Try the better business bureau SA page
It appears if the infraction or wrong doing wasn't egregious, they will reinstate you at least once if you agree to some terms and conditions after making a report which they will respond to bc it's public.
I've been able to stave off any bans but usually keep it vague until texting. Also have never responded back with sarcasm or snark even if the girl wants 2 k for pics, just say sorry don't think we're a match and move on. Maybe that's helped in terms of not being reported / flying more under the radar?
Wow! Scammers must love you!
[QUOTE=Truthfu11;5722743]Yes, no fucking is okay with me. I've had several very satisfying arrangements structured without fucking.[/QUOTE]Wow! Scammers and content sellers must love you! No wonder many girls on SA want guys to pay them just to see them eat or see their pictures.
Tech support complaint for Ban
[QUOTE=LolBoat;5721860]When you guys got banned, did you try disputing it with tech support? I've done it multiple times and just had to sign a waiver more or less.[/QUOTE]I sent a report, but I didn't receive a reply. It's not a great loss to me. I have 6 on the line from before I let the membership expire. I have had ongoing conversations with all 6. I met one yesterday, and we decided on an arrangement, at a nice price. One comes back into town today. (She told me she wants to explore anal). The others are in different stages of conversation where they know what I want, and they appear to be interested enough to continue the discussion. I'm busy, and I'm patient, and it seems like I might get one or two long term players here.
I do wish there was a viable alternative to SA, but everything I have come across is garbage. (Kinda like SA now, but even worse).
Life.
Interesting, but likely incorrect
I saw your post. Interesting.
So you, without any information, assume that we are soliciting. You assume we don't know what the language is? You assume YOU are the only one who knows how to talk to these women? Wow! I guess you're really something (in your own mind).
Going to have to disagree with you though. I've been around a very long time. I'm quite attuned to solicitous language, and I avoid it. I am interested in women as people, and I am not one of the vulgar "how much" guys. Yet I got banned after almost a decade, and never having even an issue before this. But I guess you know better, right. LOL.
I see others addressed your comments about non-sexual arrangements. If that's what does it for you, have at it. Not my definition of a good use of time and money, but that's me.
I guess I err towards NOT speaking for others. I am a bit lower on the judgment scale. But that's me.
You do you.
[QUOTE=JDuB1970;5722085]Some of you are getting banned because you are solicitating sex. You need to figure out how to soft pedal that.
In MANY WAYS you really need to take notes from the mindset of the woman. Since she was 11 yrs old or even younger, males have been sexualizing her one way or another. Unless she is coming in to you, really direct about: THIS IS ABOUT SEX AND WE ARE GOING TO FUCK you are going to continue to get into trouble. To put this another way, imagine if a bunch of Gay Men were to flood your inbox. I promise you, you wouldn't like it.
Part of the problem, I can guarantee, is that you aren't really taking an actual interest IN HER and not drawing her out enough. You are probably not reading her bio and not mirroring information back to her. Much like any other on-line dating, you have to dance the dance and show that you are not some monger who doesn't want to hire an escort in the traditional sense. Some of these girls ARE up for a PPM and are willing to negotiate. Some aren't and so be it.
By being more indirect and being careful about innuendo, you will start to find women who actually JUST WANT TO go to dinner and then fuck. I've done this twice this last week and now one of them wants me to come over on Thursday and fuck her and her roommate.
I can promise you that you are telegraphing your neediness and your desperation in what you write and these women can smell it on you through the screen.
Your opening line should be simple and NOT putting her on a pedestal, but she still should have an idea that you do find her attractive. I have a THREE WORD opener that works at least 35% of the time. That is a pretty solid return and it generally hooks whom I'm actually interested in.
Girls who are "not quite so hot. " tell them that they ARE pretty. Don't be gushing about it, but let them know somehow that you do find them attractive.
Girls who ARE hot, don't ever compliment them on their looks again. Tell pretty girls how clever or smart they are.
If she tells you her name, USE IT as naturally but as OFTEN as possible.[/QUOTE]
Arrangements through Tinder?
Has anyone been able to start up arrangements with hot college girls on tinder instead of SA?
Can PROMISE YOU that you can
Very easily you can get Tinder going for SDSB.
Hell, if you start an IG page and do hashtags of #sugardaddy #sugarbaby, you can find them.
[QUOTE=Jaster191;5733327]Has anyone been able to start up arrangements with hot college girls on tinder instead of SA?[/QUOTE]
Yes, some people are very lucky
[QUOTE=Jaster191;5733327]Has anyone been able to start up arrangements with hot college girls on tinder instead of SA?[/QUOTE]I personally know this guy in his early 40's who bangs hot college girls from Tinder. Once, there was a girl who wanted a threesome with 2 guys, he invited me over and I couldn't believe how hot she was. He also, loves to record his " encounters" and I've seen dozens of his videos. So he's the living proof that you can find hot college girls on tinder. However, he invests a lot of time on it. He has his looks, he goes to the gym everyday, he's single and works from home. Besides the fact that he has to be checking and swiping profiles 24/7. So there are girls there but you have to be attractive since it's based on looks only abd commit yourself 24/7.
