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Hi all-.
I'm in the mood for a relaxing massage with a nice lady with some curves. Saw Rosely's ad and like what is advertised- B2 B, nude, mutual touching, etc. I saw a positive review on her from about a week or so ago, but wanted to see if anyone else can confirm if she allows what she advertises. Thanks guys!
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/158311[/URL]
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;4666028]Hi all-.
I'm in the mood for a relaxing massage with a nice lady with some curves. Saw Rosely's ad and like what is advertised- B2 B, nude, mutual touching, etc. I saw a positive review on her from about a week or so ago, but wanted to see if anyone else can confirm if she allows what she advertises. Thanks guys!
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/158311[/URL][/QUOTE]There is a reason it's 160/ hr instead of $200. I do not recommend. She is older and bigger in person. While she has a positive attitude I feel there are better values out there.
[QUOTE=AmpFan09;4666807]There is a reason it's 160/ hr instead of $200. I do not recommend. She is older and bigger in person. While she has a positive attitude I feel there are better values out there.[/QUOTE]AMP-.
Thanks for your feedback brother! You are right, there are very few independents out there that are less than $200/ hr that I can think of that are worth seeing.
I was in the mood for playing with some large breasts. I'm glad I didn't let my little head take over yesterday.
Any details on these independents?
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/154194[/URL]
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/124542[/URL]
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/161364[/URL]
[QUOTE=Relief;4666886]Any details on these independents?
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/154194[/URL]
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/124542[/URL]
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/161364[/URL][/QUOTE]I've inquired about the 3rd one before and was told the pictures are of a model. Also, the verbiage in the ad. GFE, cardate, backdoor. Are similar to several other ads on RubRatings. Below is an ad with a similar verbiage and she is a porn star.
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/161576[/URL]
Google image search shows that #3 is Vicki Li, a very attractive model. You can buy a mouse pad with her picture on it. I doubt seriously that she is doing cardates in San Diego.
[QUOTE=Relief;4666886]Any details on these independents?
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/154194[/URL]
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/124542[/URL]
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/161364[/URL][/QUOTE]
Has anyone else noticed the abundance of ads for independent Asian providers located in Bay Park? All of the ads have a similar style with very or missing rate information? The pics looks like they're ripped from the web.
Any recommendations for FS near gaslamp district?
[QUOTE=Relief;4666886]Any details on these independents?
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/154194[/URL]
[/QUOTE]Been curious about the first one as well.
[QUOTE=SdfitLife;4668050]Has anyone else noticed the abundance of ads for independent Asian providers located in Bay Park? All of the ads have a similar style with very or missing rate information? The pics looks like they're ripped from the web.[/QUOTE]I've noticed the same thing, I contacted one of the providers a couple months back and she was working out of Lexi's place on morena, forgot her name, but got what I wanted, pricey and wanted to gtfo after, I'd wager there the new posts are coming from there, with the exception of Alice and Rosely.
Been staring at this a lot (because I love filipinas). Anyone ever seen her or have any other Filipina or Nuru recommendations?
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/128028[/URL]
[QUOTE=JayDwn;4668158]Been curious about the first one as well.[/QUOTE]The pics for this.
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/154194[/URL]
Got changed out this afternoon vs this morning.
Sounds fake to me.
BTW, this morning the pics looked much better.
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;4667146]I've inquired about the 3rd one before and was told the pictures are of a model. Also, the verbiage in the ad. GFE, cardate, backdoor. Are similar to several other ads on RubRatings. Below is an ad with a similar verbiage and she is a porn star.
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/161576[/URL][/QUOTE]For research purposes, what's the name of the porn star? Haha.
[QUOTE=Sailor1967;4667228]Google image search shows that #3 is Vicki Li, a very attractive model. You can buy a mouse pad with her picture on it. I doubt seriously that she is doing cardates in San Diego.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the input, definitely felt the 1st and 3rd ones were suspect, but was hoping for the best.
I'm going to be in town for a week or so and looking for some direction on an AMP (or other mp) that is clean and reliable for a nice rub with an HE. Not looking for full service this trip but would really like some advice on best places for a decent massage with reliable services. Will review services after and would be happy to return the favor to anyone visiting New England in the near future. PM.
J.
[QUOTE=Relief;4669335]For research purposes, what's the name of the porn star? Haha.[/QUOTE]Lana Rhoades.
Stopped by Heavenly Hands to checkout the action. Caught Veronica and Victoria walking in. They look okay in public, amazing for a spa. The receptionist is the hottest girl there, but doesn't do massages. Current line up: [URL]https://www.massagemissionvalley.com/hotties/[/URL].
Checked out Super Therapy Spa on the opposite end, same side of courtyard. Annie's in China until next month. In the meantime Cindy's covering the action.
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/162708[/URL] Man, I wish there was some info on this one. No search results from phone or photos. Sent her a message through the message box on RR. No response.
Had the day off Monday, couldn't get out to Convoy so I stopped in at heavenly hands on ECB. Met at door by not pretty gilf named coco. Asked for other girls, she says "I take care of you" WTF, I thought, at least I'll get a decent massage. She starts by lightly rubbing my ass, in 3 minutes she is massaging my sack. She whispers "sucky sucky" I say sure, figuring all get a BJ. I flip over, to my surprise, she starts licking my balls and giving me a HJ. Soon she has both nuts deep in her mouth, her nose deep in my taint. New experience, and she was solid with a 30 min leg and foot massage after the act. . 4 at door, . 6 tip. Not sure if I will repeat. LOL.
I found this on Rub Ratings today. She has two listings:
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/162759[/URL]
And.
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/161193[/URL]
What is weird that one ad is short the other long and explicit. I contacted her this morning via text and I got some seconds thoughts plus a weird vibe from her. I decided not to go, although she said GFE was available, but her pricing is not consistant. She looks nice and all, but not sure. Anyone seen her?
Thanks! Heavenly Hands gals are surely hot, but their price tag for just HJ is a bit steep for me.
Is Super Therapy rub and tug or BJ / FS are on the menu?
[QUOTE=Ryan1979;4669612]Stopped by Heavenly Hands to checkout the action. Caught Veronica and Victoria walking in. They look okay in public, amazing for a spa. The receptionist is the hottest girl there, but doesn't do massages. Current line up: [URL]https://www.massagemissionvalley.com/hotties/[/URL].
Checked out Super Therapy Spa on the opposite end, same side of courtyard. Annie's in China until next month. In the meantime Cindy's covering the action.[/QUOTE]
BeerGuy,
Interesting technique!!
I can't find any "Heavenly Hands" except [URL]https://www.massagemissionvalley.com[/URL]. What is the cross street on ECB?
[QUOTE=BeerGuy;4670738]Had the day off Monday, couldn't get out to Convoy so I stopped in at heavenly hands on ECB. Met at door by not pretty gilf named coco. Asked for other girls, she says "I take care of you" WTF, I thought, at least I'll get a decent massage. She starts by lightly rubbing my ass, in 3 minutes she is massaging my sack. She whispers "sucky sucky" I say sure, figuring all get a BJ. I flip over, to my surprise, she starts licking my balls and giving me a HJ. Soon she has both nuts deep in her mouth, her nose deep in my taint. New experience, and she was solid with a 30 min leg and foot massage after the act. . 4 at door, . 6 tip. Not sure if I will repeat. LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MentalWais;4670805]I found this on Rub Ratings today. She has two listings:
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/162759[/URL]
And.
[URL]https://sandiego.rubratings.com/161193[/URL]
What is weird that one ad is short the other long and explicit. I contacted her this morning via text and I got some seconds thoughts plus a weird vibe from her. I decided not to go, although she said GFE was available, but her pricing is not consistant. She looks nice and all, but not sure. Anyone seen her?[/QUOTE]What's really weird is that the pictures are of Amber Hahn porn model. Maybe the donation includes sitting with some imposter and her driver watching videos of Amber barebacking some porn stud.
[QUOTE=DogRice;4671024]Thanks! Heavenly Hands gals are surely hot, but their price tag for just HJ is a bit steep for me.
Is Super Therapy rub and tug or BJ / FS are on the menu?[/QUOTE]Depends on the girl but some surprising options are available. Girls are on the plain side but no worse than many of the AMPs in the Kearny Mesa area.
In town last week and decided to give this place a try. Opted for 45 minutes. Nice MT slim probably mid 30 ish. Nice TS with special attention to the rear and made sure it was overly clean, which was all good. In the room, brief massage, not bad either. Then on to some more ass play, some covered suction and all in all good session. Would repeat. Like to live in the area, but glad I don't, between TJ and the MP scene, I would be broke.
Finally partook a session with Nina last week. A couple thoughts to share:
Pictures are of her, as she was wearing the same exact dress during my visit.
I think she's really mid 40's.
Great massage- Opted for medium, but felt too light, will try hard next time.
Nice slow and sensual even till completion, when others typically speed up.
[QUOTE=Waylay;4659049]Cindy's a doll, really cool. Best personality out of any provider I've seen, always a good time. I don't think they're Ds, let alone DDs, but they're nice and so is she.[/QUOTE]
In my quest for large natural breasts I decided to try Cindy earlier this week to see how close I was about guessing her breasts size. LOL.
I didn't get to motorboat them, let alone get her to take off her shirt, but I did got some UTC play with them. Those babies got to be large Bs or C cups. She didn't undo her bra, so I didn't push it too much. She had on a low cut bra and was okay with me taking her breasts out of the bra. They felt soft and natural and her nipples got hard quick with me playing with them.
Cindy is a very nice lady. For me she was average in looks, but her personality makes her fun to be with. She is probably in her mid 30's, an average body, with some belly fat. She has good massage skills while I was on my stomach. After about 20 minutes or so into the massage the light teasing of the boys and junior starts. When junior was fully happy the teasing got more intense, and she started with nice slow strokes of junior. It was an excellent build up before the flip. A nice and thorough clean up of my back and legs with a warm towel before the flip. Junior was at full attention on the flip and she started to smile and commented about how happy junior was. She asked if she could take care of junior before finishing the massage. Of course I said yes. LOL. Cindy spoke good English and has a great sense of humor.
Her ending was excellent. A mix of long strokes of junior, playing with the boys and my nipples. She took her time and didn't rush trying to get me to cum. She was okay with OTC roaming of her butt, legs, and breasts. When she started letting out soft moans was when I reached under her shirt to play with her breasts and nipples. In no time after I was allowed access to them I exploded all over her warm hands. She kept her clothes on as stated, but I didn't push it about having her take them off as it was my first visit with her. She didn't mind the UTC touching, but I'm not sure if this was a YMMV situation.
I left there happy and will probably repeat with Cindy again.
[QUOTE=DogRice;4671041]BeerGuy,
Interesting technique!!
I can't find any "Heavenly Hands" except [URL]https://www.massagemissionvalley.com[/URL]. What is the cross street on ECB?[/QUOTE]Sorry, got the name wrong. Its happy land. 5800 block of ecb.
I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.
I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.
I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.
I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.
My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.
There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.
But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.
I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.
I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.
There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.
The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.
She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.
She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.
I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.
I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.
I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.
He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.
What would you do?
My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.
Good plan?
Opinions welcomed.
Thank you in advance.
[QUOTE=DeadHeadChevy;4671709]I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.
I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.
I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.
I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.
My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.
There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.
But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.
I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.
I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.
There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there..[/QUOTE]I would ask him if he wants one before giving money to the AMP on his behalf. He may be crept out by the idea, worried about getting an STD or being arrested, etc.
I also don't know that it would lift his spirits because it might make him feel that he's such a loser the only way a girl would have sex with him is if she's paid to do it.
[QUOTE=DeadHeadChevy;4671709]I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.
I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.
I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.
I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.
My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.
There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.
But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.
I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.
I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.
There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.
The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.
She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.
She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.
I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.
I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.
I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.
He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.
What would you do?
My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.
Good plan?
Opinions welcomed.
Thank you in advance.[/QUOTE]Are you trying to make him think the provider wants to bang him? That could get messy if you already think hes going to get attached. I'd be straight up with him, let him know you got a girl who provides good service and you would like to treat him to knock him out of his funk.
Here are my 2 cents:
I would first chat with him about "mongering" during a causal conversation and test out how he thinks about this "hobby". Some guys want to keep this "hobby" to himself especially from family members. My brother and I talked about this hobby and latest "news" all the time, but neither of us admit that we actually "monger".
I am not sure how well you know this provider. I would be afraid whether this provider would provide good experience to him. For working girls, I have zero trust on them and YMMV.
If he is open to talk openly to you about mongering, I would go with him to AMP and have fun together (Separate room) and tell the mamasan and girls that you take care of the bill. Then talk about the experience afterwards. Even the experience is bad, I think having that "common talk" is fun and relaxing for him.
[QUOTE=DeadHeadChevy;4671709]I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.
I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.
I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.
I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.
My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.
There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.
But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.
I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.
I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.
There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.
The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.
She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.
She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.
I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.
I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.
I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.
He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.
What would you do?
My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.
Good plan?
Opinions welcomed.
Thank you in advance.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DeadHeadChevy;4671709]I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.
I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.
I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.
I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.
My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.
There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.
But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.
I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.
I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.
There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.
The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.
She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.
She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.
I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.
I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.
I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.
He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.
What would you do?
My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.
Good plan?
Opinions welcomed.
Thank you in advance.[/QUOTE]I would take him out to a bar for drinks instead. Maybe a place where there are lots of hotties during happy hour. Make small talks and comment about the pretty girls at the bar and see what he says. See if he engages in talks about the girls there. Ask him about how things are with his female friend. If he doesn't really respond when already in a fun environment and is just so depressed he might not even be open to hobbying.
Personally, I don't think introducing a family member to hobbying is a good idea especially your brother who sounds like is already in a funk. You are already helping him out financially so he may not have the funds to do this on a regular basis. What if he is introduced to it and becomes hooked? How is he going to fund the habit? He has his kids to take care of already.
Just my 2 cents.
It all depends how he is towards on things like these. In other words, if he needs to gain confidence this won't be a good idea of taking him to a AMP because he may use this as a validation or once he get started on visiting he might get hook into it and make it a hobby as well which is not good for him financially and improving his life to get better after the divorce. One really good advice bro is always talk to him and always check on him if how he is doing. Things like this means a lot. Also if he reads / listen book I would reccomend him a book / audiobool called "can't hurt me by david goggins" bad ass dude.
[QUOTE=DeadHeadChevy;4671709]I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.
I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.
I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.
I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.
My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.
There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.
But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.
I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.
I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.
There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.
The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.
She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.
She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.
I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.
I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.
I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.
He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.
What would you do?
My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.
Good plan?
Opinions welcomed.
Thank you in advance.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DeadHeadChevy;4671709]I have a question that relates to visiting massage spas that I really wanted to ask my local forum for some advice.
I will try to make this short as possible, but I will have to give some details for background and such.
I hope this fits in with the forum rules, admin, please let me know if not.
I would post in the forum where my brother lives, but that forum seems to be on life support, little to no post and replies.
My brother who is about 10 years younger than me (he is almost 40), has been going through some bouts of depression stemming from a nasty ex-wife who is using his kids as pawns to manipulate him. It has been over 5 years since the divorce, and yes he has custody, she has beaten him down to the point that he has lost his self confidence and pride.
There is nothing I can do except help him financially with his ongoing battle with his ex, but I wanted to do something that would help him regain his pride and confidence.
But I am concerned that may not be the best thing, so I ask for your opinions.
I full well know that opinions are like assholes, but I welcome the to try to determine if my idea is okay or will just make things worse.
I travel often for my work, so I visit a lot of AMP's across the country, some good, some bad and some really good.
There are a few AMP's nearby where he lives and I wanted to treat him to one that I have been to and I think he would have a good time while there.
The provider is a Japanese girl, a little thick but in all the right places. Big natural tits, nice long hair and a good body, not fat but maybe curvy would fit better.
She does offer covered full service, sometimes BBBJ, if not CBJ, DATY and more. Top that with either a stand up shower or table shower. Her price is very reasonable, I want to say. 6 for the massage and 1. 4 for the tip.
She is a very good looking woman, and gives a very sensual experience.
I know she has the qualities that he likes in a woman, but that's my concern.
I'm afraid that in his current state, that he may have such a good time with her, that he will fall in love with her, thus making things worse.
I also don't want to disclose to him that I visit so many AMP's during my work travels or have him slighted for crossing swords with this girl. I have seen her at least 4 times, each time just as good if not better then the last.
He has a friend with slight benefits that spends time with him every now and then, but she doesn't give it all up for him. It also lately has been creating friction between them as he wants to bang her and her him, but the friend part starts to get complicated, at least that's what she says.
What would you do?
My plan was simple, maybe visit the provider, pay for his session and tip, and ask her to take care of him. Then just drop him off there as a surprise.
Good plan?
Opinions welcomed.
Thank you in advance.[/QUOTE]I have heard stories where uncles or fathers took sons to brothels as a "coming of age" event. Mostly this was in places where prostitution was legal / socially accepted. The range in reaction from the guys was that it was great to it was traumatic. Hard to say how your bro would feel.
Any FS AMP in Oceanside?
[QUOTE=TubAndRug;4672022]I would ask him if he wants one before giving money to the AMP on his behalf. He may be crept out by the idea, worried about getting an STD or being arrested, etc.
I also don't know that it would lift his spirits because it might make him feel that he's such a loser the only way a girl would have sex with him is if she's paid to do it.[/QUOTE]I'm pretty sure he would be fine with the arrangement, that is if the provider would go for it. I'm not sure if she would, if it were arranged in advance, but if was a walk in customer with cash in hand, I don't see why she would refuse.
My concern is that I would create a monster or him being in his state, may find her attractive (which she is) and fall for her. When he describes his "ideal" woman, she fits most of his wants.
Thanks for the input. Still pondering.
[QUOTE=Freedo;4672172]Are you trying to make him think the provider wants to bang him? That could get messy if you already think hes going to get attached. I'd be straight up with him, let him know you got a girl who provides good service and you would like to treat him to knock him out of his funk.[/QUOTE]I would hope he wouldn't fall for her, but his ex has basically ripped his balls off and emasculated him, he's just so far beaten I don't think he sees it clearly, maybe he does, depression is a ***** and does crazy shit.
[QUOTE=DogRice;4672182]Here are my 2 cents:
I would first chat with him about "mongering" during a causal conversation and test out how he thinks about this "hobby". Some guys want to keep this "hobby" to himself especially from family members. My brother and I talked about this hobby and latest "news" all the time, but neither of us admit that we actually "monger".
I am not sure how well you know this provider. I would be afraid whether this provider would provide good experience to him. For working girls, I have zero trust on them and YMMV.
If he is open to talk openly to you about mongering, I would go with him to AMP and have fun together (Separate room) and tell the mamasan and girls that you take care of the bill. Then talk about the experience afterwards. Even the experience is bad, I think having that "common talk" is fun and relaxing for him.[/QUOTE]This provider is a 1 girl operation as far as I know, never have seen another girl or read reviews with another name. I could be wrong though. Also no mammasan.
I get your point on the trust issue, makes sense. We have "talked" about current events involving AMP's but still not 100% sure how he would feel going to one himself.
If I could confirm there is another girl working, going together wouldn't be a bad idea if he is up for it.
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;4672275]I would take him out to a bar for drinks instead. Maybe a place where there are lots of hotties during happy hour. Make small talks and comment about the pretty girls at the bar and see what he says. See if he engages in talks about the girls there. Ask him about how things are with his female friend. If he doesn't really respond when already in a fun environment and is just so depressed he might not even be open to hobbying.
Personally, I don't think introducing a family member to hobbying is a good idea especially your brother who sounds like is already in a funk. You are already helping him out financially so he may not have the funds to do this on a regular basis. What if he is introduced to it and becomes hooked? How is he going to fund the habit? He has his kids to take care of already.
Just my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]Drinking and / or going to a bar is not an option for him, for legal reasons, but normally wouldn't be a bad idea. Several DUI's, though years ago, but still.
The problem with going to a bar where he lives is finding one that has a high caliber of woman, many of the bars and clubs around him are total shit shows.
Yeah, the getting hooked part, not sure how I would handle that, to be perfectly honest. Don't want to create an addiction especially one like this. It's bad enough for myself, let alone supporting another, LOL.