It's always difficult to walk in another person shoes
Deadhead Chevy I don't want to repeat everything you wrote but just consider this.
Everybody's faced suffering in life.
Everybody's path in life is different.
Your concern for your brother is admirable in wanting to help somebody recover from pain and suffering, it's a sign of compassion.
Whatever is hurting him inside ultimately he has to get in touch with those feelings and if his path to healing and recovery is physical interaction, he can find a provider to take care of him
But if his true healing comes from emotional connection and relationship, no provider in the world is going to help.
Start by having the conversation with him and getting him to explain to you what his pain and problems , one answer is to get him to see for him self that maybe going to a parlor and experiencing the "pleasures of the flesh" might be helpful.
Have the conversation about what he's really missing or wants or needing in life and see where he goes from there. I suspected just going to a massage parlor you know it’s self isn’t going to change the day-to-day realities of life .
Everybody has their own Life but basically the idea that he should go out and fuck his brains out is pretty good advice for most people.
At least once in a while 😊
Funny you should say that.
[QUOTE=Wzrd94;4673022]Yeah man I'm very happy you support him and talk to him. I would do the same to my siblings and closest friends. It will take him a self realization to the current state. If it's been going on for years, He will need to break some old habits and create new healthy habit loops. Man if he's legally divorce just help him find a good local / foreign chick to be partner for a lifetime. I remember I visited an island in the Philippines I passed by a town park where I found old folks partying hard with their young wives in the middle of a basketball court all of them look happy and having a time of their life. That shit was epic hahaha.[/QUOTE]I know a Massage Girl, very sweet, good looking and everything you would want in a woman, we keep in touch on WeChat. She proposed to me (at first), and yes a marriage proposal, some time ago. It was basically to help her get a green card or as they called it a "identity" meaning citizenship.
I knew up front that there would be lots of "free sex" for the arrangement, and she was very good to. I also know that she would most likely continue to be a Massage Girl, offering FS, so emotional attachment would probably be non-existent or minimal at best.
I have a situation where I can't help her in that way and told her.
She asked if I knew anyone that would entertain the offer, and she even offered to pay for the arrangement. Not sure what kind of money we're talking here.
I told her about my brother and she was really pushing the idea.
I asked him about it, he kind of shrugged it off like it was nothing but did say he would probably do it, but that he had nothing to offer her, he is unemployed and has been for some time. Not sure if he grasped the idea that she would be a working girl, but I think he was just thinking of it as an arrangement and that's it, knowing that sex would most likely be included.
I'm not sure how exactly that would work out, for the both of them. I didn't push the issue, because to be 100% honest, she is way too much for him to handle. And the fact that if they did hook up and emotionally attached and they stayed married, I banged her at least 8 times, and that would add some weirdness to the mix.
She also has a daughter in China, so there is that as well, a crazy situation to say the least, didn't want to go down that road.
I swear it like you know him.
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But everybody sometimes needs a kick in the ass to get moving, all you can do is be there to help but ultimately they have to figure this out for themselves.[/QUOTE]Amazingly, that is his major problem, motivation. Even simple things is like watching a sloth solve complex mathematics. Death row inmates have more motivation then him.
I attribute most of that from his ex beating every ounce of manhood out of him, the reason I thought simply that he got laid, paid or not, that maybe would be the fuel he needs to kickstart his drive.
Sorry guys, I had to reach out. The next few posts will be some reviews and AMP opinions.
"Goddess" Sirena. Don't Waste Your Time
Yesterday I visited "Goddess" Sirena and the experience was much less than par. Tl: dr don't waste your time and money $$. If you want more info here it is.
I contacted her and got connected to her person that does booking named "Harmony". She quoted me $$ and implied it is a "Very sensual" and "Spiritually linking" massage with a "nice ending". I agreed because it sounded nice and the girl was good looking so I obliged. I showed up to the house which was actually a small shed in the back of garden. Very dirty and small. I should've just left then. I met the girl who may or may not have been the one from the pictures but she did look similar. The girl was nice and all but that's not the point.
She started the massage with some deep breathing exercises then did a light rub all over my body for a while followed by a light rub with her nails. Eventually she had me flip over and asked if I wanted to cover myself with a towel which I replied "no thanks" and she said OK. She did some more deep breathing on my back and then did the same sort of light rub all over my front. After a while she stopped, guided breathing again, and told me the massage was over and that she was going to go out in the garden while I got ready. I said OK? While being very confused and she walked out.
I got dressed and she came back in and did some small talk asking me how I liked it etc. I told her it was fine but I was surprised she didn't end it with a happy ending at least and she said "Oh yeah, the woman who trained me said we don't do that" and I was like "what? She literally told me over the phone that you did" and she said "well she shouldn't have" I just said OK thanks and left.
I texted the booking person and told her "what the hell? That was not at all what you told me it was. She didn't do anything, it was extremely underwhelming" etc etc. The booking person pretty much said "Everyone has their own point of view, have a nice day" after literally scamming me. I told her I would and that I would let others know my "Point of view" so here I am. Don't get scammed like me.
Anna at Z's is great but something similar but new would be great. Suggestions?
Anna at Z's has been fun sweetheart to me, she's got a great personality plus a great body (for someone in her 40's), and she always leaves Mr. Happy extremely tired but very happy. But I'm now needing something new. I'm between trying Cindy at Hui's, or at Lusk going with the Japanese Youkali or a new Chinese beauty called Mei Li. I am not interested in FS but do want a FBSM with her at least be willing to (at least within a couple visits) get her clothes off and get extra sensual with something like a body slide or at least an extremely sensual / more sensual than usual HE. Maybe a BBBJ or such a great CBJ that I'd think it's a BBBJ. Any comments on which would be better at everything up to but not including FS where Cindy at Hui's, or Youkali, or Mei Li at Lusk goes?
For those looking for a great fun experience as I have had with Anna, she is hard to surpass so long as you want nothing more than a great HE. She is a 5-star for everything so long as you aren't hoping for a BJ or FS which is not available at Z's.