We all have our ways to enjoying the Hobby our way
Some guys were asking for advice in the other thread a few weeks back so I thought I'd share my two cents.
I'm not telling anyone what they have to do, or even telling them what they should do. I can't tell anyone what will work for them, but I can share what has worked for me so far.
Veteran mongers already know the many tips, tricks, and techniques that have worked for them, and they have polished their craft to get more mileage from their providers. They are very likely going to be thinking about some of these things, but I hope these suggestions help some guys who are willing to read and maybe see something that helps them improve their mileage.
My general aim in visiting One-hour AMPs is to find a provider I like and can form a connection with her so eventually she will expand her menu for me after giving me a great massage. Once I find a good provider who pleases me I tend to keep that relationship going as long as it suits me, or till she moves on or rotates out to another location. I prefer to see a select few where I get the most bang for my buck. Getting what you want can happen for anyone by luck, but for me it usually comes by design. Of course it all depends on what your goals are, but even for first time, one time, and especially multi visits, having a strategy can work for you. Listed below are some of the concepts that has helped me get closer to what I want from this hobby.
The big thing I focus on is that she is comfortable with me – when she is comfortable with me, the better we connect, and hopefully the more I might get. The more comfortable she is, the easier it is for her to trust me. Once she trusts me, things tend to open up. I'll be honest, it will take time and money to get full service in a non-Full Service establishment, but in enough cases where I invested wisely, it has proven well worth it.
Some things you may want to consider.
Courtesy – be easy going and friendly, nice, polite, and show respect.
Charming – It is about showing interest and appreciation for them. A sincere smile goes a long way to warming her heart (learn to fake a sincere smile if you have to, LOL).
Cleanliness – be clean, smell nice, from your breath down to your balls, and especially your butt.
Compliments – compliment her looks, her outfit, her work, her good English, even if it sucks. All women love to hear they are beautiful (the 8's 9's, and 10's already know it the 5's 6's & 7's love to hear it, the 1's, 2's, 3's, 4's long to hear it and may reward you the most for saying it).
Conversation – tell them they are doing a great job, or it feels good. Even if you have nothing to say, show approval with a groan when she hits the right spot. Simple friendly positive feedback works wonders.
Connection – try to connect on something, food, fun, or the Chinese traditions you learned about in this forum, maybe places you lived etc. Sharing laughter is a great connection.
Chemistry – this is a wild card, if you share it, great, if you don't, there's nothing you can do about it.
Compassion – Show you care about her. If she's a talker and sharing things about herself listen well. Remember what she tells you if you plan to go back.
Contact – be gentle when you touch her. She will let you know the boundaries, respect them.
Cumming – she makes us happy, but if you to make her happy it benefits you too.
Condom – be prepared for opportunity, have two. Could be a double header.
Careful – let her know you'll keep the special menu a secret, especially when FS is not the norm at that spa. Be quiet when you are doing the wild thing!
Cash – the money always matters. Put the tip in their hand then thank her with a smile. Give a fair to a great tip. If you plan to see her again being cheap will definitely hurt your future success.
Cell number – if she's willing to give you her personal number, you're doing something right.
Continue going to see her – if you liked her, go back soon to leverage the connection.
Call – next time, request her by name making sure she's available. Text her directly if you can.
Once I have developed a great relationship with a provider I tend to be loyal. If I have a special provider in one place and it's going well, I won't see any of the other girls at that place. This is my way of making her feel special, so hopefully she thinks of me as special too. Of course I see other girls at other locations so I'm never without a variety of choices.
Just sharing some things that have improved my mileage and gotten me close to my goals. Of course, your mileage will vary.
Happy Chinese New Year 1/22/2023
Happy Chinese New Year to all the horny mongers like myself this weekend. I am going on a couple of my yearly short trips with a couple of my UTR friends to celebrate the Chinese New Year. Be safe and happy hobbying fellas! Chat with some of you guys in a couple of weeks or so!
