[QUOTE=RocketDork;3058879]Are you available Labor Day Weekend? Thanks Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]Yes, I'll be availableaving through out the weekend.
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[QUOTE=RocketDork;3058879]Are you available Labor Day Weekend? Thanks Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]Yes, I'll be availableaving through out the weekend.
Just wanted to say hey. Long time reader, but finally decided to participate. This thread has been a big help to me (shout out especially to RD for all the inspiration! We were both on the Uber Filipina concurrently). I post and reply to ads on CL all the time (have been for the past year and a half), and have a pretty decent list of women, both paid and free, that I see from time to time. I actually prefer the CL treasure hunt to anything else in the hobby. Saw my most recent find today (she replied to my ad, which works far more often for me than replying to ads) at her place on the northside. Sexy, smart, late-30's, single woman that just needs a little passionate attention. I think she might like me too much, though, even though our two meetings so far haven't been all that amazing. Which makes me wonder. I don't have any numbers to share at the moment, but maybe in the future.
Had a conversation with a male friend recently about the hobby. Left me a bit curious. Why do hobbies hobby? Then, a recent encounter with a UTR girl brought even more questions. She asked me why do this, why pay? Why not go to a bar, simply buy a girl a couple of drinks and end up having a nice night.
I know its not that simple. For me, it's a matter of convenience, not wasting time or $ for a possible dead end. Though she did make me think, question.
Why do you guys hobby? Married, limited on time? Do you stop hobbying when you get in a relationship? Would you donate just for companionship, someone to spend time with?
Just something I have been wondering about, how it is for other guys
I have a pretty natural way of chatting girls up. Not sure if out of practice, though, but I don't feel as confident for an in-person pickup. To close the deal.
It is definitely my ultimate goal. To expand, if nothing else. Nonpros and civilians out and about. How are you guys doing with this?
How long do you guys tend to see a girl? How many are one timers only? I know for me it depends on how attractive she is and compatibility. I posted a couple weeks ago? On the idea of setting up a small group of guys to share non pros. This way you don't have to see her too often, she is satisfied with what she needs, and hobbies get to see more girls. Mix it up more.
Not all girls are open to this, but it also depends on their situation. Any thoughts?
Long time lurker and poster, been a while. Lost my old account.
What's the action with pornstars these days? Are they still posting anywhere? Any guys check any out lately. Just returned to the area recently, I missed on Aurora Monroe before she got more into porn and rate got higher.
[QUOTE=MrCharmo;3061989]Had a conversation with a male friend recently about the hobby. Left me a bit curious. Why do hobbies hobby? Then, a recent encounter with a UTR girl brought even more questions. She asked me why do this, why pay? Why not go to a bar, simply buy a girl a couple of drinks and end up having a nice night.
I know its not that simple. For me, it's a matter of convenience, not wasting time or $ for a possible dead end. Though she did make me think, question.
Why do you guys hobby? Married, limited on time? Do you stop hobbying when you get in a relationship? Would you donate just for companionship, someone to spend time with?
Just something I have been wondering about, how it is for other guys[/QUOTE]I don't pay them to see me, I pay them to go away afterwards. Things get messy, otherwise.
[QUOTE=MrCharmo;3061989]Had a conversation with a male friend recently about the hobby. Left me a bit curious. Why do hobbies hobby? Then, a recent encounter with a UTR girl brought even more questions. She asked me why do this, why pay? Why not go to a bar, simply buy a girl a couple of drinks and end up having a nice night.
I know its not that simple. For me, it's a matter of convenience, not wasting time or $ for a possible dead end. Though she did make me think, question.
Why do you guys hobby? Married, limited on time? Do you stop hobbying when you get in a relationship? Would you donate just for companionship, someone to spend time with?
Just something I have been wondering about, how it is for other guys[/QUOTE]You always pay one way or another. She said it right in your post. Buy us a couple drinks. Or Dinner. Even on match for pof, your buying buying buying. If the ladies would opened their wallet once in awhile, it would be nice. They want equal pay. Well then split the bill honey.
At least with a p2 p lady or even at the casino when you lose, at least you get FUCKED, in either situation (pun intended).
[QUOTE=Ramone24;3062080]I don't pay them to see me, I pay them to go away afterwards. Things get messy, otherwise.[/QUOTE]I think I'm leaning towards mixing it up. I've never mongered while in a serious relationship. So I guess would be best if I were in a more casual, open thing. Otherwise, not sure how I'd feel about being unfaithful since I've never have before.
[QUOTE=ChicagoMonger;3062103]You always pay one way or another. She said it right in your post. Buy us a couple drinks. Or Dinner. Even on match for pof, your buying buying buying. If the ladies would opened their wallet once in awhile, it would be nice. They want equal pay. Well then split the bill honey.
At least with a p2 p lady or even at the casino when you lose, at least you get FUCKED, in either situation (pun intended).[/QUOTE]She offered to split the bill last night. I insisted to cover it. She makes a good living, pretty sure more than I do. No idea if we will be seeing each other reg, butI'd let her cover some of our costs in the future. LOL.
LOVE to monger, but every once in a while the idea of paying does bug a bit. Though the idea of constant new partners is also very nice as well.
Sorry, guys- I am bit bored and alone at work. How do you guys do with heavier women? I recently met one at a grocery store. Just chatting, lead to light flirting. Week later (couple days ago) a friend and I are sucking on her HUGE breasts and getting head. But I just couldn't get into it! Couldn't even get erect. Not sure if I'm just tired, but I think it was her. Really nice lady, but I guess just REALLY not my thing.
Any bbw lovers out there?
No way. I don't find BBW attractive at all.
[QUOTE=MrCharmo;3062130]Sorry, guys- I am bit bored and alone at work. How do you guys do with heavier women? I recently met one at a grocery store. Just chatting, lead to light flirting. Week later (couple days ago) a friend and I are sucking on her HUGE breasts and getting head. But I just couldn't get into it! Couldn't even get erect. Not sure if I'm just tired, but I think it was her. Really nice lady, but I guess just REALLY not my thing.
Any bbw lovers out there?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DMichaels69;3062136]No way. I don't find BBW attractive at all.[/QUOTE]I agree with D. Big is not for me. A few extra is ok but that's it.
[QUOTE=MrCharmo;3061989]Had a conversation with a male friend recently about the hobby. Left me a bit curious. Why do hobbies hobby? Then, a recent encounter with a UTR girl brought even more questions. She asked me why do this, why pay? Why not go to a bar, simply buy a girl a couple of drinks and end up having a nice night.
I know its not that simple. For me, it's a matter of convenience, not wasting time or $ for a possible dead end. Though she did make me think, question.
Why do you guys hobby? Married, limited on time? Do you stop hobbying when you get in a relationship? Would you donate just for companionship, someone to spend time with?
Just something I have been wondering about, how it is for other guys[/QUOTE]Being married, it's the simplicity of the mongering arrangement that appeals to me. Easy, spur of the moment, lots of planning, variety. The list goes on and on; and you determine how much you are going to spend for each adventure. You can use any number of sex acts to cement and foster a relationship, but you can also understand sometimes sex is simply assisted masturbation. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a "wham, bam, thank you, mam" scenario when you both know what you're there for.
I finally got a legit chick from CL. Problem is she doesn't want to do car dates and can't do in all because she lives with family. Where is there a short stay spot in the ohare area and what is an avg rate? Thanks.