Sugarbabies and Arrangements

I've been on and off seeking for about 3 years now, and all I hear from the girls I've made connections with is how disrespectful most guys are treating the them like cheap escorts. My approach has always been, treat them with respect, and put some effort into your conversations. This has served me well over the years as proof just yesterday I met in person after a week of texting back and forth a very beautiful petite young girl. Was the best $200 I ever spent, she even made the first moves, and was quite aggressive in a good way.

If a girl wants compensation for something you're comfortable with, well that's her choice. Ill never chastise someone for trying to maximize their profits I'm sure there are guys with the means to afford that and great for them. Its just business.

Chatted with this one. Conversation seemed to be going well enough that she let me view her private photos without asking. She agreed ppm arrangement. I offered 400, which I know is more then her value but wanted to see her response. She ghosted me. LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/68fcd554-99ef-43cc-938d-d54fc9b9ddf7[/URL]

[QUOTE=Cobraa99;5756441]I've been on and off seeking for about 3 years now, and all I hear from the girls I've made connections with is how disrespectful most guys are treating the them like cheap escorts. My approach has always been, treat them with respect, and put some effort into your conversations. This has served me well over the years as proof just yesterday I met in person after a week of texting back and forth a very beautiful petite young girl. Was the best $200 I ever spent, she even made the first moves, and was quite aggressive in a good way.

If a girl wants compensation for something you're comfortable with, well that's her choice. Ill never chastise someone for trying to maximize their profits I'm sure there are guys with the means to afford that and great for them. Its just business.[/QUOTE]This is not directed at you per se, but there have been a few posts lately that are talking about respect.

Nobody cares. Honest. I treat everyone (male and female) with respect as part of everyday life. It's part of having manners. Some people have this and practice it, some choose not to. It really does not matter and telling guys on this forum that they should be respectful is a waste of bandwidth.

People who are rude and disrespectful don't give a shit about you and I asking them to be nice. It's not like some guy is going to read your post and say, "Gee, that is a good a idea, treat a woman with respect. Why didn't I think of that?"

And if a provider / escort / SB wants to complain about guys being rude, just ignore it. You are not her white knight by being nice or kind because there are tons of guys that are nice and some are not. And you have no idea if she is being truthful or whining for attention. You're not unique by being respectful because most of us that know how to get what we want in life, are respectful.

Frankly, if the other guys want to be rude, it makes her choice easier to be with me instead.

I know you think you are being helpful, but nobody on here is looking to be preached to by a father figure saying eat your veggies and be nice to people. Least of all the rude, self obsessed, dickheads.

So are you going to post a link to the girl on SA that was $200. I think that is what most of are really more interested in. :-)

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f25f7035-cb9b-4767-a715-ca98957ca085[/URL]

So this one hit me up again this afternoon. I guess she forgot we met already. LOL Wants paid to go to dinner / drinks. I draw the line on that shit, it's a perfect chance to grab some cash and never be seen again.

It's like they think they are the only option out there? And I bet someone had paid so that has opened the door to her asking every time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40caf52a-7b83-490b-8578-6546b816df13[/URL]

Fake (as if I needed to tell everyone that). But sometimes I enjoy seeing how far I can push the convo when I'm bored. LOL.

[QUOTE=SR7D1;5757452][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40caf52a-7b83-490b-8578-6546b816df13[/URL]

Fake (as if I needed to tell everyone that). But sometimes I enjoy seeing how far I can push the convo when I'm bored. LOL.[/QUOTE]If your 100% she's a scam we should all send her the same MSG, cut and pasted from here. But the way that goes all us paying fools would get banned and the scam profile would stay up.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6582ef10-293a-44f0-9722-47970c27c77e[/URL]

Any info on her?

[QUOTE=Vudu33;5757789][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6582ef10-293a-44f0-9722-47970c27c77e[/URL]

Any info on her?[/QUOTE]Search Ember.

[QUOTE=SR7D1;5756604]This is not directed at you per se, but there have been a few posts lately that are talking about respect.

Nobody cares. Honest. I treat everyone (male and female) with respect as part of everyday life. It's part of having manners. Some people have this and practice it, some choose not to. It really does not matter and telling guys on this forum that they should be respectful is a waste of bandwidth.

People who are rude and disrespectful don't give a shit about you and I asking them to be nice. It's not like some guy is going to read your post and say, "Gee, that is a good a idea, treat a woman with respect. Why didn't I think of that?"

And if a provider / escort / SB wants to complain about guys being rude, just ignore it. You are not her white knight by being nice or kind because there are tons of guys that are nice and some are not. And you have no idea if she is being truthful or whining for attention. You're not unique by being respectful because most of us that know how to get what we want in life, are respectful.

Frankly, if the other guys want to be rude, it makes her choice easier to be with me instead.

I know you think you are being helpful, but nobody on here is looking to be preached to by a father figure saying eat your veggies and be nice to people. Least of all the rude, self obsessed, dickheads.

So are you going to post a link to the girl on SA that was $200. I think that is what most of are really more interested in. :-)[/QUOTE]As the title to my post indicates "observation", I could care less how rude or disrespectful anyone is to others on the site. I actually encourage it, more opportunities for me. So no I'm not white nighting, or preaching. As far as the link to my find. Ill give her a few more opportunities to see if she's a keeper. If not ill be happy to share.

[QUOTE=BuckNuts49;5756558]Chatted with this one. Conversation seemed to be going well enough that she let me view her private photos without asking. She agreed ppm arrangement. I offered 400, which I know is more then her value but wanted to see her response. She ghosted me. LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/68fcd554-99ef-43cc-938d-d54fc9b9ddf7[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks, I'll cross her off my list. Been chatting with her off and on for a month and can't pin anything down.

What's the point of doing this on her end? Never meeting and she's not asking for anything? I'd say attention but even then, its a text or two every three days and its not like I'm gassing her up.

[QUOTE=TomMubbles;5758233]Thanks, I'll cross her off my list. Been chatting with her off and on for a month and can't pin anything down.

What's the point of doing this on her end? Never meeting and she's not asking for anything? I'd say attention but even then, its a text or two every three days and its not like I'm gassing her up.[/QUOTE]She did the same with me for a few weeks, maybe a month. She is hot though, so I kept trying.

Marie. Messaging was going great, no red flags. Planned a meet for this week. Then get a text that she expects 1 K PPM and 150 PPM for a babysitter. Kind of confusing if you ask me, but I don't try to understand the logic anymore.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d7bf8474-e14a-413f-a6e5-f2cabde99cef[/URL]

I am confused.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e9039c5c-be14-4f93-bc41-cfa7b1e6bf71[/URL]

"Seeking a platonic / emotional connection. No adult intimacy further than basic physical touch. I'm very open minded and would love to find someone who just genuinley wants to spend time talking / exploring for the memories and company. I enjoy camping, hiking, cooking, arts of all kind, photography, music festivals, wine, anything wiht animals too. I'm just your average girl but I have needs that need to be met aswell and will be discussed privately. Not interested interested in a closed monogomous relationship. ".

Platonic / no intimacy except physical touch / very open minded / has needs that will be discussed privately / polyamorous.

[QUOTE=Vudu33;5757789][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6582ef10-293a-44f0-9722-47970c27c77e[/URL]

Any info on her?[/QUOTE]My bad, Ember is a different profile. That is Marissa. Had drinks and I did a report on her. Cute, tall, tan, East Side. We just didn't click. Good luck though, let us know how it works out!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9d47303f-89b5-4fd8-8135-01f0e950d9f8[/URL]

Has anyone gotten any traction with this one?