo gets to the existence of this board. Would that be kosher with forum administrators here? I could see how this might alert LE and draw them here as well, though.

TheMechanic.[/QUOTE]Don't do it.

[QUOTE=HobbyLobby;2397882]Don't do it.[/QUOTE]I not saying share with the world about our little secret here. I am just saying exposes girls in a public forum so they can't rip off guys with their bs story's and shitty service.

[QUOTE=LWoods;2397922]I not saying share with the world about our little secret here. I am just saying exposes girls in a public forum so they can't rip off guys with their bs story's and shitty service.[/QUOTE]Posting BP warnings, no problem. Wouldn't post links to review resources on there though. These resources are fantastic and I would hate to see Uncle LEO get a hard on to shut them down. I'm a CA transplant, spent years using and building report on redbook. That site was awesome. It is now gone. Best to not draw unwanted attention.

Gentlemen,

I just noticed that Theresa is planning another visit in town. I visited with her the last time she was here. I posted a review of the experience (post # 3753) on 1-24-15.

[URL]http://huntsville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/save-the-datemon-16women-with-right-curves/11136983[/URL]

In a nutshell:

1. She's NOT GFE.

2. She's very attractive, but shorter and thicker (athletic build?) than the pics make her look. Pics are her but probably 3-5 years old or more.

3. Her hr rate when I saw her a couple months ago was significantly higher than the standard Huntsville hour rate.

4. Not sure about her plans for this visit, but I saw her in just about the nicest hotel in Huntsville in January.

Overall, I found her very attractive despite the fact that the pics aren't very accurate, and she hosted in a nice place, but given the lack of GFE and the premium charge, I won't be repeating with her.

TheMechanic.