MSP Sugar

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c3dd0a08-0e6f-42fb-8ec9-af8e5de63079[/URL]

"Nothing beyond cuddling".

Any intel on this cutie? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/28cd406d-294a-4217-9379-3489921da4dc[/URL].

[QUOTE=HardWoodsman;5000041]Who doesn't love a hot mess every once in a while.[/QUOTE]I exchanged messages with this one a while back. Wow, something else. We quickly agreed on a time and place for a M&G. Her profile states she wants a public meeting or two to feel comfortable, which I was fine with. She then asked for 2 bills for said M&G. I declined and she went on a rambling incoherent rant about me not willing to pay an allowance for the M&G.

Please note, I have only dipped my toe in this world a few times. I have read plenty, here and a few other sites, and believe it is not common to provide and allowance for a M&G. I do cover any costs associated with the M&G plus will cover gas / uber if needed, and usually that is appreciated by the POT. Are dudes actually paying for M&G's with no BCD time?

[QUOTE=Zipp531;5025549]I exchanged messages with this one a while back. Wow, something else. We quickly agreed on a time and place for a M&G. Her profile states she wants a public meeting or two to feel comfortable, which I was fine with. She then asked for 2 bills for said M&G. I declined and she went on a rambling incoherent rant about me not willing to pay an allowance for the M&G.

Please note, I have only dipped my toe in this world a few times. I have read plenty, here and a few other sites, and believe it is not common to provide and allowance for a M&G. I do cover any costs associated with the M&G plus will cover gas / uber if needed, and usually that is appreciated by the POT. Are dudes actually paying for M&G's with no BCD time?[/QUOTE]My first meeting with her was little different. It was last minute and I didn't pay for the M&G part. It was definitely fun night and things progressed very well and I did provide an allowance for what we did later. She didn't seem to have any boundaries I don't usually pay for a M&G either, but you may want to offer $100 to meet and agree on full amount if get along and proceed to BCD as you say. If she shows up odds are you will proceed to second part, so not really risking much. I have done that a few times when they asked for M&G allowance and always worked. Probably greater odds she will be very late or not show up at all.

[QUOTE=Ryan33;5026994]My first meeting with her was little different. It was last minute and I didn't pay for the M&G part. It was definitely fun night and things progressed very well and I did provide an allowance for what we did later. She didn't seem to have any boundaries I don't usually pay for a M&G either, but you may want to offer $100 to meet and agree on full amount if get along and proceed to BCD as you say. If she shows up odds are you will proceed to second part, so not really risking much. I have done that a few times when they asked for M&G allowance and always worked. Probably greater odds she will be very late or not show up at all.[/QUOTE]Something that's worked recently is I tell them "all you have to do is show up and I'll give you $50/$100". I won't send $ in advance but if they physically show up and match the pics, I'll give an advance as a goodwill gesture. If they balk at that they're scammers or not worth the effort.

SA definitely has a larger number of potential SBs and is cheaper when you can consider the cost per message and has far more robust profile and privacy options. Secret Benefits has some advantages if you are in a large enough metro area. Miami was fantastic. It's a bigger / pricier market but I still found 7-8's at $300-400, one who stayed all night and told me it was 'all you can eat / bang'.

I bought 500 credits, which is $170. That's twice the monthly SA membership but the main benefit is SBs don't expect allowances and are generally more willing to meet quickly and start with PPM. If your profile isn't a dumpster fire, you'll stand out. You can also carry your credits over so it's easier to go dormant for a while.

You pay 10 credits (3. 50) to see or send the first message to a new SB. Additional messaging is free after that. Most SBs also have secret / hidden pics or videos that you have to pay 10 credits more to see. Pro tip. Never pay to see hidden pics. Just chat enough to get their #, then ask for them offline. Every single SB I messaged replied which didn't always happen on SA. The negative is you'll get a few messages from SBs that just say 'heyyyy' and then they don't reply again so I became very picky on who I replied to. There were also some who it seemed like we were about to agree on a time / place and then they dropped, "Oh, I'm in fucking Indiana until next week / month. ".

In the Twin Cities, the SB pool is pretty small, maybe 5-10% of what you'd find on SA and there's some overlap with the most active SBs on both sites. Not sure if it's worth it for just here but if you travel to any larger cities, then it's a good way to enhance your chances.

Get your elevator speech / message ready to save time. "Not interested in platonic, online, or flying you in to me. No advance payments. Let's have some fun. " A few insisted on advance payments to show I'm real, serious, not a murderer (huh?) but I just replied that's up to them but they're cutting their potential M&Gs by 90% - good luck. It's a SD market.

Just had one block me. She wanted $500 for non-sexual meets and if she feels comfortable later on then the sex. I told 50-100 for non-sex meets. That was not met well. But I knew this wasn't going anywhere. Her comeback " She is not a prostitute" Whatever helps you sleep at night. "This is not Burger king and cannot have it my way" "She makes the rules and there are plenty of guys paying just to see her" LOL. Decent looking body, but already has had a kid. So.

Been putting out a lot of feelers but they are so slow and sporadic in replying.

[QUOTE=Ccbb1;5032624]Just had one block me. She wanted $500 for non-sexual meets and if she feels comfortable later on then the sex. I told 50-100 for non-sex meets. That was not met well. But I knew this wasn't going anywhere. Her comeback " She is not a prostitute" Whatever helps you sleep at night. "This is not Burger king and cannot have it my way" "She makes the rules and there are plenty of guys paying just to see her" LOL. Decent looking body, but already has had a kid. So.

Been putting out a lot of feelers but they are so slow and sporadic in replying.[/QUOTE]Just found one who reached out to me, swapped #s, was fine with $200-300 PPM, and she can host. She had only done this once before and was super nervous but it ended up being fantastic. Sometimes you get lucky.

Any info on this SB? Please let me know thanks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/04f32fda-6a37-499e-a38a-e8761d4b63b5[/URL]

She is ready to meet.

This SB is ready to meet for the right allowance but wanted to get some Intel if anyone has any. Appreciate.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8c1ab354-d6c5-45ac-b246-80a94bab806c[/URL]

I'm talking to the below SBs on SA and trying to gather intel. Appreciate any information on these. Most of them responded and ready to meet. I'll keep you posted if make any progress.

Lyss091.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1a059358-2cef-4614-856a-ddfa127c44e1[/URL]

Sexytoegirl.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eed68710-0a7f-4d19-8ef0-48340edad5ee[/URL]

Alexasugarbabe.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dcaa7c60-1ff8-42f4-b89b-5f01265c7ff9[/URL]

Monalisasmiles79.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/38f3d564-6459-4552-acca-339b394c6710[/URL]

[QUOTE=DrSuess;5039767]I'm talking to the below SBs on SA and trying to gather intel. Appreciate any information on these. Most of them responded and ready to meet. I'll keep you posted if make any progress.

Monalisasmiles79.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/38f3d564-6459-4552-acca-339b394c6710[/URL][/QUOTE]She's had a couple of profiles before this one. I don't remember the names. We messaged back and forth a bit but never ended up meeting.

[QUOTE=DrSuess;5039760]This SB is ready to meet for the right allowance but wanted to get some Intel if anyone has any. Appreciate.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8c1ab354-d6c5-45ac-b246-80a94bab806c[/URL][/QUOTE]This one says she can host and started from $350 and gone as low as 150. Sounds like a pro because she talks about time, she can do only 45 minutes for 150. Let me know if anyone wants digits.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/539094e5-ea4e-47bd-868d-eda2387c85e3[/URL]

This SB is ready to meet and she agreed for 150 per meet. Also can host at saint paul area. Anyone have any Intel on this one?

[QUOTE=DrSuess;5039760]This SB is ready to meet for the right allowance but wanted to get some Intel if anyone has any. Appreciate.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8c1ab354-d6c5-45ac-b246-80a94bab806c[/URL][/QUOTE]Ignore this one, she is dumb to ask for upfront money without even meeting once. Time wasters and may be scammer.