I am always happy and amazed how quickly some of the SBs can move to texting, but what I don't get is how unresponsive they can be after suggesting texts.
It's kinda like, what was the f-in point then.
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I am always happy and amazed how quickly some of the SBs can move to texting, but what I don't get is how unresponsive they can be after suggesting texts.
It's kinda like, what was the f-in point then.
Oh thanks, I was worried it would be something like that, I just wanted to know for sure before making an account there.
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;5824225]Don't waste your money on Whats Your Price or Secret Benefits. Both are credit based websites.
For WYP, higher your bid to date the girl, say $100 vs $200, the MORE credits it will cost you to be able to message.
Secret Benefits charges a flat credit rate to message a girl. SB up-charges for everything (see private pics, see read receipts, boost a message). You will burn credits fast.
For the money Seeking is best bang for the buck. You get unlimited messaging to any girl anywhere in the world. No upselling unless you want to go Diamond (which isn't necessary).[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Anons550;5823455]Does anyone have any info on this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d12fa807-c863-414e-8905-2efeb412f353[/URL][/QUOTE]Pics are current. She wants 350 and cannot host. Willing to travel within reasonable distance from Aurora.
[QUOTE=Vicdemoan;5824935]I am always happy and amazed how quickly some of the SBs can move to texting, but what I don't get is how unresponsive they can be after suggesting texts.
It's kinda like, what was the f-in point then.[/QUOTE] lllllllll
+1
Got a regular so been picky with who I pursue. Just a little bit of intel on a few that I've talked to in the last week or so.
Currently talking to these. Who are DTF:
Sarahxxx24 - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8b70b6a8-3ebf-4931-90ab-69b3ae1e5910[/URL] - asked 600 but was willing to come down 450-500, pics look good and but she has the injected lip look, the vibe I get is not necessarily someone who'll go the extra mile. Anyone talk to her or see her?
StonerChick - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/44588eee-f071-41c5-9094-5094f0cd5b6c[/URL] - quoted 500-600 for 1-2 hours, wouldn't budge for lower.
OpalAngel - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/53688b1b-44bc-4219-a98d-bc3e6f362996[/URL] - she sounded promising / nice / smart, but timing didn't work out for me so couldn't schedule, may try to talk to her again.
Ariella - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a64fbd5a-497f-4a9e-b20f-ea49e0109bac[/URL] - pretty straight to the point, asked 500 but was willing for 400, nice pics, think she used to be on SA awhile back so feels a little pro, not pursuing for now.
Pic / Vid Sellers, Online Only or Scams:
Ella - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ea800b31-24e0-4642-98ec-662943eaad32[/URL] - didn't take long before she was like "I'm wet in my bed" and then asking whether I'd be willing to pay for photos / videos. Hard pass.
AllureR - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7ca2a665-0e4f-4ce0-9a2e-07ad9546a1d7[/URL] - first thing she said was if I'm okay with online relationship. Ignored.
AdrianneXNikole - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4d677be6-a2eb-413f-b038-0b8a75381236[/URL] - was trying to get me to send her money for dinner before meeting, uhh naw, changed her location too already so blocked.
Cultured Rocker - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/bc61602f-4bcb-490e-bd0d-e5e5eb257a81[/URL] - asked right away if online is okay, passed.
Verina - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c9c23bb8-ad59-4007-b1f3-f14b82310230[/URL] - looks like she's in Poland, didn't answer when I asked if she was in Chicago.
Has anybody seen her and how was the experience?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a7976e81-d89c-4351-a65f-76d9dfab96f8[/URL]
[QUOTE=Dddubs2;5825842]Got a regular so been picky with who I pursue. Just a little bit of intel on a few that I've talked to in the last week or so.
Currently talking to these. Who are DTF:
Sarahxxx24 - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8b70b6a8-3ebf-4931-90ab-69b3ae1e5910[/URL] - asked 600 but was willing to come down 450-500, pics look good and but she has the injected lip look, the vibe I get is not necessarily someone who'll go the extra mile. Anyone talk to her or see her?
StonerChick - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/44588eee-f071-41c5-9094-5094f0cd5b6c[/URL] - quoted 500-600 for 1-2 hours, wouldn't budge for lower.
OpalAngel - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/53688b1b-44bc-4219-a98d-bc3e6f362996[/URL] - she sounded promising / nice / smart, but timing didn't work out for me so couldn't schedule, may try to talk to her again.
Ariella - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a64fbd5a-497f-4a9e-b20f-ea49e0109bac[/URL] - pretty straight to the point, asked 500 but was willing for 400, nice pics, think she used to be on SA awhile back so feels a little pro, not pursuing for now.[/QUOTE]I was able to negotiate down to $250 , maybe she was behind rent and accepted my offer after some insistence from my side. We agreed on meeting up at a bar by loop area since I had something to do around there. We were supposed to meet at 7 pm, I texted her an hour earlier to make sure she's on her way so I don't waste time. She never replied, then around 9 pm she texted me saying she's at the bar. She even sent me pictures she was there. But I already was somewhere else far from the loop. She thinks my time is not valuable that I can be sitting at the bar waiting and waiting until she decides to show up. My assumption is she sets up a lot of dates at the same time and wants guys to wait forever for her.
Has anyone seen the hotwife couple in worth? They've been on the site since 2019 but claim to still haven't found anyone to fulfill this "one time fantasy " for the wife. They're in their lower 50's. Husband has a checkered past but seems legit now. Straight says no male stuff which I'm. Not into anyways.
They've struck up conversations with me a few times over the past year and I've mostly blew them off but I think its started to pique some interest. But mainly just curious in how it went. Pm if needed.
Thanks.
[QUOTE=OnlyDreams;5825969]I was able to negotiate down to $250 , maybe she was behind rent and accepted my offer after some insistence from my side. We agreed on meeting up at a bar by loop area since I had something to do around there. We were supposed to meet at 7 pm, I texted her an hour earlier to make sure she's on her way so I don't waste time. She never replied, then around 9 pm she texted me saying she's at the bar. She even sent me pictures she was there. But I already was somewhere else far from the loop. She thinks my time is not valuable that I can be sitting at the bar waiting and waiting until she decides to show up. My assumption is she sets up a lot of dates at the same time and wants guys to wait forever for her.[/QUOTE]I've seen her pics through whatsapp before and she is way bigger than her pics suggest.
I think she's been on for a few years but don't see any mentions here:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b7fdfab0-096e-4ca3-9ef2-5377e0ab8615[/URL]
Has anyone met her or has meaningful info? Looks great if pics are real (they seem real for sure).
[QUOTE=BBPluto;5826719]I think she's been on for a few years but don't see any mentions here:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b7fdfab0-096e-4ca3-9ef2-5377e0ab8615[/URL]
Has anyone met her or has meaningful info? Looks great if pics are real (they seem real for sure).[/QUOTE]Her pics are real. We used to have a couple mutual friends and I remember seeing her Instagram a few times, I forget what it was. All her pics are private now on SA but back then she was super into body painting and artsy stuff like that. She seemed cool I don't really know her though. (this was years ago. Maybe 4-5 yrs ago, I haven't seen her in a long time).
Hi all, I am very new to this SD part of the world so please go easy on me. I just registered for the premium on SA, and then trying to get started. How soon do you bring up the money topic? Is it very transactional or you need to actually build up some relationship beforehand? Some girls are super direct, didn't even know anything but start asking for money. Very confused on how to handle all these. And at times I felt frustrated. Also what would be an appropriate starting point if we are talking about money? Any advise is much appreciated!
I seem to remember her being discussed but don't know how to search. What is the word on [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a64fbd5a-497f-4a9e-b20f-ea49e0109bac[/URL].
Copy the last string of digits in the UR after the last hyphen and search on that.
In this case with the URL being https://members.seeking.com/member/a64fbd5a-497f-4a9e-b20f-ea49e0109bac you would copy ea49e0109bac and paste that into the search box.
She was discussed yesterday a little bit. Search and you'll see a couple comments.
[QUOTE=ChitownGuy321;5827357]I seem to remember her being discussed but don't know how to search. What is the word on [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a64fbd5a-497f-4a9e-b20f-ea49e0109bac[/URL].[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=IronMan831;5827280]Hi all, I am very new to this SD part of the world so please go easy on me. I just registered for the premium on SA, and then trying to get started. How soon do you bring up the money topic? Is it very transactional or you need to actually build up some relationship beforehand? Some girls are super direct, didn't even know anything but start asking for money. Very confused on how to handle all these. And at times I felt frustrated. Also what would be an appropriate starting point if we are talking about money? Any advise is much appreciated![/QUOTE]They're likely a pro. If you're good with that Godspeed. If not, stop further discussion otherwise you may risk getting banned.
[QUOTE=ChitownGuy321;5827357]I seem to remember her being discussed but don't know how to search. What is the word on [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a64fbd5a-497f-4a9e-b20f-ea49e0109bac[/URL].[/QUOTE]Based on previous posts- 400; one shot; clock watcher; about an hour if you're lucky.
Same experience. One pop and she was ready to go. She also upcharged for BBBJ. Very mechanical and cold, amazing body. Would not repeat.
[QUOTE=TimeForPlay10;5827501]Based on previous posts- 400; one shot; clock watcher; about an hour if you're lucky.[/QUOTE]
Wow super gps.
Quoted 1500. Just insane. This is so hard to find a not fat SA under 400.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49451acb-7f72-4c0e-a130-40a94af3ede3[/URL]
I have a Seeking account but have never signed up for a membership as I'm more of a strip club guy. But it's fun to browse and live vicariously through you all.
I was casually looking at posts and found LuvKC23: I recognized her as someone I worked with before the pandemic--the arm tattoo was a giveaway. She's too physically close for me to ever pursue, but wanted to let you SA connoisseurs know she's the real deal, at least in terms of looks, so you won't get catfished.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/71c0ee58-2934-4f90-b5c8-967b2c55a67d[/URL]
[QUOTE=IronMan831;5827280]Hi all, I am very new to this SD part of the world so please go easy on me. I just registered for the premium on SA, and then trying to get started. How soon do you bring up the money topic? Is it very transactional or you need to actually build up some relationship beforehand? Some girls are super direct, didn't even know anything but start asking for money. Very confused on how to handle all these. And at times I felt frustrated. Also what would be an appropriate starting point if we are talking about money? Any advise is much appreciated![/QUOTE]Exchange a few small talk type messages on the site to make sure you're dealing with a real person, and then try to get them to move to text or some other messaging platform to talk details. I haven't had any problems myself, but there are too many stories already floating around about guys kicked off of the site for talking prices and acts in SA messages.
If a girl has a set of menu prices for certain acts & time limits, is hosting immediately, or will come to a hotel to meet you sight unseen, she's basically escorting whether she's also advertising on other sites or not. If she wants to do a meet and greet (ie meet for coffee, etc) before going further, then you may have a more traditional sugar baby looking to build more long term, exclusive arrangements. If she wants to sell you pictures or is asking for up front payments, then you have a scammer and its time to go silent and move on.
Pricing starting points unfortunately seem to have risen to around 400. Everyone's had different experiences, but I find much better chances of negotiating after a meet and greet where a girl's had a little chance to get comfortable with you and is more likely compromise a little on price if she feels like she'll be safe and might actually enjoy herself. Some girls will come down negotiating by text maybe if your location is very convenient or you can meet immediately, but just as many will stick firm to their 'price' or get pissed at any suggestion of coming down.
[QUOTE=PauFord;5827369]Copy the last string of digits in the UR after the last hyphen and search on that.
In this case with the URL being https://members.seeking.com/member/a64fbd5a-497f-4a9e-b20f-ea49e0109bac you would copy ea49e0109bac and paste that into the search box.
She was discussed yesterday a little bit. Search and you'll see a couple comments.[/QUOTE]Thanks for taking the time to help me.
She reached out to me and I remember seeing her ad on one of the escort sites. I blocked her, not my type.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f4a425f1-d090-97bc-c24e-71e00f9db498[/URL]
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/kaylakissess[/URL]
Hi guys,
I'm coming to Chicago in early April and was hoping a few of you would like to share info on a SB or two with me. I'm not on SA right now as I have a full rotation in South Florida. If any of you are coming this way, I could give you enough info to make your trip worth while. The arrangement forum is not much down here but the young ladies are all over SA looking for a SD. I'm originally from Chicago but all of my SB that way are not doing it or not responding anymore. Feel free to I'm me if you want. I would appreciate and info you can help me with.
Booked to meet Charleigh on Tues next week. Seems pretty open and man oh man those tits! I need some big titty fun. My real life girlfriends is an A cup.
Who's seen her? Wil TOFTT if no one knows her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b20b6d8b-1c53-4391-8114-125a75eeeff6[/URL]
[QUOTE=Diginonomous;5826294]Has anyone seen the hotwife couple in worth? They've been on the site since 2019 but claim to still haven't found anyone to fulfill this "one time fantasy " for the wife. They're in their lower 50's. Husband has a checkered past but seems legit now. Straight says no male stuff which I'm. Not into anyways.
They've struck up conversations with me a few times over the past year and I've mostly blew them off but I think its started to pique some interest. But mainly just curious in how it went. Pm if needed.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]I've been lightly chatting with them and it feels suspicious.
Eventually was given their number to text, but they followed up with a "Are you going to text us?" before I saw the message with the phone number. Once I did text them, it was the husband I was speaking with.
I'm not going to pursue this further, between the hints of attitude in the messages and the bait-and-switch when it went to texting, it screams red flags.
[QUOTE=UncannyKink;5828619]I've been lightly chatting with them and it feels suspicious.
Eventually was given their number to text, but they followed up with a "Are you going to text us?" before I saw the message with the phone number. Once I did text them, it was the husband I was speaking with.
I'm not going to pursue this further, between the hints of attitude in the messages and the bait-and-switch when it went to texting, it screams red flags.[/QUOTE]HA HA HA HA HA HA.
The old "I'm not gay, but. " scam.
Haven't seen her, but I know what you mean, those tits fire up the imagination! Look forward to the report. Thanks.
[QUOTE=MwmChicago;5828439]Booked to meet Charleigh on Tues next week. Seems pretty open and man oh man those tits! I need some big titty fun. My real life girlfriends is an A cup.
Who's seen her? Wil TOFTT if no one knows her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b20b6d8b-1c53-4391-8114-125a75eeeff6[/URL][/QUOTE]
That's how the profile reads to me. But seriously, looks like she could suffocate a man in them titties!
[QUOTE=MwmChicago;5828439]Booked to meet Charleigh on Tues next week. Seems pretty open and man oh man those tits! I need some big titty fun. My real life girlfriends is an A cup.
Who's seen her? Wil TOFTT if no one knows her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b20b6d8b-1c53-4391-8114-125a75eeeff6[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FafaFooey;5827840]Exchange a few small talk type messages on the site to make sure you're dealing with a real person, and then try to get them to move to text or some other messaging platform to talk details. I haven't had any problems myself, but there are too many stories already floating around about guys kicked off of the site for talking prices and acts in SA messages.
If a girl has a set of menu prices for certain acts & time limits, is hosting immediately, or will come to a hotel to meet you sight unseen, she's basically escorting whether she's also advertising on other sites or not. If she wants to do a meet and greet (ie meet for coffee, etc) before going further, then you may have a more traditional sugar baby looking to build more long term, exclusive arrangements. If she wants to sell you pictures or is asking for up front payments, then you have a scammer and its time to go silent and move on.
Pricing starting points unfortunately seem to have risen to around 400. Everyone's had different experiences, but I find much better chances of negotiating after a meet and greet where a girl's had a little chance to get comfortable with you and is more likely compromise a little on price if she feels like she'll be safe and might actually enjoy herself. Some girls will come down negotiating by text maybe if your location is very convenient or you can meet immediately, but just as many will stick firm to their 'price' or get pissed at any suggestion of coming down.[/QUOTE]Wow this is super helpful, thank you! I actually stumbled upon the 3rd party msg system exactly like you said. But the second tip is critical. So this girl insisting some kind of security deposit in case I don't show up, even like $20. So this is a scam? Also she is like very flexible in terms of arrangements. Sounds like a scam huh?
It's good to know the starting point. I started with 300 and they are all like oh I did this before for 850, blah blah blah. I feel like I am the cheap one all of a sudden LOL. For some reason I thought this SD thing would be a lot more pleasant than haggling prices, feels super transactional.
[QUOTE=BobbyStevens;5827678]Wow super gps.
Quoted 1500. Just insane. This is so hard to find a not fat SA under 400.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49451acb-7f72-4c0e-a130-40a94af3ede3[/URL][/QUOTE]Sounds like she's a stripper, escort or both.
And a Butterface to boot!!
LOL.
[QUOTE=TimeForPlay10;5829118]Sounds like she's a stripper, escort or both.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=IronMan831;5829083]But the second tip is critical. So this girl insisting some kind of security deposit in case I don't show up, even like $20. So this is a scam? Also she is like very flexible in terms of arrangements. Sounds like a scam huh?
It's good to know the starting point. I started with 300 and they are all like oh I did this before for 850, blah blah blah. I feel like I am the cheap one all of a sudden LOL. For some reason I thought this SD thing would be a lot more pleasant than haggling prices, feels super transactional.[/QUOTE]I'll let anyone else reply who's had success leaving a deposit and ending up with a good session. To me, any request for advanced funds before meeting is a hard stop. There's no reason a girl who's a few hours away from making hundreds of dollars in cash needs a small amount sent electronically ahead of time. If the concern is no showing, the girls should be leaving us deposits rather than the other way around!
You can read back in this forum and even the general escorting forum about how pricing has gotten really out of control in the last year or so. It wasn't so long ago that 250 to 300 could get you some good variety. We can throw around guesses for the reasons (Covid, social media, etc), but it is what it is. There's only so much complaining that can be done, so we all just have to make our own cost / benefit judgements and only pursue arrangements where we feel the experience has some value in line with what we're paying.
Thanks for confirming my suspicions. Even though there's plenty of photos of the wife on his Facebook page it just feels odd. I can't find any info about the wife. Mostly just piqued my curiosity.
[QUOTE=UncannyKink;5828619]I've been lightly chatting with them and it feels suspicious.
Eventually was given their number to text, but they followed up with a "Are you going to text us?" before I saw the message with the phone number. Once I did text them, it was the husband I was speaking with.
I'm not going to pursue this further, between the hints of attitude in the messages and the bait-and-switch when it went to texting, it screams red flags.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Vicdemoan;5828701]That's how the profile reads to me. But seriously, looks like she could suffocate a man in them titties![/QUOTE]That's my plan, haha.
[QUOTE=Diginonomous;5829574]Thanks for confirming my suspicions. Even though there's plenty of photos of the wife on his Facebook page it just feels odd. I can't find any info about the wife. Mostly just piqued my curiosity.[/QUOTE]If you're intrigued, why not request a video chat? Outside of an in person meet, its the most efficient and effective way to confirm someone is real. If they balk, you have to assume something is up. I'm doing this consistently with POT SB's so I don't waste any time.
She favored me and we did some messages on the site and then went to texting. She was very warm and friendly and asked good questions and told me about here life. Then, wait for it, she said she wanted to ask me something but was afraid to ask. I said ask anything. Then she asked for money for groceries and feminine products. I told her I didn't do that but my intention was to spend time with her, leave her with a smile on her face and a few hundred bucks in her pocket and a sincere desire to seem me again. Her response was it was only a little money until we meet. Ha, Ha,
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a0c692e8-c394-4770-b1db-f1e76302420d[/URL]
[QUOTE=RayDonovan2000;5829271]And a Butterface to boot!!
LOL.[/QUOTE]This person has been discussed before. They were trying to line up 6 guys for a train and have them all pay and film.
[QUOTE=IronMan831;5827280]Hi all, I am very new to this SD part of the world so please go easy on me. I just registered for the premium on SA, and then trying to get started. How soon do you bring up the money topic? Is it very transactional or you need to actually build up some relationship beforehand? Some girls are super direct, didn't even know anything but start asking for money. Very confused on how to handle all these. And at times I felt frustrated. Also what would be an appropriate starting point if we are talking about money? Any advise is much appreciated![/QUOTE]If you're truly looking to sugar versus simply low mileage escorting, then you need to be direct in what kind of sugar relationship you want. Tell them how many times a month you want to meet. Describe what those meets would look like leaving out too much sexual detail. That is assumed and can be discussed in more detail off app. If you have other skills you can provide, mentoring, be sure to put that in there. If they respond positively to your description of the relationship I would try to move them off the app as quickly as possible to arrange a meet, discuss any sexual preferences (This may be best saved for the M&G), discuss PPM vs allowance. DO NOT PAY ANY DEPOSITS. If you're feeling generous, you can reimburse them for Uber costs once they are at the M&G regardless of how the meet goes.
Was chatting yesterday with Sdj081a and we made plans to meet Sun. She messaged me her # a few hours later (9 PM) but I was with the GF for the evening and didn't see it until this morning on my phone. Got on my computer just now and it says she's no longer on site (or she blocked me). Still have the # surprisingly and texted her but haven't heard back. Is she still on the site? Really just curious as she's a hot young 23 why / o Asian and would love to bang a non pro young Asian. My first thought was she left the site after being overwhelmed on her first day from aggressive old white guys like me or she just blocked me because I didn't text late last night. Now I am on a mission to find that young hot Asian pussy!
[QUOTE=ChitownGuy321;5830244]She favored me and we did some messages on the site and then went to texting. She was very warm and friendly and asked good questions and told me about here life. Then, wait for it, she said she wanted to ask me something but was afraid to ask. I said ask anything. Then she asked for money for groceries and feminine products. I told her I didn't do that but my intention was to spend time with her, leave her with a smile on her face and a few hundred bucks in her pocket and a sincere desire to seem me again. Her response was it was only a little money until we meet. Ha, Ha,
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a0c692e8-c394-4770-b1db-f1e76302420d[/URL][/QUOTE]I just posted about her too, although the post has not been approved yet. We chatted yesterday and made plans to meet Sun. A few hours later she messaged me with her phone number but I was with my GF for the evening at that point. She then apparently blocked me this morning. UGH I really wanted to fuck her senseless!