NoVA SugarBabies

[QUOTE=Dimples572;6363957]Same quote for me. Unfortunately, she's officially priced herself into the GPS stratosphere.[/QUOTE]I talked with her on SC and agreed to M-G without discussing $$. She is pretty Persian. A decent girl that drives an electric Porsche. She is a digital marketer & influencer with over a million followers on social. She showed me some of her earnings and was impressed with how much she makes. The date went well, and a few days later, she asked me what $$ I had in mind. Offered her 5, and she said she was hoping for 1 ooo. Never heard from her again.

Looking for emotional connection prior to intimacy.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/abd0a73e-ae69-42de-9468-403a0c97ec56?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL]

She quoted me 2 k a week. I didn't even bother with a counter.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b80bd23e-8251-4950-ac91-3623d83b8b1e[/URL]

[QUOTE=HeyDuhman;6370064]Anyone get with this one? She looks hot and she's been on 2-3 yrs but no response, ever to my msgs.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b80bd23e-8251-4950-ac91-3623d83b8b1e[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jost815;6371950]She quoted me 2 k a week. I didn't even bother with a counter.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b80bd23e-8251-4950-ac91-3623d83b8b1e[/URL][/QUOTE]2 k a week for 4 dates is 500 a date. If a date is 4 hours, that's 125 an hour. That'd be pretty good for BBFSCIP.

[QUOTE=JackRyan1;6371156]Your brain is on dopamine, lots of it.

Look up limerence. It's a rabbit hole you don't want to go down.

Been there.[/QUOTE]I have been sugaring for about 6 years. Not as long as some on this board. Eventually you will catch feeling for a sb and look past everything to good and bad and fall into infatuation. I had one recently, we both had pretty strong feelings and whoa does she have past. The connection is great and the sex is off the chart good. And this 9 months in not two weeks. She stopped asking for money 2 months ago.

Then she starting seeing a civilian and is falling for him but wants to keep seeing me on the side. Her new boy friend is ok with this.

1) it took this to shake me from my day dream.

2) realizing we are both very incompatible out side of sugar.

3) this stuff always ends poorly.

It still happen no matter how long you're in the game. Cut it and move on, in two years she will be back in the game and so will you. Once you are in this lifestyle is is damn near impossible to get out. Money is to good, the variety is great, and the temptation will always lurk.

Or f it. Fall in love and have a happy ending.

[QUOTE=Cruisin1011;6372251]I have been sugaring for about 6 years. Not as long as some on this board. Eventually you will catch feeling for a sb and look past everything to good and bad and fall into infatuation. I had one recently, we both had pretty strong feelings and whoa does she have past. The connection is great and the sex is off the chart good. And this 9 months in not two weeks. She stopped asking for money 2 months ago.

Then she starting seeing a civilian and is falling for him but wants to keep seeing me on the side. Her new boy friend is ok with this.

1) it took this to shake me from my day dream.

2) realizing we are both very incompatible out side of sugar.

3) this stuff always ends poorly.

It still happen no matter how long you're in the game. Cut it and move on, in two years she will be back in the game and so will you. Once you are in this lifestyle is is damn near impossible to get out. Money is to good, the variety is great, and the temptation will always lurk.

Or f it. Fall in love and have a happy ending.[/QUOTE]Roger that. Take the red pill.

"You take the blue pill, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. ".

For the kids on the short bus. Watch "Thanks for Sharing".

[QUOTE=Mcsylv;6372053]2 k a week for 4 dates is 500 a date. If a date is 4 hours, that's 125 an hour. That'd be pretty good for BBFSCIP.[/QUOTE]If you think that's good, you've got problems. That is 104 k a year of after tax money, so something like 170 k of pre-tax money. I make a decent salary for the area and that's almost half my income. All to come in the same pussy four times a week (and when did she say she would give him four dates/16 hours a week for this money?).

Even if you did get 4 dates/16 hours per week, that is an insane amount of time to spend with a side piece who doesn't love you and is just doing it for the money. Why would you or anyone else do this other than complete desperation?

[QUOTE=Pathfinder04;6372477]If you think that's good, you've got problems. That is 104 k a year of after tax money, so something like 170 k of pre-tax money. I make a decent salary for the area and that's almost half my income. All to come in the same pussy four times a week (and when did she say she would give him four dates/16 hours a week for this money?).

Even if you did get 4 dates/16 hours per week, that is an insane amount of time to spend with a side piece who doesn't love you and is just doing it for the money. Why would you or anyone else do this other than complete desperation?[/QUOTE]Then don't pay and go to a 200 ppm girl then.

[QUOTE=Pathfinder04;6372477]If you think that's good, you've got problems. That is 104 k a year of after tax money, so something like 170 k of pre-tax money. I make a decent salary for the area and that's almost half my income. All to come in the same pussy four times a week (and when did she say she would give him four dates/16 hours a week for this money?).

Even if you did get 4 dates/16 hours per week, that is an insane amount of time to spend with a side piece who doesn't love you and is just doing it for the money. Why would you or anyone else do this other than complete desperation?[/QUOTE]I like seeing a SB maybe 2-3 x a month, not 4 x a week.

Unless they're exceptional, I get bored after 3 or 4 dates. It's all about variety for me. If I wanted the same old thing, I wouldn't be here.

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;6372582]I like seeing a SB maybe 2-3 x a month, not 4 x a week.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6372836]Unless they're exceptional, I get bored after 3 or 4 dates. It's all about variety for me. If I wanted the same old thing, I wouldn't be here.[/QUOTE]I used to be like that, but seeking is such a sewer, the time spent finding a new one is substantial, so many bad people in this game (thieves, blackmailers, etc), the crazy inflation in PPM, so now I stick with long term forever. I'm getting old.

Once these fizzle out I'll either retire or get back on.

Super cute but way out of my price range - $800 ppm or $4 K per month. Whew. Didn't seem interested in a counter-offer. For me at least.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dc96d5c2-a78c-4fe9-95c3-44079d863dd4[/URL]

[QUOTE=FederalHill;6373260]Super cute but way out of my price range - $800 ppm or $4 K per month. Whew. Didn't seem interested in a counter-offer. For me at least.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dc96d5c2-a78c-4fe9-95c3-44079d863dd4[/URL][/QUOTE]I think its a fake profile. Someone offer that amount and see if she meets.

[URL]https://www.pinterest.ca/inflatasofa/[/URL]

This one talks a good game, but no m&g or facetime but will do a voice call. AZ area code and she says she is from there. Requires 100 deposit. Blocks if you balk.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/484309c6-996e-4bc4-ab60-4ac4ef0603e0[/URL]

Pictures stolen from.

[URL]https://instagram.com/patricearabella?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=[/URL]

Cute face but looks a bit chunky.

[QUOTE=FederalHill;6373260]Super cute but way out of my price range - $800 ppm or $4 K per month. Whew. Didn't seem interested in a counter-offer. For me at least.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dc96d5c2-a78c-4fe9-95c3-44079d863dd4[/URL][/QUOTE]

Getting over it. The limerence didn't last more than a week.

Cost me 500 and a couple hours with my new baby conquest for this week.

Heartbreak is easier to deal these days than when I was 20.

[QUOTE=JackRyan1;6371156]Your brain is on dopamine, lots of it.

Look up limerence. It's a rabbit hole you don't want to go down.

Been there.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Mandane;6373332]This one talks a good game, but no m&g or facetime but will do a voice call. AZ area code and she says she is from there. Requires 100 deposit. Blocks if you balk.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/484309c6-996e-4bc4-ab60-4ac4ef0603e0[/URL]

Pictures stolen from.

[URL]https://instagram.com/patricearabella?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=[/URL][/QUOTE]She's too hot for DC. You should know that by now!!

[QUOTE=FederalHill;6373260]Super cute but way out of my price range - $800 ppm or $4 K per month. Whew. Didn't seem interested in a counter-offer. For me at least.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dc96d5c2-a78c-4fe9-95c3-44079d863dd4[/URL][/QUOTE]I told her I'd meet her for her price let's see what happens.

Guys,

For those of you who typically do an in person m&g to check the vibes, chemistry, discuss arrangement details etc.

I seem to be getting a greater than 50% failure rate.

Meaning after m&g where I want to pursue date 2 with sex etc., more than half the girls are ghosting (not counting the ones where I am not interested after m&g).

I never pay any gifts, allowances, or even gas / uber expense for m&g and usually do it low cost / coffee / drinks / walk in park so damages are minimal.

But is this kind of normal? It matches the normal hinge / tinder dating rate for me tbh when about half the girls (or women because I date closer to my age) don't text back / ghost after date 1 but I was thinking with sugaring the guys would be in a better position.

I'm almost 50, maybe a bit better than average looking and always fun, friendly, chill, mature and laid back. Hopefully I am not giving off "cheap" vibes because I don't pay over market value which to me is still 5-600 for the hottest. I'm guessing since I only m&g with the hottest who are asking for 1 k then ok with 800 and finally give in to 5-600 . When they go back they just lose interest in my offer ("low baller", "time waster" I guess is what they think of me?) and maybe try to find the next 1 k guy?

BUT this ghosting has also happened with girls who I pay exactly what they ask for! So I dunno. Guess for these guys I am just unfuckable no matter the $$.

Thoughts?

[QUOTE=TomFordModel;6374730]I told her I'd meet her for her price let's see what happens.[/QUOTE]You don't think she looks a bit tubby?

I thought you only go for the slim / athletic under 25 hotties.

And dude why are you escalating the prices. Geez the problem with GPS is DPS! (desperate penis syndrome paying whatever to get that golden pussy).

I have a near 100% conversion rate from m&g to FC location, half the time right after and the rest 2nd date. Barely have anyone ghosted on me after 1st date. Maybe it has to do with the selection of who you meet, they are unsure in first place? Or you are giving them wrong vibes. Or it could be a new crop of SBs who aren't sure of themselves. No idea.

[QUOTE=HeyDuhman;6375053]Guys,

For those of you who typically do an in person m&g to check the vibes, chemistry, discuss arrangement details etc.

I seem to be getting a greater than 50% failure rate.

Meaning after m&g where I want to pursue date 2 with sex etc., more than half the girls are ghosting (not counting the ones where I am not interested after m&g).

I never pay any gifts, allowances, or even gas / uber expense for m&g and usually do it low cost / coffee / drinks / walk in park so damages are minimal.

But is this kind of normal? It matches the normal hinge / tinder dating rate for me tbh when about half the girls (or women because I date closer to my age) don't text back / ghost after date 1 but I was thinking with sugaring the guys would be in a better position.

I'm almost 50, maybe a bit better than average looking and always fun, friendly, chill, mature and laid back. Hopefully I am not giving off "cheap" vibes because I don't pay over market value which to me is still 5-600 for the hottest. I'm guessing since I only m&g with the hottest who are asking for 1 k then ok with 800 and finally give in to 5-600 . When they go back they just lose interest in my offer ("low baller", "time waster" I guess is what they think of me?) and maybe try to find the next 1 k guy?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HeyDuhman;6375205]You don't think she looks a bit tubby?

I thought you only go for the slim / athletic under 25 hotties.

And dude why are you escalating the prices. Geez the problem with GPS is DPS! (desperate penis syndrome paying whatever to get that golden pussy).[/QUOTE]No, she's foul. It's a fake profile. I want to see what's her end game.

Anyone met either one of them? Anybody got a scouting report? Thanks.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bdfa85bc-dd6f-49f2-85a9-56bd07f30c84[/URL]

Any experience with this MILF type? DM if you would rather She seems nice.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb9c7eb1-2963-4444-ae2b-7f205334d5c9[/URL]

[QUOTE=Dimples572;6375847]Anyone met either one of them? Anybody got a scouting report? Thanks.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bdfa85bc-dd6f-49f2-85a9-56bd07f30c84[/URL][/QUOTE]Definitely interesting. Probably a scam. Every time I have reached out to these hot couples, it ends up being a money scam. Pics for money etc.

[QUOTE=FederalHill;6376298]Any experience with this MILF type? DM if you would rather She seems nice.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb9c7eb1-2963-4444-ae2b-7f205334d5c9[/URL][/QUOTE]We exchanged messages. She is oddly detailed about when she can and can't communicate. Then tried to get me on WhatsApp or Signal. When I declined and asked for a number to text, she ghosted me.

[QUOTE=Dimples572;6375847]Anyone met either one of them? Anybody got a scouting report? Thanks.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bdfa85bc-dd6f-49f2-85a9-56bd07f30c84[/URL][/QUOTE]Kind of aggressive in wanting to meet, you can see one or the other, or both. For what they allow, and what they charge it was no for me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/35fa1eb5-3387-4290-89f3-d9f1eeb74d48[/URL]

Is this a dude?

[QUOTE=Cruisin1011;6376506]Kind of aggressive in wanting to meet, you can see one or the other, or both. For what they allow, and what they charge it was no for me.[/QUOTE]I think they're hitting everyone up. So they're definitely some type of scammer. They're too fugly and fat too.

My guess is it's a chick. You can't lie about height. What throws me off is when a chick has the "Trans Friendly" label. Primrose looks legit chick to me.

[QUOTE=TomFordModel;6376994][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/35fa1eb5-3387-4290-89f3-d9f1eeb74d48[/URL]

Is this a dude?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6377853]My guess is it's a chick. You can't lie about height. What throws me off is when a chick has the "Trans Friendly" label. Primrose looks legit chick to me.[/QUOTE]If you see a "chicks" profile that says Trans Friendly you definitely need to do a double check on the Adams apple and the size of their hands. Unless that's your thing. No judgement. You do you.

[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6377853]My guess is it's a chick. You can't lie about height. What throws me off is when a chick has the "Trans Friendly" label. Primrose looks legit chick to me.[/QUOTE]There are short men. LOL. Not sure why height would be the factor that made you positive one way or the other.

[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6377853]My guess is it's a chick. You can't lie about height. What throws me off is when a chick has the "Trans Friendly" label. Primrose looks legit chick to me.[/QUOTE]The face looks suss plus the non existent tits. However, I was able to find her social info. I don't even know anymore.

Don't want a dude.

[QUOTE=TomFordModel;6378566]The face looks suss plus the non existent tits. However, I was able to find her social info. I don't even know anymore.

Don't want a dude.[/QUOTE]Do you normally search for Instagram and FB?

Using the phone number after Spokeo or something similar? I normally don't dig that deep but I might start. I found a TikTok for my current one.

Yea, you're right. Being a taller man, I just associate smaller people as chicks. My bad. It's that "Trans Friendly" label that really FS with me.

[QUOTE=Squatty2;6378453]There are short men. LOL. Not sure why height would be the factor that made you positive one way or the other.[/QUOTE]

Got a question for the community. There's an SB identifying as "Little Kitten" in Alexandria who appears every once in a while. She dips her toe in the bowl then promptly retreats (deactivates account until her curiosity peaks again). I stumbled across her in January and have been conversing via text. The pics she posted almost seem TGTBT, but then her texts are engaging when we're in touch, but overall text frequency is spotty.

What do you think? Is she real or some dude wearing Mommy's bra in the basement?

Should I review the definition of "limerence"?

[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6379234]Got a question for the community. There's an SB identifying as "Little Kitten" in Alexandria who appears every once in a while. She dips her toe in the bowl then promptly retreats (deactivates account until her curiosity peaks again). I stumbled across her in January and have been conversing via text. The pics she posted almost seem TGTBT, but then her texts are engaging when we're in touch, but overall text frequency is spotty.

What do you think? Is she real or some dude wearing Mommy's bra in the basement?

Should I review the definition of "limerence"?[/QUOTE]Vague details. Is she Asian and early 20's? I recall texting with someone with some variation of that name many months ago. Very attractive. Said she's never actually met someone in person but wanted to be daddy's fucktoy. Very submissive and a bit shy but still had a vivid imagination all her own on text. She ghosted or I stopped replying after suggesting details to meet in person that never materialized.

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;6378950]Do you normally search for Instagram and FB?

Using the phone number after Spokeo or something similar? I normally don't dig that deep but I might start. I found a TikTok for my current one.[/QUOTE]Always search if you can. It can save ot of time. Most of these s. L. you. T. s have some type of social so reverse image search.

That's her. Asian, 22, hot AF, desires to be a fucktoy. Has never met anyone. When I suggested a meet, she "wasn't ready. " I'm suspecting she periodically activates her profile to get new numbers to torment w / o any intention on meeting.

[QUOTE=SRH59;6379255]Vague details. Is she Asian and early 20's? I recall texting with someone with some variation of that name many months ago. Very attractive. Said she's never actually met someone in person but wanted to be daddy's fucktoy. Very submissive and a bit shy but still had a vivid imagination all her own on text. She ghosted or I stopped replying after suggesting details to meet in person that never materialized.[/QUOTE]

No surprise. Typical single Mom, baby formula scam. Probably a dude in Montana.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7b111f66-8202-4761-9f80-ef4aa7c4eda6[/URL]