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[QUOTE=WizFan;6290153]Under which name? She told me her name was Lindsay. Nothing comes up. Sorry I'm relatively new.[/QUOTE]No worries. Copy and paste the last 12 digits of her profile URL and put that into the search box, that's usually the best way to search for a lady on here.
This SB responded to my initial message that she is looking for a weekly allowance. Hasn't responded to my attempts to get her to text so that I can tell her "No Way", but I'll do PPM. She also doesn't have a face picture or private photos. Has anyone actually met her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8e85095d-1d50-42e1-a651-00b35b2ff270[/URL]
[QUOTE=WizFan;6290660]Sorry, I'm not seeing the extensive reviews you allude to and I've searched both her name and title.
Can you simply just advise if the reviews were good, bad or meh?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]What Itfcd is saying and many others have said is that if the URL for her page is this:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f58ada5a-429f-4a84-9405-d79a6895a833[/URL]
Then you search the forum for the last 12 digits:
d79a6895a833
I would say there is some discussion (mostly people who don't know how to use the search function) but not many actual reports on her.
[QUOTE=Shier;6290970]What Itfcd is saying and many others have said is that if the URL for her page is this:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f58ada5a-429f-4a84-9405-d79a6895a833[/URL]
Then you search the forum for the last 12 digits:
d79a6895a833
I would say there is some discussion (mostly people who don't know how to use the search function) but not many actual reports on her.[/QUOTE]Thanks for enlightening me in the search methodology. Now I got it. Only found one actual report and others were just questions with no actual reportx.
[QUOTE=WizFan;6290660]Sorry, I'm not seeing the extensive reviews you allude to and I've searched both her name and title.
Can you simply just advise if the reviews were good, bad or meh?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]Seems she's on the verge of crazy or bipolar. Lives in a messy one bedroom apartment and she's moody, erratic. That's the jest of what I gathered and didn't bother meeting her.
[QUOTE=Shier;6290970]What Itfcd is saying and many others have said is that if the URL for her page is this:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f58ada5a-429f-4a84-9405-d79a6895a833[/URL]
Then you search the forum for the last 12 digits:
d79a6895a833
I would say there is some discussion (mostly people who don't know how to use the search function) but not many actual reports on her.[/QUOTE]I guess there are a few different ways to solve this riddle. The one that's always worked for me is this.
Here's part of her URL. The only part that matters imo.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f58ada5a[/URL]
You take the first 8 digits after the "member /" and plug those into the search bar and viola. You'll get your results. So in this instance take the f58 ada5 a and search those characters and you should get 11 different results. Hope that helps simplify it for you.
[QUOTE=GuyInTheCorner;6289094]My experience as a married guy (who is upfront about it in his profile): there is a subsection of women that view this as a form of dating, where attraction matters as much as money and they want to know there's a future for it. It's Tinder but with guys who will pick up the tab and then some. They aren't interested in faceless profiles and they aren't interested in being the other woman. Many of them are clear about one or both; some aren't but they just don't respond. That's okay. Whatever works for them and I wish them well. For them, I'd imagine a public picture is important, both for their own initial screening and so that they know that the guy is genuine. They don't want to waste time where there is no attraction.
I am upfront about my status. I don't want to waste anyone else's time and I Definitely don't want to inadvertently bring in someone who is hoping to catch feelings and think there's a future. It eliminates some women to be sure including those where I could just meet them once or twice and then move on if it doesn't click but I am past my kid in a candy store phase.[/QUOTE]As a man with SO, this probably is the biggest concern of me not really tapping into seeking. I don't want to get attached or be attached, technically ppm should work for me, but I am not posting my face pics on the site, and that seems to not work for this game? Did I get this all wrong? Any recommendations on how to get started while maintaining adequate privacy?
[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6290873]This SB responded to my initial message that she is looking for a weekly allowance. Hasn't responded to my attempts to get her to text so that I can tell her "No Way", but I'll do PPM. She also doesn't have a face picture or private photos. Has anyone actually met her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8e85095d-1d50-42e1-a651-00b35b2ff270[/URL][/QUOTE]She wanted 2-3 k weekly or bi-weekly. I saw a face picture. Pretty average. She offered 700 ppm when I balked. She's maybe worth 3-4, so I declined.
[QUOTE=Mandane;6291179]She wanted 2-3 k weekly or bi-weekly. I saw a face picture. Pretty average. She offered 700 ppm when I balked. She's maybe worth 3-4, so I declined.[/QUOTE]LOL. 2-3 k weekly for that thing. How can she even think she's worth that. I wouldn't touch that if she pays me.
This one starts with 300 ppm and offers to host in Capitol Heights MD.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8dca280b-a31a-49b2-ba53-a66147af6dfa[/URL]
She can only do today or tonight. That's probably when she has her accomplices with her. She's all red flags including the fake picture LOL.
[URL]https://www.stylevore.com/magenta-and-pink-dress-lips-smile-long-hair-girl/[/URL]
[QUOTE=MrNiubility;6291058]As a man with SO, this probably is the biggest concern of me not really tapping into seeking. I don't want to get attached or be attached, technically ppm should work for me, but I am not posting my face pics on the site, and that seems to not work for this game? Did I get this all wrong? Any recommendations on how to get started while maintaining adequate privacy?[/QUOTE]I don't see how you will be successful without a face pic in private gallery. That's what I do and put an athletic body pic that doesn't show my face for the public profile. By that I meant it was me doing a selfie in the mirror from the neck down, shirt on, after I came back from the gym. SA with an SO is a risk. You just have to fully analyze who you grant access to your private pics.
[QUOTE=MrNiubility;6291058]As a man with SO, this probably is the biggest concern of me not really tapping into seeking. I don't want to get attached or be attached, technically ppm should work for me, but I am not posting my face pics on the site, and that seems to not work for this game? Did I get this all wrong? Any recommendations on how to get started while maintaining adequate privacy?[/QUOTE]Again. Do the work. There are LONG LONG posts on this. Everything from payments via pre-paid cards, to phone security, to pics discussed. And I'm not being a dick, just that the info is out there. As for pics, think about it. Find somebody who looks like you. Your celeb double and edit the pic per guidelines on seeking. But go do your legwork man
Here - one example, one search on this thread:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?11278-NoVA-SugarBabies&p=6109701&highlight=Opsec#post6109701
Choclatbar_b is attractive, brown, has a lovely rack, DSL's and hips. Unfortunately, she's been reading the Sugar Forums on other sites and wants $2500/ month allowance. I explained why that doesn't work for me and countered with $400-$500 ppm depending on a number of factors that I left vague. She agreed to the PPM, but wanted $1 K "start-up" fee. Of course that doesn't work for me either. She wouldn't budge. I texted her just now saying that since our initial meeting, we could have gone BCD's 3-4 times (more tactfully stated). We'll see if she responds.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1710e719-37dd-4332-9bb1-6da724d40284[/URL]
So I might just be being totally silly / off the mark with this but many many years ago I met up with a girl from a dating app and she turned out to be trans, she told me before it got physical and I dropped her off at home, I'm not into that.
I recently connected with a really hot black girl on Seeking that is very eager to meet, everything seems good, but her look / pheno kinda reminds me of that girl from years ago, she just looks really robust (not unusual for black girls) and she's 5'8, I just want to make sure she's not a trans before I fly her out here.
How would you approach? I feel like straight up asking her would turn her off, no?
Thanks guys.
[QUOTE=MrFairfax;6292858]So I might just be being totally silly / off the mark with this but many many years ago I met up with a girl from a dating app and she turned out to be trans, she told me before it got physical and I dropped her off at home, I'm not into that.
I recently connected with a really hot black girl on Seeking that is very eager to meet, everything seems good, but her look / pheno kinda reminds me of that girl from years ago, she just looks really robust (not unusual for black girls) and she's 5'8, I just want to make sure she's not a trans before I fly her out here.
How would you approach? I feel like straight up asking her would turn her off, no?
Thanks guys.[/QUOTE]LOL. Its a dude. Don't do it.
[QUOTE=MrFairfax;6292858]So I might just be being totally silly / off the mark with this but many many years ago I met up with a girl from a dating app and she turned out to be trans, she told me before it got physical and I dropped her off at home, I'm not into that.
I recently connected with a really hot black girl on Seeking that is very eager to meet, everything seems good, but her look / pheno kinda reminds me of that girl from years ago, she just looks really robust (not unusual for black girls) and she's 5'8, I just want to make sure she's not a trans before I fly her out here.
How would you approach? I feel like straight up asking her would turn her off, no?
Thanks guys.[/QUOTE]When you get to the sex talk tell her that DATY is super important for you. Like you can't get hard unless you can do that, and that DATO is a no go for you. Gives her an opening to discuss.
Wondering if anyone has any intel on her, had a great discussion going with her, seems real. But when I offered 400-500 ppm she said it was a not go. I decided not to counter above that.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d1dc653e-3244-40b8-bf52-7e895129f49e[/URL]
[QUOTE=MrFairfax;6292858]So I might just be being totally silly / off the mark with this but many many years ago I met up with a girl from a dating app and she turned out to be trans, she told me before it got physical and I dropped her off at home, I'm not into that.
I recently connected with a really hot black girl on Seeking that is very eager to meet, everything seems good, but her look / pheno kinda reminds me of that girl from years ago, she just looks really robust (not unusual for black girls) and she's 5'8, I just want to make sure she's not a trans before I fly her out here.
How would you approach? I feel like straight up asking her would turn her off, no?
Thanks guys.[/QUOTE]Being direct removes all ambiguity. You could say something like "I look forward to your visit. Rest assured I don't have any kinks or fetishes. Enjoy a woman, her mind and her body. How about you? Is there anything that you enjoy / like out of the ordinary that we should discuss?
Also, share the SB URL so that we can opine on whether we think she is trans or not.
Hope she is not and that you have a wonderful visit.
[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6291718]Choclatbar_b is attractive, brown, has a lovely rack, DSL's and hips. Unfortunately, she's been reading the Sugar Forums on other sites and wants $2500/ month allowance. I explained why that doesn't work for me and countered with $400-$500 ppm depending on a number of factors that I left vague. She agreed to the PPM, but wanted $1 K "start-up" fee. Of course that doesn't work for me either. She wouldn't budge. I texted her just now saying that since our initial meeting, we could have gone BCD's 3-4 times (more tactfully stated). We'll see if she responds.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1710e719-37dd-4332-9bb1-6da724d40284[/URL][/QUOTE]LOL it's like a signing bonus.
[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6293980]Being direct removes all ambiguity. You could say something like "I look forward to your visit. Rest assured I don't have any kinks or fetishes. Enjoy a woman, her mind and her body. How about you? Is there anything that you enjoy / like out of the ordinary that we should discuss?
Also, share the SB URL so that we can opine on whether we think she is trans or not.
Hope she is not and that you have a wonderful visit.[/QUOTE]Or just ask "want to trade dick pics" and see how he / she responds?
Am at the dorm waiting for my college free baby to let me in. Nothing gets the blood pumping like knowing you're about to get sucked off by a cute 22 year old in her dorm room. What makes it even better is that she will be giving me my Christmas presents today.
God bless the sugar bowl.
[QUOTE=ProCatHunter;6295168]Am at the dorm waiting for my college free baby to let me in. Nothing gets the blood pumping like knowing you're about to get sucked off by a cute 22 year old in her dorm room. What makes it even better is that she will be giving me my Christmas presents today.
God bless the sugar bowl.[/QUOTE]You're livin the dream Cat!
[QUOTE=Jost815;6278544]She has been off and on the site for a long time now. I met her for lunch a couple years ago. Very pretty and epic all natural tits but we didn't hit it off and she is apparently looking for a "good connection".
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ea0d43ea-f0f0-4bc5-9e25-0e1458843f9f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL][/QUOTE][QUOTE=Btt123;6278864]Looks like she has since become willing to compromise on that good connection:
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/veronicaivy[/URL][/QUOTE]I chatted with her briefly, and she basically chastised me saying she wasn't "a PPM type of girl" and that I needed to show "real interest and trust" with an allowance. Not one to be scolded, I told her allowance wasn't going to work for me and that based on her Tryst ad I assumed PPM cool. She blocked me, not sure why? LOL.
[QUOTE=Dimples572;6284504]Anyone have any experience with this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5e4c283-5ea3-4b76-b1c0-c88e853d63b2[/URL][/QUOTE]She's asking 500 PPM, but her location isn't at all convenient for me so I passed.
[QUOTE=MrFairfax;6292858]So I might just be being totally silly / off the mark with this but many many years ago I met up with a girl from a dating app and she turned out to be trans, she told me before it got physical and I dropped her off at home, I'm not into that.
I recently connected with a really hot black girl on Seeking that is very eager to meet, everything seems good, but her look / pheno kinda reminds me of that girl from years ago, she just looks really robust (not unusual for black girls) and she's 5'8, I just want to make sure she's not a trans before I fly her out here.
How would you approach? I feel like straight up asking her would turn her off, no?
Thanks guys.[/QUOTE]Meet her for a drink, then when she's relaxed do the Crocodile Dundee test on her!
Oops, sorry about that Mate!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b2a57b8f-d3cd-478f-83ee-1ae8c2fb6b8a[/URL]
Started talking on text and she asks for money for naughty pics. I tell her to prove she's real first, send a selfie holding up 3 fingers. She refuses, I block her. Her number is 262-217-4811.
Can confirm. Claims to be around Annapolis.
[QUOTE=Mcsylv;6296382][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b2a57b8f-d3cd-478f-83ee-1ae8c2fb6b8a[/URL]
Started talking on text and she asks for money for naughty pics. I tell her to prove she's real first, send a selfie holding up 3 fingers. She refuses, I block her. Her number is 262-217-4811.[/QUOTE]
Anyone have any intel on this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/399ae1f8-fa75-4ebc-8e80-a533b7d148fd[/URL]
Appears to be real, sent selfies via text.
[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6296905]Can confirm. Claims to be around Annapolis.[/QUOTE]She starts the texts with legit convo and then moves on to try to sell content. She gets a bit aggressive and asks for money to prove you are real. Avoid her, probably a scammer.
[QUOTE=AnonDemon69;6297078]Anyone have any intel on this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/399ae1f8-fa75-4ebc-8e80-a533b7d148fd[/URL]
Appears to be real, sent selfies via text.[/QUOTE]I felt she was a scammer. She brought up her 2 kids in conversation and talked about babysitter and gas.)
I wanted to give a report on the sugar experience I've had in Vegas. Since December, I've been going to Vegas on personal trips, and have had way better luck over there on SA than in the DC area. Firstly, some basic info before going into details:
- I'm a 35-yo Asian, 6 ft, 300 pounds so very fat.
- I have high disposable income, able to afford 500-1000 PPM for the right girl.
- I'm attracted to white-skinned, thin girls. So caucasians, light-skinned latinas or mixed girls, middle eastern, etc. No Asians, AA, etc.
- I only go for BBFS. I'm willing to entertain 1 date with a condom if she says she has to get to know me, but no more beyond that.
The problems I face in DC are:
- Girls aren't attractive to me.
- The ones I'm attracted to have a low response rate.
- Girls that do end up getting into an arrangement won't do BBFS, and have a high allowance requirement. I've never had anything less than 500 PPM, can't report on the 300-400 that other people say they get.
My schedule was less busy in December so I decided to schedule some time to go to Vegas and work remotely while I gambled a little and ate good food. I hit up SA a week before I went to see if I could set up some dates, and was pleasantly surprised. There were way more hot girls, and they were more responsive. Many were open to BBFS, and sure they had middle to high PPM requirements, but that's all I ever get.
For some numbers, I've been on SA since October of 2021. I currently have 2 SB's doing BBFS, and if I count the ones I dumped because they wouldn't go BBFS, I'd have 2 more, one of which would be sensualsiren, a high-volume girl. All were 500+ PPM.
In the month I've been searching in Vegas, with 3 trips made so far, I have 10 solid SB's, along with 4 more flaky and unreliable girls. All of them do BBFS, with between 500-1000 PPM. I've let go of countless others who won't do BBFS but were otherwise good options, which would bring my total above 20 if I was willing to use protection.
I'm going to try going to other cities now as well, such as NYC and Miami, and seeing my luck there.
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I really appreciate your report. Especially the candor on your physical appearance. It was great getting a physical description of another monger out there. I'm white, 6'2", 60, and 300 pounds – money not an issue. Despite my age and weight, which I disclose in my Seeking profile, I've been able to get a fair amount of pussy in the DC area – much more than I ever thought!
That said, I've come to the conclusion my time is best spent not chasing tail, but spending the time to get back into physical shape. Not too long ago, I weighed in at 220. So, while I have a few SBs in long-term rotation, I'm going to take a break from actively pursuing new recruits until I can put forth a more desirable profile.
[QUOTE=Mcsylv;6298621]I wanted to give a report on the sugar experience I've had in Vegas. Since December, I've been going to Vegas on personal trips, and have had way better luck over there on SA than in the DC area. Firstly, some basic info before going into details:
- I'm a 35-yo Asian, 6 ft, 300 pounds so very fat.
- I have high disposable income, able to afford 500-1000 PPM for the right girl.
- I'm attracted to white-skinned, thin girls. So caucasians, light-skinned latinas or mixed girls, middle eastern, etc. No Asians, AA, etc.
- I only go for BBFS. I'm willing to entertain 1 date with a condom if she says she has to get to know me, but no more beyond that.
The problems I face in DC are:
- Girls aren't attractive to me.
- The ones I'm attracted to have a low response rate.
- Girls that do end up getting into an arrangement won't do BBFS, and have a high allowance requirement. I've never had anything less than 500 PPM, can't report on the 300-400 that other people say they get.
My schedule was less busy in December so I decided to schedule some time to go to Vegas and work remotely while I gambled a little and ate good food. I hit up SA a week before I went to see if I could set up some dates, and was pleasantly surprised. There were way more hot girls, and they were more responsive. Many were open to BBFS, and sure they had middle to high PPM requirements, but that's all I ever get.
For some numbers, I've been on SA since October of 2021. I currently have 2 SB's doing BBFS, and if I count the ones I dumped because they wouldn't go BBFS, I'd have 2 more, one of which would be sensualsiren, a high-volume girl. All were 500+ PPM.
In the month I've been searching in Vegas, with 3 trips made so far, I have 10 solid SB's, along with 4 more flaky and unreliable girls. All of them do BBFS, with between 500-1000 PPM. I've let go of countless others who won't do BBFS but were otherwise good options, which would bring my total above 20 if I was willing to use protection.
I'm going to try going to other cities now as well, such as NYC and Miami, and seeing my luck there.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Joe1278;6298596]I felt she was a scammer. She brought up her 2 kids in conversation and talked about babysitter and gas.)[/QUOTE]You are right, she is probably a scammer. She actually offered to sell me content before meeting. I sent something small to test it out, have yet to receive it, probably never going to send it. I quickly learned that many in SA just want to either sell content or just scam out of small amounts.
[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6298744]I really appreciate your report. Especially the candor on your physical appearance. It was great getting a physical description of another monger out there. I'm white, 6'2", 60, and 300 pounds money not an issue. Despite my age and weight, which I disclose in my Seeking profile, I've been able to get a fair amount of pussy in the DC area much more than I ever thought!
That said, I've come to the conclusion my time is best spent not chasing tail, but spending the time to get back into physical shape. Not too long ago, I weighed in at 220. So, while I have a few SBs in long-term rotation, I'm going to take a break from actively pursuing new recruits until I can put forth a more desirable profile.[/QUOTE]Good luck losing the weight. I've been in and out of the sugar bowl for years, and IMHO the quality SBs are after the money and good sex both, so they want to be attracted to the SD. That's the big difference between SB and true prostitutes. Now there is certainly a sliding scale where they will be less selective the more you spend.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/99c6b0c7-3e0f-473f-89b2-ab84e2f988b8[/URL]
This one got back to me right away but only wants to sell you pictures for sixty dollars. Next!
[QUOTE=JwBlue500;6298697]What is the obsession with BBFS? [/QUOTE]Seriously, you have to ask that?
[QUOTE=JwBlue500;6298697] to me if you know what you're doing with right type of protection, lube etc. There's not much difference.[/QUOTE]Clearly you've never had good BBFS.
How about you worry about you, and let other people worry about themselves. No one comes to this forum to have unsolicited advice about STDs, etc. Forced at them. We're grown ass men and know the risks. This is an information sharing board, not the Sunday morning gospel.
[QUOTE=JackRyan1;6267477]Wants 500 for m&g.
Hey! I'm Celeste, nice to meet you. I want to Connect with someone who I can talk with, have fun and support. Connection is really important to me, looking for something long term but I'm open to possibilities. Honesty and respect are key.
Sure, we can have an initial meeting $500 not physical, see how we connect and take it from there. Lmk and I'll text you.[/QUOTE]Reached out to this one before seeing the reports here, and got the same copy and paste response. Who TF is dropping 5 bills on a M&G? SMH.
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[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6298744]I really appreciate your report. Especially the candor on your physical appearance. It was great getting a physical description of another monger out there. I'm white, 6'2", 60, and 300 pounds money not an issue. Despite my age and weight, which I disclose in my Seeking profile, I've been able to get a fair amount of pussy in the DC area much more than I ever thought!
That said, I've come to the conclusion my time is best spent not chasing tail, but spending the time to get back into physical shape. Not too long ago, I weighed in at 220. So, while I have a few SBs in long-term rotation, I'm going to take a break from actively pursuing new recruits until I can put forth a more desirable profile.[/QUOTE]For me, it's not a choice between gym or sex. It's a choice between doing something stress-relieving or not. Some days I work from 9 AM until 12 AM with a 2 hour break for dinner. I'm not about to go to the gym, which is more stressful and unenjoyable for me.
If I wasn't going on SA, I'd be spending money on escorts, or playing Poker at MGM, or something else. If I didn't have money to spend, I'd just be at home playing video games. My work is already stressful as is, I'm not going to add to it right now. Maybe when my business is more stable, but not in the near future.