C'mon everyone, lighten up. But don't let your guards down. No need for grudges. Live and learn, we all are. This is not the end of everything. Look at the big picture than just being a tunnel vision. Enjoy life to the fullest!
Be safe
AC
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C'mon everyone, lighten up. But don't let your guards down. No need for grudges. Live and learn, we all are. This is not the end of everything. Look at the big picture than just being a tunnel vision. Enjoy life to the fullest!
Be safe
AC
I've never had the pleasure of meeting Melissa. But from what I hear, she is a treasure and a great asset to the hobbying community. I base this on the many, many posts that she has made and many have made about her. Yes, I am a newbie, and I, like Melissa, am not totally familiar with thread etiquette. Perhaps that's why I, like many other lurkers don't contribute to this board or similar ones on the net--for fear of being chastised because of the lack of knowledge of certain "understood" rules. Just because people can work a keyboard doesn't give them the right to be rude or uncivil. Just because a person has x amount of posts doesn't mean that gives him/her the right to judge or act in such a way. Just means that you have more time to post.
This board provides a valuable service for hobbiests and providers alike. Melissa is a great asset to this forum and one of the best providers in the area. Her enthusiasm for what she does is infectious, only seen in a handful of providers. So she made a little blunder. Who hasn't? We were all newbies at one point. Congratualtions, you've managed to alienate a seemingly nice provider, and a nice person from what I've read. Who's next?
Crawling back into my hole. Flame if you will.
Melissa, some guy is going to be very lucky to have you Good luck & I really hate to see you go. May whoever caused you grief rot in you know where.
Have a good one sexy!
[QUOTE=Sweet Melissa]Thsi little hobby of mine has suddenly turned into something that is causing me distress. I started this for fun and have enjoyed 8 months of it until now. I don't know all the rules of this business/hobby and have obviously made some HUGE faux pas. This isn't fun anymore. I quit. Having people chastise me on the board as well as the numerous PM's is just more than I care to take. I'm a grown woman and refuse to be scolded like a child. It was fun guys.
Thanks for everything.[/QUOTE]Melissa,
There are so so many more people on here that respect you, know you, or want to know you than those that are detractors! Those later guys live in their parents basements I gather and have nothing better to do than attack lovely ladies! I have not yet seen you but would love to if the opportunity arose (pun intended) but, regardless, I always enjoy your contributions to the board!
Bobby
Too bad I am not in town... but just wondering why there are no reports of experiences with Katie.... hope everything is well and she will stick around until I am back late next week.
"don't let the door hit you on the way out". "you are a dumbass". "you aren't better than anyone else". These are all comments thrown at me for one little misguided question. I apologized, and once agin. KATIE is the only one who hasn't yelled at me. I'm not thin skinned. I am just a very sweet person who doesn't have people in my life that yell at me and call me names. THe hostility was overwhelming. Anger and hatred isn't something I'm used to. However, so many of you ahve given me wonderful words of encouragement and have told me the best way to handle this is to just stand up and stay. Don't run from the bullies.
So. Ignore all the members who want to rag me and pay attention to the people who like me and enjoy talking to me and visiting with me. I can do nothing more than what I have done. I apologized. Get over it. I think I've been properly punished for my crime. Stop attacking every little blunder. ANd if anyone has a copy of that rules book I could use one so I make no more mistakes. I enjoy participating in the forums. I've learned alot and some of the stuff is really funny and makes me laugh. The "I quit" was a rash move because I wanted to get away from the meaness. Please accept my sincere apology for my faux pas. Can we get back to the fun stuff now? Please? I've learned my lesson on this one and it won't happen again. Let's just all have a drink and get laid. Ha. COme on folks. Anger and such will make you old and give you wrinkles. I don't want either of those.
I have a short memory and this is history now. I don't want to quit. I like too many of you and enjoy the humor.
XOXOX Melissa
[QUOTE=Samantha901]You learn something new everyday Melissa. Dont walk away because you feel attacked.Humble yourself and next time you know the correct away to go about the situation at hand.
*Sam I Am*[/QUOTE]
Sam, you hit that one out of the park. Excellent point.
CK
[QUOTE=Sweet Melissa] Please accept my sincere apology for my faux pas. Can we get back to the fun stuff now? Please? I've learned my lesson on this one and it won't happen again. Let's just all have a drink and get laid. Ha. COme on folks. Anger and such will make you old and give you wrinkles. I don't want either of those.
I have a short memory and this is history now. I don't want to quit. I like too many of you and enjoy the humor.
XOXOX Melissa[/QUOTE]On to the next flamewar now.
:D
Cheers,
BCG
PS: Glad you're sticking around.
[QUOTE=Sweet Melissa]I have a short memory and this is history now. I don't want to quit. I like too many of you and enjoy the humor.[/QUOTE]Everyone needs to get a short memory here. This bashing has gone on long enough. Let's get back to the board for what its for. For those of us fortunate to have spent time with Melissa, we know who she is and how she is. For those who have not, I can only say that if you did know her, you would understand and know that she isn't a malicious person, a nosey person, or someone that is trying to get into others business. If she asked a sensitive question, then tell her that it may have been out of bounds, but you don't have to go into a bash fest.
Back to the board everyone. The trains pullin' out of this station.
[QUOTE=Sweet]. But just wondering why there are no reports of experiences with Katie.[/QUOTE]Well, I thought I posted a report, but since mine don't show up for a few hours later, I didn't think much about it. I guess it errored out.
Anyways, I saw Katie yesterday and it was as amazing as ever. She still looks great, has great services, great conversation, everything was (you guessed it) great. Every hobbyist should do themselves the favor and schedule an appointment. Seriously, with all the great reviews, if any of you guys haven't seen her. What are you waiting for? I believe she has a friend coming down this weekend for duo shows. I unfortunately can't afford 2 girls (christ I wish I could, I'm sure it would be mind-blowing), but I do plan to visit Katie one last time before she heads back north sometime next week.
Thanks again Katie!
[QUOTE=Reggie Miller]Dkuym not to be taking up for sw but they might get tested more than escorts.
Chances are sw goes to jail more often. A test is mandatory![/QUOTE]IMHO the frequency of one's testing is irrelevant for two reasons. First, testing has little to do with whether one catches something. It only confirms the results of risky behavior; nothing preventative about it. Second, I wouldn't be surprised if many SW's who test + for something still turn tricks while infected because either they need the money that bad or out of spite / revenge for someone infecting them.
I'm not saying testing isn't important, as some will act on the results. I'm just saying testing frequency isn't the only variable or even the most important variable in comparing the risk level of women. The more important variables are the preventative measures they take to reduce the risks of becoming infected and the frequency of sexual activity; not frequency of testing.
Compare an escort who sees 1 guy a day on avg., always uses protection but never gets tested to a SW who sees numerous guys a day, goes without protection on many occasions but gets tested every time she's thrown in the slammer. Which of the two will more likely be infected? (rhetorical question)
[QUOTE=Bluffcity Guy]Dillon's retired. I caught her advertising in Craigslist's "women seeking men" and "answered" her ad (using the same picture she's using for her escort ads in CL Erotic Services). She 'fessed up to being "Dillon" and said she has a day job.[/QUOTE]She may not be retired. She has an ad on BP from just yesterday, as in Fri. , 2/27. I realize BP recycles ads but the content in this latest ad is different from the other 4 ads you find when searching "Dillon". This latest ad also includes the phrase ". In town for a short time longer", which makes me think this is a new ad, as her 2nd and 3rd ad said "in town until the 27th of Feb. " So it makes sense that on the 27th she'd post a new ad stating ". In town for a short time longer". I tried calling this morning but got voicemail. Her voicemail greeting answers as "Anna" and is full so you can't leave messages.
I've had the opportunity to meet some amazing providers that have knocked off my socks. Providers such as Sarah, Amber Silk & Molly, there are others but I can't name them all but I experienced one that either pulled off, knocked off or burned them off because of the heat. I tried this provider because of good reviews even though initially I started not to because I usually prefer the spinner types and boy or boy I am glad that I did. This BBW was none other than JuicyKate and I can truly say that she is one amazing provider, georgeous, tall, sweet and oh so good. I would repeat many, many, many times. I have no complaints other than wondering what happened to my socks! (LOL)
I believe this is the 1st report on Kathleen. She's definitely legit. I was willing to TOFTT, as I recognized her CL and BP photos as being the same person in 3 mug shots I saved of her; one of the arrests being for prostitution.
I dreampt I called her to setup an incall. She offered $.5 but I countered with only .8, which she quickly accepted with no upsell.
When I arrived she was smoking and asked if she could continue to smoke, which was a turnoff but I said no problem. She's 25, avg. height, avg. weight and has a very good personality. She said she used to weigh 180, which I never would have guessed, as I saw no signs of loose skin. Her face and hair are very attractive in person and looks very similar to the photo below where she's not lying down. She's so cute in the face she could pass for 18 or 19.
Despite the good personality and very attractive looks, the action was less satisfying. The CBJ didn't even last a minute and she doesn't do much during sex. In fact, when I was on top but raised up and crouched on my knees so I could have her legs over my shoulders, her legs were very stiff the whole time, somewhat holding me at bay and not allowing me to really take the plunge. She also hadn't shaved her legs. C'mon ladies, you gots to shave the sticks! ;)
Kathleen is a toss up for me. While I find her very attractive and easy to get along with, the action was avg. at best. My recommendation is dreaming of her really depends on what mood you're in. If you're more about hooking up with someone really attractive with a good attitude to boot, give her a call. But if you must have better than avg. action, you may want to pass.
[QUOTE=Memphis Salami]She may not be retired. She has an ad on BP from just yesterday, as in Fri. , 2/27. I realize BP recycles ads but the content in this latest ad is different from the other 4 ads you find when searching "Dillon". This latest ad also includes the phrase ". In town for a short time longer", which makes me think this is a new ad, as her 2nd and 3rd ad said "in town until the 27th of Feb. " So it makes sense that on the 27th she'd post a new ad stating ". In town for a short time longer". I tried calling this morning but got voicemail. Her voicemail greeting answers as "Anna" and is full so you can't leave messages.[/QUOTE] What she said to me was "I am done with the escort thing for now. I have a real day job." I interpreted that as "retired", in the very loose sense in which providers "retire" (I've known a few that retired more times than Sinatra did, so I never totally give up hope when one I want to see retires.
Hope for y'alls sake she's in the game for a bit longer.
Cheers,
BCG