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Longterm SB pops up on Seeking. How to react?
I met a longterm SB on a non SB site. 8 months or so. I have a crazy undermarket PPM and I guess she finally figured it out. I knew she was on Seeking a year or so ago (but she maybe didn't know I knew) but she wasn't on Seeking the whole time we have been meeting.
Anyways, she is now. Do I care? I don't want to pay for exclusive and we didn't say we were exclusive, and I guess I don't mind if she has another guy in her rotation. But I also am not interested in a long-term SB that is getting hammered by 2 different of you random mongers a week.
Advice appreciated.
Respectfully disagree LOL
[QUOTE=Arty33;6353051]I know this was bought up before and understand you have a view point here that is rigid, maybe nothing else works for you. But I never bring up sex with any SB before we meet, in fact not even after we meet, it just happens once she agrees to go to FC location with me. Second, I don't bring up condom ever, most girls don't either, once they meet you and know you ain't psycho killer, weirdo, catfish etc, then are okay to go into a room with you, at that point she is ready to drop the panties and she wants to fuck as much as I do. I make sure I get her all hot and heavy then the time comes push the dick in, most girls won't object at that point. Remember they want to fuck and they want the money, more so may in reverse order, but whatever.
Some girls then stop you and say they want a condom, but rarely, the condom types will bring it up before we head and I try to soft convince her I am clean and have tests to show, I also is willing to walk away, unless it's a really hot girl out of my league and only way I can fuck her is with a condom. Then half of the girls get convinced with it, and say okay show me tests next time, and go with it. Remember again they are horny by then and they want money. The stubborn types if they are hot I will go with it, even if I can't cum with condom usually I can with a real hot girl who is out of my league, it's all in your head. Once you fucked her first time the thrill wears off, then I will hold out for no condom next time. By then she knows I am no psycho killer, is attractive enough, can fuck good as I make sure she cums from fucking, most do some girls don't but I have been able to most girls except some who just can't without a vibrator.
Anyway, bottom line sometimes you invest in the hot girl, take a hit first time, then once she knows she got to go back to the jerks on the site, she will likely agree to dropping condom with a test. Some never do, and I just drop them at that time. It works for me, YMMV.[/QUOTE]Some of the newer hot ones appear to be reading from some playbook. The ones who have demanded condoms with me always seem to be the same ones who say no oral either. Like it's a test. Once I start hearing a litany of no's I am out. The last one who did that to me after said, now she's comfortable with me next time oral and no condom. I didn't give her the chance. She over rated her prowess.
If you are laying game on good, I've had much more success negotiating that in advance than spur of the moment. Of course ymmw, as it obviously does for you.